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Morgan9:
Submissive husband.?

Chai.
No let them see u finish.

This is the exact definition of see finish.

I fear oo. I like what post joor

JAGS001:
Ema gbo werey, make somebody come talk say your papa no dey submissive, with her neck like fuel dispenser

Her neck is something else, Lol

She looks like an offspring that results when a zebra mates with a giraffe

Kajaard:
Well said Romanoff. I have known you to always have a fair head and not being gender centric, so I was very surprised when some posters were referring to you as a toxic feminist, lol

I guess they misread your earlier post.

Na them sabi. I'm not a feminist. Never have been, never will be. I'm a humanist.

Treat your wife the way you'd want her to treat you if the tide was turned.

OlawaleBammie:
Forget thunder, thunder no dey partial

I talk am yesterday that that ur statement have some sinister undertone but no evidence to prove it so i locked up

But now the evidence is glaring..


I am only thankful to God that ur husband is well to do, if not only God knows what u would have done to him.


I have said it long before i grew, many women are submissive not because dey wanted to but because their husbands are well to do more than them so they have to click in for financial stability

Let the game switch, let majority of them have financial prowess than the man and see the man suffer an everlasting ridicule. Shioor

That lady is a closet misandrist. However, don't be deceived both she and her husband don't have money. The husband is just an ordinary police officer and does not earn up to 80,000 naira per month, while she is just managing her tailoring work that does not fetch her up to steady 30,000 every month. The husband will reget it if she later becomes successful in the future.

Bïtchh isn't far from the truth.. Later they will say men are afraid of successful women. When 90% of successful women in marriage with a less successful partner makes ur life a leaving hell. Na these types of disgrace men dey avoid not ur success as a woman.

Just like someone said above,.the stress and struggle they both passed through during conceiving their twins should be enough to reset their brains..
the truth is events like these are inevitable when two ego's clash and no one is willing to submit.

jaxxy:
Then u no longer a man. u gave up ur birth right.

u can be submissive to ur female boss o bt not wife. I'm speaking in marriage contruct. Ur responsibility to ur wife isn't submission bt love.

Outside marriage its a different ball game about how u handle people.

my dear brother, i pray for you today 01-07-22 that you don't fall into situations where your wife is the sole provider in the house (I Mean paying the bills at home) and you're still struggling to "find your feet"

A man should be submissive to his wifey! Oh Lawd save us from this Doom generation of Farm tools!

BloomingDale:
I should not be successful in my own right because I’m waiting on a man to wife me. Does that sound right to you?

Now which man wud wanna be with a successful woman when he knows his Ego and manhood will be trashed ... now this is the reason women suffer in Muslim countries cos they believe if they are given a chance, they will treat men like funked did ... no one is condemning funke, I remember when jjcs son said funked hits jjc and insults him infrint of staff abd treats him like trash and that she cheats on him ... no one condemned funke... now women are now laughing at jjc after being abused and kicked out... now ud expect men to hv sympathy for women ?? Being a successful woman should not hv consequences, but some women are making it come with consequences.. I will train my son not to ever date a woman that is financially more successful than him or even same financially with him... women tend to misbehave when they are more financially successful than her man ... now with this , will u blame men from running away from financially successful women.... the reason y Linda and Geneva Genevieve are still single

AkpaMgbor:
You, my good friend, understands what love truly is! It is a constant sacrifice. Infact that's what love actually is at the core...sacrifice. It is not looks, money, butterfly feelings in the gut, children, sex, food...it is sacrifice...."For God so loved the world that he GAVE his only begotten son". That's why when people say "I love you" I just laugh. Most don't understand what love actually is. Love is HARD. Why do you think Christ called it the greatest and only commandment you need for salvation. The only thing that mimicks such love is the one a mother has for her child. Now imagine loving an adult or even stranger with the same love a mother has for her child....it's hard isn't it?

It's very hard

Sometimes you will even look foolish. But you discover it's the best way

I used to quarrell with my wife almost all the time but as we began to grow in love and understand ourselves we rearly quarrell

I told her over the week that honestly before I thought I made a mistake in marriage but I am beginning to see we will have a wonderful marriage.

She begin ask me jokingly whether I take something wey make me high

The kind laugh we laugh, because we used to be cat and mouse.

Marriage na work, and it takes time for couples to begin understand themselves

Wande22:
my dear brother, i pray for you today 01-07-22 that you don't fall into situations where your wife is the sole provider in the house (I Mean paying the bills at home) and you're still struggling to "find your feet"

I believe you are talking from personal experience going through your recent posts. It is well my brother.

Romanoff:
I'm it saying a man should not be financially stable before he marries. But even if that happens, his wife can still be more successful than him. Why should that emasculate him?

No woman should have to dim her light or not become ambitious so her husband can feel like a man.

Ngozi Okonjo Iweala get husband, Madam Folorunsho Alakija get husband, Madam Ibukun Awosika get husband.

Imagine if the husbands of these women didn't let them shine cause they were insecure.
If you treat your wife right when you have money, if you don't treat her like a subordinate but an equal when you have money, if you love and respect her when you have money, if you care for her like you should and valued her opinion when you have money, what the tides turn, that woman will turn up for you.

The only women who become monsters after their husbands go broke were probably waiting to have money so they could get back at their husbands for all the times he maltreated her.

Some of such women even wait till old age.

Be your wife's friend, her support system, love her like you should, she would not become a monster just cause she's richer.

My husband is my business manager, lol. If he's there when my clients come, you need to see how he gives them inflated prices. My clients don't like meeting him when they come.

If I get a job that pays triple what my hubby earns now in another state, he will resign and follow me for the job. He won't ask me to turn it down.

If he gets a job that pays him up to what he earned in his former job, he'd take it and we'd be happy.

His worth is not tied to his pocket, as much as he loves a good life.

Are you sure about this? Or are you erroneously projecting your own principles on every woman that walks the earth today? Like every woman is factory set to be grateful and understanding in her relationship??

Romanoff:
Leadership, love, head of the family altar, provision within your means, support, care for the family, a haven for your wife and kids after a long hard day.

Aunty me, so how will u provide ur thorough leadership wen u dont have money and other basic resources??
How wil i show love to my innocent kids? By changing the diapers, washing their school uniform, taking their baths every morning and night while their mother is out their working her ass out to buy them new uniforms, diapers and toiletries abi?
Pls how do u care for the family wen in reality ur wife is the one providing majorly everything needed, and still in the night u would want to lay the poor woman down and choke ur gbola tru her orifice, is dat how ur man has bn taking care of his family?? Nawa ooh



See madam, aji sebi oyo laari, oyo olee se bi baba enikankan.

Woman will always be woman and Man will always be Man wen is comes to family issue. Woman hold the family together while the man go out to provide what it takes for the woman to hold the family. The moment the man is incapacitated he himself knows that he has failed.

See enof of this argument, i just have one tin to say.



I pray ur sons will find themselves in jjc shoes wen they grow old, but thier wives wont send them out of the house., They wil be treated same way funke treated jjc, Amen. sebi its jjc that is not submissive, ur sons will be more than submissive to their respective wives in those wives houses. Ase!!!

Sebi that is what u want na

Guys pls never leave in a woman's house for no reason. E get why....I never hear say man must be submissive, even bible no talk am.

Beverlyjean:
Y are some women trying God ?? Just cos u wanna spite men, u end u challenging God ... this is no joke

This one dey find husband.

Don't worry...they will DM you so you can feed them.

djon78:
It's very hard

Sometimes you will even look foolish. But you discover it's the best way

I used to quarrell with my wife almost all the time but as we began to grow in love and understand ourselves we rearly quarrell

I told her over the week that honestly before I thought I made a mistake in marriage but I am beginning to see we will have a wonderful marriage.

She begin ask me jokingly whether I take something wey make me high

The kind laugh we laugh, because we used to be cat and mouse.

Marriage na work, and it takes time for couples to begin understand themselves

God bless your home now and always.

Romanoff:
Any one who watched the video would see it's sarcasm

I like how this gender equality thing is treating us.

If it was the husband that threw her out of the house, our men will hail him for throwing out an olosho.

But the table has turned now, see cry me the atlantic o.

Men can't really take what hey dish out.

All hail gender equality.

All hail women with money.

Mention me with insult and watch how Thunder from Sango, Amadioha and Thor will fire you and your generation.

Radarada.

Women done suffer, you get money, problem, you no get, you be liability.

Shior.

They claim it's humiliation to be sent packing but they dish out the same treatment to women, at least Funke asked him to leave, not like she threw his things out like men do to women. Radarada

Romanoff:
I'm it saying a man should not be financially stable before he marries. But even if that happens, his wife can still be more successful than him. Why should that emasculate him?

No woman should have to dim her light or not become ambitious so her husband can feel like a man.

Ngozi Okonjo Iweala get husband, Madam Folorunsho Alakija get husband, Madam Ibukun Awosika get husband.

Imagine if the husbands of these women didn't let them shine cause they were insecure.
If you treat your wife right when you have money, if you don't treat her like a subordinate but an equal when you have money, if you love and respect her when you have money, if you care for her like you should and valued her opinion when you have money, what the tides turn, that woman will turn up for you.

The only women who become monsters after their husbands go broke were probably waiting to have money so they could get back at their husbands for all the times he maltreated her.

Some of such women even wait till old age.

Be your wife's friend, her support system, love her like you should, she would not become a monster just cause she's richer.

My husband is my business manager, lol. If he's there when my clients come, you need to see how he gives them inflated prices. My clients don't like meeting him when they come.

If I get a job that pays triple what my hubby earns now in another state, he will resign and follow me for the job. He won't ask me to turn it down.

If he gets a job that pays him up to what he earned in his former job, he'd take it and we'd be happy.

His worth is not tied to his pocket, as much as he loves a good life.

You have spoken well, but you only did so for yourself and those women you mentioned above.

You don't know how evil some women are, you can marry a good woman today but all it would take is one bad friend to spoil her mindset, I am sure you will call it evil if a man chases away a suspicious friend of his wife, things dae happen.

I have seen women throw out their husbands from time immemorial, this is not the first time, not all women are virtuous dear RomanOff, you need to understand that.

I know you are trying to encourage men to marry financially stable women, but it's not advisable because if she had bad manners before she became rich then she won't control it if she marries a man she's richer than but if it's the other way round, she would be pretentiously submissive.

That's the main reason elders advise young men to marry women from good homes and forget about beauty.

Beverlyjean:
Now which man wud wanna be with a successful woman when he knows his Ego and manhood will be trashed ... now this is the reason women suffer in Muslim countries cos they believe if they are given a chance, they will treat men like funked did ... no one is condemning funke, I remember when jjcs son said funked hits jjc and insults him infrint of staff abd treats him like trash and that she cheats on him ... no one condemned funke... now women are now laughing at jjc after being abused and kicked out... now ud expect men to hv sympathy for women ?? Being a successful woman should not hv consequences, but some women are making it come with consequences.. I will train my son not to ever date a woman that is financially more successful than him or even same financially with him... women tend to misbehave when they are more financially successful than her man ... now with this , will u blame men from running away from financially successful women.... the reason y Linda and Geneva Genevieve are still single

If you guys have low self esteem, deal with it. I like my success. I can buy anything I want, go anywhere I like etc. if Nigerian guys can’t deal, there is a whole world out there to spread my wings and fly.

Drfernandez:
That lady is an closet misandrist. However, don't be deceived both she and her husband don't have money. The husband is just an ordinary police officer and does not earn up to 80,000 naira per month, while she is just managing her tailoring work that does not fetch her up to stead 30,000 every month. The husband will reget it if she later becomes successful in the future.

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!

How did u know all these??

See the prayer i prayed for her below

I pray ur sons will find themselves in jjc shoes wen they grow old, but thier wives wont send them out of the house., They wil be treated same way funke treated jjc, Amen. sebi its jjc that is not submissive, ur sons will be more than submissive to their respective wives in those wives houses. Ase!!!

OlawaleBammie:
Aunty me, so how will u provide ur thorough leadership wen u dont have money and other basic resources??
How wil i show love to my innocent kids? By changing the diapers, washing their school uniform, taking their baths every morning and night while their mother is out their working her ass out to buy them new uniforms, diapers and toiletries abi?
Pls how do u care for the family wen in reality ur wife is the one providing majorly everything needed, and still in the night u would want to lay the poor woman down and choke ur gbola tru her orifice, is dat how ur man has bn taking care of his family?? Nawa ooh



See madam, aji sebi oyo laari, oyo olee se bi baba enikankan.

Woman will always be woman and Man will always be Man wen is comes to family issue. Woman hold the family together while the man go out to provide what it takes for the woman to hold the family. The moment the man is incapacitated he himself knows that he has failed.

See enof of this argument, i just have one tin to say.



I pray ur sons will find themselves in jjc shoes wen they grow old, but thier wives wont send them out of the house., They wil be treated same way funke treated jjc, Amen. sebi its jjc that is not submissive, ur sons will be more than submissive to their respective wives in those wives houses. Ase!!!

Sebi that is what u want na

So you're a leader cause you have money?

So your wife having more money than you makes her your leader?

You better start praying for your own sons to value themselves beyond what they can provide so they don't get suicidal cause they are broke.

Honestly, See finish is worse than syphilis

wetin dey pain me for this matter be say the woman in question na one of the most ugly celebrity in nigeria if not the most ugly.

Connected1:
You have spoken well, but you only did so for yourself and those women you mentioned above.

You don't know how evil some women are, you can marry a good woman today but all it would take is one bad friend to spoil her mindset, I am sure you will call it evil if a man chases away a suspicious friend of his wife, things dae happen.

I have seen women throw out their husbands from time immemorial, this is not the first time, not all women are virtuous dear RomanOff, you need to understand that.

I know you are trying to encourage men to marry financially stable women, but it's not advisable because if she had bad manners before she became rich then she won't control it if she marries a man she's richer than but if it's the other way round, she would be pretentiously submissive.

That's the main reason elders advise young men to marry women from good homes and forget about beauty.

Men throw out women out of their matrimonial home far more than women do because such men pay the rent or own the home. The women are learning from the men.

Men will put out their wife and sometimes their kids over a disagreement.

We must learn to treat our wives the way we would want them to treat us.

Romanoff:
Leadership, love, head of the family altar, provision within your means, support, care for the family, a haven for your wife and kids after a long hard day.

Money cannot buy these things, well, except provision but like I said, within your means.

A virtuous woman would support you happily cause it's your family, her money would be our money. Your money would be our money.

I don't know where you people see the women you date or marry o, but y'all have to sha do better. Leave sex aside and focus on things that really matter.

Romanoff just for the asking
If your sibling wife tells her husband "your business is not realistic but mine is" what will be your response/advice
PS. The husband is into what's on my signature while the wife is into production

HowDareU:
JJC Skillz is a down-to-earth guy, humble to the core. He is not your arrogant type. However, the ex-wife is an arrogant bi*ch. She act as though she is a demi god. A hard core feminist. Please, don't go near her, else she will embarrass you.

You talk as if you know them personally

Kajaard:
I believe you are talking from personal experience going through your recent posts. It is well my brother.

EGGZACTLY

BloomingDale:
Very good. If your husband ain’t submissive, throw him out. No time for rubbish.

Define submissive

Latestnewsline:
JJC Skillz wasn't a submissive husband That's Why He was threw out - Blessing Edem

Video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ATDi1FBxDKM

Nigerians reacts as Blessing Edem, a Facebook feminist mock JJC Skillz after Funke Akindele threw him out of her house, because he wasn't a submissive husband.

https://www.instagram.com/tv/Cfb9WG9g1jn/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

hand don meet this auntie for making stupid comments

Wande22:
Bros, that's the valley of the shadow of death I'm passing thru currently

Lolzzzx.... Baba that thing no good ooo... Woman can't really do well when incharge... They will frustrate you

Since time immemorial, negroes have been kicking their wives out of the house...some even kick their wives together with their kids.

Now, the economy is making them face the same from not just Nigerian women but even oyibo women.

Oyibo women kick them out on a daily but they don't come out to say it out of shame. They can only make noise if it's a Nigerian woman involved. All na noise.

There is a reason why God placed men as the providers. Fail in that aspect and submission rule is automatically kicked out because you are now worse than an infidel.

Latestnewsline:
JJC Skillz wasn't a submissive husband That's Why He was threw out - Blessing Edem

Video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ATDi1FBxDKM

Nigerians reacts as Blessing Edem, a Facebook feminist mock JJC Skillz after Funke Akindele threw him out of her house, because he wasn't a submissive husband.

https://www.instagram.com/tv/Cfb9WG9g1jn/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

...Submissive husband??