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Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by Haveyoueatentod: 7:17am On Nov 11, 2022
Don't take her serious na konji dey cloud her thinking and when your boss finds out he will see you as an Agbaya taking advantage of his niece and your relationship with your boss may be ruined. Do your investigations you will find out she has multiple guys on the side. At that age she is an ultra Hot homosapien specie.
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by Jayden001(op): 8:00am On Nov 11, 2022
Haveyoueatentod:
Don't take her serious na konji dey cloud her thinking and when your boss finds out he will see you as an Agbaya taking advantage of his niece and your relationship with your boss may be ruined. Do your investigations you will find out she has multiple guys on the side. At that age she is an ultra Hot homosapien specie.
she doesn't have another guy at the moment. Though she's dated one before... Na long story Shaa
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by DanAugust2021: 8:10am On Nov 11, 2022
CanineOfJackal:
How a 31 year old opens his dirty mouth that he is in love with a 1u year old?


Shame on you.

You are a pedophile and a psychopath who enjoys cradle sex.
You ended up saying nothing.
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by jeromestarks: 10:03am On Nov 11, 2022
Problem dey disguise like peace.

My brother, her toto dey scratch her. Disvirgin ( that's if she's one) her and her eye go clear.


On a second thought, you either choose this girl or your job. Choose one now.
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by IslamIsIdiotic: 10:06am On Nov 11, 2022
All I will say is that there's a reason why your post was moved to the crime section

Jayden001:
I'm 31 and I'm in love with my boss's 17 year old niece. At first I just liked her and we just talk anytime we see. But she became overly friendly and always wanted to visit me in my house. She asked if she could come over for many days which I always carefully decline cos I was just ashamed and scared of moving around with a teenager. I know from all angles that we are not mates but this girl is not buying any of that. She doesn't see anything wrong in dating me! She doesn't know my age too but she doesn't seem to care.

She finally came to my place and we were talking when another lady called me. She got angry afterwards and demanded to know who the phone girl was to me. I told her she's my ex (exact truth though) but she was still acting up. She said she wouldn't say anything because she knows I don't like her. I was confused as to where she was driving at.

Well, after some obvious green lights, I told her I love her and she asked what took me so long to say it. That she's been loving me from day one shocked huh

I asked her how old she is and she said 17. At that point I knew it wouldn't work considering the age difference. But this girl has left me in my thoughts. She has told her mom about me but I still don't want to show up cos her mom may just flare up why she's dating a grown up man of all people.

Her uncle, my boss doesn't know about it either and I don't think I will ever have the gut to tell him about it. She's doesn't even care about what anyone might say. Said I should forget about her uncle that he's not the one to chose a husband for her.

She's pushing for some medical compatibility test right now. Like I don't know how to handle the whole stuff.

I love her so much. The only problem I see here is the age difference.
I'm just afraid; what will her people say of me.
Her uncle is a nice person though and he may not have any problem with it; her mum too

But, I'm just afraid cos I hate insults
What do u guys think?
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by Unrated900(m): 10:09am On Nov 11, 2022
You see jail for ur front
Yet u wan enter jail
Wish u luck in entering it
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by McCoy662(m): 10:54am On Nov 11, 2022
grin
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by McCoy662(m): 10:58am On Nov 11, 2022
grin
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by Tzar91: 11:47am On Nov 11, 2022
NL feminist will come after ur head i bet u
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by Berezuski: 12:09pm On Nov 11, 2022
That's not love
It's infatuation
Soon, both of you will understand.
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by Cooleeey: 1:46pm On Nov 11, 2022
She carry me go O, Where I no know O

Op,Don't let your di.ck or that girl carry u to prison
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by realestate99: 2:29pm On Nov 11, 2022
CanineOfJackal:
How a 31 year old opens his dirty mouth that he is in love with a 1u year old?


Shame on you.

You are a pedophile and a psychopath who enjoys cradle sex.
You know in life, a man's life is not designed to be 100% settled, man needs violence and challenges to make life more fun, but in a hell hole like Nigeria, the worst you can do for yourself is to go to jail, one's life is paused. And unfortunately, that is the direction OP is navigating to.
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by Chnbanc: 2:32pm On Nov 11, 2022
siofra:
Thank God I didn't marry the person I thought I was in love with at 17 grin it would have been a disaster.

She's just 17, her blood is hot, her hormones are raging. If you guys love each other very much as you claim, waiting for two or three more years will not be an issue.
no be today u don dey distribute kpekus!!
Awon 17 love
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by adecz: 2:46pm On Nov 11, 2022
14 years difference is no big deal
if you have genuine plans of marriage
for her.☑️☑️

By the time you're 44, she is 30 years.

Buhari is 85 & his wife is about 50
years old.

♥♥Love conquers everything♥♥
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by Das1mama: 3:05pm On Nov 11, 2022
siofra:
Thank God I didn't marry the person I thought I was in love with at 17 grin it would have been a disaster.

She's just 17, her blood is hot, her hormones are raging. If you guys love each other very much as you claim, waiting for two or three more years will not be an issue.
Your observations are double edge swords! be specific and more direct!!
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by Nobody: 3:41pm On Nov 11, 2022
Jayden001:
shocked
The girl doesn't look her age, I thought she was 21 or so
Guy bone am

She's 17 not 18,she's underage
Plus

She's related to someone who puts food on ur table

If the boss vex,u fit lose ur job or work and to feed go hard... your boss won't accept such considering the age and ur income(see finish)
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by ModCaller: 4:56pm On Nov 11, 2022
He put am for crime section.

LWKMD. grin
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by Nobody: 5:39pm On Nov 11, 2022
Jayden001:
I'm 31 and I'm in love with my boss's 17 year old niece. At first I just liked her and we just talk anytime we see. But she became overly friendly and always wanted to visit me in my house. She asked if she could come over for many days which I always carefully decline cos I was just ashamed and scared of moving around with a teenager. I know from all angles that we are not mates but this girl is not buying any of that. She doesn't see anything wrong in dating me! She doesn't know my age too but she doesn't seem to care.

She finally came to my place and we were talking when another lady called me. She got angry afterwards and demanded to know who the phone girl was to me. I told her she's my ex (exact truth though) but she was still acting up. She said she wouldn't say anything because she knows I don't like her. I was confused as to where she was driving at.

Well, after some obvious green lights, I told her I love her and she asked what took me so long to say it. That she's been loving me from day one shocked huh

I asked her how old she is and she said 17. At that point I knew it wouldn't work considering the age difference. But this girl has left me in my thoughts. She has told her mom about me but I still don't want to show up cos her mom may just flare up why she's dating a grown up man of all people.

Her uncle, my boss doesn't know about it either and I don't think I will ever have the gut to tell him about it. She's doesn't even care about what anyone might say. Said I should forget about her uncle that he's not the one to chose a husband for her.

She's pushing for some medical compatibility test right now. Like I don't know how to handle the whole stuff.

I love her so much. The only problem I see here is the age difference.
I'm just afraid; what will her people say of me.
Her uncle is a nice person though and he may not have any problem with it; her mum too

But, I'm just afraid cos I hate insults
What do u guys think?
In as much as I don't like early marriage, I'm on the side of women getting married before the age of 27. At this age , she would have had enough experience to take decisions and build a home.

17 years is to early, if you truly love her you will allow her to get the basic foundation of tertiary education. At least a bsc.
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by lexylaw40: 6:27pm On Nov 11, 2022
Mugu Bleep the bitch ....you can even Mary her later ..it's no crime wake up
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by Nobody: 11:37pm On Nov 11, 2022
Abeg sniper be your new malt palm oil is a big sin don't go near it or just hug transformer now next question wetin you gonna tell god when u see him

Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by stacyadams: 11:27am On Nov 12, 2022
realestate99:
You know in life, a man's life is not designed to be 100% settled, man needs violence and challenges to make life more fun, but in a hell hole like Nigeria, the worst you can do for yourself is to go to jail, one's life is paused. And unfortunately, that is the direction OP is navigating to.
And unfortunately, that is the direction Op is navigating to at a full speed grin
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by MufasaLion: 2:57pm On Nov 12, 2022
I'll be here to read your arrest, trial and sentencing!!!

Shameless pedophile!
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by MufasaLion: 2:59pm On Nov 12, 2022
adecz:
14 years difference is no big deal
if you have genuine plans of marriage
for her.☑️☑️

By the time you're 44, she is 30 years.

Buhari is 85 & his wife is about 50
years old.

♥♥Love conquers everything♥♥
You're a potential pedophile. The girl is a minor!
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by Jayden001(op): 3:21pm On Nov 12, 2022
MufasaLion:
I'll be here to read your arrest, trial and sentencing!!!

Shameless pedophile!
unfortunately I'm not planning on sleeping with her now if at all. Ur plans must fail.
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by Crenzywilliams(m): 3:53pm On Nov 12, 2022
To put this mildly I will simply say, “guy, na konji de worry you”.
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by adecz: 3:59pm On Nov 12, 2022
MufasaLion:
You're a potential pedophile. The girl is a minor!
You are suffering from colonial
mentality to think that because oyibo
says so, a 17 years old girl is a baby.

Go and ask your grand mother and
great grandma at what age she was
married out.

Then all Muslim Northerners are
pedophiles. A serving senator married
a 13 year old.
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by fadal(m): 4:25pm On Nov 12, 2022
ME TOO BUT HERE IS TOGO U GET A RAPED CASE IF U TRYNA CHASE HER
Re: At 31, I'm In Love With A Teenager! Help. by Nokio1: 4:48pm On Nov 12, 2022
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