I have a friend, lets call him Ben. He is 24 years o;d. he is a street boy( yahoo yahoo). wire boy

He was involved in a relationship with a girl from calabar, she schools at Unical. Ben lives in lagos( ajah to be precise ) in one of those popular estate. The girlfriend ususally comes around regularly to visit, and to be honest with you she is very pretty and all.

Ben being the first born of the family is trying to get serious with this girlfriend of his, he takes care of her financially.

Then finally she told Ben that she is pregnant for him. Ben was happy and he told his mum about it. He sents her money regularly afterwards for ante natal care. amounts ranging from 500k to 700K. He doesnt have peoblems with it.

Then suddenly she came up with a story that she almost got miscarriage and that she is bleeding, so she said the doctor said she will need extra care,

That was how BEN sent his calabar girl friend 1.5m . I got wind of this during a conversation when we were having some drinks.

Ofcourse I didnt advise him against it since he has already sent her the money and he said he was going to marry her.

The worse finally happened when Ben decided to open an instagram account( not with his real names) and he was following his girlfriend.

he then noticed his girlfriend is always posting pictures with a particular dude, one particular post he saw the boy putting on his clothes.
most times when his girlfriend visits, she takes some of his designer clothes along with her to calabar.

He confronted his girlfriend about this particular guy , but she said the guy is his brother.. the next thing he noticed was that the girl later went private on instagram but what she didnt know was that ben was following her already with a different name.

Then a post she made that finally rocked the boat was a video of she and this so called brother in a cozy room and she was all over the guy and all, she even made a post begging her followers to help support this guy to help him get to big brother house.

Ben couldnt stand it anymore he had to confront her about it with all the evidence, he told her he was no longer interested and that the she should refund his money back to him , it is now clear she has been using Ben's money to bankroll her boyfriend in calabar. The dude in calabar is good looking .

It got really messy that my friend threatened her to refund his money back or he would informed his men in calabar to treat her bleep up,(Ben is a cultist) she responded by saying Ben is a joker that if he tries it she would report him to EFCC. Omo as Ben hear EFCC cold enter him body he decided to chill and let it slide

At a later date, she called and was like Ben should calm down and that they should remain good friends. Lol..Good friends indeed
Ben didnt argue with her and he told her he accepted. He blocked her completely on all social media platform and since then there has been no communication.

On a cool evening while we were having a drink in our usual spot, Ben told me something that touched me. He said girls see yahoo boys as fugitive.

My point now is as a street boy, why not use money you make from the street to either further your education by going for short courses or even having investments , or running a good business that you can front to your family and friends to live a legitimate life.

These girls( ofcourse I mean the educated ones) do not have regards for you as a yahoo boy, they are just after your money and the good life you are giving them. I checked up the meaning of a fugitive, and it says someone who escaped from a prison and is on the run.
Guys una need to wise up.

Some times i pity gboys.

Girls who date fraudsters know they have leverage, because they can always use the law against them, if things don't go their way.

That is how ill gotten wealth is been spent

Somebody that is good in English should narrate the epistle for me abeg
I stopped at “ lets call him ben”


Damn... nasty... I’m out of here

Huzzle and invest,

But Ben no wise at all

Ben is a foolish boy

Easy come easy go.
Ben will find another lady to lavish his money on.
What advice do you want to give ben?
To further what?

i dont see a problem here
Your friend, Ben, scams the white people... His girlfriend scammed him financially and emotionally
THE EQUATION IS BALANCED

Simp will always be simp fugitive or not. Na fear of EFCC make him dey bankroll the olosho before? Simps and excuses. Mtchew

Your friend is very stupid. “The worst thing is money in the hands of a simp”.

Op na you be the Ben,no dey whine us abeg!

MONEY MISS ROAD

Wise up under stolen money? All I see is a criminal (the guy) and a deceptionist (the girl).

Match made in Heaven. Women don't like Yahoo boys — they only want the share of the stolen money. Any woman that wants her share of a stolen money is a LovePeddler, a criminal and brokeass.

Just like politicians. They don't like/love Nigeria (they don't even want Nigeria to grow) — they're only interested in the money they'll steal from Nigeria and the fame with little projects to brag about.

This life is all about game and selfishness. Most philanthropists don't give because they want to. They give for a hidden reason.

1. The way he's a fugitive to his fraud victims is the same way his girlfriend is a fugitive to him. Now, he understands the feelings that come with being a victim of a scam and other fraudulent activities. Thief catch thief. Lol.

Ok, that's for that.

2. Say no to crime in whatever shape, style, and color. But be ruthless in the attainment of genuine goals and ambitions.

3. Women have men they love. No matter what you do for them they will remain loyal to that man. Rich or poor, it doesn't matter.

4. You cannot buy a woman's love with money. Showing her money from the onset is like exposing your wounds to dogs. They will lick and parasitize on you till they fill their stomach.

5. If you are a rich man, weigh every word of your sexual partner twice, thrice, several times. Same with other people.

They don't love you. What they love is your money.

6. Don't be blinded by love. Romance is an adventure for men, but many men have fallen there without being able to rise because they were not wise and proactive in their dealings with women.

7. Your woman should not know the secret of your business. Don't allow romance to make you become an open book and easily predictable. Refer to 6 above.

8. Once a woman starts pressurizing you, you must take time to know the underlying factor responsible for it. Most times, it is a way of manipulation.

9. When people hasten you to do something, they probably have something to gain. And they will abandon you if the results backfire. Thread with caution.

9. Avoid every form of a long-distance sexual relationship. The cost always outweighs the reason or benefit behind it.

10. You don't monitor or spy on women. That's a fool's job.

Once you suspect any ulterior motive caution her. If it persists, disown her. Time spent acting as an undercover should be channeled into other productive areas of life. With women, guts and intuitions take the lead. Then, follow with reason.

11. If she allows other men in her DM and space when in a relationship, it means you are still an option. This should make you never take her seriously. Just fun and cruise.

Women can only be loyal to one man. If she's not, she's for the street. Refer to the 3 above.

12. Don't take women at face value. Before you commit to her, you must examine her thoroughly.

You will know a woman's true color when you are poor than when you are rich. In the presence of abundance, manipulators are attentive and pretentious.

Who stands by you when you are poor? Who wants to exchange value for value with you? This is a litmus test to determine the quality of people you should take as acquaintances.

13. If she's not consistent with her behavior dump her. Except she's ascending.

14. Don't spend on women that have not submitted to you. (Marriage is the seal).

15. Men and women can't be friends. But if she insists, never spend. Only reciprocate kind gestures.

16. Don't believe every word women say. Judge their character and words. Refer to 5 above.

17. Better to help men than women. Ungrateful people abound, but in the scenario that anyone will help you when you're in a tough challenge, the probability that it will be a man is higher. Women don't associate with losers. (Even the poor man she's loyal to provides her emotional feelings and things other men can't).

18. If you want to help a woman, help her father, brother, nephew, boyfriend, fiance, husband, or son. These people will help her. But you have helped them to better their lives and they can now help their women.

19. Don't fall for romance because it will ruin you as a man. Guard your edges in your dealings with women. Refer to 6 above.

20. Say no to fraud. Say no to crime. Truth, logic, wisdom, and integrity no matter how ignored or bastardized are the only savior that can help us as individuals and as a society. Money is material and can never erase their importance.

Thanks.

backtovillage:
Easy come easy go.
Ben will find another lady to lavish his money on.
What advice do you want to give ben?
To further what?

James Hadley Chase.

This story dey sweet but I am suspicious of authenticity.

Painful that the babe in the story was robbing Peter to pay Paul.

But she's karma for Ben the yahoo guy using oyinbo money to bankroll the gal.

The guy getting the money might be using it to pamper another gal... who will also use it for another guy...continuing the karma sequence.

Na wa oo. So yahoobois too dey cry for women hands? Them go come online come dey form

A man shall reap what he sows... The painful part is that... The day you plant the seed is different from the day you eat the fruits.

Let gboys enjoy while stock last!!!

Orgasmgiver123:
Somebody that is good in English should narrate the epistle for me abeg
I stopped at “ lets call him ben”


Damn... nasty... I’m out of here

summary
Ben get money.
Ben na simp.
Ben na gboy.
Ben babe run am street .
E pain Ben
the end

that's why most Yahoo boys want to make money,to impress women , that's why many of them reek of low self-esteem, I no dey pity any of them

nooboody:
summary
Ben get money.
Ben na simp.
Ben na gboy.
Ben babe run am street .
E pain Ben
the end

It shall be well with you bro
Na watin op use extra sheet take write be this oh


Damn... nasty... I’m out of here

Money can't actually buy love..
It'll only make the person hang on the fence for a while..

Interesting....

Orgasmgiver123:
Somebody that is good in English should narrate the epistle for me abeg
I stopped at “ lets call him ben”


Damn... nasty... I’m out of here

Lol. No honour amongst Thieves .

Most are not as intelligent as you think, that's why their ill wealth fly away. Money is like a bird that moves from one tree to another searching for good shade and fruits to eat. If a tree is not fruitful they fly to the next tree. "Yahoo boiz" are not fruitful and most girls see the future of a man before he becomes successful.

Secondly, your friend is a simpleton that needs proper education on how to be masculine. Never use money to keep a woman.

SenecaTheYonger:
Na wa oo. So yahoobois too dey cry for women hands? Them go come online come dey form

Most are the so called red pills here, they are paind because of the serial heartbreaks the get from their slay Mama's. They keep spewing trash about how they were cheated on. It's sad that we are having weaker men in the society. Dear men, we need to start raising strong men who understand that being a man is not about bullying females, sleeping with everything with a vagina using money or coming online to complain. Sad!

Kudos

This is a deep piece that will take years to fully assimilate and practice.

CaveAdullam:
1. The way he's a fugitive to his fraud victims is the same way his girlfriend is a fugitive to him. Now, he understands the feelings that come with being a victim of a scam and other fraudulent activities. Thief catch thief. Lol.

Ok, that's for that.

2. Say no to crime in whatever shape, style, and color. But be ruthless in the attainment of genuine goals and ambitions.

3. Women have men they love. No matter what you do for them they will remain loyal to that man. Rich or poor, it doesn't matter.

4. You cannot buy a woman's love with money. Showing her money from the onset is like exposing your wounds to dogs. They will lick and parasitize on you till they fill their stomach.

5. If you are a rich man, weigh every word of your sexual partner twice, thrice, several times. Same with other people.

They don't love you. What they love is your money.

6. Don't be blinded by love. Romance is an adventure for men, but many men have fallen there without being able to rise because they were not wise and proactive in their dealings with women.

7. Your woman should not know the secret of your business. Don't allow romance to make you become an open book and easily predictable. Refer to 6 above.

8. Once a woman starts pressurizing you, you must take time to know the underlying factor responsible for it. Most times, it is a way of manipulation.

9. When people hasten you to do something, they probably have something to gain. And they will abandon you if the results backfire. Thread with caution.

9. Avoid every form of a long-distance sexual relationship. The cost always outweighs the reason or benefit behind it.

10. You don't monitor or spy on women. That's a fool's job.

Once you suspect any ulterior motive caution her. If it persists, disown her. Time spent acting as an undercover should be channeled into other productive areas of life. With women, guts and intuitions take the lead. Then, follow with reason.

11. If she allows other men in her DM and space when in a relationship, it means you are still an option. This should make you never take her seriously. Just fun and cruise.

Women can only be loyal to one man. If she's not, she's for the street. Refer to the 3 above.

12. Don't take women at face value. Before you commit to her, you must examine her thoroughly.

You will know a woman's true color when you are poor than when you are rich. In the presence of abundance, manipulators are attentive and pretentious.

Who stands by you when you are poor? Who wants to exchange value for value with you? This is a litmus test to determine the quality of people you should take as acquaintances.

13. If she's not consistent with her behavior dump her. Except she's ascending.

14. Don't spend on women that have not submitted to you. (Marriage is the seal).

15. Men and women can't be friends. But if she insists, never spend. Only reciprocate kind gestures.

16. Don't believe every word women say. Judge their character and words. Refer to 5 above.

17. Better to help men than women. Ungrateful people abound, but in the scenario that anyone will help you when you're in a tough challenge, the probability that it will be a man is higher. Women don't associate with losers. (Even the poor man she's loyal to provides her emotional feelings and things other men can't).

18. If you want to help a woman, help her father, brother, nephew, boyfriend, fiance, husband, or son. These people will help her. But you have helped them to better their lives and they can now help their women.

19. Don't fall for romance because it will ruin you as a man. Guard your edges in your dealings with women. Refer to 6 above.

20. Say no to fraud. Say no to crime. Truth, logic, wisdom, and integrity no matter how ignored or bastardized are the only savior that can help us as individuals and as a society. Money is material and can never erase their importance.

Thanks.

Ooohh,too long
So sorry I didn't even read it

CaveAdullam:
1. The way he's a fugitive to his fraud victims is the same way his girlfriend is a fugitive to him. Now, he understands the feelings that come with being a victim of a scam and other fraudulent activities. Thief catch thief. Lol.

Ok, that's for that.

2. Say no to crime in whatever shape, style, and color. But be ruthless in the attainment of genuine goals and ambitions.

3. Women have men they love. No matter what you do for them they will remain loyal to that man. Rich or poor, it doesn't matter.

4. You cannot buy a woman's love with money. Showing her money from the onset is like exposing your wounds to dogs. They will lick and parasitize on you till they fill their stomach.

5. If you are a rich man, weigh every word of your sexual partner twice, thrice, several times. Same with other people.

They don't love you. What they love is your money.

6. Don't be blinded by love. Romance is an adventure for men, but many men have fallen there without being able to rise because they were not wise and proactive in their dealings with women.

7. Your woman should not know the secret of your business. Don't allow romance to make you become an open book and easily predictable. Refer to 6 above.

8. Once a woman starts pressurizing you, you must take time to know the underlying factor responsible for it. Most times, it is a way of manipulation.

9. When people hasten you to do something, they probably have something to gain. And they will abandon you if the results backfire. Thread with caution.

9. Avoid every form of a long-distance sexual relationship. The cost always outweighs the reason or benefit behind it.

10. You don't monitor or spy on women. That's a fool's job.

Once you suspect any ulterior motive caution her. If it persists, disown her. Time spent acting as an undercover should be channeled into other productive areas of life. With women, guts and intuitions take the lead. Then, follow with reason.

11. If she allows other men in her DM and space when in a relationship, it means you are still an option. This should make you never take her seriously. Just fun and cruise.

Women can only be loyal to one man. If she's not, she's for the street. Refer to the 3 above.

12. Don't take women at face value. Before you commit to her, you must examine her thoroughly.

You will know a woman's true color when you are poor than when you are rich. In the presence of abundance, manipulators are attentive and pretentious.

Who stands by you when you are poor? Who wants to exchange value for value with you? This is a litmus test to determine the quality of people you should take as acquaintances.

13. If she's not consistent with her behavior dump her. Except she's ascending.

14. Don't spend on women that have not submitted to you. (Marriage is the seal).

15. Men and women can't be friends. But if she insists, never spend. Only reciprocate kind gestures.

16. Don't believe every word women say. Judge their character and words. Refer to 5 above.

17. Better to help men than women. Ungrateful people abound, but in the scenario that anyone will help you when you're in a tough challenge, the probability that it will be a man is higher. Women don't associate with losers. (Even the poor man she's loyal to provides her emotional feelings and things other men can't).

18. If you want to help a woman, help her father, brother, nephew, boyfriend, fiance, husband, or son. These people will help her. But you have helped them to better their lives and they can now help their women.

19. Don't fall for romance because it will ruin you as a man. Guard your edges in your dealings with women. Refer to 6 above.

20. Say no to fraud. Say no to crime. Truth, logic, wisdom, and integrity no matter how ignored or bastardized are the only savior that can help us as individuals and as a society. Money is material and can never erase their importance.

Thanks.

You talk too much