Honestly, I don't like seeing my mother alone..I seriously need her to remarry and be with someone. I hate being her only child, I need a sibling from her most especially a girl.


It pains me that since my dad divorced her she has rejected any man who came to her in the name of relationship/marriage. The day I raised the topic she almost cursed me to death.


How do I convince my mother to remarry?

ObamaMessi:
Honestly, I don't like seeing my mother alone..I seriously need her to remarry and be with someone. I hate being her only child, I need a sibling from her most especially a girl.


It pains me that since my dad divorced her she have rejected any man who came to her in the name of relationship/marriage. The day I raised the topic she almost cursed me to death.


How do I convince my mother to remarry?

Have u asked burnaboy why his father have not been on the picture since his glory

Tell your mum you want to remain unmarried like her without bothering about the divorce and only child bit because she is setting you a great and best example to emulate. That might make her reconsider, especially the not only child bit as it means no grandchildren for her. Make sure you are prepared for the long haul though as she might stand her ground regardless.

If you are married already this won't work, so just have lots of children and never ever divorce.

MatrixReloaded:

Have u asked burnaboy why his father have not been on the picture since his glory

Hmmm! I don't know jack about him. I just want my mummy to remarry and give birth to a baby girl. I will name her Pristine..I will pet her and handle her with more care than anything else. I do fantasize this on daily basis.

Look for other thing that will make you happy and don't force the woman to do what will make her unhappy..

Don't be selfish, put yourself in her shoe and find out why she don't want to get married again.

budaatum:
Tell your mum you want to remain unmarried like her without bothering about the divorce and only child bit because she is setting you a great and best example to emulate. That might make her reconsider, especially the not only child bit as it means no grandchildren for her. Make sure you are prepared for the long haul though as she might stand her ground regardless.

If you are married already this won't work, so just have lots of children and never ever divorce.

I'm 19. She don't want to remarry, but anytime I said I will remain single for the rest of my life, she will curse me and report me to my step-mom to take her own pound of flesh.

ObamaMessi:
Hmmm! I don't know jack about him. I just want my mummy to remarry and give birth to a baby girl. I will name her Pristine..I will pet her and handle her with more care than anything else. I do fantasize this on daily basis.

maybe you are fantasied on how to sleep with ur step sister. Don't go and be yusful for your mother and stop disturbing her to go carry a man that will see you as a threat and sex meniac to his daughter. Btw if she ever remarried u won't near the man's house.

You are putting your desires ahead of hers without really understanding her Fears about remarrying, it could be that she still blames herself for the failure of her marriage to your father and sees herself as not prepared to repeat the same mistakes or she is yet to overcome the emotional trauma of going through a divorce.

You can advise her to seek Counseling and work on her mindset about moving ahead.
Know when to approach her with this kind of discussion and don't try to force her to follow your wish.
You must also understand that it's not so easy for a single mother with a 19 year old to jump into marriage because her son is putting pressure, your future and wellbeing will also be part of the things she will put into consideration before she decides if she wants to remarry and getting the kind of man that will compliment her.

So be gentle with her on this matter

ObamaMessi:
I'm 19. She don't want to remarry, but anytime I said I will remain single for the rest of my life, she will curse me and report me to my step-mom to take her own pound of flesh.

Tell her she does not need to curse you since she has already cursed you by showing you a bad example of being single.

Alternatively, perhaps focus on your own life instead of that of your mother.

At 19, you should be planning how to make yourself, family and friends proud, but you are here thinking how to convince your mom to remarry. Maybe, the new husband will pay the bride price to you. You even have step siblings from step mother and you are here disturbing people.

In Africa, we are not brought up to discuss such issue with our parents, we are trained to respect our parents every decision until we are grown enough to take care of ourselves, then we can make our independent decisions. Just eat mama food and rest your brain.

She might be scared you never can tell

Leave her. Let her be. Its you that should quickly marry so you can leave one of ur kids to live with her.
You wan arrange another man to be "doing ur mom"? Na nonsense. You shud even be happy she has remained celebate and not dcking around. Go and marry and mk her happu

Demigod22:
At 19, you should be planning how to make yourself, family and friends proud, but you are here thinking how to convince your mom to remarry. Maybe, the new husband will pay the bride price to you. You even have step siblings from step mother and you are here disturbing people.

In Africa, we are not brought up to discuss such issue with our parents, we are trained to respect our parents every decision until we are grown enough to take care of ourselves, then we can make our independent decisions. Just eat mama food and rest your brain.

It hurts me deeply that I see other women walk around with their husbands, shop and go to church with their husbands but my mom does all these alone. I'm always alone at home because i'm her only child. If my mother give birth, that child will not be brainwashed to hate me.

ObamaMessi:
Honestly, I don't like seeing my mother alone..I seriously need her to remarry and be with someone. I hate being her only child, I need a sibling from her most especially a girl.


It pains me that since my dad divorced her she has rejected any man who came to her in the name of relationship/marriage. The day I raised the topic she almost cursed me to death.


How do I convince my mother to remarry?

If ur mother forcing u to marry guy u dnt like, how will u feel?
I'm very sure if that happens,u will post it here and expecting nairalanders to help u condermn it in entirety.

Learn how to respect people opinions. Just imagine, if ur mother remarries and ends up in the hand of abusive man who sends her parking before her time, how will u feel? Just because u want to have siblings.

If ur mother did not give u brothers or sisters, what stops you to marry and get ur own sons and daughters biko?

ObamaMessi:
I'm 19. She don't want to remarry, but anytime I said I will remain single for the rest of my life, she will curse me and report me to my step-mom to take her own pound of flesh.

For a child of 19 to face his mum that he should go and remarry, show u lack manner.
Such discussion far above ur age.
You are type who normally end up as "redpiler cos of lack of discpline from single parenting, most especially from single mother.

budaatum:
Tell your mum you want to remain unmarried like her without bothering about the divorce and only child bit because she is setting you a great and best example to emulate. That might make her reconsider, especially the not only child bit as it means no grandchildren for her. Make sure you are prepared for the long haul though as she might stand her ground regardless.

If you are married already this won't work, so just have lots of children and never ever divorce.

Because person born , she don't have a right to liver her own life again , motherhood is a scam

ObamaMessi:
Hmmm! I don't know jack about him. I just want my mummy to remarry and give birth to a baby girl. I will name her Pristine..I will pet her and handle her with more care than anything else. I do fantasize this on daily basis.

Go and marry so you can have your own daughter or better still rape her since she has no right over her body and her reproductive rights , I pray not to have a child like this , the only person to choose whether she wants to remarry and have a child is the woman , because at the end of everything when the baby's big head rips her vagiiina you would only say sorry , so go ahead and rape her

budaatum:


Tell her she does not need to curse you since she has already cursed you by showing you a bad example of being single.

Alternatively, perhaps focus on your own life instead of that of your mother.

Who gave birth to these people?

ObamaMessi:
Honestly, I don't like seeing my mother alone..I seriously need her to remarry and be with someone. I hate being her only child, I need a sibling from her most especially a girl.


It pains me that since my dad divorced her she has rejected any man who came to her in the name of relationship/marriage. The day I raised the topic she almost cursed me to death.


How do I convince my mother to remarry?

My dear you don't know what you're wishing for ,men and women are not the same , he married coz he needs more children and another woman to carry on from where your mom stopped and the day your mom gets married is the day you become a complete orphan , many women are brainwashed by their husbands and they do anything for them and she understands that and is probably tired and just wants you and herself to be happy and you want to ruin her life

I know a single mom of two who lost her husband before the birth of second child and she has rejected every man because she wants to remain and die single , both the children are very well behaved , well fed and we'll taken care of , she feeds them with her profits from hair making , no salon ,just her hands , coz it's only poverty that can force who no wan marry to marry
It's been 6 to 7 years since hubby's death

when he died , she found out he had another family somewhere and that one had a son for him , they joined forces to hold his funeral , I guess that might have influenced her decision too , imagine finding out you're just first wife after he dies , you can't even strangle him

But do you know what loneliness lead's to...

LadyD22:


My dear you don't know what you're wishing for ,men and women are not the same , he married coz he needs more children and another woman to carry on from where your mom stopped and the day your mom gets married is the day you become a complete orphan , many women are brainwashed by their husbands and they do anything for them and she understands that and is probably tired and just wants you and herself to be happy and you want to ruin her life

I know a single mom of two who lost her husband before the birth of second child and she has rejected every man because she wants to remain and die single , both the children are very well behaved , well fed and we'll taken care of , she feeds them with her profits from hair making , no salon ,just her hands , coz it's only poverty that can force who no wan marry to marry
It's been 6 to 7 years since hubby's death

when he died , she found out he had another family somewhere and that one had a son for him , they joined forces to hold his funeral , I guess that might have influenced her decision too , imagine finding out you're just first wife after he dies , you can't even strangle him

It lead's to mental health, especially if the person is still young.

If you doubt ask elders.

LadyD22:


Who gave birth to these people?

I asked myself the same thing too when I saw this erroneous trash you wrote there ....

LadyD22:


Go and marry so you can have your own daughter or better still rape her since she has no right over her body and her reproductive rights , I pray not to have a child like this , the only person to choose whether she wants to remarry and have a child is the woman , because at the end of everything when the baby's big head rips her vagiiina you would only say sorry , so go ahead and rape her

ObamaMessi:



How do I convince my mother to remarry?

If your Momma is happy like that, don't force her put of your own Selfish needs. She knows what she went through she knows what she wants, if she needs a man you are not the one to tell her that. Except if you notice she wants it but is scared to initiate that's the only scenario that you shall speak up else remain silent and make her proud and happy in your own way.

LadyD22:


Go and marry so you can have your own daughter or better still rape her since she has no right over her body and her reproductive rights , I pray not to have a child like this , the only person to choose whether she wants to remarry and have a child is the woman , because at the end of everything when the baby's big head rips her vagiiina you would only say sorry , so go ahead and rape her

I don't understand the reason behind this misguided comment.

ObamaMessi:
Honestly, I don't like seeing my mother alone..I seriously need her to remarry and be with someone. I hate being her only child, I need a sibling from her most especially a girl.


It pains me that since my dad divorced her she has rejected any man who came to her in the name of relationship/marriage. The day I raised the topic she almost cursed me to death.


How do I convince my mother to remarry?

There was a thread on FP where a man died and after four years, they saw his skeleton on his bed cos he was always alone and has no one

Just show her that thread

Michelle70:
There was a thread on FP where a man died and after four years, they saw his skeleton on his bed cos he was always alone and has no one

Just show her that thread

The thunderous insults and curses I will receive from her will scare nuclear and atomic bomb combine to bow.

ObamaMessi:
The thunderous insults and curses I will receive from her will scare nuclear and atomic bomb combine to bow.

Lolz, but seriously ehn, after i saw that thread, i just felt no one should ever stay alone cos if u die, people might find ur corpse after it start decaying and smells in the compound.

You will not be there with her forever, u will have other things to do, if something happens, who will be there for her?

Maybe she is more worried about how the man will treat u since u are not his child, she is probably waiting for u to get ur own life before thinking of her own comfort.
I knew a woman who got married immediately after her last born finished University.
meanwhile she has divorced her husband like 15yrs ago and became a single mother all these while.
Parents always think of what their actions and inactions will cause their children(some parents sha)

Leave mama alone.

M

ObamaMessi:
Honestly, I don't like seeing my mother alone..I seriously need her to remarry and be with someone. I hate being her only child, I need a sibling from her most especially a girl.


It pains me that since my dad divorced her she has rejected any man who came to her in the name of relationship/marriage. The day I raised the topic she almost cursed me to death.


How do I convince my mother to remarry?

Leave ur mum alone and look on how to better urself and make her proud. Marriage of a thing is a complicated thing. Allow her to make her own choice.

Smh

You want your mum to remarry

Having you as a child brrought bad luck to her in the first place. Cos that's all a boy child got to offer in a family

Please let her remain single abeg. Iwould even advice her to dump/abandon your incompetent ass in a trash somewhere around tambuwal in sokoto and adopt a girl child. Then watch her flourish and prosper

Some people are just bashing me. I never had brotherly or sisterly love. They`d lie against me and my dad and step-mom will jointly tie me up and beat me mercilessly.


They don't celebrate my success. I recall when i was made assistant headboy in pri5. I announced to my siblings and all they did was hiss and laughed me to scorn. The same thing happened when i was made headboy. When I was dropped as headboy and expelled in jss3, they were happy(their body language). I've never enjoyed family love and warmth.

Michelle70:
Lolz, but seriously ehn, after i saw that thread, i just felt no one should ever stay alone cos if u die, people might find ur corpse after it start decaying and smells in the compound.

You will not be there with her forever, u will have other things to do, if something happens, who will be there for her?

Maybe she is more worried about how the man will treat u since u are not his child, she is probably waiting for u to get ur own life before thinking of her own comfort.
I knew a woman who got married immediately after her last born finished University.
meanwhile she has divorced her husband like 15yrs ago and became a single mother all these while.
Parents always think of what their actions and inactions will cause their children(some parents sha)

From the look of things, my mum is not ready to settle down with any man. I will be leaving her at the end of October. I got admission with 70 percent scholarship in the university and i am concerned about her