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[b][/b]The husband is not the father of his wife.

So he is not entitle to replace her surname.

The West goofed on this as they goofed on so many other matters.

We are in 2022 in the 21st century for that matter, but the West is still behaving like the stone century.

Seeing nothing wrong with a woman banishing her dad's name for her husband's. This is simply retrogressive. The West is simply backwards.


I mean if a woman gets married, changes her name and gets divorce later, what happens? She go on to change her name again upon the second or third marriage? Imagine you had a terrible divorce with your hubby but his surname is still attached to you like an umbilical cord.

Let's not even imagine the stress and hustle a woman would go through just to change her name and reflect them on her documents. She has to swear affidavits to get them back to her surname after divorce or upon demise of her husband?

We Africans are fond of following the West, even on matters that the West are obviously not right.

They didn't goof. Na their style.

Na we wey dey copy and paste i blame.

We copy dere marriage join sef and even many others things, good and bad, we digest am..

Thing is when we copy, we no dey edit to suit us. We even over copy and get confused at the end. Africans can copy French and English style and merge 2geda to form their own.

Natbrowny:
They didn't goof. Na their style.

Na we wey dey copy and paste i blame.

We copy dere marriage join sef and even many others things, good and bad, we digest am..

Then it is very retrogressive and backward.

vaxx:
[b][/b]The husband is not the father of his wife.

So he is not entitle to replace her surname.

The West goofed on this as they goofed on so many other matters.

We are in 2022 in the 21st century for that matter, but the West is still behaving like the stone century.

Seeing nothing wrong with a woman banishing her dad's name for her husband's. This is simply retrogressive. The West is simply backwards.


I mean if a woman gets married, changes her name and gets divorce later, what happens? She go on to change her name again upon the second or third marriage? Imagine you had a terrible divorce with your hubby but his surname is still attached to you like an umbilical cord.

Let's not even imagine the stress and hustle a woman would go through just to change her name and reflect them on her documents. She has to swear affidavits to get them back to her surname after divorce or upon demise of her husband?

We Africans are fond of following the West, even on matters that the West are obviously not right.

The west that recognizes union that doesnt involve any official marriage, certificate or even change of name are the ones u are still attacking over this matter that they are backward..

the decision to change name has long been abandoned to the discretion of woman or couple......its not a law.....its more of a cultural thing ....


.u are the one that is backward here..

vaxx:
Then it is very retrogressive and backward.

To them they may not count it as anything.
Just like when dey become 18, do wat u like, govt dey 4u.

In naija til 25..ur parents still dey watch u sef.

Dey dnt care if u get pregnant at 20..as far as u aint underage.


Whites get many rules wey go provoke u if u hear am..

Since majority accept it. It flows evenif its negative. See homosexuality now. E dey reign even in cartoons. Media is helping the cause.

Natbrowny:
They didn't goof. Na their style.
Na we wey dey copy and paste i blame.
We copy dere marriage join sef and even many others things, good and bad, we digest am..
Thing is when we copy, we no dey edit to suit us. We even over copy and get confused at the end. Africans can copy French and English style and merge 2geda to form their own.

Are you certain about all that since Nigerian culture already had the woman are her husband's property long before the white man showed up our shores?

vaxx:
[b][/b]The husband is not the father of his wife.

So he is not entitle to replace her surname.

The West goofed on this as they goofed on so many other matters.

We are in 2022 in the 21st century for that matter, but the West is still behaving like the stone century.

Seeing nothing wrong with a woman banishing her dad's name for her husband's. This is simply retrogressive. The West is simply backwards.


I mean if a woman gets married, changes her name and gets divorce later, what happens? She go on to change her name again upon the second or third marriage? Imagine you had a terrible divorce with your hubby but his surname is still attached to you like an umbilical cord.

Let's not even imagine the stress and hustle a woman would go through just to change her name and reflect them on her documents. She has to swear affidavits to get them back to her surname after divorce or upon demise of her husband?

We Africans are fond of following the West, even on matters that the West are obviously not right.

As you are planning to marry and divorce severally, may God help you.

vaxx:
[b][/b]The husband is not the father of his wife.

So he is not entitle to replace her surname.

The West goofed on this as they goofed on so many other matters...

Even before the west came, wives were identified by her husband's name.

If you're not ready to change your surname stay in your father's house.