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| Re: . by Hundredegrees: 12:54pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
SirJerrie: I understand that you read only the first post but I've done everything humanly possible for her to come back and she just makes these posts on her WhatsApp sometimes and this is what she posted yesterday |
| Re: . by Silentgroper(m): 12:56pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Fahvvy:"dont allow a girlfriend stop u 4rm finding a wife" damn!. Mad ting, deep as hell.. |
| Re: . by Duchessree(f): 1:06pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Your girl is hurt , the only thing you can do is wait till she heals, you're stating that she has a lot of bad side, I'm sure if we call your gf and ask her to tell us your bad sides, you'll be shocked. No one is perfect o. The girl you just met so, I'm sure when you stay with her for three years you will also complain. I'm sure that when you also met your girl, you told whoever cared to listen that she's the perfect girl for you. I hope the ' bad decision' you made together isn't what I'm thinking. You cheated on your girl and she found out even after lieing to her that you and girl B are just friends, do you expect her to smile, embrace you and sing praises to your name?. If you are the one in her shoes, won't you get hurt. You're even complaining of the male friends she keep I'm contact with not that she's cheating on you with them o. The only way forward is that you have to ask yourself and your gf if you guys are willing to go forward with your relationship even with the trust broken. You guys are not the first neither the last that your relationship is having cheating issues. Now the only thing you both can do is decide if this issue will make you guys stronger and better or break you guys apart. Now you have to admit you're wrong for cheating and not justifying your actions (thats what's you're doing which is annoying ). You're also have to apologize and tell your girl how her status makes you feel. I'm sure when you start talking, she will also open up . then you guys can decide to go forward or quit the relationship based on your communication with each other. 1 Like |
| Re: . by GoooodHardDick: 1:22pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Hundredegrees: When a girl catches you making out with another girl, her Love and respect for you instantly increases! Girls are always after guys who other girls are chasing after!!! It drives them crazy, they earnestly desire to know why hot girls are chasing after you. Girls have Zero respect for a guy who only sticks with her, they want to see other girls chase after you too, girls love competition. Become a Redpiller and understands how these things works 1 Like |
| Re: . by kukoyi17226: 1:47pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Kids.Kids.... |
| Re: . by Oche211(m): 2:34pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Break up with your girlfriend and go for girl B. Thank me later. Wait, do you love peace of mind? That girl will show you shege. Forget the length of years you have been together. |
| Re: . by Oche211(m): 2:37pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Hundredegrees: Mute her status... She keep posting them cos she knows that you see them. Mute her status and have peace of mind 1 Like |
| Re: . by chizzypresh(f): 3:11pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Duchessree: OP, this is one of the best advice No girl on earth will feel good after catching her partner cheating but if you really love her, try to keep reassuring her of that and if you don't, better let her know on time than to keep deceiving her out of pity please 1 Like |
| Re: . by padi94(m): 4:08pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Na so them dey be from beginning, until later now you go say you don tire for them. Leave women. They are maid to trouble men |
| Re: . by burp18: 4:19pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Hundredegrees:you'd be doing yourself a gigantic favor by ending things with your girlfriend now, most times they don't recover from this and you could try to FIX things and you'd both pretend all is well but the minute the opportunity presents itself. She's going to get back at your for this and she's going to do it worse. Only reason she prolly hasn't moved on is because she doesn't have her next option lined up. End things now and tell her you should be just friends, salvage whatever's left of your relationship cos if you don't, she's going to hurt you at a time when you need her the most. 1 Like |
| Re: . by Hundredegrees: 4:23pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
burp18: Thanks for your input brother |
| Re: . by backtalkG(m): 5:05pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
You may be surprised those status msg are not really meant for you, she may be trying to gain the attention of another guy while guilt-tripping you at the same time. Women are very manipulative 1 Like |
| Re: . by Chizzychinny: 6:01pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
That your fantasy girl that you think thicks the boxes will shock you, cheat on you and you'll still come back here to tell. I'll advice you talk to your girl, she's hurt and betrayed Those status is for you to know how she feels and for you to realize your mistakes. |
| Re: . by TalkTalkTwins(m): 6:08pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
If you really loved the first, you wouldn’t have met the second  |
| Re: . by Prettygirl200(f): 6:11pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Hundredegrees:Do you know you are wicked and stupid? After hurting her by cheating on her u still have the guts to defend yourself here? It's very obvious you are selfish shebi bc u disvirgn girl B all of a suden you feel your gf is not good for you anymore? A girl u spent three years with and you know what and what she cannot do is who u are planning to dumb bc of an unknown girl u claimed to disvirgn, I wonder how some of you think being a virgin makes a good wife or gf. Do what you like but just pray u don't regret it. |
| Re: . by Prettygirl200(f): 6:13pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Eyinju112:Exactly!!! The useless op is defending himself if it was the girl that cheated hell would have let loose, e no go waste time to break up. Useless thing!!! |
| Re: . by Prettygirl200(f): 6:16pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
GoooodHardDick:Who be this one? The number of useless boys in men's body is seriously increasing in this forum 1 Like |
| Re: . by Prettygirl200(f): 6:22pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Fedrick100:No mind the idoult, mehnn I love the way some you guy's here are saying the truth, if only I know who this op is or I can see him face to face I would have given him a resounding slap that will make his useless brains to enetr default settings |
| Re: . by Prettygirl200(f): 6:25pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
SirJerrie:come and hug me dear u deserve kisses  . The op is useless I just wish I know the girl I would have sent her, her foolish boyfriend's nairaland monicker so that she will see how ungrateful and how unremorseful her useless boyfriend is.too bad I fell for her though |
| Re: . by Eyinju112(f): 7:17pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
No mind am jare  Prettygirl200: |
| Re: . by Hundredegrees: 8:01pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
TalkTalkTwins: I loved her for real. But going along with the sex with girl B was a mistake and that was the only wrong i did. She got to know the real truth about B some 3 or 4 months ago and I've apologized. A lot of times. I've done everything to bring her back but recently she's just acting up again and that's what is making me think this is beyond repair already. To her, If u should reply late, I'm talking to the girl. If she tries to call me and I couldn't answer the phone, I'm with the girl. If I'm online and I am not chatting with her, I'm with the girl. And all these, I've endured for the past months. And all of a sudden, she starts posting these again. |
| Re: . by GoooodHardDick: 9:09pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Prettygirl200: The way you oloshos and runz girls quote me this days on nairaland is alarming |
| Re: . by Prettygirl200(f): 10:05pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
GoooodHardDick:Eyaaaa the way your mother did desame olosho work that brought a useless thing like you into the the world through a stinky pussy, right? I understand!!! 1 Like |
| Re: . by Executer: 10:46pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Hundredegrees:That message may be from her female friend sef. She's trying to guilt trip you man. Trust once broken is almost impossible to repair. Save each other the stress,break up with her and go your separate ways. Its even possible she's cheating on you or has been cheating on you all these while. |
| Re: . by duduade: 11:00pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
immortalcrown: E no get any messages OP is the one she s referring to when she said it's funny how a stranger knows her more that those she s closer to |
| Re: . by BOZZKJ: 12:09am On Nov 27, 2022 |
Premiumwriter: Gbamsolutely! You've said it all bruh. |
| Re: . by purejustice36: 12:21am On Nov 27, 2022 |
She lacks affections She chatted herself up and posted it on her status because she knows that you will see them and you might or will ask her what’s up Then she won’t reply you for some time, just let her be for now , she’ll come around And if she over do anyhow you free her , life goes on |
| Re: . by dontrulee: 12:32am On Nov 27, 2022 |
Girls.... I have quite an experience with loads of them. Recently, one of my "run away" girlfriends sent me a text message asking me how I was doing? I sent her a text back replying I was fine and all that. She was like I didn't message or call her for about two weeks and I simply replied that you said I shouldn't message you and I kept to your words. Two days ago, I sent her a Facebook request on my new Facebook account and funny enough, I didn't know that on my new Facebook account, I was in a relationship with someone I haven't met yet. Somehow she found out and was very angry or whatever she felt, this morning she called me and we talked for hours and funny enough her love for me increased, perhaps maybe she doesn't want to loose me to another person. Funny enough, this evening, the person I am with a relationship with on Facebook started behaving funny and acting up that I wasn't showing her enough attention, that I was cheating on her or whatever, I obviously didn't care, I called her and her love for me increased too. Ladies are irrational, they don't know what they want! No lady can control me or make me upset, if you want to leave, leave. If you want to stay, stay. I have many ladies around me, your absence obviously doesn't matter to me. Op, you've been in a relationship with your girl for about three years now. During this period, it's expected that you've both cheated on one another. . You guys just need to talk and iron somethings out, ladies just like men multi date because they get a lot of toasters everyday from hungry raunchy men and that's why all your heart or mind shouldn't be in a Lady. A lady doesn't love you, she only loves what you can give her! It may be money, vibes or just a mysterious feeling. As long as you supply, she's hooked and when you don't supply, she will disengage. Relationship is transactional! Know this and know peace.Op, what do you want? Do you want your lady all to yourself? That's not possible, for it's not possible to prevent another human being for cheating, anybody can claim to love you and still cheat on you. Ladies have killed countless men because they love them and vice versa. Escape oneitis, have alternatives, enjoy your Life. If you must commit your resources, commit to the best ladies and remember that all ladies have their bad sides. Haaa, it reminds me of one lady called Hannah when I was still a bad guy, this girl will post about sexual Purity and messages that will hit at my soul and almost convert me to a holy boy but you know what, that same night, we will sex chat and talk dirty. This girl who was a virgin at that time was willing to get pregnant for me!  Life is not hard, life is not difficult. Your wife or your girlfriend cheating on you is not the end of the world. Make yourself happy, put yourself first, life is short! Ciao... 2 Likes |
| Re: . by PressyKcee: 2:13am On Nov 27, 2022 |
It is funny how we hurt people and still expect them to be okay. She even had the heart to forgive you. I can't imagine forgiving my man if he does that. You cheated on a girl that has spent 3 years of her life with you and still expects her to act all cool and loved up? Oh, yeah, she must have forgiven, but the pain is still there. Emotions ain't a switch you turn on and off at will. And you don't hurt people and then tell them when to start hurting and stop hurting. No matter how smart you are, there is no way you can equally divide your love and attention between two people. The new girl caught your fancy and in the process, you must have neglected your girlfriend and focused your attention on her even without knowing that you're starving the girlfriend of your attention. Do you know how it feels when the one you love is giving their attention to someone else? Imagine you have a best friend, and boom he meets another guy the next day and starts neglecting you and putting the new guy before you, how will you feel? Talk more about someone you're in love with. Trust me, you think the new girl is cool and awesome because you both just started and haven't spent quality time together, fought battles, quarrelled, settled, and pulled through shit together... When you guys do, you'll realize she ain't as "perfect" as she seems. Imagine if you were the one that found out your current girlfriend had sex with another man and is still in contact with the man, how will you feel? My dad will always say, don't give people pills you can't swallow yourself. You hurt that girl, she is hurting. She is breaking. With the updates, she is just trying to heal to come alive again, the only thing you can do now is show some remorse, love and attention. You can get her a gift and apologize. You may think there are many fishes in the water, but trust me, I am a lady. I know what girls do out there. A quality woman is hard to find, the same as a quality man. If you have a partner that has seen all your flaws, and imperfections, is loyal and committed to you. Kill your pride and KEEP them. Apologize where necessary and make it work. The dating pool is a MESS right now. |
| Re: . by PressyKcee: 2:22am On Nov 27, 2022 |
Can you imagine. How do you hurt someone and expect them to be okay  You cheated on someone that has given you 3 years of her life and except her to be OKAY!!! Sometimes I wonder where people keep their conscience. Emotion ain't a switch you turn on and off at will. You don't beat and child and except the child not to cry. If the reverse was the case, he won't be saying this. SirJerrie: |
| Re: . by PressyKcee: 3:00am On Nov 27, 2022 |
That's not true. It's a toxic ideology and very far from the truth. Pray for God to give you a GOOD partner. Life is short. Be a good partner, get a good partner, make money together and enjoy life. GoooodHardDick: |
| Re: . by PressyKcee: 3:12am On Nov 27, 2022 |
Hundredegrees: |
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