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OdefaGirl:
By their comments, you spot them.... It's not difficult. It irritates me, so I speak up, simple.

Sounds as if u have a lot of anger in your veins.........calm down oo

allen113:
Two nonsense couples, even if they like they should marry another person if the health challenge is still there, they will still not have children. Why not try adoption ??l?

And you think adoption is the solution?

Husband sef dey get fault

allen113:
Two nonsense couples, even if they like they should marry another person if the health challenge is still there, they will still not have children. Why not try adoption

Pls allow people to follow their hearts

As expected, so much jargons as comments on this post.

See them telling us how marriage is not about childbearing but some rubbish companionship! It's either some of you chose to type just to appear woke or you're completely out of touch with reality.

A man's major aim of getting married is to bear children and pass on his genes in the confines of family institution.

That is why men are made to work hard and make money before getting married so as to be able to cater for his offspring. If not for children, what will I be needing a woman for There are so many better options of companionships out there.

I have had cases like this before where the man went on to marry another lady and began having children immediately. In fact, one of such incidences happened in this same Abuja and to an uncle of mine.

Joe4real1988:
Sounds as if u have a lot of anger in your veins.........calm down oo

Stupidity is something people should try to outgrow, it's not to be applauded especially those who are expected to be reasonable.

VeryWickedGoat:
Barren women deserve to be single. Stop stressing innocent men.

You are a complete waste to your generation. Why wish barren women loneliness? What if the fault is from the man's sperm. I hope there are no baren women in your family tree. God should give every woman the fruit of the womb. Love between husband and wife is made stronger with children. They should have opted for adoption or ivf.

14yrs marriage? They must have adopt IVF.

IyaTola:

There is IVF
They could adopt
Africans

Good way to go instead of hearing that one killed the other....

allen113:
Two nonsense couples, even if they like they should marry another person if the health challenge is still there, they will still not have children. Why not try adoption

Easier said than done.. I wish you were the one in the shoes.. Ote

Kobojunkie:
I don't understand. God never promised all couples would have children in marriage. Neither did God state that children are a must in marriage. As a matter of fact, many are created Eunuchs from their birth while others become Eunuchs in this world - all this by God's design. So don't you see how all those who make it a big whoop when there are no kids in their marriage are the problem here...this since they refuse reality and options available to them instead?

I don't think God had intentions of changing His plan even at this point. So best you talk to those you know to seek alternative methods that are available instead of stressing themselves over that which is no fault if theirs .

Are you married at all.. Cos the way you talk dey vex me Gan..
Get married and stay childless for 4 years minimum, you go know wetin dey

OdefaGirl:
Stupidity is something people should try to outgrow, it's not to be applauded especially those who are expected to be reasonable.

Smiles......easy abeg lol. U know we are all human and we reason/behave differently and u can't change that fact. If we start to dey reason our fellow human way eh, we for dey commit murder everyday . Have u wondered why some people are still clamouring for any APC after what they have put the country through all these years?

Lama70:
Too sad. May God remember every marriage looking unto Him for the fruit of the womb.

Amen

VeryWickedGoat:
Barren women deserve to be single. Stop stressing innocent men.

You're just an illiterate. Go to school and get a few knowledge

It is very easy to identify those who never went to school. It's not your fault. I can't blame you for that.
Bros , let me educate you so that you'll stop washing your dirty l...in the public.
Some men have zero sperm count. I'm sure you have never heard this before. Don't worry. There is always a first time.
Nairalanders should learn to educate the less privileged not insult them.

VeryWickedGoat:
Barren women deserve to be single. Stop stressing innocent men.

Jovialjune1:
What if it is the husband that was infertile?

Stupid.

Infertile indeed

Sorry o, Dr jegede

You have taken different concoctions, Have you tried IVF?

So sad, a one time beautiful thing destroyed by childlessness. A friend once said that children is the sweetness of a home and never i doubted it.
Please let us be concious of what we do in our youth. Sometimes fertility issues are as a result of what we could have avoided.
Imagine the woman saying she has taken all manner of concoctions, what if the man has a low sperm count or no sperm at all?

[quote author=OdefaGirl post=118270154]


You are a mumu, 75% of infertility comes from the men but as African culture projects.... it's the women who are looked at as "barren"...
Funniest, most men don't like seeking for solutions....
You are childish[/quote][quote author=jessylaurel post=118271702]

You're just an illiterate. Go to school and get a few knowledge[/quote]There are a lot of barren women in this forum.

Lama70:
Yours is a new teaching, different from what I have heard and known over the years.

I must agree that you have the right to your opinion. Wether that opinion would be validated or agreed to by those listening or reading is a different thing.

Finally, I will encourage that you give prominence to this your thoughts so that more people will be aware of it. If not, your decision to troll me will just amount to "winking in the dark". Only you know what you are doing. No one else.

Regards!

He is very correct tho...

I think we are getting this religion thing all wrong!

We place undue pressure on couples to birth children to the point that their homes become sapped of love and companionship. Even when the kids finally come, the bond never gets restored! This is quite wrong!

This country needs to work on adoption laws, and remove the intricacies involved... Let couples who can't have kids in their first 2 to 3 years of marriage be able to easily adopt!

Believe me, if this couple had done this, the marriage wouldn't have suffered this much!

Finally, every woman should never be pressured to get pregnant... That's just silly and barbaric... Y'all should quit stigmatizing women unable to birth kids! It's traumatizing and criminal!

Joe4real1988:
Smiles......easy abeg lol. U know we are all human and we reason/behave differently and u can't change that fact. If we start to dey reason our fellow human way eh, we for dey commit murder everyday . Have u wondered why some people are still clamouring for any APC after what they have put the country through all these years?

And you think such people should not be confronted? If we have high number of foolish people on our cyber space, it's calamity calling. Don't be afraid of confronting them with facts, corrections and a little spice of gbas gbos.... They need to reason like humans or else leave the space for humans because animals don't use the cyber space.

Jman06:
As expected, so much jargons as comments on this post.

See them telling us how marriage is not about childbearing but some rubbish companionship! It's either some of you chose to type just to appear woke or you're completely out of touch with reality.

A man's major aim of getting married is to bear children and pass on his genes in the confines of family institution.

That is why men are made to work hard and make money before getting married so as to be able to cater for his offspring. If not for children, what will I be needing a woman for There are so many better options of companionships out there.

I have had cases like this before where the man went on to marry another lady and began having children immediately. In fact, one of such incidences happened in this same Abuja and to an uncle of mine.

I have seen cases of women going on to have kids with other men after leaving the marriage too...

...Why didn't you mention this too?!!

I guess in your misogynistic book, it cannot be the man's fault because he is the forced provider!

Guy, abeg shift!!!

[quote author=Angelfrost post=118272891]He is very correct tho...

I think we are getting this religion thing all wrong!

We place undue pressure on couples to birth children to the point that their homes become sapped of love and companionship. Even when the kids finally come, the bond never gets restored! This is quite wrong!

This country needs to work on adoption laws, and remove the intricacies involved... Let couples who can't have kids in their first 2 to 3 years of marriage be able to easily adopt!

Believe me, if this couple had done this, the marriage wouldn't have suffered this much!

Finally, every woman should never be pressured to get pregnant... That's just silly and barbaric... Y'all should quit stigmatizing women unable to birth kids! It's traumatizing and criminal![/quote


This is interesting. Apostles of new method of thinking owe the world one thing. Education. Please educate and save the world from this perceived stigmatization by way of continuous writing, public lectures or writing a revolutionary book on the subject matter.

Who knows? You may just revolutionize the world. Good luck to you!

Angelfrost:
I have seen cases of women going on to have kids with other men after leaving the marriage too...

...Why didn't you mention this too?!!

I guess in your misogynistic book, it cannot be the man's fault because he is the forced provider!

Guy, abeg shift!!!

Leave matter for Mathias! We know how this things dey go. Many of you like to find means to make the man believe the fault is from him. They'll start putting the man through all sorts of humiliations in the name of treating him of infertility. Only typical SIMPs take such humiliations though. Real men look for younger and more fertile ladies and sire their offsprings.

That case of an uncle here in Abuja that I mentioned in my previous post, the ex wife so humiliated him to the point of bringing another man into their matrimonial home claiming he's her cousin. But they were busy having secs in the man's house until the bubbles burst, yet she could not conceive. That was the proverbial needle that broke the camel's back.

Immediately they parted ways, the man went to our village and married a younger girl and today he's blessed with 3 kids.

OdefaGirl:
And you think such people should not be confronted? If we have high number of foolish people on our cyber space, it's calamity calling. Don't be afraid of confronting them with facts, corrections and a little spice of gbas gbos.... They need to reason like humans or else leave the space for humans because animals don't use the cyber space.

Hahahahahaha u go kill me with laughter aswear. Be frank, u be female?

bluestone2015:
It is very easy to identify those who never went to school. It's not your fault. I can't blame you for that.
Bros , let me educate you so that you'll stop washing your dirty l...in the public.
Some men have zero sperm count. I'm sure you have never heard this before. Don't worry. There is always a first time.
Nairalanders should learn to educate the less privileged not insult them.

Cases of zero sperm count are very rare and in most of such cases, there's an underlying genetic disorder.

The bulk of childlessness among couples result from failure of the woman's eggs to get fertilized by the man's sperm and also failure of fertilized eggs to get implanted on to the woman's womb.

So sad!!!..

14 years of togetherness but ends with so much pain.

God, you are powerful and you know why you didn't blessed them with child.

Anyway, I thank God, after 4yrs, my wife delivered but we loss the baby again.

Which means we still have hope that she may conceive again.


To all couples out there looking for fruit of the womb, God do your miracles on them

Jovialjune1:
What if it is the husband that was infertile?

Stupid.

what if:
Is a statement!!
An unconditional one

VeryWickedGoat:
There are a lot of barren women in this forum.

Very useless ( wicked) HE-GOAT

Lama70:
Yours is a new teaching, different from what I have heard and known over the years.

I must agree that you have the right to your opinion. Wether that opinion would be validated or agreed to by those listening or reading is a different thing.

Finally, I will encourage that you give prominence to this your thoughts so that more people will be aware of it. If not, your decision to troll me will just amount to "winking in the dark". Only you know what you are doing. No one else.

Regards!

Validation isn't by listeners but in this case by the Word of the one who is God, to whom you claim to pray to on behalf of the barren. And as made clear, God created some Eunuchs from birth and had some others become Eunuchs in this life. So why do you insist that all must have kids in marriage.

Was it your intention to troll me when you responded to my post? Don't get all bunched up in a wad simply because someone responds to your comment. Many probably don't care about you as an individual but are drawn by the claim made to responding and move on when done making their point.

OdefaGirl:
His prayer is precise.... I thought you get sense?

If you get sense, you will tailor your prayer according to God's Word and not against it.

tollyboy5:
They lost interest due to childlessness. The person you quoted is right.

They lost interest is the main issue. Childlessness, there are many other solutions for.