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Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by Raalsalghul: 1:13pm On Jul 17, 2022
ahnie:
Well personally to me,if he has a very bright prospect and he isn't lazy and ready to hustle,if I were to be single I would give him a chance and we rise together.

I still insist,he might still get a single lady from here who would give him a trial.
Nobody is looking at it from this angle.

Everyone is more concerned about whether he is jobless or not without considering if the Op's case is as a result of lacking opportunities.

The most important thing is that the guy is not lazy.
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by Ishilove: 1:19pm On Jul 17, 2022
ahnie:
Ishilove, you're looking overtly beautiful this lovely afternoon.whats the secret?

Ishilove I be the last soul on Earth that would watch Nigerian films grin
I rather watch ESPN than watch Nigerian films.
grin tongue

Tengz for the compliment
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by ahnie: 1:21pm On Jul 17, 2022
Raalsalghul:
Nobody is looking at it from this angle.

Everyone is more concerned about whether he is jobless or not without considering if the Op's case is as a result of lacking opportunities.

The most important thing is that the guy is not lazy.
His creating multiple threads create the notion that he's a lazy fellow and a leech looking for a well to do single lady to feast on which I do not share same thought.

It's up to him to proof to the single ladies he's trying to woo.
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by ahnie: 1:23pm On Jul 17, 2022
But this life seff...if every body focus on the well to do dudes who go come inherit the struggling to succeed dudes?
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by RightToReject(m): 1:23pm On Jul 17, 2022
I used to think that you were merely glossing your status to taste the waters to sieve opportunists out of your way, but that doesn't seem to be the case any longer. Well, the fact that none of these overgrown women in teenage bodies and mentality who are desperately in need of husbands here has deemed it fit to come closer to you, talk more of giving you a temporary lead to rescue you, is one of those obvious pointers that 99% of the time 99% of them only disingenuously come closer to one forming feelings because of one's material possession rather than the quality of one's soul, thus the reason why you must strive to protect your riches whenever you come across it without allowing evanescence emotion to lead you astray.

And don't allow anyone to make you think that your desire is out of ordinary, the opportunistic and/or self-absorbing attitude of most of the female folks made it seem so together with the fact that 99.9% of them here within the age bracket you seek can't even cater for themselves talk more of giving you the temporary lead you long for. The emotions of love being the most powerful of all emotions and your guts telling you that with the right push from the right woman that you will rise, you have no reason to feel ashamed of your display here - even though you can do better.

If I were you at this juncture, I would rather squash the desire and transmute the emotion to something else that could lead to financial emancipation as such would be an easier route for your self-conquest. Of course, when you succeed, do not forget to protect your riches so that devourers of any gender and shade won't take you back to square one.
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by Raalsalghul: 1:25pm On Jul 17, 2022
ahnie:
But this life seff...if every body focus on the well to do dudes who go come inherit the struggling to succeed dudes?
Lol.
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by Raalsalghul: 1:27pm On Jul 17, 2022
ahnie:
His creating multiple threads create the notion that he's a lazy fellow and a leech looking for a well to do single lady to feast on which I do not share same thought.
True that.
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by ahnie: 1:27pm On Jul 17, 2022
Omo time to bale komot from this thread don reach... because them don dey turnam to gender star trek war.
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by Raalsalghul: 1:33pm On Jul 17, 2022
RightToReject:
Well, the fact that none of these overgrown women in teenage bodies and mentality who are desperately in need of husbands here has deemed it fit to come closer to you, talk more of giving you a temporary lead to rescue you, is one of those obvious pointers that 99% of the time 99% of them only disingenuously come closer to one forming feelings because of one's material possession rather than the quality of one's soul, thus the reason why you must strive to protect your riches whenever you come across it without allowing evanescence emotion to lead you
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

This guy. Had to heat up this thread.
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by RightToReject(m): 1:42pm On Jul 17, 2022
Raalsalghul:
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

This guy. Had to heat up this thread.
Lol, if, as human beings, regardless of gender, we fail to tell ourselves the truth always, it means that whatever education and material acquisition we possess are in vain. It's always better to disagree to agree always than feigning agreement always while being perpetually frenemies.
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by Nobody: 1:44pm On Jul 17, 2022
Raalsalghul:
I would disagree with you on this because It depends on the personality of the individual involved.

Some folks are broke but can package well you'd think they are well loaded. Others are rich but roll only with the basics you'd be mistaken they are poor.
True, some people can package and lie to women really good.

You know what the problem is? It always works if all you need to do is sleep with women but if you require a long term relationship that leads to marriage, she will know that person is a fraud in 6 months to a year. Because at the end of the day, you need to back up your fronting with actions. The opposite is guys that roll with basics, women ignore them first then later when they find out they are loaded, they come back. either ways, women no wan roll with broke people.
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by wunmi590(m): 1:44pm On Jul 17, 2022
ahnie:
I m a little vague on my experiences sha ...I was a day student Sha,not a boarder.
Their mode of worship is okay Sha to me that time Sha for my small sense lolx.

I simply changed school when my dad was transferred to another state.
But you guys are amazing peeps Sha.

Religion show be free willed,it shouldn't be forced.
That's good, I hope you will be going there once in a while.....

I was born a Methodist, before I meet new friends that are alter servers in the Catholic church, after my secondary education, that was how I became Catholic and also brought my parent to the Catholic family...

I had to go through alot to learn their latin song and alot of things to be able to catch up with them, as I was also introduced into the also alter boy thing cheesy

I was in the seminary to become a priest for 2month before my parent refused that I'm the only son bla bla, that was how I left seminary. But the truth of the matter is that I was not called, if I'm called to be a priest nothing would have changed my mind set

But my almost 40years in the church is beautiful...
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by NuCypher: 1:46pm On Jul 17, 2022
RightToReject:
I used to think that you were merely glossing your status to taste the waters to sieve opportunists out of your way, but that doesn't seem to be the case any longer. Well, the fact that none of these overgrown women in teenage bodies and mentality who are desperately in need of husbands here has deemed it fit to come closer to you, talk more of giving you a temporary lead to rescue you, is one of those obvious pointers that 99% of the time 99% of them only disingenuously come closer to one forming feelings because of one's material possession rather than the quality of one's soul, thus the reason why you must strive to protect your riches whenever you come across it without allowing evanescence emotion to lead you astray.

And don't allow anyone to make you think that your desire is out of ordinary, the opportunistic and/or self-absorbing attitude of most of the female folks made it seem so together with the fact that 99.9% of them here within the age bracket you seek can't even cater for themselves talk more of giving you the temporary lead you long for. The emotions of love being the most powerful of all emotions and your guts telling you that with the right push from the right woman that you will rise, you have no reason to feel ashamed of your display here - even though you can do better.

If I were you at this juncture, I would rather squash the desire and transmute the emotion to something else that could lead to financial emancipation as such would be an easier route for your self-conquest. Of course, when you succeed, do not forget to protect your riches so that devourers of any gender and shade won't take you back to square one.
God knows nothing will ever make me settle for a lady with no means of her own. Forget what many of them claim about loving a dude, they look first at his pocket, what he has at the moment, and what he is likely to have in the future. Ain't no broad trying to build a man up. They simply are all coming to feast on his resources. But if she's going to do that, she better be coming with her pocket full as well. We chop each other together. That's the way.

The broads are all circling around this thread now like vultures telling the sorry dude to go get a job before even as much as talking to them. I'd find it interestingly pathetic for the dudes to not extend the same treatment to them. The evening newspapers littering this thread would rather stay unpurchased and age into the night because they do not want to "suffer with a man". All well and good. Wise men had better extend to them the same treatment and not let a broad come reach into their pocket, if she ain't got her own dam.n money.

Idealists who are imagining love in their heads are the ones I pity, especially if they are men. And do they often get all mushy! They are the ones who end up training a girl in school, only to have their as.s dumped. Sometimes they also sponsor her abroad thinking she'll come back to fetch them from the trenches. Instead, the broads just sail into the sunset with their loot.

Dudes, pity no broads, please. Do not pity them. See this thread as the evidence you need to hustle your heart out, live your life at the top of your game, make some dough, and find that working class Nigerian girl also earning in six-figures.
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by Nobody: 1:48pm On Jul 17, 2022
ahnie:
But this life seff...if every body focus on the well to do dudes who go come inherit the struggling to succeed dudes?
It is not that complicated oh. Women take what they can get realistically, let's forget all this noise men & women make online. Ladies wait for the rich ones to notice them, if they don't come by, then they go for the poorer ones. Even for men, they try the pretty babes and if it doesn't work, they go for below average babes. Marriage no hard, na we dey find spec.
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by ahnie: 1:52pm On Jul 17, 2022
Awwwww
wunmi590:
That's good, I hope you will be going there once in a while.....

I was born a Methodist, before I meet new friends that are alter servers in the Catholic church, after my secondary education, that was how I became Catholic and also brought my parent to the Catholic family...

I had to go through alot to learn their latin song and alot of things to be able to catch up with them, as I was also introduced into the also alter boy thing cheesy

I was in the seminary to become a priest for 2month before my parent refused that I'm the only son bla bla, that was how I left seminary. But the truth of the matter is that I was not called, if I'm called to be a priest nothing would have changed my mind set

But my almost 40years in the church is beautiful...
How would one Know they're being called to be a priest?
Those alter boys Dem dey try Sha.... standing one place with straight faces,and transfixed gaze with their hands bearing the cup.
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by wunmi590(m): 2:07pm On Jul 17, 2022
ahnie:
Awwwww
How would one Know they're being called to be a priest?
Those alter boys Dem dey try Sha.... standing one place with straight faces,and transfixed gaze with their hands bearing the cup.
The fact that I'm a catholic won't stop me from saying the truth, you have heard of some priest sleeping with girls and deviating from their calling, personally I feel they were not called, they actually forced themselves to the seminary school...

It is sweet to be an alter server, but comes with its own demand and those things you listed up there were part of it..
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by tiger28: 2:15pm On Jul 17, 2022
The reality of this post is that this one is looking " to marry and have Children " , he isn't looking for even a working woman to date first. His desperation straight away suspect.

This style won't work......he sounds like a user because of his predicament. He needs to find at least a BASIC Job FIRST!
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by RightToReject(m): 2:30pm On Jul 17, 2022
NuCypher:
God knows nothing will ever make me settle for a lady with no means of her own. Forget what many of them claim about loving a dude, they look first at his pocket, what he has at the moment, and what he is likely to have in the future. Ain't no broad trying to build a man up. They simply are all coming to feast on his resources. But if she's going to do that, she better be coming with her pocket full as well. We chop each other together. That's the way.

The broads are all circling around this thread now like vultures telling the sorry dude to go get a job before even as much as talking to them. I'd find it interestingly pathetic for the dudes to not extend the same treatment to them. The evening newspapers littering this thread would rather stay unpurchased and age into the night because they do not want to "suffer with a man". All well and good. Wise men had better extend to them the same treatment and not let a broad come reach into their pocket, if she ain't got her own dam.n money.

Idealists who are imagining love in their heads are the ones I pity, especially if they are men. And do they often get all mushy! They are the ones who end up training a girl in school, only to have their as.s dumped. Sometimes they also sponsor her abroad thinking she'll come back to fetch them from the trenches. Instead, the broads just sail into the sunset with their loot.

Dudes, pity no broads, please. Do not pity them. See this thread as the evidence you need to hustle your heart out, live your life at the top of your game, make some dough, and find that working class Nigerian girl also earning in six-figures.
I understand your position. However, I have never seen, and will never see, anything wrong in a self-conquered and established man putting up with a woman that holds a philosophy that places immaterialism above materialism whether or not she has any form of material accomplishment to her name.

Also, as expressive and alacritous as I am, I am not a proponent of women subjugation - but I am surely a proponent and practitioner of hypocritical, crass, and opportunistic women, and men alike, subjugation, especially when they come closer with their shenanigans and fail to embrace change. A good woman deserves the best from her man, regardless of her social stratum. Servility is as bad as unjust cruelty; say no to both of them.
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by Nobody:
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Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by crackhaus: 3:25pm On Jul 17, 2022
Em222:
I am a graduate but lost my job so am struggling to come back to my real self so I need a working class or real time bussiness woman who will help me to come back let's build a home together I am a litle bit fair tall handsome youngman in my early 30s so am looking for a serious woman within the age range of 27 to 42 to marry lets start making kids no much time so if u r interested u can call me or chat me let's discuss I am serious about this 08164084891
Wrong country bro.

Not with my Naija sisters and their "man will save me" mentality, and you're now the one coming to them with "I'm in need of saving"... **Insert Mandarin-infused laughter** grin

They will sooo flee in the opposite direction a thousand different ways like the biblical enemy we all pray against.


Let me give you a piece of advise FREE:
Instead of this pitiful plea my brother, package yourself well – try dey dress fine, try dey smell nice, look like you have something going for you and go outside. They will be deceived and I tell you sir, deceive them.

Let them enter first before they know that you're the one in need of a saviour. Nor pity dem oo, because as you dey like this nau, none of dem dey pity you at all.

T for Tenks.
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by ahnie: 3:44pm On Jul 17, 2022
Lolz cheesy
The gladators are here grin grin grin
The free advise above really cracked me up.
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by Magnoliaa(f): 4:01pm On Jul 17, 2022
ahnie:
Ishilove, you're looking overtly beautiful this lovely afternoon.whats the secret?

Ishilove I be the last soul on Earth that would watch Nigerian films grin
I rather watch ESPN than watch Nigerian films.
Ma, where you dey always see Aunty Isi's pictures from??
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by ahnie: 4:15pm On Jul 17, 2022
Magnoliaa:
Ma, where you dey always see Aunty Isi's pictures from??
With my isoko eyes cheesy
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by crackhaus: 4:30pm On Jul 17, 2022
ahnie:
Lolz cheesy
The gladators are here grin grin grin
The free advise above really cracked me up.
So you won't greet me undecided
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by Magnoliaa(f): 4:44pm On Jul 17, 2022
ahnie:
With my isoko eyes cheesy
cry Come and give me. I wantu be seeing her fine face too.
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by ahnie: 4:54pm On Jul 17, 2022
crackhaus:
So you won't greet me undecided
You don tire abii J?
Abeg leave me joor.
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by crackhaus: 4:57pm On Jul 17, 2022
ahnie:
You don tire abii J?
Abeg leave me joor.
sadsad
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by NuCypher: 5:02pm On Jul 17, 2022
RightToReject:
I understand your position. However, I have never seen, and will never see, anything wrong in a self-conquered and established man putting up with a woman that holds a philosophy that places immaterialism above materialism whether or not she has any form of material accomplishment to her name.

Also, as expressive and alacritous as I am, I am not a proponent of women subjugation - but I am surely a proponent and practitioner of hypocritical, crass, and opportunistic women, and men alike, subjugation, especially when they come closer with their shenanigans and fail to embrace change. A good woman deserves the best from her man, regardless of her social stratum. Servility is as bad as unjust cruelty; say no to both of them.
Okay dude then. If that works for you, that's great. Have a blast.
That's not my own philosophy. A woman or man is only as immaterialistic for as long as a pig stays away from dirt. We all know they are going to to back to it at some point.

I'm also not a proponent of women subjugation. No one should be. However, women should step up or be ready to step up to the level of the man they want to be with. It's all about equality, after all.
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by ahnie: 5:20pm On Jul 17, 2022
crackhaus:
sadsad
Lolz just kidding Jay,how re you this beautiful evening?
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by ahnie: 5:23pm On Jul 17, 2022
Magnoliaa:
cry Come and give me. I wantu be seeing her fine face too.
Ok take-it.
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by Magnoliaa(f): 6:09pm On Jul 17, 2022
ahnie:
Ok take-it.
Where's it? Can't see anything...
Re: I Need A Mature Woman To Marry by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 6:35pm On Jul 17, 2022
crackhaus:
Wrong country bro.

Not with my Naija sisters and their "man will save me" mentality, and you're now the one coming to them with "I'm in need of saving"... **Insert Mandarin-infused laughter** grin

They will sooo flee in the opposite direction a thousand different ways like the biblical enemy we all pray against.


Let me give you a piece of advise FREE:
Instead of this pitiful plea my brother, package yourself well – try dey dress fine, try dey smell nice, look like you have something going for you and go outside. They will be deceived and I tell you sir, deceive them.

Let them enter first before they know that you're the one in need of a saviour. Nor pity dem oo, because as you dey like this nau, none of dem dey pity you at all.

T for Tenks.
Instead of this epistle you typed here, why not advise him to get a job? Doesn't that sound more noble?
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