SpearofGod:
Hello Nlanders, this early morning my neighbor woke me up and told me how he secretly check his wife's Facebook account and saw amorous conversations the wife had with a friend from the other end. From the conversation, he saw that the wife had slept with the guy in a car three times. This is a marriage that has been blessed with four kids. My neighbor in question is a pastor in one of the big churches in SOUTH-SOUTH Nigeria. He told me the founder of the church in which he pastors will never grant him the approval to divorce this slothful woman . He's asking my advice on the civil and easy way to part way with this LovePeddler of a woman without having any negative effects on his calling and ministry. Mynd44, nlfmod, please do the needful.

dawnomike:
Simply, he should take her out to a cool place like and eatery... And disclose his findings to her.
They should both agree on separation without affecting the kids. They can even continue to live under the same roof and mind their own business.

SpearofGod:

He's asking my advice on the civil and easy way to part way with this LovePeddler of a woman without having any negative effects on his calling and ministry. Mynd44, nlfmod, please do the needful.

HarlequinLekex:
Nairalanders can form ehnn,just say u are the husband and she is the wife.There is no crime in it,all in all na to get solution to the issue at hand

HarlequinLekex:
How come dey meet in the first place?
Was the husband a pastor before they married?

Righteousness2:
Very unfortunate and painful experience.
He needs to seek counsel from matured Godly minds before he takes any decision.
He should not be quick to divorce.

If you insists on going for a divorce, I believe you know you cannot marry another woman as that will be Adultery.

Tell him to Seek Godly Counseling.

redseason:


Please re-read Mathew 19:9, slowly this time. Infidelity clearly frees the faithful partner to remarry. If one puts his wife away and remarries another, it’s adultery, except the reason for putting her away is infidelity.

9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery

Batam:

You are the one misinterpreting the verse, the verse gave a condition with a clause that if you put away an adulterous wife and marry another woman, you are also guilty of adultery also.
Read 1 corinthians 7"39

Righteousness2:
Very unfortunate and painful experience.
He needs to seek counsel from matured Godly minds before he takes any decision.
He should not be quick to divorce.

If you insists on going for a divorce, I believe you know you cannot marry another woman as that will be Adultery.

Tell him to Seek Godly Counseling.

SpearofGod:
Hello Nlanders, this early morning my neighbor woke me up and told me how he secretly check his wife's Facebook account and saw amorous conversations the wife had with a friend from the other end. From the conversation, he saw that the wife had slept with the guy in a car three times. This is a marriage that has been blessed with four kids. My neighbor in question is a pastor in one of the big churches in SOUTH-SOUTH Nigeria. He told me the founder of the church in which he pastors will never grant him the approval to divorce this slothful woman . He's asking my advice on the civil and easy way to part way with this LovePeddler of a woman without having any negative effects on his calling and ministry. Mynd44, nlfmod, please do the needful.

redseason:


Please re-read Mathew 19:9, slowly this time. Infidelity clearly frees the faithful partner to remarry. If one puts his wife away and remarries another, it’s adultery, except the reason for putting her away is infidelity.

9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery

RedpillAnalyst:


I respect your view for the most part.

Marriage is over the moment a woman successfully open her thighs for another man to inseminate her.

The man will be punished eternally unless the cheating LovePeddler suddenly fall to her death?

RedpillAnalyst:


I respect your view for the most part.

Marriage is over the moment a woman successfully open her thighs for another man to inseminate her.

The man will be punished eternally unless the cheating LovePeddler suddenly fall to her death?

redseason:


You are wrong sir! It’s simply English and not my misrepresentation!
Another verse:
Matthew 5:31-32
“Furthermore it has been said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.

From the above, it is very clear that remarriage after divorce is adultery except it was in a case where infidelity is established. A lot of Nigerian GOs of old were the ones that actually misrepresented this and foisted it on their followers like you.

”whoever takes sugar, except in instances where honey is unavailable, endangers his health”.
Again, these are the words of Jesus, not the words of Paul, who most times clearly stated that he was speaking not of God, but by his understanding!