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Romanoff:
Men throw out women out of their matrimonial home far more than women do because such men pay the rent or own the home. The women are learning from the men.

Men will put out their wife and sometimes their kids over a disagreement.

We must learn to treat our wives the way we would want them to treat us.

It's not an argument please.

I don't understand why you are giving contrasting points.

How better can you treat a bad woman, I am not saying JJC Skillz is a good man here but stop contrasting, it's annoying, I don't do gender fights.

Wande22:
Romanoff just for the asking
If your sibling wife tells her husband "your business is not realistic but mine is" what will be your response/advice
PS. The husband is into what's on my signature while the wife is into production

It depends on how she said it and if she has done her research to arrive at that conclusion.

OlawaleBammie:
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!

How did u know all these??

See the prayer i prayed for her below

I pray ur sons will find themselves in jjc shoes wen they grow old, but thier wives wont send them out of the house., They wil be treated same way funke treated jjc, Amen. sebi its jjc that is not submissive, ur sons will be more than submissive to their respective wives in those wives houses. Ase!!!

Lol, I know the family offline.

Nice one..serves him right...good move by her..those my guys way wan marry big men daughter or oba daughter how far..lazy men

Romanoff:
Like I said, a man's value isn't tied to his bank account.

Are you telling me that your wife only submits to you cause you have money?

If I'm to go by your last sentence, i spos to done leave my husband tey tey. That's all I'll say about this.

Your woman's submission shouldn't come to you cause of the money you but on how you treat and value her.

See, I've see quality men. Men that I wish my brother was like. Men that I wish my father was like. Men that are assured of who they are not cause of their bank account but cause of the role they play.

I'm not saying these men were outrightly broke but the wives of these men earned far far above their husbands.

Those are the kinds of women I sort marriage counseling from before I got married to know how they made it work. How they managed financial issue in their home and I can tell you, the oldest of these couples have been married for 15 years.

The husband is catching up to the wife now due to her contribution and support and the wife is still doing very well in her business.

When you open eye to marry, you won't be praying for your wife not to be successful or for her not to be more successful than you because you're insecure about your headship. That's Wickedness and witchcraft.

This man use to ba a lavish spender of his money, his wife helped him curb that by managing his finances, encouraged him to set up his own company and invested in it, that's business is worth a fortune today due to big government contracts.

The woman is the most humble woman I know.

Jjc wasn't insecure...look where it landed him... this us what most men fear , that y they avoid marrying successful women

rickpat:
you know cus you were in the marriage with them right?... silly vulture

The bolded gat me cracking...

Romanoff:
So you're a leader cause you have money?

So your wife having more money than you makes her your leader?

You better start praying for your own sons to value themselves beyond what they can provide so they don't get suicidal cause they are broke.

Yes, i am a leader cus i have the means to provide for my family, and my woman, support me as well.

Do u know the funniest tin eehn, wen i am broke my woman is always at alert to provide solutions.

There was a tym i went broke for about a week, my woman was more than happy to take the mantle upon her sef, do u know why?? She knows i always provide even beyond her expectations.

If i call my madam and tell her i am broke ooh, she wil just smile and rub my cheeks and tells me, oga go to work and i wil go, wen i come back from work ahe would have found a way to make meals and other tins.

Then the moment i get buoyant financially i pay her back all the money she used to run the house, and the ones i wont pay i would just tell her i am not going to pay this, her reply would be.. ahhh ika nie, ole and we would laff it off.. lobatan.

But say a con dey leave for my wife house and be changing diapers for kids just cus i have a good self-esteem....mba, rara, only ur sons can do dat as advised by you. My parent no teach me like that.

That is why i gave the blessings above to ur male kids as wished by you the mother.

Beverlyjean:
Jjc wasn't insecure...look where it landed him... this us what most men fear , that y they avoid marrying successful women

How can you tell?

Same man that was rumoured to have been unfaithful.

I can't say much for what broke their marriage till I get all the details. JJC's post wasn't detailed.

Romanoff:
Any one who watched the video would see it's sarcasm

I like how this gender equality thing is treating us.

If it was the husband that threw her out of the house, our men will hail him for throwing out an olosho.

But the table has turned now, see cry me the atlantic o.

Men can't really take what hey dish out.

All hail gender equality.

All hail women with money.

Mention me with insult and watch how Thunder from Sango, Amadioha and Thor will fire you and your generation.

Radarada.

Women done suffer, you get money, problem, you no get, you be liability.

Shior.

Very confused gender.

OlawaleBammie:
Yes, i am a leader cus i have the means to provide for my family, and my woman, support me as well.

Do u know the funniest tin eehn, wen i am broke my woman is always at alert to provide solutions.

There was a tym i went broke for about a week, my woman was more than happy to take the mantle upon her sef, do u know why?? She knows i always provide even beyond her expectations.

If i call my madam and tell her i am broke ooh, she wil just smile and rub my cheeks and tells me, oga go to work and i wil go, wen i come back from work ahe would have found a way to make meals and other tins.

Then the moment i get buoyant financially i pay her back all the money she used to run the house, and the ones i wont pay i would just tell her i am not going to pay this, her reply would be.. ahhh ika nie, ole and we would laff it off.. lobatan.

But say a con dey leave for my wife house and be changing diapers for kids just cus i have a good self-esteem....mba, rara, only ur sons can do dat as advised by you. My parent no teach me like that.

That is why i gave the blessings above to ur male kids as wished by you the mother.

So the time she was providing, you saw her as your leader?

Drfernandez:
Lol, I know the family offline.

ahahaha

My belle ooh..

U know family offline u con dey cast dem online, dont bother to do good again because u can not enter our heaven

OlawaleBammie:
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!

How did u know all these??

See the prayer i prayed for her below

I pray ur sons will find themselves in jjc shoes wen they grow old, but thier wives wont send them out of the house., They wil be treated same way funke treated jjc, Amen. sebi its jjc that is not submissive, ur sons will be more than submissive to their respective wives in those wives houses. Ase!!!

I dont get it..the wife is d one paying more bills how is she supposed to be submissive .i hope this is a big lesson to all Male gold digger..imagine a full grown man staying in his wife's house or mother in laws house..this is d nature of a woman..only a man will have money and still keep a woman under his roof till death..its not easy for us...I have neve seen a very rich woman that maintained a single marriage for 10 years they dont take nonsense

Romanoff:
So the time she was providing, you saw her as your leader?

No, i saw her as my helper ma.

I don't you,I blamed those lame and peabrain guys that go ahead to marry a beast.

I am not a sadist o, but I love this news ehn. Kai.

Connected1:
No man admires his poor self.

If a woman caters for a home for more than a month, forget it, she will throw you out like this, unless it's your house then she will frustrate you with naggings and insults.

I just pity unmarried ladies supporting this nonsense, in this hard economy, if all men wait to be financially stable to their taste then a lot of single women will never get married because by the time a man becomes successful, he will go for younger ladies.

There's no healthy self esteem without money, your decision won't even be respected in family meetings, your wife may even make your children see you as a weakling.

The truth is that the institution of marriage is dying rapidly with all these jargons of events happening and series of useless advices here and there, I don't think many people will be going to the altar even if the economy is balanced.

@ Romanoff... this is exactly my point ... supporting people like funke will only make alot of women unmarried...

OlawaleBammie:
No, i saw her as my helper ma.

So why can't you see her as your helper when she has more money than you while you are still the leader?

Beverlyjean:


@ Romanoff... this is exactly my point ... supporting people like funke will only make alot of women unmarried...

I disagree. Supporting men who throw their wives out over little disagreements didn't stop women from getting married enmasse every weekend. Did it?

Watch as her fellow daft women will support the nonsense she just capped now, women are truly delusional in mind, body and soul.

Georgejeez:
This is why I love the Traditional nature of Urhobo men .
No full blooded Urhobo man will descend so low as to pack his bags and luggages to go and live with his wife , Never !!
No matter how rich or highly placed she may be .

Serves the SIMP right

Urhobo men wey lazy like wetin I no know.

Righteousness2:
We Live in a very weird Generation.
A Generation that twists and sumersault the laid out principles of GOD , so as to suit their Depraved Cravings.

Marriage is instituted by GOD ALMIGHTY. HE Created Marriage, HE owns the Institution of Marriage.
HE gave us the way and Pattern a Marrisge should be

Listen! It does not Matter how wealthy, Connected or Empowered a woman is. The Moment you agree and Decide to Be the wife of a Man, you will have to Submit yourself to your Husband in ALL things.

Same goes for the Man. It does not Matter what you are or who you are, the Moment you decide to take a woman as your wife. You are bound to Love and Cherish her as yourself.

These are the basic Principles the Institutor of Marriage gave to all. Outside this , Forget about a Real home.

One question and one answered.


Question , how many husband she done take now.

Answer for you correction on rules from high God


Wife be submissive to your husband
Husband love your wife and be kind to them


Not husband be submissive

osazsky:
I dont get it..the wife is d one paying more bills how is she supposed to be submissive .i hope this is a big lesson to all Male gold digger..imagine a full grown man staying in his wife's house or mother in laws house..this is d nature of a woman..only a man will have money and still keep a woman under his roof till death..its not easy for us...I have neve seen a very rich woman that maintained a single marriage for 10 years they dont take nonsense

dont mind Romanoff

They are looking for that perfect man, imbecilê, didirin, amukumeko, that gentle guy to subjugate.

Power is power
Money is power
Whoever has it takes more responsibilities so also,
Whoever has it controls the piper

Wen ur wife has it, automatically she's above u, even if she's down to earth, commitments here and there wont allow her to habe ur tym the way u want, thereby causing friction in ur marriage

JJC deserved all the insult, if he's not a submissive husband why will a lady throw a man out which should be the other way round



why should you pack to live in your wife built house? I can never live in a house my wife built, we both will rather stay in my rented apartment or perhaps she build it with my name in all then she can't do shit because I go use her own law to treat her fúck if she mess up


Seunmsg have said it all, wetin men dey chop these that made them to be this senseless

Romanoff:
It depends on how she said it and if she has done her research to arrive at that conclusion.

dear sister, lemme shed more light
I was expecting some funds to come from a training. Also she was intimating me on how she needed funds to buy raw materials and if I could forgo what i intended using the funds for. When i refused that's when that phrase/statement came out

OlawaleBammie:
dont mind Romanoff

They are looking for that perfect man, imbecilê, didirin, amukumeko, that gentle guy to subjugate.

Power is power
Money is power
Whoever has it takes more responsibilities so also,
Whoever has it controls the piper

Wen ur wife has it, automatically she's above u, even if she's down to earth, commitments here and there wont allow her to habe ur tym the way u want, thereby causing friction in ur marriage

Smh.

So your sisters too shouldn't have more money than their husband.

Omashe o.

Romanoff:
I disagree. Supporting men who throw their wives out over little disagreements didn't stop women from getting married enmasse every weekend. Did it?

U need throw sentiments away and face reality... 3 reason a man throws his wife out if the house

1. She cheats
2. She wants to kill him
3. She is constantly unsubmissive

Getting married is not the problem... staying married is

Romanoff:
So why can't you see her as your helper when she has more money than you while you are still the leader?

U dont get it

If i say i am broke, not that she has more money than me in general, just that at that moment she has a disposable monies than i did.

Romanoff, if i should marry u today and i tell u that i am broke, not that if i should go to my vault i wont see money, just that they are not disposable.

My principle is clear, there is part of my money i save, and there is this one i spend to run the family, the moment i exhaust my disposable income, i switch to my woman.

The guy that said her teeth scatter like the devil's calculator no go see gate of heaven

Beverlyjean:
U need throw sentiments away and face reality... 3 reason a man throws his wife out if the house

1. She cheats
2. She wants to kill him
3. She is constantly unsubmissive

Getting married is not the problem... staying married is

This is not true.

There are other way to make your grievances known. There's dialogue, there's counselling.

Those three reasons are not enough to throw your wife out. If it's not fixable, get a divorce.

So what if reason number one is why Funke threw her husband out,una no go still talk?

Romanoff:
How can you tell?

Same man that was rumoured to have been unfaithful.

I can't say much for what broke their marriage till I get all the details. JJC's post wasn't detailed.

She is not a serious woman to be honest

OlawaleBammie:
U dont get it

If i say i am broke, not that she has more money than me in general, just that at that moment she has a disposable monies than i did.

Romanoff, if i should marry u today and i tell u that i am broke, not that if i should go to my vault i wont see money, just that they are not disposable.

My principle is clear, there is part of my money i save, and there is this one i spend to run the family, the moment i exhaust my disposable income, i switch to my woman.

So your woman should only have enough to support you but she must never be richer than you?