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Is 4 or 5 years too late to start school? I am asking because my triplets will be 3 years next month I have no plan for all three to start school yet because I am not financially stable i can only afford for one which will not be fair on the other two. I will keep them at home until they are 4 or 5 years. I hope it will not affected them when they start school at 4 or 5 years also what is the best way to teach them at home any books reccomandation and prices please??

Prospertochu:
Is 4 or 5 years too late to start school? I am asking because my triplets will be 3 years next month I have no plan for all three to start school yet because I am not financially stable i can only afford for one which will not be fair on the other two. I will keep them at home until they are 4 or 5 years. I hope it will not affected them when they start school at 4 or 5 years also what is the best way to teach them at home any books reccomandation and prices please??

Oga double hustle money make them start this new session. Just as fingers are not equal we equally have schools in that category. My advise is for you to fit them into the school in line with your pocket and follow up the rest at home to close loop holes you observed on schools. Don't deprive them all in the name of your pocket. God will help you.

May the lord grant you and your children favour

DO NOT bring children into the world if you know you cannot give them a decent life, a good education, if you know you will not have enough love and willingness to take care of them properly, a child should not come to this world to go hungry and suffering. Children should not come to the world to pay for their parents' misery. Be responsible and don't just think of yourself.

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If u or your wife has time, you can home schooled them pending when funds roll in...

Prospertochu:
Is 4 or 5 years too late to start school? I am asking because my triplets will be 3 years next month I have no plan for all three to start school yet because I am not financially stable i can only afford for one which will not be fair on the other two. I will keep them at home until they are 4 or 5 years. I hope it will not affected them when they start school at 4 or 5 years also what is the best way to teach them at home any books reccomandation and prices please??

send one you can afford to , how are yiu sure you will have the money in 2 years time

Uyi168:
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If u or your wife has time, you can home schooled them pending when funds roll in...

I am a single father

jackslow:
send one you can afford to , how are yiu sure you will have the money in 2 years time

I have faith that everything will be well in 2 years

1. Home school them
2. Get a private teacher to take them in which you can pay and or less than 20k per month
3. Look around you for a well to do person and ask him/ her for financial or scholarship help.
Wishing you all the very best

Prospertochu:
I am a single father

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Dooh o.

When did you want them to start? At 2?

They start around 5 in this part of the world.

Prospertochu:
I am a single father

Are the triplets all with you or your daughter is still with your ex-wife?

Mindlog:
Are the triplets all with you or your daughter is still with your ex-wife?

Yes all three are with me she came with the girl because I didn't give her more money

goodamerican:
When did you want them to start? At 2?

They start around 5 in this part of the world.

I have seen children as young as 2 years old who are already in school and I think mine are late for school. Are you in nigeria ?

Blackdeewhy:
1. Home school them
2. Get a private teacher to take them in which you can pay and or less than 20k per month
3. Look around you for a well to do person and ask him/ her for financial or scholarship help.
Wishing you all the very best

Thank you

Prospertochu:
Is 4 or 5 years too late to start school? I am asking because my triplets will be 3 years next month I have no plan for all three to start school yet because I am not financially stable i can only afford for one which will not be fair on the other two. I will keep them at home until they are 4 or 5 years. I hope it will not affected them when they start school at 4 or 5 years also what is the best way to teach them at home any books reccomandation and prices please??

you can home school then but this is not easy. There are so good public school you can put them in and follow up, till you can afford a school of your choice.

Prospertochu:
Yes all three are with me she came with the girl because I didn't give her more money

Ok. If you intend homeschooling them, who will be responsible for that?

In the state you are resident in, don't their public primary schools have nursery section?

Prospertochu:
Is 4 or 5 years too late to start school? I am asking because my triplets will be 3 years next month I have no plan for all three to start school yet because I am not financially stable i can only afford for one which will not be fair on the other two. I will keep them at home until they are 4 or 5 years. I hope it will not affected them when they start school at 4 or 5 years also what is the best way to teach them at home any books reccomandation and prices please??

How much is the school fee?

Put them in a public school near you and work your schedule on how to drop and pick them.3yrs is the starting age for most nursery public schools.
If you were in Anambra or Amaechi's remodeled public schools in Rivers,it'd be good.Their public schools are children friendly and have considerable edge above many private schools.Educational facilities,playground,sports faolities,character moulding etc

Stop whining about your baby mama everytime,if she was dead would you ressurect her to come and cater for them?
Man up! So many men are raising their children alone same as women.

Mindlog:
Ok. If you intend homeschooling them, who will be responsible for that?

In the state you are resident in, don't their public primary schools have nursery section?

I have a limited free time due to the nature of my job but I will try to teach them anytime I am available mostly on Sundays. Public school is not an option because is far away from home and my mother is not strong enough to drop and pick them that far

Jennyfha:
How much is the school fee?

34k for new intake afterwards 21k

Ulunne777:
Put them in a public school near you and work your schedule on how to drop and pick them.3yrs is the starting age for most nursery public schools.
If you were in Anambra or Amaechi's remodeled public schools in Rivers,it'd be good.Their public schools are children friendly and have considerable edge above many private schools.Educational facilities,playground,sports faolities,character moulding etc

Stop whining about your baby mama everytime,if she was dead would you ressurect her to come and cater for them?
Man up! So many men are raising their children alone same as women.

Thanks for the suggestion I am in enugu, I am not winning about her because from my post I didn't included her. I have included her because someone have asked about my daughter who was staying with her. they are my children I am not tired of them and I will never abandon them. I have faith everything will be fine for us very soon.

Prospertochu:
34k for new intake afterwards 21k

34 for each child?

Prospertochu:
I have a limited free time due to the nature of my job but I will try to teach them anytime I am available mostly on Sundays. Public school is not an option because is far away from home and my mother is not strong enough to drop and pick them that far

Fact is that based on your present situation,your children will not achieve much from homeschooling because you don't even have the resources to effectively homeschool them and your kids having to wait till Sundays which is not even sure to be taught is very inimical to their development.

Home schooling is not a walk in the park, you need have the time daily (as if they go to school weekdays), you need to draw up lesson plans that should capture what is age appropriate to learn, fun activities to enhance their fine motor skills etc

No matter the discord between you and the mother of your children, you have to get her involved because you both are their parents aa I perceive that there are some developmental milestones your children are already missing and it is not for their good.

Prospertochu:
Thanks for the suggestion I am in enugu, I am not winning about her because from my post I didn't included her. I have included her because someone have asked about my daughter who was staying with her. they are my children I am not tired of them and I will never abandon them. I have faith everything will be fine for us very soon.

Alright goodluck to you.Sha find a way to keep them busy.You can get ABC,Phonics,numbers CD plates for them to watch and master some things before you are ready.Imagine every expense x3.chai!

Nigerians that love tapping and saying "Na God dey train children,pls come and tap into the life of these triplets.O ruola n'omume

Childrearing is very costly no matter your class.Children don't know"I don't have money".You must give them food.

goodamerican:
What is a toddler (2-year old) doing at School? You can read to them (e.g. books, ABCs, etc) or engage them in fun, educational activities where they're just listening. Other than that, a 2-year old should enjoy being a 2-year old. They only get to be babies once; let them live.

No, I'm not.

You are right ma but that's the norm in nigeria that children as young as 2 should go to school and most of my children aged mate are already in nursery 3. Thanks for the suggestion

Jennyfha:
34 for each child?

No ma the 34k is for all three for the new intake afterwards it will be 21k for all three

Mindlog:
Fact is that based on your present situation,your children will not achieve much from homeschooling because you don't even have the resources to effectively homeschool them and your kids having to wait till Sundays which is not even sure to be taught is very inimical to their development.

Home schooling is not a walk in the park, you need have the time daily (as if they go to school weekdays), you need to draw up lesson plans that should capture what is age appropriate to learn, fun activities to enhance their fine motor skills etc

No matter the discord between you and the mother of your children, you have to get her involved because you both are their parents aa I perceive that there are some developmental milestones your children are already missing and it is not for their good.

She is in Lagos

Ulunne777:
Alright goodluck to you.Sha find a way to keep them busy.You can get ABC,Phonics,numbers CD plates for them to watch and master some things before you are ready.Imagine every expense x3.chai!

Nigerians that love tapping and saying "Na God dey train children,pls come and tap into the life of these triplets.O ruola n'omume

Childrearing is very costly no matter your class.Children don't know"I don't have money".You must give them food.

Thank you for the suggestion , trust me in my next world I want one child at time not triplets again

Prospertochu:
No ma the 34k is for all three for the new intake afterwards it will be 21k for all three

Ok if your story is true and you are ready for a video call the triplets must be present too. send your WhatsApp number to this email jennyfhajen@yahoo.com

Prospertochu:
Is 4 or 5 years too late to start school? I am asking because my triplets will be 3 years next month I have no plan for all three to start school yet because I am not financially stable i can only afford for one which will not be fair on the other two. I will keep them at home until they are 4 or 5 years. I hope it will not affected them when they start school at 4 or 5 years also what is the best way to teach them at home any books reccomandation and prices please??

Never underestimate the power of homeschooling your kids.

For kids that age, you can easily find online a curriculum of what you can help teach them at home in order to prepare them to join their peers when you eventually get them to school.