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Depression And Lack Is Killing Me And Family Slowly by Vally007(op):
Life is just really NOT fair especially when you don't have connection/helper to lift you up when you down in the valley! Everyday I pity my kids and wife because of this phase of life. I have really endured and suffered alot this period. Since I loss my job some years ago ( even though it didn't last) I have really looked for another job again severally but to no avail. I have good driving skills. I was driving a minibus bus for hire purchase in Asaba before the woman's hubby took the bus because of marital problems between them. Lack of money is really killing me and my family slowly. Due to lack of food, ulcer has set in for me. I have prayed and believe God severally for a change. I hope I survive this phase. No connection and lack of money for start up. My kids are even out of school as I write! Oh Lord have mercy on me and my family! To feed my family is even a problem let alone sending them back to school! Any help out there please?
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Re: Depression And Lack Is Killing Me And Family Slowly by general111(m): 9:06am On Nov 13, 2022
Kai..
I dont think you are lying, i wish i had money to support you..
God will help you sir
Re: Depression And Lack Is Killing Me And Family Slowly by Resourcesswift: 9:10am On Nov 13, 2022
U rushed into marriage....
Now u are regretting cos u cannot fend for ya family's need!!
U better go and source means for your family survival. Even it means doing menial jobs
Re: Depression And Lack Is Killing Me And Family Slowly by Resourcesswift: 9:10am On Nov 13, 2022
general111:
Kai..
I dont think you are lying, i wish i had money to support you..
God will help you sir
Your fellow depressed cartel.
Re: Depression And Lack Is Killing Me And Family Slowly by Vally007(op): 9:13am On Nov 13, 2022
Resourcesswift:
U rushed into marriage....
Now u are regretting cos u cannot fend for ya family's need!!
U better go and source means for your family survival. Even it means doing menial jobs
Boss sorry, you don't understand this life very well!
Re: Depression And Lack Is Killing Me And Family Slowly by general111(m): 9:13am On Nov 13, 2022
Resourcesswift:
Your fellow depressed cartel.
shift.
Re: Depression And Lack Is Killing Me And Family Slowly by general111(m): 9:14am On Nov 13, 2022
Vally007:
Boss sorry, you don't understand this life very well!
kindly ignore him..
He thinks life will always go as planned.
Re: Depression And Lack Is Killing Me And Family Slowly by Resourcesswift: 9:18am On Nov 13, 2022
general111:
shift.
if to say, u kill yaself da year, u for type this shift?
You simp
Re: Depression And Lack Is Killing Me And Family Slowly by Resourcesswift: 9:20am On Nov 13, 2022
Vally007:
Boss sorry, you don't understand this life very well!
ok.
Na u understand the life very well?
Abeg explain am give me!
Re: Depression And Lack Is Killing Me And Family Slowly by Vally007(op): 11:02am On Nov 13, 2022
Resourcesswift:
ok.
Na u understand the life very well?
Abeg explain am give me!
Please forget it.
Re: Depression And Lack Is Killing Me And Family Slowly by Jozilinn: 6:25pm On Nov 13, 2022
Don't you have any skills like mechanic or electrical work,try asking for help from your church so you would pay back slowly or even try getting a loan to start selling diesel and fuel in the roadside for starters, there's money in the business... Were you not saving during your period of work, besides what does your wife do for a living, she should also ask her family for help too...if you're serious you would see something.
Re: Depression And Lack Is Killing Me And Family Slowly by zumbigbo(m): 10:31pm On Nov 13, 2022
Resourcesswift:
ok.
Na u understand the life very well?
Abeg explain am give me!
You don't. There are some who never see sunrise no matter how early they rise.
Re: Depression And Lack Is Killing Me And Family Slowly by Resourcesswift: 10:34pm On Nov 13, 2022
zumbigbo:
You don't. There are some who never see sunrise no matter how early they rise.
this one na proverb
Re: Depression And Lack Is Killing Me And Family Slowly by tensazangetsu20(m): 12:07am On Nov 14, 2022
Marriage is very scary especially with the stories of nairalanders and experiences of people around me. The suffering people are passing through is legendary and worst with innocent children.

Damn op I went through your past posts. You have a good degree and a good grade. I really wish I could help. At a point in 2015 you were looking to invest 2 million into a business in Nigeria. You should have japaed with that money. That was like 10k usd then at black market exchange rate.

I really pray God comes through for you. I don't like it when kids suffer.
Re: Depression And Lack Is Killing Me And Family Slowly by Nobody:
tensazangetsu20:
Marriage is very scary especially with the stories of nairalanders and experiences of people around me. The suffering people are passing through is legendary and worst with innocent children.

Damn op I went through your past posts. You have a good degree and a good grade. I really wish I could help. At a point in 2015 you were looking to invest 2 million into a business in Nigeria. You should have japaed with that money. That was like 10k usd then at black market exchange rate.

I really pray God comes through for you. I don't like it when kids suffer.
You've got time consoling with people like this. The first thing that comes to a "Typical Nigerian Men" mind when they start seeing "Small Change" Is marriage. Their own version of MATRIX Is out of this World..
Re: Depression And Lack Is Killing Me And Family Slowly by tensazangetsu20(m): 10:32pm On Nov 16, 2022
Evolutionlove:
You've got time consoling with people like this. The first thing that comes to a "Typical Nigerian Men" when they start seeing "Small Change" Is marriage. Their own version of MATRIX Is out of this World..
Guy e dey shock me o. Person go see 100k job the first thing he thinks about is getting married. Marriage is a very huge responsibility. People don't even think about the financial implications and they are always like God will provide.
Re: Depression And Lack Is Killing Me And Family Slowly by Kelechi009: 1:55am On Nov 17, 2022
Evolutionlove:
You've got time consoling with people like this. The first thing that comes to a "Typical Nigerian Men" mind when they start seeing "Small Change" Is marriage. Their own version of MATRIX Is out of this World..
Please what is "MATRIX" ?
Re: Depression And Lack Is Killing Me And Family Slowly by ahnie: 10:43am On Nov 17, 2022
I have given this op more than 5 calls to render my assistance and he refused picking his calls.

I had wanted assisting with a token n foodstuffs...no be my fault I try,better luck next time.
Re: Depression And Lack Is Killing Me And Family Slowly by bbeautylik(f): 11:32am On Nov 17, 2022
ahnie:
I have given this op more than 5 calls to render my assistance and he refused picking his calls.

I had wanted assisting with a token n foodstuffs...no be my fault I try,better luck next time.
please send him a text God bless you
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