I experienced something today in the general hospital in my area .my wife is due and about to give birth and I went with her .I saw a couple ,they came in and gave all the pregnant women 2k each (4 pregnant women were there) and also to those who just gave birth about 5 of them...
I was curious and asked the nurse why .she said most times it works for couples who are trying to conceive. They tap into the blessing.

Just thought I should bring this up cos it might help someone.
Please pray for safe delivery of my wife .

Ekabobo:
They say pray hard... I did
They say be positive... I was
They say declare n confess it... Did both
But y make smone rejoice with bfp... Only to let em miscarry eight weeks later...were it not better if they never took in in d first place....
I saw d red lines
Saw my edd
Saw my baby on d scan
Share d good news
Pictured him suckling me n dancing around with him
Wat I never pictured was coming back to ttc thread
Empty n failed, starting from scratch at 40 year


Na so my own thing dey dey Sha... Bend bend, upside down n wor wor.

Mama, I've been following your posts on the pregnancy thread right from when you said you were not feeling pregnant again till when you said you were at the hospital (I just said to myself that most people on that thread wouldn't understand when you were worried about not feeling pregnant because they had not gone through a miscarriage before); I really wished in my heart that the baby would be a sticky bean but God knows best.

As I read the thread again this morning just to get an update on the pregnancy and got to know that it ended up in a miscarriage, tears rolled down my face. It's so painful to be having miscarriages. All one's expectations of carrying a baby just goes goes down the drain when a miscarriage happens but trust me, God understands and knows it all. People start saying all sorts of nonsense but I know in due time, we will carry our bundles of joy.

We're the same age range and I also had 4 miscarriages 2 years ago, since then, I haven't conceived. I just came back to this thread recently (less than 2 weeks) and started reading this thread again just to while away the time, without even trying to get myself worked out and not even TTCing.

Mama, feel free to express yourself, grieve properly, rant well and cry well because that's the best way to heal; just ensure you don't think too much about it, move out of that phase quickly and start trying again. Believe me, God never fails and hopefully, by this time next year, you'll come back to this thread again and smile while looking at your LO (s) in your hands.

PEACE!!!

God never fails and hopefully, by this time next year, you'll come back to this thread again and smile while looking at your LO (s) in your hands.

PEACE!!![/quote


About d aboved statement... It's a nice one... Cept yul shud tell me how to get beyond dis phase again... Dis time it's worse... Am in a place so dark I dnt no if I'd see light again... Can't shower, can't laugh, cant greet my neighbours, av horrible bitterness n grugde for my husband ( yes I do... At four weeks wen I saw d red lines n complained I felt diff, he said d same words u said above... God will do this, He will do dat... Even made up pray psalms every midnight n make positive confessions... We shud av upped n moved to a gyna den... D baby wud still be here... But no... God won't fail us... If dis isn't failure or let down... I dnt know wat it). Am now so awful n ugly inside like a demon... D only thing I do now is check d threads for awful news for smone else... Folks give their birth stories at pregnancy thread ... But I'd feel much happier if they lost it... U see d monster av become? Even d sight of preggy folks coming to console me kills me... Feels like am being mocked.... Dnt tell me about God n stuff...tell me how to leave dis phase... If u truely wanna help... My head is so hot n heavy each day... I feel like am running mad... Tell me how to ease dis hurt... It's all I want... Let God worry about those he loves... I clearly ain't one of them... Lost my pops last year... Neva cry finish... Lost my mum may.... Was still crying wen I saw I was preggy... I said ' ah God, tanks for consoling me with this'. Lol.... Hahahahahah lol... He prolly was laughing at me.

You will be fine and yes JESUS loves you…. The devil is trying so hard to get to you but he will FAIL…. Remember the story of Job… God has the final say, he is capable… never underestimate him… everything is for a purpose… trust and believe his timing… work on healing completely first and never doubt Gods plans

Ekabobo:
God never fails and hopefully, by this time next year, you'll come back to this thread again and smile while looking at your LO (s) in your hands.

PEACE!!![/quote


About d aboved statement... It's a nice one... Cept yul shud tell me how to get beyond dis phase again... Dis time it's worse... Am in a place so dark I dnt no if I'd see light again... Can't shower, can't laugh, cant greet my neighbours, av horrible bitterness n grugde for my husband ( yes I do... At four weeks wen I saw d red lines n complained I felt diff, he said d same words u said above... God will do this, He will do dat... Even made up pray psalms every midnight n make positive confessions... We shud av upped n moved to a gyna den... D baby wud still be here... But no... God won't fail us... If dis isn't failure or let down... I dnt know wat it). Am now so awful n ugly inside like a demon... D only thing I do now is check d threads for awful news for smone else... Folks give their birth stories at pregnancy thread ... But I'd feel much happier if they lost it... U see d monster av become? Even d sight of preggy folks coming to console me kills me... Feels like am being mocked.... Dnt tell me about God n stuff...tell me how to leave dis phase... If u truely wanna help... My head is so hot n heavy each day... I feel like am running mad... Tell me how to ease dis hurt... It's all I want... Let God worry about those he loves... I clearly ain't one of them... Lost my pops last year... Neva cry finish... Lost my mum may.... Was still crying wen I saw I was preggy... I said ' ah God, tanks for consoling me with this'. Lol.... Hahahahahah lol... He prolly was laughing at me.

Ekabobo:
God never fails and hopefully, by this time next year, you'll come back to this thread again and smile while looking at your LO (s) in your hands.

PEACE!!![/quote


About d aboved statement... It's a nice one... Cept yul shud tell me how to get beyond dis phase again... Dis time it's worse... Am in a place so dark I dnt no if I'd see light again... Can't shower, can't laugh, cant greet my neighbours, av horrible bitterness n grugde for my husband ( yes I do... At four weeks wen I saw d red lines n complained I felt diff, he said d same words u said above... God will do this, He will do dat... Even made up pray psalms every midnight n make positive confessions... We shud av upped n moved to a gyna den... D baby wud still be here... But no... God won't fail us... If dis isn't failure or let down... I dnt know wat it). Am now so awful n ugly inside like a demon... D only thing I do now is check d threads for awful news for smone else... Folks give their birth stories at pregnancy thread ... But I'd feel much happier if they lost it... U see d monster av become? Even d sight of preggy folks coming to console me kills me... Feels like am being mocked.... Dnt tell me about God n stuff...tell me how to leave dis phase... If u truely wanna help... My head is so hot n heavy each day... I feel like am running mad... Tell me how to ease dis hurt... It's all I want... Let God worry about those he loves... I clearly ain't one of them... Lost my pops last year... Neva cry finish... Lost my mum may.... Was still crying wen I saw I was preggy... I said ' ah God, tanks for consoling me with this'. Lol.... Hahahahahah lol... He prolly was laughing at me.

You will see the light again ma. Please do not let the devil take advantage of your mind at this particular moment. God makes all things beautiful in his time, please hang on a little bit all will be well. God did not fail Hannah, Sarah and others, he will not fail you.
I pray that God almighty will console you, give you peace of mind and make you whole in your body,soul and spirit. I pray he heals your broken heart and perfect all that concerns you in Jesus name. I pray for you that the devil will not succeed over your life in Jesus name and i decree and declare that you will carry your babies in Jesus name.
Peace!!!

madprophet:
Hello Mama & Papas

You are invited to our 7 days Prayer Program for Waiting and Pregnant Parents.

Theme: *It is my time and my turn for Fruitfulness*

Date: 30th July - 5th Aug

Time: 9pm - 9.30pm daily

Waiting Parents are encouraged to fast till 3pm
No fast for Pregnant Parents

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We continue tonight....

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Ekabobo:
God never fails and hopefully, by this time next year, you'll come back to this thread again and smile while looking at your LO (s) in your hands.

PEACE!!![/quote


About d aboved statement... It's a nice one... Cept yul shud tell me how to get beyond dis phase again... Dis time it's worse... Am in a place so dark I dnt no if I'd see light again... Can't shower, can't laugh, cant greet my neighbours, av horrible bitterness n grugde for my husband ( yes I do... At four weeks wen I saw d red lines n complained I felt diff, he said d same words u said above... God will do this, He will do dat... Even made up pray psalms every midnight n make positive confessions... We shud av upped n moved to a gyna den... D baby wud still be here... But no... God won't fail us... If dis isn't failure or let down... I dnt know wat it). Am now so awful n ugly inside like a demon... D only thing I do now is check d threads for awful news for smone else... Folks give their birth stories at pregnancy thread ... But I'd feel much happier if they lost it... U see d monster av become? Even d sight of preggy folks coming to console me kills me... Feels like am being mocked.... Dnt tell me about God n stuff...tell me how to leave dis phase... If u truely wanna help... My head is so hot n heavy each day... I feel like am running mad... Tell me how to ease dis hurt... It's all I want... Let God worry about those he loves... I clearly ain't one of them... Lost my pops last year... Neva cry finish... Lost my mum may.... Was still crying wen I saw I was preggy... I said ' ah God, tanks for consoling me with this'. Lol.... Hahahahahah lol... He prolly was laughing at me.

Trust me sis you will be alright, time heals everything.
I was in your shoes about 3months ago when I lost a pregnancy I conceived via IVF after trying for 5years. I was so depressed that all I wanted was to just kill my self and end it all, I actually attempted suicide but thank God for my Dh. I couldn't pray for sometime because I was quarrelling with God then..�
Though it still hurt but I am picking myself little by little believing God to come through and restore me in my next cycle with quadruplets.
Atimes life throws up on us in a very hard way that you begin to imagine why is mine difficult, the things we struggle to get is very easy for others,why? I can Categorically tell you that every one have their struggles in life, But one thing that is sure is we must conquer. My cousin sis got married at the age of 40, though had two miscarriage but she later gave birth to a baby boy last year at the age of 43years without fertility treatment.
This is me encouraging you, for you to keep hope alive all things are working together for our good.

linecrosser:
Pls help me with this o. My gynae gave me clomid and letrozole

haaaa, isnt this too much.
2 drugs doing the same work...ask him why he gave you both drugs, if only one is required and can do the job

Hello mamas
I have an history of ectopic pregnancy in 2011
And I have been trying for almost a year
Been going to hospitals but they have been asking us to wait till after a year
I just did a transvaginal scan
Please what drugs / natural foods can I take to boost my egg quality and also to induce ovulation. The Dr at the scan place said I’m not ovulating.

Kindly help interpret my result please
I’m so down and my husband isn’t so helpful

Ekabobo:
God never fails and hopefully, by this time next year, you'll come back to this thread again and smile while looking at your LO (s) in your hands.

PEACE!!![/quote


About d aboved statement... It's a nice one... Cept yul shud tell me how to get beyond dis phase again... Dis time it's worse... Am in a place so dark I dnt no if I'd see light again... Can't shower, can't laugh, cant greet my neighbours, av horrible bitterness n grugde for my husband ( yes I do... At four weeks wen I saw d red lines n complained I felt diff, he said d same words u said above... God will do this, He will do dat... Even made up pray psalms every midnight n make positive confessions... We shud av upped n moved to a gyna den... D baby wud still be here... But no... God won't fail us... If dis isn't failure or let down... I dnt know wat it). Am now so awful n ugly inside like a demon... D only thing I do now is check d threads for awful news for smone else... Folks give their birth stories at pregnancy thread ... But I'd feel much happier if they lost it... U see d monster av become? Even d sight of preggy folks coming to console me kills me... Feels like am being mocked.... Dnt tell me about God n stuff...tell me how to leave dis phase... If u truely wanna help... My head is so hot n heavy each day... I feel like am running mad... Tell me how to ease dis hurt... It's all I want... Let God worry about those he loves... I clearly ain't one of them... Lost my pops last year... Neva cry finish... Lost my mum may.... Was still crying wen I saw I was preggy... I said ' ah God, tanks for consoling me with this'. Lol.... Hahahahahah lol... He prolly was laughing at me.

Sis I know how u feel, I felt same way or even worse when I lost my baby boy 8months after birth after 2years of TTC in 2018(on DH birthday) , I blamed God, Hubby stop celebrating his birthday, I even stopped praying and going to church for a while, I wasn't functioning, seeing his stuff and pics nearly killed me.... But u know what? I pick up my life again I faced the demon inside and I trust God and he did it... I conquered TTC not even once but twice. So hang on, God will surely do it, I know he has better and bigger plan in stock for you.

Dear medics in the house, a beautiful and happy new month.

Please can you assist in interpreting these test results. Even the lab person could not give me a clear cut answer.

Why are the reference ranges in prolactin level different in the hormonal and ovulation profile?

formidablefunmi:
This is why I am never too in a hurry to announce my bfp. Because I might be disappointed at the end. Another miscarriage at 7 weeks. Baby embryo stopped growing. No heartbeat. This is the second miscarriage the first was December. What could be the cause mamas. Am devastated

Rhesus factor? Incompetent cervix?? Meet a good gynaecologist.

Pojomojo:

Kindly interprete this results

Formidablefunmi.... Did u spot at anytime in d pregnancy... Or did u start projesterone injections very very early.... I saw a gyna today after d miscarriage i had n he claims if I had projesterone injects early it wud greatly help d baby.... Sorry about ur lost.... It's truely devastating

Ninisun:



Rhesus factor? Incompetent cervix?? Meet a good gynaecologist.

Incompetent cervix? Cud dat really factor in a seven weeks preggy miscarriage too? Tot dat happens from fourteen weeks...

Please contact me on WhatsApp with this number 07066823658. I can help you to calculate your ovulation.

Hello mamas
Reading through this thread is such a delight.
I have been so enlightened. Thanks to you all who actively push these discussions forward. God bless you all.
I got married 2 years ago. A year into my marriage I aborted my baby out of error. I cried so much, people said that's mostly the case with first child being that I was inexperienced. I was pregnant without knowing and I felt so many symptoms that made me treat infections leading to the loss of the pregnancy. I still feel sad about it but I know God has the best in the works for me.
I have been TTCing with my hubby since then but nothing yet.

Sometimes I experience late period and sometimes I feel severe pain during period. Presently I am on my period which was supposed to have come around 29th - 30th.
It started yesterday but today with constant stooling and vomiting. The stooling and vomiting is severe and I want to ask if there's any known reason for it?
Missing my period since 29th had me so excited hoping for some good outcome only for it to come yesterday with serious stooling and vomiting.
Please mamas, I will appreciate your comment

Ekabobo:



Incompetent cervix? Cud dat really factor in a seven weeks preggy miscarriage too? Tot dat happens from fourteen weeks...

Hormonal tests is also recommended. For the incompetent, as far as the cervix isn't closed or sutured, can happen. You have to rule these out.

Gbemiie:
Hello mamas
Reading through this thread is such a delight.
I have been so enlightened. Thanks to you all who actively push these discussions forward. God bless you all.
I got married 2 years ago. A year into my marriage I aborted my baby out of error. I cried so much, people said that's mostly the case with first child being that I was inexperienced. I was pregnant without knowing and I felt so many symptoms that made me treat infections leading to the loss of the pregnancy. I still feel sad about it but I know God has the best in the works for me.
I have been TTCing with my hubby since then but nothing yet.

Sometimes I experience late period and sometimes I feel severe pain during period. Presently I am on my period which was supposed to have come around 29th - 30th.
It started yesterday but today with constant stooling and vomiting. The stooling and vomiting is severe and I want to ask if there's any known reason for it?
Missing my period since 29th had me so excited hoping for some good outcome only for it to come yesterday with serious stooling and vomiting.
Please mamas, I will appreciate your comment

Don't lose hope yet, I had the experience of stooling but no vomiting. It is best you buy ovulation kit inorder to reduce the stress.

Ekabobo:
Formidablefunmi.... Did u spot at anytime in d pregnancy... Or did u start projesterone injections very very early.... I saw a gyna today after d miscarriage i had n he claims if I had projesterone injects early it wud greatly help d baby.... Sorry about ur lost.... It's truely devastating

Progesterone cannot help if the miscarriage was as a result of no heartbeat.
I was on oral, insert and injection progesterone during mine. I didn't bleed, I went for a scan and is still same so I evacuated.

Ekabobo:
Formidablefunmi.... Did u spot at anytime in d pregnancy... Or did u start projesterone injections very very early.... I saw a gyna today after d miscarriage i had n he claims if I had projesterone injects early it wud greatly help d baby.... Sorry about ur lost.... It's truely devastating

Yes I did spot brown though 12 dpo but I thought it was implantation bleeding

Ninisun:



Rhesus factor? Incompetent cervix?? Meet a good gynaecologist.

Naaa all of these were ruled out

formidablefunmi:





Yes I did spot brown though 12 dpo but I thought it was implantation bleeding

.


I spotted twelve days past ovulation too.... N dirty brown kinda spotting ... I think dat shud b d underlying factor... Did u use any projesterone support... As in really early on in d pregnancy... Cause I might b Rong ... But I think dirty brown spotting sorta hinges on low projesterone...

whiteMandingo:


haaaa, isnt this too much.
2 drugs doing the same work...ask him why he gave you both drugs, if only one is required and can do the job

Thank you my sister.
I've used clomiphene before, I got pregnant on the second cycle but lost the pregnancy at 7 weeks. So after everything, I was told to use the drug again, I used it twice the follicles didn't develop at all . So he had to prescribe the two for me

Good day mama"s, hope we all doing great. One thing is certain God will never fails us.

Done ranting n grieving after miscarrying AGAIN!... Time to start trying again... Imma keep trying until d last egg drops lol....

Prayersssssssss (tick)
Treat infection (tick)
Treat hubby (tick)
Pregnacare concept (tick)
Longrich panty liner (tick)
Projesterone suppliment ( tick)
Ogbonge hard core gymnastics sex (tick)

Don't know if I should add prayers... Seeing as it was all I did last time n I til got blinded ...

They always say prayer is d key...d master key.... So am going back to include it...infact ... I will make it d first item!

There... Av added it..


It's on again!

And to d red lips doctor dat suggested I wait for six months befo trying again... Lol... Lol

Oga doc... Six what! 6 months abi 6 hours?

6 months fire!

tammyf:
I experienced something today in the general hospital in my area .my wife is due and about to give birth and I went with her .I saw a couple ,they came in and gave all the pregnant women 2k each (4 pregnant women were there) and also to those who just gave birth about 5 of them...
I was curious and asked the nurse why .she said most times it works for couples who are trying to conceive. They tap into the blessing.

Just thought I should bring this up cos it might help someone.
Please pray for safe delivery of my wife .

Update: my wife was delivered of a bouncing baby boy today. Now I can eat after 4days . I hv never respected mothers as I did today.
If I ever see a child insulting his mother ehhh, what I will do to him he will not bliv it .weather I know d child or not .respect to all mothers .

tammyf:



Update: my wife was delivered of a bouncing baby boy today. Now I can eat after 4days . I hv never respected mothers as I did today.
If I ever see a child insulting his mother ehhh, what I will do to him he will not bliv it .weather I know d child or not .respect to all mothers .

Lol... E don Tay wey I laff like dis.... Oga no go wound person pickin...congrats sir... God bless u n urs... Man wey never follow woman go labour room... Na pickin e b... E Neva sabi wetin worry be...

Ekabobo:
God never fails and hopefully, by this time next year, you'll come back to this thread again and smile while looking at your LO (s) in your hands.

PEACE!!![/quote


Cept yul shud tell me how to get beyond dis phase again... Dis time it's worse... Am in a place so dark I dnt no if I'd see light again... Was still crying wen I saw I was preggy... I said ' ah God, tanks for consoling me with this'. Lol.... Hahahahahah lol... He prolly was laughing at me.

Mama, how are you doing today? So sorry I'm just replying now, I didn't see your mention. Trust me, you will be fine (I've had MCs in the past and I was still able to move on). Like I said, feel free to rant but don't despise God while doing that. Did you think of the possibility of the baby being deformed? Most likely that was the reason for the MC, you never knew that.

Come and join me, I'm eating a plate of fried rice and chicken......... Cheer up, mama!!!

Lol!

Onyiken2022:

Kindly interprete this results

you need to Increase motility