JBoss25:


Sweetpink no go like this

Eeghe:


Decided to respond
The bolded was a very traumatizing read (I hope you are not serious about it)
And, never be guilt-tripped into thinking that reserving the benefit of doubt in issues is a bad thing. It is not. Okay especially when you don’t have 100 percent disclosure. And ina real life situation. Take it from a mostly impulsive, heavy drama-attracting mily.

I read a certain sex for grades scandal when I got on twitter, I didn’t like the banding together against one Oge like that. From trends, I see the issue has resurfaced again, but of course I won’t even check it- done with that.

Geezeem:


By the way I hope it isn't the ex he had threatened Bella a couple of times to go back to?

I am not an adekunle fan, if I were, I would say she is just jealous.... a scorned girl trying to pull the young man down. That She watched him propose to another girl and was planning a wedding on TV and is out for his blood

But I am not kunle's fan

I won't say this or trivialize this issue.

I just won't take her serious. There is a reason matters of abuse need evidence to be proven. We need receipts

Sheggz is a reflection of her personality and taste in men. You dated someone for 3 years and know him to be a broke ass fake footballer but stayed there



I am actually mad!

I will take her more serious when she call herself out on the role she played even as a victim

Dannyxy:
exactly!! She is posting all we watched, she could have posted all this weeks ago, not after we watch , you now come to post a similar story, even call him “fake footballer” sef, fans slang.

How convenient for her, na my crux be, and the reason it looks like clout chasing…

Abi nobody dey understand my point ni?

ItisHi:
I mean who comes on a show, meet a stranger within 3wks and start proposing marriage. That is love bombing na

Dannyxy:
Twitter judges and feminist made a young man commit suicide over an allegation from a lady, it was later discovered to be a false allegation, the boy already took his life, femco and their fans never apologized, never acknowledged their wickedness, them and their fans moved on. Since I saw that story I made my mental note to always give a benefit of doubt in any story like this, we can’t all be emotional, some of us must be logical…

But then I get the emotions, but again, some of us must be logical..

Geezeem:


It was all I was interested in as I had said before that physical abuse is my deal breaker. This is not me trivializing the emotional or verbal abuse. We all have our threshold.

Me personally, verbal abuse will send me inside my shell, but physical abuse will unleash the lioness

You people sold a narrative that HE BROKE HER LEG. the silly girl allowed that to fly for a couple of days before coming to clarify it

You see eh... I don't give a rat ass about this Bemi girl and whatever she has to say. I didn't witness it.... it's left for Sheggz to clear this

I am more concerned about what I WATCHED and how it affected Bella. I am convinced that Sheggz need a therapy. I am convinced that he needs help

I will contain myself within the boundaries of what I watched and I don't care how this makes anyone feel or nor give a fuvk about whatever they have to say

This should not be my business but theirs

Everyone is entitled to their opinions

Hopefully Sheggz do the needful

KIDDRICAsHAWK:


Your limit is cool and personal but not everyone will wait till it gets to that point, as a matter of fact, nobody should tolerate any form of abuse or be waiting till it gets physical before speaking up.


She isn't silly. She doesn't owe her abuser any form of clarification. She hasn't said what she didn't say in her YouTube clip, she's still maintaining the same stance. People speculated, added and deducted from the information and ran with it. That's on people, not on her.


Yup. People are entitled to their opinions. While you draw the line at Physical abuse, some of us draw the line at the slightest form of abuse and won't be quiet about it.


Getting help doesn't have to interfere with facing the consequences of his actions, he'll and must collect both.

Geezeem:


By the way I hope it isn't the ex he had threatened Bella a couple of times to go back to?

I am not an adekunle fan, if I were, I would say she is just jealous.... a scorned girl trying to pull the young man down. That She watched him propose to another girl and was planning a wedding on TV and is out for his blood

But I am not kunle's fan

I won't say this or trivialize this issue.

I just won't take her serious. There is a reason matters of abuse need evidence to be proven. We need receipts

Sheggz is a reflection of her personality and taste in men. You dated someone for 3 years and know him to be a broke ass fake footballer but stayed there



I am actually mad!

I will take her more serious when she call herself out on the role she played even as a victim

Dannyxy:
tbh I don’t know, I just know, Bella too no good, she is condescending as much as Sheggs, she says mean things too, Sheggs is just more loud and imposing with his, again I say Bella is as bad a narcissist as Sheggs, both of them are also entitled, over pampered and have a over bloated sense of self…
Bella just really loves the boy, na why she dey hold back on somethings, if she falls out of love with Sheggs, she go use abuse finish him life….

My issues are not all this though, the ex allowed a narrative of him physically abusing her thrive , only to come after people have formed an opinion about Sheggs to post a similar story, even using words fans use…

Haba na, reason am…

meobizy:
Kunle has my respect for not trying anything with Daniella. That cold wey dey trigger conji, it’s shocking he didn’t use it as an excuse. I don’t think Daniella has such control.

Dannyxy:
exactly!! She is posting all we watched, she could have posted all this weeks ago, not after we watch , you now come to post a similar story, even call him “fake footballer” sef, fans slang.

How convenient for her, na my crux be, and the reason it looks like clout chasing…

Abi nobody dey understand my point ni?

Gentlefury:
The tail-end of this season finally turned out to be underwhelming. To be honest, Sheggz was a terrible enabler if Bella's bad sides, i sincerely hope he was just playing a role, if that's how he is in person, wahala dey!

Goodbye Chizzy, you understood the assignment,may more wins come your way nwanne (Sheggz & Phyna still owe you beating sha).

Rachel, please & please, men HATE drama. You don't have a right to be angry with Adekunle after clearly choosing Giddyfia, you also shouldn't be talking after making classy Diana act like a mad woman for the first time. I hope you do better going forward.

Bella, you're also lucky that Sheggz has been identified as a bad guy. All you have to do when you come out is blame Sheggz for encouraging your foul behaviour and RUN from him ASAP.

Daniella, keep your bloody legs closed and your mouth more open, you have a real spoken word talent and i would pay to hear you sing.

Phyna, 2 houses and 2 cars, REALLY?!!! Well i never believed you're ghetto or street, you just have a problem with long-term Spoken English usage. If you win,you deserve it.

Chichi, you've grown from this and i hope you get better, just work on your annoying voice!

All round a VERY good season, much better than the mess we watched last year.

Demnan:
Clout chasing or not, did he abuse her?

ToyinDipo:
Here is the conclusion of the matter, it’s calm if Bryann or Phyna wins, though I strongly believe that Bryann is winning.

Dannyxy:
exactly!! She is posting all we watched, she could have posted all this weeks ago, not after we watch , you now come to post a similar story, even call him “fake footballer” sef, fans slang.

How convenient for her, na my crux be, and the reason it looks like clout chasing…

Abi nobody dey understand my point ni?

Demnan:
Clout chasing or not, did he abuse her?

Geezeem:


She conveniently allowed it to fly... until it got very ugly. That is sheer wickedness and why I will never believe anything until Sheggz confronts this

She sounds too bitter for someone who has "healed and moved on"

But I don't know her and I don't CARE!

When I said, personally I withdraw into my shell... you shouldn't read that to mean I will stay until physically abused

In all my years of existence, no man born of a woman has ever abused me in any form

I know what love looks like, feels like and sounds like.... I've a litmus test that must be passed before I even get on with someone

Anyone who is with a bad partner, must first judge their choices and taste

Nhazeru:


I said it before that there's no way Sheggz would break that girl's leg and not get arrested. I knew she was lying. She's just chasing Clout.

Sheggz needs help
Sheggz needs therapy

I hope he gets it before it's too late.

Waiting for Sheggz to give his own account of the story thou