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I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by Solofresh2: 8:45pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Hello fellow Nairalanders, Please I need your advice on this.I find it hard to express myself to people because of been rejected by them I find it hard to express myself because of being criticized I find it hard to express myself even at my place of work because of being sacked going back to square one There are somethings I don't voluntrily want to do when people ask me to do then but I can't say no because I don't want to look bad I lack self confidence too I really need help because deep down I hate it when I can't express my feelings to people Have been pretending to enjoy pain and stress since I was born and now am 21 years of age,no school,no handwork, always feeling shy but I have one talent which is music but I don't know how to go about it and I don't want to see sucide as an option I blame my parents for this things because when I was small, they don't allow me to go out and experience life As I write about this now,I feed myself and instead of them to give me, they are always demanding from me I don't even know where to start from Am tired of this goddamn world! 45 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by Solofresh2: 8:47pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Lalasticlala please help me move this to front page 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by Kandeed: 8:50pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
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Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by siofra(f): 8:52pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Solofresh2: Why don't learn you learn how to play a classical music instrument? 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by Solofresh2: 8:53pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
siofra:I don't know how to go about it Am clueless and shy at the same time 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by siofra(f): 8:59pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Solofresh2: I'm saving some money to buy a violin by the end of this year. YouTube tutorials will help, I've learned a lot of things through YouTube. 53 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by donbachi(m): 9:06pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
"Shy,shy,shy"... Keep shying na. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by Solofresh2: 9:06pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
siofra:Is there any YouTube channel I can focus on I have even written down a song of my own, though not a gospel one but a r&b like one, because I love R&B but I fear I might be wasting my time 7 Likes |
Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by sirp9898(m): 9:36pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Guy start to dey high u get your confident 62 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by Nobody: 9:38pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
pray about it. God is nearer than you think. He can help you with that shyness. 80 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by Demigod22: 9:44pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
I have been there before, it's a terrible thing to experience. Depression is lack of expression. Just go out more and mingle with people. Build your self confidence by reading books, chatting with people and go out. 92 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by Palazee(m): 9:46pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
You seriously need some weeds bro 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by slawormiir: 9:53pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Damnnn niggar Typical of a pussy ass niggar.... This is what happened when father raised weak men and mother reinforced it This is why I detest boarding school ....bros op story sounds just a like a kid who spent his entire gadmnnn life in boarding school No exposure to the real society...no street ruggedity, no toughness.... Ogbeni start hanging around with friends..come out of your house....visit play house, bar, football viewing centres...get high with beer....play Saturday football with hood niggars ....involve yourself when niggarz are arguing... I don't know if Ogbeni op is in Benin city...make I instil some street and self confidence into am...as I dey type so....I still dey outside with my niggarz...probably before we go enter house today he go be around 1am 120 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by DropsMic(m): 9:53pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
I know so many people who were once like you and they all had one thing in common. They were chronic Masturbators.. So just Just stop masturbating so your Cerebral cortex can ungoo itself -X Overindulgence: How Watching Porn Is Actively Ruining Your Life 5 Major Ways Porn Addiction / Masturbation Messes With Your Brain 32 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by Nobody: 9:54pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
You're an introvert. Honestly, it's a hard life for people like us. But you go dey talk NO! Cause this people can't sacrifice anything for your sake even when you go above and beyond for them. My first best friend in pry school was a bully but I no wise then. Still an introvert decades after but I've learnt to say no. You're not alone is what I'm saying. 41 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by Nobody: 9:54pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
:/ 1 Like |
Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by Hezmatosky: 9:54pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
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Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by Eriokanmi: 9:54pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Na wah 1 Like |
Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by Gobet: 9:54pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Just keep trying 1 Like |
Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by Lattop(m): 9:54pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Try dey smoke but no near Colorado 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by jaxxy(m): 9:55pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Generalkoko is that u? Solofresh2 u are saying alot of things bt I can narrow it down to 3 major things. 1. Ur self esteem and confidence 2. Being overburdened by ur parents instead of being helped. 3. Ur purpose or direction in life. 1 and 3 are not too difficult to solve. If u can organise urself and focus. 2 depends alot on outcome of 1 and 3. I will explain further how to resolve this later. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by damiloladuke: 9:55pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Sorry dude 1 Like |
Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by Seniorwriter(m): 9:55pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Solofresh2: The best way out is to acquire a Digital Skill..... However if you are interested in earning with music you can go to www.cdbaby.com and get busy. In another news learn how to earn $100 weekly with Whiteboard Animation for just a token mentorship of $20 or it's equivalent in Naira.....you will be held by the hand for a 4weeks training towards the mastery and earning even before the end of the training period. If you have access to Internet + browsing gadgets and you ain't earning via your online activities in this times of economic crisis in Nigeria then you are very unwise. @sapaz02 reach out via the facebook id on my profile....moreso learn how to quote mentions properly ...your quoting was kind of confusing when I first saw it. [quote author=Sapaz02 post=105566973][/quote] @SENIORWRITER 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by Fuckingmallam45(m): 9:55pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
I was a particularly shy kid, talking to people was one of the most difficult things I did for most part of my life and whenever it came to telling someone about the way I felt, I usually started crying because i just couldn’t take the pressure of making a blunder. Ever since the early years of my life, I lived in constant fear of making a mistake and it took me several years to understand two of the most important life lessons. You cannot keep everyone happy Living with regret is the worst kind of living And understanding these two things literally changed my life. The best way to improve the way you express yourself will be by getting in touch with your inner self. Clear your mind and be ready to work on yourself. 24 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by hustla(m): 9:56pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
sirp9898: Addiction go enter 5 Likes |
Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by shegzhkn: 9:56pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Read Books. Watch documentaries Watch interviews and news conferences. Watch tonnes of those. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by CXLVII: 9:56pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Start working with alcohol. It will make you bold. 1 Like |
Re: I Find It Hard Expressing Myself And It Is Killing Me by sammysmiles(m): 9:56pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
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