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Relationship Advice by GabrielVOG(op): 2:18pm On Oct 18, 2022
Hello everyone,
I’m an average guy but my girlfriend is shorter not just short but she has a small stature hoping if she will add up soon��... the true is that I really love her and she loves me too, but deep down in me I always feel if we are compatible due to her stature

Please I need an advice because the way I feel for her I’ll love to spend the rest of my life with her but still considering If it’ll affect our children?
Re: Relationship Advice by Zonefree(m): 2:23pm On Oct 18, 2022
A short Nigerian girl is a recipe for disaster. Don't say I didn't warn you.
Re: Relationship Advice by HarlequinLekex: 2:43pm On Oct 18, 2022
Love is blind sha you no no say she short before abeg park well
Re: Relationship Advice by Acidosis(m): 2:43pm On Oct 18, 2022
Zonefree:
A short Nigerian girl is a recipe for disaster. Don't say I didn't warn you.
grin grin
Re: Relationship Advice by Kobojunkie:
GabrielVOG:
Hello everyone,
I’m an average guy but my girlfriend is shorter not just short but she has a small stature hoping if she will add up soon��... the true is that I really love her and she loves me too, but deep down in me I always feel if we are compatible due to her stature

Please I need an advice because the way I feel for her I’ll love to spend the rest of my life with her but still considering If it’ll affect our children?
Is there something mentally wrong with you or something? undecided

Why date someone who, according to you, you not comfortable with stature-wise? What magic do you expect for her to perform in order to please you? Abeg, let the young woman go so she can find someone who loves her as she is, while you find yourself the stature for you elsewhere. undecided

See yeye question! undecided
Re: Relationship Advice by maureensylvia(f): 3:03pm On Oct 18, 2022
I don't think it will affect aby of your kids if you get strong genes
Kpatakpata one of ur child fit short

You should be looking at the positive side where you can easily carry her up to your waist during lovemaking grin
Re: Relationship Advice by ibechris(m): 3:05pm On Oct 18, 2022
Zonefree:
A short Nigerian girl is a recipe for disaster. Don't say I didn't warn you.
My late uncles wife is a short woman but all her children are very tall.
Re: Relationship Advice by Zonefree(m): 3:12pm On Oct 18, 2022
ibechris:
My late uncles wife is a short woman but all her children are very tall.
Your uncle is late already shocked

Hope OP is seeing this.
Re: Relationship Advice by ibechris(m): 3:14pm On Oct 18, 2022
Zonefree:
Your uncle is late already shocked

Hope OP is seeing this.
Funny u...
That is not what I meant oh.

But short people get wahala honestly.
Re: Relationship Advice by Zonefree(m): 3:14pm On Oct 18, 2022
maureensylvia:
I don't think it will affect aby of your kids if you get strong genes
Kpatakpata one of ur child fit short

You should be looking at the positive side where you can easily carry her up to your waist during lovemaking grin
@bolded

You're right. That's the only importance of short Nigerian girls to humanity. But, there's more to life after love making.
Re: Relationship Advice by Zonefree(m): 3:16pm On Oct 18, 2022
ibechris:
Funny u...
That is not what I meant oh.

But short people get wahala honestly.
If you want to have high blood pressure, date a short Nigerian girl. These people can nag from morning till night non stop.
Re: Relationship Advice by Mindlog: 3:36pm On Oct 18, 2022
GabrielVOG:
Hello everyone,
I’m an average guy but my girlfriend is shorter not just short but she has a small stature hoping if she will add up soon��... the true is that I really love her and she loves me too, but deep down in me I always feel if we are compatible due to her stature

Please I need an advice because the way I feel for her I’ll love to spend the rest of my life with her but still considering If it’ll affect our children?
Specify your height and that of your girlfriend's.
Re: Relationship Advice by GabrielVOG(op): 3:39pm On Oct 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Is there something mentally wrong with you or something? undecided

Why date someone who, according to you, are you not comfortable with statue-wise? What magic do you expect for her to perform in order to please you? Abeg, let the young woman go so she can find someone who loves her as she is, while you find yourself the stature for you elsewhere. undecided

See yeye question! undecided
I only asked for advice not insult please
Re: Relationship Advice by GabrielVOG(op): 3:42pm On Oct 18, 2022
Zonefree:
If you want to have high blood pressure, date a short Nigerian girl. These people can nag from morning till night non stop.
She’s not that kind, she is lovely, kind-hearted, God fearing and that’s the more reason why I can’t let her go �‍♂️�‍♂️She’s very cute tho in her size �
Re: Relationship Advice by Zonefree(m): 3:45pm On Oct 18, 2022
GabrielVOG:
She’s not that kind, she is lovely, kind-hearted, God fearing and that’s the more reason why I can’t let her go �‍♂️�‍♂️She’s very cute tho in her size �
The last Nigerian girl that possessed these characters died in 1967.

Na you know where you go find your girl.
Re: Relationship Advice by GabrielVOG(op):
Hmmm
Mindlog:
Specify your height and that of your girlfriend's.
5’7 but not sure about her own
Re: Relationship Advice by Nobody: 5:48pm On Oct 18, 2022
Zonefree:
A short Nigerian girl is a recipe for disaster. Don't say I didn't warn you.
But you are a short man, you are already a disaster on this forum.
Re: Relationship Advice by Zonefree(m): 5:59pm On Oct 18, 2022
Jovialjune1:
But you are a short man, you are already a disaster on this forum.
Hahaha
Lois, can't believe you're still pained after all these years grin
Re: Relationship Advice by Nobody: 6:02pm On Oct 18, 2022
Zonefree:
Hahaha
Lois, can't believe you're still pained after all these years grin
Werey alaso

Koshi lo.
Re: Relationship Advice by Helpout12345: 6:04pm On Oct 18, 2022
Scientifically, short gene is a recessive gene. Therefore there's 75pct chance that your children will have your height.

Having said that, blissful marriage is not determinant on height of the spouses. If you both love each other and she is a good person, please go ahead.

Remember that, as a woman, she will still add more flesh as time goes on. The tinyness will soon go away.
Re: Relationship Advice by GabrielVOG(op): 7:16pm On Oct 18, 2022
Helpout12345:
Scientifically, short gene is a recessive gene. Therefore there's 75pct chance that your children will have your height.

Having said that, blissful marriage is not determinant on height of the spouses. If you both love each other and she is a good person, please go ahead.

Remember that, as a woman, she will still add more flesh as time goes on. The tinyness will soon go away.
Yeah, for weight definitely will add more but for height...gosh that I don’t know �‍♂️She’s 23 now!!!
Re: Relationship Advice by ogashman(m): 7:48pm On Oct 18, 2022
GabrielVOG:
Hello everyone,
I’m an average guy but my girlfriend is shorter not just short but she has a small stature hoping if she will add up soon��... the true is that I really love her and she loves me too, but deep down in me I always feel if we are compatible due to her stature

Please I need an advice because the way I feel for her I’ll love to spend the rest of my life with her but still considering If it’ll affect our children?
U re not perfect either, there re also some areas u re deficient on.

U fit get big head or small prick, yet she no complain.....so stop talking as if u re perfect or doing her a favour
Re: Relationship Advice by frozen70(f): 9:08pm On Oct 18, 2022
GabrielVOG:
Hello everyone,
I’m an average guy but my girlfriend is shorter not just short but she has a small stature hoping if she will add up soon��... the true is that I really love her and she loves me too, but deep down in me I always feel if we are compatible due to her stature

Please I need an advice because the way I feel for her I’ll love to spend the rest of my life with her but still considering If it’ll affect our children?
Would you prefer a giant as a girl friend, yet no love existing between both of you but pretending or pretense

Assuming you are shot and she accepts the relationship, won't you take her to the next level

The most important thing her is love, not just love but true love

Dont be surprise to if everything about her stature changes

So take a good picture of both of you and keep, one day it will remind you of when you were contemplating whether to go ahead with her or drop her

By that time you will appreciate the good decision you took

As for your children, nature ans gene will complete its work on them

Havent you seen couple giving brith to Albino child, yet they are not Albino

Is because either of the great grand parents from both side once had Albino years back even before your parents were born

The most important thing is love leads other things follows
Re: Relationship Advice by Kobojunkie: 10:06pm On Oct 18, 2022
GabrielVOG:
I only asked for advice not insult please
What you need is not advice for a slap on the right side of your head so you can realize she ain't the problem....you are. undecided
Re: Relationship Advice by ZIMDRILL(m): 10:17pm On Oct 18, 2022
GabrielVOG:
Hello everyone,
I’m an average guy but my girlfriend is shorter not just short but she has a small stature hoping if she will add up soon��... the true is that I really love her and she loves me too, but deep down in me I always feel if we are compatible due to her stature

Please I need an advice because the way I feel for her I’ll love to spend the rest of my life with her but still considering If it’ll affect our children?
dont worry about small stature, you want to have a clue how she will be, just look at her mum, most women end up looking like their mum bodywise

Women gain weight due to mainly child birth a and contraceptives. Yes comfortable life also makes people gain
weight
Re: Relationship Advice by Nobody: 10:39pm On Oct 18, 2022
Please let her go.

One day you will learn to set your priorities right. grin
Re: Relationship Advice by pocohantas(f): 10:47pm On Oct 18, 2022
Mindlog:
Specify your height and that of your girlfriend's.
He said he is average. I am sure he is short. Just taller than his shorter gf.
Re: Relationship Advice by doggedfighter(f): 11:57pm On Oct 18, 2022
pocohantas:
He said he is average. I am sure he is short. Just taller than his shorter gf.
grin
Re: Relationship Advice by GabrielVOG(op): 8:30am On Oct 19, 2022
frozen70:
Would you prefer a giant as a girl friend, yet no love existing between both of you but pretending or pretense

Assuming you are shot and she accepts the relationship, won't you take her to the next level

The most important thing her is love, not just love but true love

Dont be surprise to if everything about her stature changes

So take a good picture of both of you and keep, one day it will remind you of when you were contemplating whether to go ahead with her or drop her

By that time you will appreciate the good decision you took

As for your children, nature ans gene will complete its work on them

Havent you seen couple giving brith to Albino child, yet they are not Albino

Is because either of the great grand parents from both side once had Albino years back even before your parents were born

The most important thing is love leads other things follows
This is the most advisable comment I’ve ever come across here
Re: Relationship Advice by GabrielVOG(op): 8:31am On Oct 19, 2022
ZIMDRILL:
dont worry about small stature, you want to have a clue how she will be, just look at her mum, most women end up looking like their mum bodywise

Women gain weight due to mainly child birth a and contraceptives. Yes comfortable life also makes people gain
weight
Thanks I really appreciate this
Re: Relationship Advice by GabrielVOG(op): 8:36am On Oct 19, 2022
ogashman:
U re not perfect either, there re also some areas u re deficient on.

U fit get big head or small prick, yet she no complain.....so stop talking as if u re perfect or doing her a favour
Yeah, I didn’t say I’m perfect � but I just wanted to know if such match would affect the children that’s all.....besides I love her so much ❤️
Re: Relationship Advice by Dayaa: 8:49am On Oct 19, 2022
You are only focused on physical compatibility.

Have you considered spiritual, mental and emotional compatibilities?
Do you live life by the same values?
What are your plans for the future?
Is your relationship emotionally healthy?


These are the things that define a relationship, not only physical height.
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