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Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by nicerod(m): 7:18pm On Oct 24, 2022
Tell her to always pee before having sex and sleep for 10 minutes before she will stand to clean herself.

Change ur bed

That's all I can say

Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Samfloxin(m): 9:07pm On Oct 24, 2022
isrealoski:
Funny enough i had this experience myself but it was my uncle and is wife who begged me to help them since i'm family and no child for 18 years. They already spoken with my mom she said she couldn't decide for me they should speak with me.
Did you agree?
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Dogalmighty17: 9:26pm On Oct 24, 2022
Should we tell him?

Oga, your wife is sleeping outside. This idea didn't just occur to her. She is subtly seeking a way to end your marriage. If another man gets her pregnant then you still think she'll regard you? She presently has no iota of regard for you anyways. If she did, she won't bring up this rubbish.
Imagine the unmitigated gall!

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Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by kazyhm(m): 9:36pm On Oct 24, 2022
Nobody should tell him please

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Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by CSTRR: 9:54pm On Oct 24, 2022
If that woman gets pregnant, even if it takes 10 years, unless that child is a spitting image of you that even the blind can see, please run a DNA test.

Yours is essential.

That woman get mind o, and she will do what she wants to do one way or the other.

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Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by CSTRR: 9:57pm On Oct 24, 2022
Dogalmighty17:
Should we tell him?

Oga, your wife is sleeping outside. This idea didn't just occur to her. She is subtly seeking a way to end your marriage. If another man gets her pregnant then you still think she'll regard you? She presently has no iota of regard for you anyways. If she did, she won't bring up this rubbish.
Imagine the unmitigated gall!
No single fear at all. angry

Wife wey person marry o, not a girlfriend.

She get mind tell her husband that kind nonesense in just one year of marriage.

Abomination.

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Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Nicepoker(m): 9:57pm On Oct 24, 2022
She is pregnant already and you ain't responsible grin. Send her away ASAP.

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Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by OKOATA(m): 10:46pm On Oct 24, 2022
nicerod:
Tell her to always pee before having sex and sleep for 10 minutes before she will stand to clean herself.

Change ur bed

That's all I can say
See advice, he sure me say you never fxvk pussy before, who tell you say the same hole for pissing is the same for fxvking? So you don't know women have seperate pissing hole and fxvking hole. You better go beg olosho make she open her toto for you make you observe yourself.
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by nicerod(m): 10:51pm On Oct 24, 2022
OKOATA:
See advice, he sure me say you never fxvk pussy before, who tell you say the same hole for pissing is the same for fxvking? So you don't know women have seperate pissing hole and fxvking hole. You better go beg olosho make she open her toto for you make you observe yourself.

Small boy like u ..u don't know what Yoruba people call "'eda'"


Meaning the semen will flow out immediately after a woman have sex

Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by OKOATA(m): 10:56pm On Oct 24, 2022
nicerod:


Small boy like u ..u don't know what Yoruba people call "'eda'"


Meaning the semen will flow out immediately after a woman have sex
I know about eda Mr Elder, you said she should pee before sex that's what I'm saying.
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by ghettochild(m): 11:01pm On Oct 24, 2022
U no happy say she dey ask for permission.
She could do it without u suspecting o
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by ghettochild(m): 11:01pm On Oct 24, 2022
Why not try surrogacy
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Helpout12345: 11:11pm On Oct 24, 2022
Haba! Marriage of less than 1 year? Come on.

This your story sounds very fake. I mean the part that your wife sat you down suggesting to sleep with another man to get pregnant in a marriage of less than a year.
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Helpout12345: 11:19pm On Oct 24, 2022
nicerod:


Small boy like u ..u don't know what Yoruba people call "'eda'"


Meaning the semen will flow out immediately after a woman have sex

That "eda" has no scientific backing. The virginal has fluid that aid the spermatozoans to swim to the fallopian tube where fertilization occurs.

There are millions of spermatozoans in a drop of an healthy man's semen, and only one is required to get to the egg of the woman for fertilization to occur.

Once the semen touches any part of the virginal, even if the woman stands up immediately and semen flows out, she will still get pregnant normally, if both partners are fertile and she is on ovulation.

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Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by LOVEGINO(m): 11:33pm On Oct 24, 2022
Onepointfiveodds:
I really do not know who to talk to rn and this has been disturbing me. I am so confused rn.

Our marriage is less than a year, we are not pregnant yet and my wife sat me down to discuss the issue last week. She said i should allow her try with another man outside our marriage to see if she will be pregnant. I asked if she's asking for a divorce and she said no, she wants to try with another man while still married to me.

Why she'll come up with something like that and even had the guts to tell me still baffles me. We've gone for series of tests in a space of 7months and nothing seems to be wrong with me.

I just can't keep the discussion out of my head. I'm so scared for her rn and i dont know what to do.



if I be ur father, na to disown u. So u no fit try with another woman?

Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Rickmann: 11:39pm On Oct 24, 2022
Karleb:
I swear, I am landing her a hot slap for saying that.

You can take me to jail afterwards.

Omo, the thing tire me sef.
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by culf: 12:19am On Oct 25, 2022
Onepointfiveodds:
I really do not know who to talk to rn and this has been disturbing me. I am so confused rn.

Our marriage is less than a year, we are not pregnant yet and my wife sat me down to discuss the issue last week. She said i should allow her try with another man outside our marriage to see if she will be pregnant. I asked if she's asking for a divorce and she said no, she wants to try with another man while still married to me.

Why she'll come up with something like that and even had the guts to tell me still baffles me. We've gone for series of tests in a space of 7months and nothing seems to be wrong with me.

I just can't keep the discussion out of my head. I'm so scared for her rn and i dont know what to do.




are you sure she has not ready tried. she is not a prudent wife; sorry.
Becareful of the pregnancy she will bring home to you.

she might be cheating already.

may God see you guys through
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Maynman: 12:34am On Oct 25, 2022
Onepointfiveodds:
I really do not know who to talk to rn and this has been disturbing me. I am so confused rn.

Our marriage is less than a year, we are not pregnant yet and my wife sat me down to discuss the issue last week. She said i should allow her try with another man outside our marriage to see if she will be pregnant. I asked if she's asking for a divorce and she said no, she wants to try with another man while still married to me.

Why she'll come up with something like that and even had the guts to tell me still baffles me. We've gone for series of tests in a space of 7months and nothing seems to be wrong with me.

I just can't keep the discussion out of my head. I'm so scared for her rn and i dont know what to do.



For her to even bring that suggestion, the marriage is DOOMED.
You agree or not, she’s gonna do it that’s if she has not yet started, and if you ask the man he want to try it with, she will probably mention her EX cheesy

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Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by manmade(m): 2:25am On Oct 25, 2022
She is already trying another man ,she only needs your validation of the act .know this and know peace.
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Corporate2020: 4:39am On Oct 25, 2022
This one married an Olosho who will never retire. Definitely, she is still sleeping around, she just came to tell you in case you hear from outside.

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Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Corporate2020: 4:40am On Oct 25, 2022
Eriokanmi:
This story might sound fake but it happens. Tell your wife to present the case to God. Both of you must be involved in this. Not every case requires medical solutions

You have mental problems. Present Olosho's case to God?
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by isrealoski(m): 4:45am On Oct 25, 2022
Samfloxin:

Did you agree?
i could not imagine looking my aunt in the face after for the rest of my life so I said no. But i nearly agreed
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by mrblessed(m): 5:50am On Oct 25, 2022
This kind wife eh. She has already informed you about her willingness to sleep with another man, and your now apparent inability to get her pregnant. I don't think any amount of talk will talk her out of this decision.
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by falcon01: 5:57am On Oct 25, 2022
Onepointfiveodds:
I really do not know who to talk to rn and this has been disturbing me. I am so confused rn.

Our marriage is less than a year, we are not pregnant yet and my wife sat me down to discuss the issue last week. She said i should allow her try with another man outside our marriage to see if she will be pregnant. I asked if she's asking for a divorce and she said no, she wants to try with another man while still married to me.

Why she'll come up with something like that and even had the guts to tell me still baffles me. We've gone for series of tests in a space of 7months and nothing seems to be wrong with me.

I just can't keep the discussion out of my head. I'm so scared for her rn and i dont know what to do.



she's been fantasising about another man's dick! Else why in the hell will she jump like 5 easier and morally ethical and acceptable ways and straight to fornication? Just sit her down and talk to her, why didn't she think of other processes that sounds right? is there someone she's been fantasising on straffing? To even say that to you is a disrespect to your legacy except if y'all have an open Marriage. Man stand up and talk to her before she starts going crazy and fuxking around with people.
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by maco22(m): 6:14am On Oct 25, 2022
Why don’t you ask her who she has in mind - this will let you have an idea of her true intentions.
Then tell her to give you time to think about it and you wait.

There is no pressure in the first few years and you guys should use this to enjoy yourself and go out and come in together whenever you like without worrying about a child. This time should be used to save money as well
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Nobody: 6:15am On Oct 25, 2022
What kind of men do we have these days? God!!!

Your wife suggested this kind of thing, you didn't call a family meeting on her and send her back to her family, you're here saying you're afraid for her? Na wa ooo... Some men mumu na follow come.

For her to even conceive such in her heart shows she's not a sensible human being. Now telling you to let her do it, simply shows she never married you to stay faithful and loyal but just to answer married or escape society pressure. It's the same attitude that is playing out again. To escape pressure of being tagged childless and she can do anything.

Just consider yourself umarried and know that any child she bare for you now is not yours. Someone with that kind of mindset can do and undo.

Una dey marry o.

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Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by GboyegaD(m): 6:40am On Oct 25, 2022
What is important to get in the marriage? You or children, you both need decide.
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by udede(m): 8:13am On Oct 25, 2022
The truth is that your marriage with your wife has ended because of the following.
1, You sound like a wife- over-pleasing gentleman and your wife took advantage and labelled you a simp.

2. She just want your permission to go after men.

3, i may be wrong, but if I'm wrong then, its clear you married a very stupid loose woman.


4. If a woman could suggest something like this to you after just about one year of marriage, YOU NEED TO DISCUSS DIVORCE WITH HER. she has no respect for you.

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Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by crackhouse(m): 8:21am On Oct 25, 2022
Olosho dey her eyes..
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Eriokanmi: 9:09am On Oct 25, 2022
Corporate2020:


You have mental problems. Present Olosho's case to God?
If you're Christian, you'd must have learnt of the woman brought to Jesus who was caught in the act of adultery. You're not perfect yourself and there's nothing God can't change. That's her past which everyone is also guilty of, in one way or the other.
By the way, learn how to be civil with your post next time. Being insulting would only expose you and your manners

Seun
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Nlfp-mod

Kindly take note.
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Riverrun: 9:47am On Oct 25, 2022
Onepointfiveodds:
I really do not know who to talk to rn and this has been disturbing me. I am so confused rn.

Our marriage is less than a year, we are not pregnant yet and my wife sat me down to discuss the issue last week. She said i should allow her try with another man outside our marriage to see if she will be pregnant. I asked if she's asking for a divorce and she said no, she wants to try with another man while still married to me.

Why she'll come up with something like that and even had the guts to tell me still baffles me. We've gone for series of tests in a space of 7months and nothing seems to be wrong with me.

I just can't keep the discussion out of my head. I'm so scared for her rn and i dont know what to do.





Hmmmmmmmn,

You have been married for less than one year and you have had series of test in a space of 7months? Waoh.

This is not good for both of you. Stress and anxiety alone sef may cause delay in taking in.

I advise you to relax and forget about the issue. Do your things as a normal being and eat well. It will come.

As for your wife, since the only real solution to her is to open her mouth without fear to suggest going to try another man when she hasn't even being with you for 18months as advised by medicine, therefore insinuating that you are impotent and absolving herself from any blame.

Tell her to wait first, let you go and try with another woman just once or twice to confirm her insult. If the woman you tried with didn't take in highest 2month then you guys can go your separate ways instead of her to stay in your house to constitute such nuisance.
Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by gbengaeed(m): 11:28am On Oct 25, 2022
You might not like my word but its the truth, if all you type here are not fake then she has already try herself outside and discover that some things are not right with you, she is only looking for your approval to bring-in a bastard.

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