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xynerise:
Chai!! The guy depends on the wife to survive. Women shouldn't be breadwinners e get why

Romanoff:
Any one who watched the video would see it's sarcasm

I like how this gender equality thing is treating us.

If it was the husband that threw her out of the house, our men will hail him for throwing out an olosho.

But the table has turned now, see cry me the atlantic o.

Men can't really take what hey dish out.

All hail gender equality.

All hail women with money.

Mention me with insult and watch how Thunder from Sango, Amadioha and Thor will fire you and your generation.

Radarada.

Women done suffer, you get money, problem, you no get, you be liability.

Shior.

Wande22:
Bros, that's the valley of the shadow of death I'm passing thru currently

OlawaleBammie:
the truth of the matter is ur first paragraph, even bible confirm it.

Bible said a man should and must provide for his home that is why the wallet of a man must be well built.

Self-esteem without wallet is not self-esteem ma, its a forced admission of failure.

You wil never see a virtuous woman happy if she has never helped her husband financially. But u ladies of today no kuku know that one, yours is to lay down and pamo jo bi eku eda.


A man need money to take care of his wife and not the other way round, a woman need little (tho she can have more) to support her husband (that is wat make a virtuous woman.


How do u want me to have a right self-esteem wen my wallet is not capable of taking care of me, my wife, kids, mother, father and u as a friend??


Madam u be married woman, i need u to talk sense out.

Let ur man be broke for a very long tym, let the workload shift to u, by then u can come to me and analyze what self-esteem means.

Evolutionlove:
Which money mtcheeew. Asif you can spend the money on men without Nagging on him up and down. Who needs your money sef. Getat..

Romanoff:
It's sad that a man's worth is tied to his wallet. It's why a man feels emasculated once he is broke.

Only men with a healthy self esteem know that their value and headship isn't tied to how much is in their bank account.

I know women richer than their husbands with godly homes. You will never know unless you're very very close to them.

seunmsg:
Men of this generation are becoming too weak. If you’re not financially stable, stay away from marriage. Living in your wife’s house is simply stupid.

JJC Skillz is a stupid simp and a gold digger. It is men like him that are allowing misandrist like this thing with neck like ostrich and face like maggot infested shiit to be spewing nonsense.

jaxxy:
What is even a submissive husband? Wrong use of adjectives.

A husband cannot and should not be submissive to his wife. He can love his wife, care for his wife, adore his wife etc..

A lion cannot eat grass.

Romanoff:
Like I said, a man's value isn't tied to his bank account.

Are you telling me that your wife only submits to you cause you have money?

If I'm to go by your last sentence, i spos to done leave my husband tey tey. That's all I'll say about this.

Your woman's submission shouldn't come to you cause of the money you but on how you treat and value her.

See, I've see quality men. Men that I wish my brother was like. Men that I wish my father was like. Men that are assured of who they are not cause of their bank account but cause of the role they play.

I'm not saying these men were outrightly broke but the wives of these men earned far far above their husbands.

Those are the kinds of women I sort marriage counseling from before I got married to know how they made it work. How they managed financial issue in their home and I can tell you, the oldest of these couples have been married for 15 years.

The husband is catching up to the wife now due to her contribution and support and the wife is still doing very well in her business.

When you open eye to marry, you won't be praying for your wife not to be successful or for her not to be more successful than you because you're insecure about your headship. That's Wickedness and witchcraft.

This man use to ba a lavish spender of his money, his wife helped him curb that by managing his finances, encouraged him to set up his own company and invested in it, that's business is worth a fortune today due to big government contracts.

The woman is the most humble woman I know.

xynerise:
Hmmm....what have you been doing about it ?

AkpaMgbor:
The irony is that the man according to that Bible passage is given the heavier task. The wife is only tasked to submit, in other words, she can submit without loving the husband and her duty will be considered done. But the man is now asked to love the wife like his own body. How can you love another human being like your own body? That means whether she is good or bad you have to love her just like christ loved the church. To me that is too much for many men to do. It would have been easier to just ask men to submit rather than love. It is harder to love another person unconditionally than to submit. You can submit to your political and religious superior without a single shred of love. But to be asked to love another imperfect human is way too much for most people. And yet many women think they got the shorter end of the stick in that passage lol.

Connected1:
No man admires his poor self.

If a woman caters for a home for more than a month, forget it, she will throw you out like this, unless it's your house then she will frustrate you with naggings and insults.

I just pity unmarried ladies supporting this nonsense, in this hard economy, if all men wait to be financially stable to their taste then a lot of single women will never get married because by the time a man becomes successful, he will go for younger ladies.

There's no healthy self esteem without money, your decision won't even be respected in family meetings, your wife may even make your children see you as a weakling.

The truth is that the institution of marriage is dying rapidly with all these jargons of events happening and series of useless advices here and there, I don't think many people will be going to the altar even if the economy is balanced.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
The wannabe redpillers are already wailing and gnashing their teeth..if it was a man who made this statement about the lady not being submissive you will see them jubilating..

Bunch of Dumbos..

cococandy:
So men don’t “throw” their wives out?

It’s more evil now that a woman did it?

OlawaleBammie:
If i may ask ma, what are the roles, i mean the important roles these men u re talking about play??

TheRedpillguy:
Nothing like wannabe Redpillers... Redpill is truth that is hard to swallow. So how can you wanna be that? You sound stupid.

Beverlyjean:
It might sound funny to u... but I hope u know u are actually making men right , cos they have always said men should never marry a successful woman ... u are actually killing chances of successful women having a home... I dont know y some of u women think u are making sense , thereby proving men right ... what funke and this scatter scatter teeth just did was just to prove men right... this has actually killed the little chance women like Linda ikeji and Genevive had... Linda's baby daddy refused to marry her cos this this type of situation and women like u just proved him right

seunmsg:
Men of this generation are becoming too weak. If you’re not financially stable, stay away from marriage. Living in your wife’s house is simply stupid.

JJC Skillz is a stupid simp and a gold digger. It is men like him that are allowing misandrist like this thing with neck like ostrich and face like maggot infested shiit to be spewing nonsense.

Romanoff:
I'm it saying a man should not be financially stable before he marries. But even if that happens, his wife can still be more successful than him. Why should that emasculate him?

No woman should have to dim her light or not become ambitious so her husband can feel like a man.

Ngozi Okonjo Iweala get husband, Madam Folorunsho Alakija get husband, Madam Ibukun Awosika get husband.

Imagine if the husbands of these women didn't let them shine cause they were insecure.
If you treat your wife right when you have money, if you don't treat her like a subordinate but an equal when you have money, if you love and respect her when you have money, if you care for her like you should and valued her opinion when you have money, what the tides turn, that woman will turn up for you.

The only women who become monsters after their husbands go broke were probably waiting to have money so they could get back at their husbands for all the times he maltreated her.

Some of such women even wait till old age.

Be your wife's friend, her support system, love her like you should, she would not become a monster just cause she's richer.

My husband is my business manager, lol. If he's there when my clients come, you need to see how he gives them inflated prices. My clients don't like meeting him when they come.

If I get a job that pays triple what my hubby earns now in another state, he will resign and follow me for the job. He won't ask me to turn it down.

If he gets a job that pays him up to what he earned in his former job, he'd take it and we'd be happy.

His worth is not tied to his pocket, as much as he loves a good life.

djon78:
Yeah to love is the bigger task

But personally what I have discovered is that in loving we begin to experience and understand God's nature.

We see what God goes through in the hands of we human beings

We see that God dey try and this truly humbles us

There have been things my wife did to me I swore I will deal with her ruthlessly.
But that still small voice will tell me shebi all I dey do against God him dey forgive me, that same way God forgive me, I should forgive her.
And somehow that settles the whole matter.

Love is a harder task

Wande22:
I pray say mek woman no handle your blokus else the lion go eat pkc