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Nextlife1:
Hi
I never expected that this day will come in my life.
I discovered that my wife I sent to school is cheating on me with her school matter and other married men.
Please I need advice on how to handle this.

As difficult as it is bros you need to move on in life or else you ll become laughing stock

ahnie:
Good morning,pls today's Sunday .
Do well to have a nice day, warmest regards to the family.

Bye sir.

Much better.

Regards to your family too ma.

This gender will make you sweat under A/C �OYO�‍♂️�‍♂️�‍♂️

MufasaLion:
When will you people (both genders) learn to stop bearing the burden that was never meant for you?

Doesn't she have a father or mother that could enroll her in school? You left educated women to marry someone you'll be funding her education, what for?

Your premium heartbreak is about to start!

She cheated on him because he sent her to school or what are you trying to say?

World over, spouses help fund each other's academics. It happens everywhere. But it is only here you will see teenagers acting as if it's a crime of relationships to do so after reading the red pill manifesto.

Don't contribute to your spouses life, just live like strangers. Marry only the educated, because the uneducated are tainted.

This forum houses a lot of myopia tagged as wisdom.

You mean your legally married wife, or your sin partner known as boyfriend/girlfriend relationship that you are calling wife? Let's get the point first

Nextlife1:
Hi
I never expected that this day will come in my life.
I discovered that my wife I sent to school is cheating on me with her school matter and other married men.
Please I need advice on how to handle this.

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Ebubu:
so if you marry a wife with a degree, you can’t sponsor her for Masters education if she desires to be a lecturer?

Help us ask. It's no surprise that there are over 290 idiots who liked that. But on a forum filled with teenagers, what else is there to expect?

Luckysbab:
You're lousy, for someone even married at that.

It's not compulsory to say everything that comes to mind.

Guy I was shocked seeing her posts that she is married ...

Omo men dey marry nonsense o, imagine this one as a wife Kai , very loose, lousy thing

Advise Kee u there. When u dey carry her go school u come nairaland con ask for advise. Since u r talented in training gals in school. Plenty more gals need ur services. So go and train more. That's my advise

Nextlife1:
All I needed is kind advise I believe we still have good people here on nairaland
Am so confused now.
I have told her about it she is still writing her final year exam I don't want her to fail exam because of this problem reason am keeping it to myself for now.

Nextlife1:
All I needed is kind advise I believe we still have good people here on nairaland
Am so confused now.
I have told her about it she is still writing her final year exam I don't want her to fail exam because of this problem reason am keeping it to myself for now.

ADVICE:

A woman that opens her legs for others is not yours. She belongs to all of you. You don't have a wife. You should look for a woman worthy of you. Your investments will make you want to hold on but take it as a fee you payed to learn this lesson.

luluosas:
You mean your legally married wife, or your sin partner known as boyfriend/girlfriend relationship that you are calling wife? Let's get the point first

Legally married both traditional and wedding
Was done.

MufasaLion:
When will you people (both genders) learn to stop bearing the burden that was never meant for you?

Doesn't she have a father or mother that could enroll her in school? You left educated women to marry someone you'll be funding her education, what for?

Your premium heartbreak is about to start!

You have said it all. When a lady said so you can't sponsor me, tell her point blank evenif it is your wife that you can't. These days people change so fast and in a wrong direction.

Nextlife1:
Hi
I never expected that this day will come in my life.
I discovered that my wife I sent to school is cheating on me with her school matter and other married men.
Please I need advice on how to handle this.

Op, we'll be more informed to advise appropriately if you tell us of your evidence.

The way una take dey handle woman wey cheat matter like say una never cheat on this same woman before.

MufasaLion:
Wether you have been married for a decade or century, your actions are not justifiable. It's unwise to do what you are doing. Even the elites that their kids will end up marrying rich folks, will always enroll their kids in school, some till Ph.D. level before/after marriage.

You people (both genders) always let love becloud your reasoning hence the reason you always settle for less. Your wife was not exposed to some lifestyle before marriage but now that she's schooling, she's met men of different social class which has made her feel more valuable and reckless at the same time.

Also, men like you that have plans to enroll their woman in school should also upgrade their own life in terms of education, enlightenment and social class because women like your wife will be carried away easily by some basic things.

Women are hypergamy in nature, so it's part of the reasons you're being cheated on and disrespected.

The bolded is so true.

A cheat is a cheat whether you send her to school or not , if she wants to do it under your nose , she would probably be doing it in your house .... It seems married women are the ones cheating the most than single ladies , from all these online stories ....

Some people got married for their own selfish gains and nothing more ...

In anything you do , don't marry for pity and don't force anybody to marry you ...

Marry your kind and have peace...

highchief1:
I know you cheat too.I have seen u in Asaba more than once.why are u angry they called ur gender out

Here comes another lowlife vermin.
The fact that your mum begets you thru cheating nor mean say everybody dey cheap like her.


Stupid dirty dread spotting corpse.
Product of a dysfunctional home.

EmperorVamo:
The fact that you are married is a big shame , I pity your husband and those kids , all so unfortunate to have you as a mother and wife, loud modafcka

Cardiac arrest....
Oga I don't pretend,I nor dey fear you.
Your hating me doesn't take a strand from my hair.
And I careless of what you think of me.



The fact that your sisters are unfortunate should be a big concern to the society.

ahnie:
Nice sobriquet for your retardant mum

You don't have mum because you're born throw away

Nextlife1:
All I needed is kind advise I believe we still have good people here on nairaland
Am so confused now.
I have told her about it she is still writing her final year exam I don't want her to fail exam because of this problem reason am keeping it to myself for now.

there is no better time to tell her than now. When she was fucking another man she never considered you so why consider her. That woman is no longer your wife but a public hole. Believe when a supposed wife starts fucking out she's already gone. So put your self together, let her know & see her reaction, I bet she won't be remorseful & she will blame you for it with pride self. Send the woman out already because she has just been using you.

Nextlife1:
All I needed is kind advise I believe we still have good people here on nairaland
Am so confused now.
I have told her about it she is still writing her final year exam I don't want her to fail exam because of this problem reason am keeping it to myself for now.

Your simping level is legendary

diogo23:
You don't have mum because you're born throw away

Albino with stained cheeks.

Why are you a MU square you are money way you go spend on your self they train woman for school ahhhaahha my Goodness you be MU Sq

Nextlife1:
Hi
I never expected that this day will come in my life.
I discovered that my wife I sent to school is cheating on me with her school matter and other married men.
Please I need advice on how to handle this.

MufasaLion:
Your dad's a wise man and it's not even about women alone, it applies to men also.

Most men do marry women out of pity. Wic I’m about to do Buh I keep remembering what my dad told me.
1. She’s a nursing student in final year , we are friends n I dash her money n gift her stuff. She told me openly she like me as I know want hurt her I told her same. Buh I also to her I can’t give her 100 percent assurance for marriage. I hate to be tied up to one thing.

I came to realise most Nigerian men that got married to nurses end up suffering in de marriage. Couple with the fact that I will spend over 10 million Naira to settle down with her ( money for wedding, bringing her here and getting a house in uk).
I might end up feeling entitled cuz I will feel I brought her here, so when ever she shouts at me or nags I might get pained easily and might regret bringing her up. That’s y must Nigerian men in us kill their wife when the woman start showing up they feel they have lost.
I need a peaceful marriage I don’t need a woman’s money in marriage abeg.

1Sharon:
Were you denying her sex at home?

As soon as your wife starts cheating, just know there's something that you are not doing, go down on your knees and pray, don't let another man break your home. Always appear neat the way you were the very first time you approached her and don't yell at her all the time, show her care and love so that she will not look outside, sometimes walk around naked and don't wear anything to bed, always try to catch her attention. Thanks and God bless you as you do so.

this women will not kill us, na her school mate friend be this, he should also buy her things and beg her to forgive him for not being as hot/cool as the plenty guys she cheated with. And fight for her too
Agent of doom

oyinda1599:
You can't be seeking advice from nairaland boys, most of them are bitter guys , girls has really dealt with them, they couldn't get over it and that's the reason for harsh comments. Seek advice from wish people offline not on here.

Try n give him some

My only advice is that you got what you want

vickydevoka:
Most men do marry women out of pity. Wic I’m about to do Buh I keep remembering what my dad told me.
1. She’s a nursing student in final year , we are friends n I dash her money n gift her stuff. She told me openly she like me as I know want hurt her I told her same. Buh I also to her I can’t give her 100 percent assurance for marriage. I hate to be tied up to one thing.

I came to realise most Nigerian men that got married to nurses end up suffering in de marriage. Couple with the fact that I will spend over 10 million Naira to settle down with her ( money for wedding, bringing her here and getting a house in uk).
I might end up feeling entitled cuz I will feel I brought her here, so when ever she shouts at me or nags I might get pained easily and might regret bringing her up. That’s y must Nigerian men in us kill their wife when the woman start showing up they feel they have lost.
I need a peaceful marriage I don’t need a woman’s money in marriage abeg.

Brother, I understand you and I must let you know that you're the one putting yourself under pressure. It's not a must you marry a student or plan to marry her. Also, it's not a crime to do so but you must know that it comes with many things you'll need to overlook.

I'd urge you to ease the pressure you put on yourself. She's in a noble profession and she's gonna excel well in her career wether in or in the U.K. What you need to do now is to focus more on her character because that's the most important of all. She's still young and the exuberance will always be there, so it's up to you to decide if you wanna live with it or not.

MufasaLion:
Wether you have been married for a decade or century, your actions are not justifiable. It's unwise to do what you are doing. Even the elites that their kids will end up marrying rich folks, will always enroll their kids in school, some till Ph.D. level before/after marriage.

You people (both genders) always let love becloud your reasoning hence the reason you always settle for less. Your wife was not exposed to some lifestyle before marriage but now that she's schooling, she's met men of different social class which has made her feel more valuable and reckless at the same time.

Also, men like you that have plans to enroll their woman in school should also upgrade their own life in terms of education, enlightenment and social class because women like your wife will be carried away easily by some basic things.

Women are hypergamy in nature, so it's part of the reasons you're being cheated on and disrespected.

Food for thought.

ahnie:
Albino with stained cheeks.

A fool will always be a fool , keep on fooling yourself

1Sharon:
Were you denying her sex at home?

As soon as your wife starts cheating, just know there's something that you are not doing, go down on your knees and pray, don't let another man break your home. Always appear neat the way you were the very first time you approached her and don't yell at her all the time, show her care and love so that she will not look outside, sometimes walk around naked and don't wear anything to bed, always try to catch her attention. Thanks and God bless you as you do so.

I see what u did here...

Nextlife1:
We are married for more than 5 years now and I love her
Reason for me to send her to study.

Lick her pussy bro and she will stop cheating on you. Those she's running to strip her of her panties, spread her legs so wide, and lick nonsense out of her pussy