Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? - Crime - Nairaland
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| Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by Nobody: 2:03pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
I married this Lady 2years back, we courted for 3 months and then we did our wedding. After our wedding we found out we will be expecting a baby, few months later my wife changed drastically in character, she became abusive & hostile towards me. She insults and hits me. I thought it was pregnancy hormones, i over looked and loved my wife. After delivery she grew worst, she does'nt lack anything from me, i reported to my in-laws, they called their daughter to order yet no change, i reported to my parent, infact she rained insult on me in present of my mum & granmom. Everytin to make peace no way, last month i called my wife inside & asked her why this character? She started cryin & she said "her dad abused & misused her mother, always her mom was going through pains, after all she saw, she vowed she wil not subject to any man'' i cried with her and assured her that am not her father & i wont act as him. My wife changed only 2 weeks & grew worse. Am fade up, i want a DIVORCE. What do i do my fellow N'Ls? 1 Like |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by Zonefree(m): 2:03pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
. '' i cried with her and assured her that am not her father & i wont act as him. My wife changed only 2 weeks & grew worse SIMP. You cried with a manipulator  Once a woman starts crying, be on guard, she's on a manipulating mood. If you're accusing your girlfriend or wife of something and she started crying, she's guilty. No woman will cry for something she didn't do. Lastly, never take marriage or relationship advice from a woman. 41 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by Jennyclay(f): 2:06pm On Aug 09, 2022*. Modified: 2:38pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Please hold on to that marriage, don't send her away. This is the time she needs you the most. She has not enjoyed parental love or that kind of family love? She is lost and frustrated at the same time. You need to talk more about everything and anything. Let her know you are ready to listen and not try to solve all her problems. You need to make her realize that you're different from all those stupid "woman-beater" men out there, You are now her father and mother. You should both go for counseling See a therapist if need be. Think, talk, pray and talk with her again. I pray God restore your marriage. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by dododawa1: 2:07pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Carry your cross |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by LongBig(m): 2:09pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
This world is full of calamity and out of that your home suppose to be a safe haven, and when reverse is the case, then you don’t have a home yet. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by Zonefree(m): 2:12pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Jennyclay:I'm waiting for what you got to say. Mention me when you're done typing. 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by PointZerom: 2:12pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Send her to me instead  |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by Chnbanc: 2:15pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Zonefree:U r smart. Just learnt something from you. 4 Likes |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by Zonefree(m): 2:17pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Chnbanc:I'm glad to hear this. God bless you 10 Likes |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by Zonefree(m): 2:17pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Jennyclay: 13 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by Righteousness2(m): 2:18pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Don't send her away! The Source of real happiness in the Home is JESUS Christ. As the head of the home, bring your Family to JESUS Christ. Get to Genuiely know JESUS and Bring your home to Know JESUS. JESUS Christ will heal her, heal you and make your home great. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by Jennyclay(f): 2:23pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Zonefree:Kriss216 aka Zonefree aka kollins11 aka davash222 I'm done!! |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by dammywapes(m): 2:24pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Na wa o! Cos of hin papa action she wan comot ham for your body. How pple take dey reason self ? Kna when u self no care again kna that time her eyes go clear…. |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by horlanrewaju11(m): 2:27pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Adebisi0070:My Religion didn't support that "Divorce" but peace is all I ever wanted "to live in peace, die in peace, rest in peace and even live in peace hereafter" I can do anything to have all that..... Divorce is the least sin I can comit for peace.... |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by VeryWickedMan: 2:28pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
YES |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by cornerstonee: 2:28pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Bb |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by Lilydore(f): 2:38pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Maybe you're abusing her. Keep on pleading with her, One day she will change. Just be a Gentleman dear. |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by horlanrewaju11(m): 2:42pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Adebisi0070:send her back to her mother's house for some weeks so she can't learn some lesson before accepting her back |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by Treasure17(m): 2:44pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
It's not easy to talk her out of what she experienced. All she need right now is your assurance and it must play out from your actions towards her and maybe she should be counsel cause sometimes these things might be psychological. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by SAMBARRY: 2:59pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Do not trade anything for your peace of mind.its better you let her go so that she won't push you to one day beat her to death and then your face will be plastered on the pages of newspapers and Social media as another osinachi husband type of man. It's obvious she's an emotional abuser.the world won't see the scars if her emotional abusive behaviour but when you are provoked to your limits and you unknowingly do what you aren't supposed to do (domestic violence) which shows in physical scarse, everyone will come after you.let her go before it's too late 5 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by jeromestarks: 3:05pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Marry a virgin and have peace. You carried this problem with your two hands so I pray she kills you. This idiot Even dated a hoe for 3 months and married her when somebody fvcked her for 4 years and didn't put any ring on her. Op, what you're going through is the aftermath of your foolishness. Live with it. 3 Likes |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by jeromestarks: 3:08pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Zonefree:The Op is even an insult to SIMPS. He's worst than simp. 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by jeromestarks: 3:09pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Lilydore:I totally agree with this. Op, listen to this if you have nothing else to live for. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by Offpointng: 3:26pm On Aug 09, 2022*. Modified: 3:52pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Adebisi0070:The problem with you is that you are not manly enough and that is too bad for you honestly. the truth is, here in Nigeria calling your wife to talk esp an hauty woman is not an African style I'll give you a short story: After my sister married and got pregnant, anytime I check at her area and decide to stay for a day or two, I see how she do talk roughly to her husband and later apologize blaming it on her pregnancy condition, I'm always sad anytime such incident happen but gentle husband he'll always beg her instead and always be like "ma binu ife mi "(don't be upset my love)this stuff use to happen time to time and what is my own I'll face my business This Blessed day, her husband had to travel for 2weeks (work related) so she had to come stay at our house (her father) pending the time cuz she obviously can't stay alone and she's not a lover of maid. She gave the same stress with small small insult to me but I just had to bear cuz she was pregnant. So on this faithful day, she asked me to boil water for her which I did it was not up to 5minute o not for her to come and slap my neck that why imma taking long, guy if u see how my head spark ehn omo I changed it big time for her, off the gas, bath and went my way, that day she had to do all the stress alone cus mum went to work. She got to boil the water herself, mix it and also run every errands herself, for like two days that was how I was doing, bath in the morning and go my way leaving her at home alone. One blessed day, she called me on the phone crying that I should just come home and begging me if I offend her I should forgive her and just come back that she's not getting herself bla bla. Ever since that day, that was the last time she ever insulted or talk anyhow to me, if she say she feels like eating swallow and mommy cooked rice bfr I use to prepare it for her but after that incident, if she say she feels like eating swallow I'll just reply her woo I can't do anything now, she'll just have to take the rice like that. she being good at crying, she'll always call her husband telling him how I'm maltreating her and he should please come back quickly Brother that was how I got my full respect  the baby is 5yrs now and she'll always tell the baby how I use to maltreat her during pregnancy lolSo in essence, being too nice as a boyfriend or husband doesn't help at all 11 Likes |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by AKWATGOLD1(m): 3:30pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Supported, because i do not want you to go 6ft down early. Adebisi0070: |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by OgaDeyVex: 3:30pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Many people are passing through alot That's Why Oga Just Dey Vex 1 Like |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by Tegabadguy(m): 3:33pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
send her away |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by OKOATA(m): 4:04pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
I can bet it she's used to her dad shouting at her mom, you are too weak as a man that's why she's angry bro. From now on become very harsh with her, handle her with iron hand. I didn't say you should beat her o, but you see all this crying crying, begging a woman etc women hate it aswear. She's needs an iron hand but you aren't getting the code. Bro I can bet it if you handle her with iron hand she will worship you. Stop all this simping level of you. 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by Firefox01: 4:33pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Lol. Do away with that fool. Let her go and marry her father if she feels her husband is her father. Nonsense. |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by rolams(m): 4:44pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Different cases across different marriages everyday! If he no work, no be by force ooo. She can kill you oo. |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by Socratiz: 4:47pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Your wife is suffering from unresolved childhood trauma which can be treated if you contact a professional marriage counselor. She is acting out the buried emotions of fear and it's only in a counseling session that it can be explored and resolved. Please see a counsellor. |
| Re: Should I, Send My Wife Away Because Of This? by AndroidAI(m): 4:53pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
When is part 2 coming out? 1 Like |
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