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How Was The Experience Like Dating A Lady Who Is An Only Child Of Her Parent? by mrkel(m): 11:09am On Dec 15, 2022
I have this female friend I have been making marriage overtures to for the past 5 years. Met her while she was fulfilling her primary assignment at NYSC as a teacher in the junior secondary section (UBE) in the government school I was once teaching in Rivers State.

I was teaching in the senior secondary section. Had contact with her when two of my male colleagues and I were enlisted to serve as clerk and judges in their inter-house sports relay competition. Took her number afterwards and subsequently took her to many table for two rendezvous.

Now, the challenge is owing to the fact that she was almost raped by her friend while she was in university at Cotonou, Benin Republic, she finds it difficult to pay me a visit in my house nor any male friend of hers for that matter. Any time I want to see her we always hang out in an eatery at my expense.

Three years ago, she requested that I send her a soft copy of my picture. And the reason was that her dad requested for same to pray if I was indeed the divinely ordained husband for his daughter. This lady in question is a paragon of decency and everything upright in a lady. And she ticks all the boxes of what I want in a woman. I am even suspecting she is a virgin going by the way she behaves. She is 26 years at present and on my part, and I am in my early 30s.

Lately, I have been very hostile toward her. Yesterday, she acknowledged the fact that indeed she has been subjecting me to emotional torture and pleaded that I should bear with her.

Mid-this year, I requested that she comes so we could go and see my parents but she declined. I am thinking of doing the unexpected by going to see her dad with the view of conveying my interest in his daughter by January 2023.

One thing I have also observed about this friend of mine is the fact that she is very attached to her parents. The bond is just so strong.

So, Nairalanders, is it a good idea of going to see her father about my intention or I am too hasty by conceiving the idea of going to see her father? Or should I cast my gaze elsewhere given the 5 years of stress this lady has subjected me to? And men that got married to an only child, what trick did you devise in meandering your way?
Re: How Was The Experience Like Dating A Lady Who Is An Only Child Of Her Parent? by kenn4rill(m): 11:29am On Dec 15, 2022
I just pray she's playing with you head because 5 years is enough time for the relationship to have a real part. And 1 thing I know for sure is that, anything that is truly yours won't stress you much.

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Re: How Was The Experience Like Dating A Lady Who Is An Only Child Of Her Parent? by Blackdeewhy(m): 11:31am On Dec 15, 2022
Make your intentions known to her parents. You have the tendency of having PEACE OF MIND with her from what you wrote up there.
All the best

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Re: How Was The Experience Like Dating A Lady Who Is An Only Child Of Her Parent? by habsydiamond(m): 11:38am On Dec 15, 2022
Why not ask about the outcome of the prayer they asked for the soft copy of ur picture for... if will be bad for you to go see her father when the outcome of such prayer session is against you.u have to sit her down. U guys need iron it out.. cos for her to decline following u to see ur parent is a red flag ooo

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Re: How Was The Experience Like Dating A Lady Who Is An Only Child Of Her Parent? by Nobody: 11:54am On Dec 15, 2022
If a lady has been examined and judged to be of good character and virtue, what's next is to make proper moves.

Go to her family in a very presentable manner and talk to her guardian about her.

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Re: How Was The Experience Like Dating A Lady Who Is An Only Child Of Her Parent? by Nobody: 12:10pm On Dec 15, 2022
Good things don't come easy. Go meet her parents and tell them your intention. But if you ever eff up along the line, nah die you dey o grin grin

Check everything checkable including genotype, family history, conflict resolution , anger management. Everything! before you commit yourself.

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Re: How Was The Experience Like Dating A Lady Who Is An Only Child Of Her Parent? by Nicepoker(m): 12:29pm On Dec 15, 2022
It will end in premium tears. grin

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Re: How Was The Experience Like Dating A Lady Who Is An Only Child Of Her Parent? by Verifiedtrader(m): 12:40pm On Dec 15, 2022
Persephone1:
Good things don't come easy. Go meet her parents and tell them your intention. But if you ever eff up along the line, nah die you dey o grin grin

Check everything checkable including genotype, family history, conflict resolution , anger management. Everything! before you commit yourself.
You did say it all.
Get your T-Mobile esim.
Let me help you set it up.
Re: How Was The Experience Like Dating A Lady Who Is An Only Child Of Her Parent? by Tolu181: 12:48pm On Dec 15, 2022
op, lemme tell you
one guy else where go dey bang her like mad
she just don’t like you that much thats why she is being hard on you
but make no mistake, she dey fvck
Re: How Was The Experience Like Dating A Lady Who Is An Only Child Of Her Parent? by Nobody: 1:47pm On Dec 15, 2022
Tolu181:
op, lemme tell you
one guy else where go dey bang her like mad
she just don’t like you that much thats why she is being hard on you
but make no mistake, she dey fvck


If you aren't that guy just STFU already !

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Re: How Was The Experience Like Dating A Lady Who Is An Only Child Of Her Parent? by Les: 2:39pm On Dec 15, 2022
5 years? U be f@@l sha
Re: How Was The Experience Like Dating A Lady Who Is An Only Child Of Her Parent? by lifenajeje(m): 2:56pm On Dec 15, 2022
There is someone else interested in.marrying her .

They have taken ur picture plus the other suitor for prayers and the other person was chosen.

The problem now is ur competitorwho is ranked suitor no 1 is not balanced

U are option two when he does not balance ..

I may be wrong ..

Note : any body wey in law to be ask for photo and after two weeks e Neva hear scores na I'm be say problem dey .
Re: How Was The Experience Like Dating A Lady Who Is An Only Child Of Her Parent? by mrkel(m): 3:14pm On Dec 15, 2022
Blackdeewhy:
Make your intentions known to her parents. You have the tendency of having PEACE OF MIND with her from what you wrote up there.
All the best


That's what I intend doing by January. Will go and see her parents and declare my intentions to them.

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Re: How Was The Experience Like Dating A Lady Who Is An Only Child Of Her Parent? by mrkel(m): 3:15pm On Dec 15, 2022
UnusualEmissary:
If a lady has been examined and judged to be of good character and virtue, what's next is to make proper moves.

Go to her family in a very presentable manner and talk to her guardian about her.



That's what I intend doing by January. I want to be very intentional with her by January.
Re: How Was The Experience Like Dating A Lady Who Is An Only Child Of Her Parent? by mrkel(m): 3:18pm On Dec 15, 2022
lifenajeje:
There is someone else interested in.marrying her .

They have taken ur picture plus the other suitor for prayers and the other person was chosen.

The problem now is ur competitorwho is ranked suitor no 1 is not balanced

U are option two when he does not balance ..

I may be wrong ..

Note : any body wey in law to be ask for photo and after two weeks e Neva hear scores na I'm be say problem dey .


She confided in me just yesterday that about the time I was mooring the idea of marriage three other guys in her church were also doing same. That was what necessitated the idea of the father praying about it. Of the 4 of us. Three of the guys are married to another lady. I am the only one that is still showing interest.
Re: How Was The Experience Like Dating A Lady Who Is An Only Child Of Her Parent? by mrkel(m): 3:20pm On Dec 15, 2022
Tolu181:
op, lemme tell you
one guy else where go dey bang her like mad
she just don’t like you that much thats why she is being hard on you
but make no mistake, she dey fvck




Not all ladies are loose. In short, her situation made me to draw inference that: "the standard parents use in training their only child is different from the way parents who have four children raises their children".

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Re: How Was The Experience Like Dating A Lady Who Is An Only Child Of Her Parent? by mrkel(m): 3:22pm On Dec 15, 2022
Persephone1:
Good things don't come easy. Go meet her parents and tell them your intention. But if you ever eff up along the line, nah die you dey o grin grin

Check everything checkable including genotype, family history, conflict resolution , anger management. Everything! before you commit yourself.



You just raise a very salient point. I guess I will start asking question about genotype and what have you in the days ahead.
Re: How Was The Experience Like Dating A Lady Who Is An Only Child Of Her Parent? by mrkel(m): 3:25pm On Dec 15, 2022
habsydiamond:
Why not ask about the outcome of the prayer they asked for the soft copy of ur picture for... if will be bad for you to go see her father when the outcome of such prayer session is against you.u have to sit her down. U guys need iron it out.. cos for her to decline following u to see ur parent is a red flag ooo


I did. She confided in me just yesterday that we were four suitors in number that were mooring the idea of marriage to her. That in the aftermath of the prayer by her dad, that three of the suitors have gotten married. That I am still the only one still persisting.
Re: How Was The Experience Like Dating A Lady Who Is An Only Child Of Her Parent? by Nobody: 6:20pm On Dec 15, 2022
mrkel:




You just raise a very salient point. I guess I will start asking question about genotype and what have you in the days ahead.
5 years of knowing her and you never asked about her genotype?

Not good enough bro.

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Re: How Was The Experience Like Dating A Lady Who Is An Only Child Of Her Parent? by habsydiamond(m): 6:56pm On Dec 15, 2022
mrkel:



I did. She confided in me just yesterday that we were four suitors in number that were mooring the idea of marriage to her. That in the aftermath of the prayer by her dad, that three of the suitors have gotten married. That I am still the only one still persisting.
if that's the case then why is she still holding back on ur marriage proposal... is she waiting for my options, maybe another guy in the equation. Cos I don't see any reason why sheshould be delaying or there is something she's hiding from u on this issue.
Re: How Was The Experience Like Dating A Lady Who Is An Only Child Of Her Parent? by lifenajeje(m): 5:57am On Dec 16, 2022
mrkel:



She confided in me just yesterday that about the time I was mooring the idea of marriage three other guys in her church were also doing same. That was what necessitated the idea of the father praying about it. Of the 4 of us. Three of the guys are married to another lady. I am the only one that is still showing interest.

You are not the only one bros

There is competition

Is she Catholic or CAC
Re: How Was The Experience Like Dating A Lady Who Is An Only Child Of Her Parent? by mrkel(m): 6:34am On Dec 16, 2022
lifenajeje:


You are not the only one bros

There is competition

Is she Catholic or CAC


Winners Chapel.
Re: How Was The Experience Like Dating A Lady Who Is An Only Child Of Her Parent? by sammyenergy(m): 8:02am On Dec 25, 2023
You should be married to same lady by now, cone here and give your testimony bro.
Re: How Was The Experience Like Dating A Lady Who Is An Only Child Of Her Parent? by iamsense(m): 9:40am On Dec 25, 2023
2 years in the relationship she doesn't have your picture in her phone.. she had to ask for it because her dad needs it and why the hell does he need your picture to pray? and you sent your picture for prayer of self acclaimed confirmation.... Brother unless you have 9 lives don't go there

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