MissLAP:
As a woman with kids, Finding a sincere partner after divorce is very difficult o and very dicy!.

For me this issue would have been best settled within than this egocentric divorce.

I hope Anita can keep the urge because in 10yrs time hope she wouldn't be running around young boys.

Sense will not depart from you, Amen!

Ishilove:

Chai, Anita, you go empty you come empty. Pele Aunty.

Team Builders United, una doh. Anita built life with him right from the University when they were they both had nothing, but look how it all ended. Wo, sisters, if you see a rich man today willing to marry you, go for it with your fill chest. Mine that gold with fierce alacrity because these boys don't play fair.

na only the negatives una dey hype. The ones wey build and still dey reap the dividends una go look troway face, but immediately una see the one wey cast, na to carry mic and speaker, awon aiye. No advice your sisters to build themselves and hustle for their own money. Make dem dey look for man wey go lift dem outa poverty, dem go grow cobwebs for their kpekus

Bodmum:
Anita is now fairly used.

Tokunbo in other words ......... Cotonou

otipoju:
If to say na US dem marry. Paul for cry severely.

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Over there. Women are gods.

God knows I will not take a shit from a woman various men has slept with before marriage...I will dictate to her if she can't take it let her leave with her children and live with the trauma of single mother for the rest of her life.... Holes using marriage as a retirement plan...

Paul should just be kind to the lady atleast for mothering his 3kids. The kind suffer that woman go dey suffer 4 america now with 3kids no go be here.
Probably on a 9/5 job now.

Akwamkpuruamu:
Marriage is not a do or die affair

True. If it ain't working, slice it like bread

baralatie:

How will she be crying?
With $20k every month

Did you read the story at all?

Tinubumyman:
God knows I will not take a shit from a woman various men has slept with before marriage...I will dictate to her if she can't take it let her leave with her children and live with the trauma of single mother for the rest of her life.... Holes using marriage as a retirement plan...

I will suggest you go read and investigate the history of Paul and Anita from way back from when Paul was broke

baralatie:

Actually Lola married the sensible one of the two

Anita got the bad one

No Anita is always running to social media .

EBMedia:
IGBERETV report



https://www.instagram.com/p/CmWvIg-N5TS/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

This life no balance, before I used to think that when the man has no money that dis would be a reason for his wife to want divorce, now even dog In Nigeria know their rights and want to take you to court

imadiyi:

Did you read the story at all?

She did not get alimony which is alien to Nigerian law but she did get joint custody of the kids

mayorkent:
Lol ,$20k per month .

E shock u .

Marriage is a complicated institution...

When couples divorce, they hardly say the. Main reason.

This is why i dont meddle.

Exceed15:


No Anita is always running to social media .

Why won't she !
She caught him with maid and dude shrugged it off like nothing
Maid will be like na me and you dey share this gbols
So please respect

baralatie:

I will suggest you go read and investigate the history of Paul and Anita from way back from when Paul was broke

forget that...Paul mother already said he should not marry Anita before the mother died... So leave all those story of broke... Anita is not a wife materials...

Tinubumyman:
forget that...Paul mother already said he should not marry Anita before the mother died... So leave all those story of broke... Anita is not a wife materials...

Paul mother said peter should not marry Lola before she died
And Lola and Anita were dragging with those kids from when they were broke as in broke

baralatie:

Paul mother said peter should not marry Lola before she died

same as Anita she is not wife material only good for a baby mama

Ok

Tinubumyman:
same as Anita she is not wife material only good for a baby mama

It is Paul that is hanging maid that is husband material?

Nehyooh:
See life! Despite the fact he married his tribe, yet they still get divorced. Marrying ones tribe is not a yastick for a successful marriage.

Incorrect.
Paul is Anambra...Anita is Rivers.

People wey dey married dey try...

SexyBabe001:



You see couples that dated for almost 8yrs but find it difficult to stay together in 2-3 yrs

This part is scarier than 200 sadistic horror movies. Like wat the f*ck. The oath of marriage be like curse. Daaaaaamn

Marriage. Hmmmmm

NigeriaIsGreat:
Her happiness is paramount

Provided she doesn't come for you nor i to feed her shows that we aren't better than her

Are you contesting wealth and riches with them? Please, nairalanders oo, come and see American wonder, here oo. Why the sudden divert? Na wahoo

Sha no let them reason u. Ole

EBMedia:
IGBERETV report



https://www.instagram.com/p/CmWvIg-N5TS/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

*formally*

Go school, una no gree, say school na scam...but una wan do work of university graduate by fire by force

DuchessAmanda:


Incorrect.
Paul is Anambra...Anita is Rivers.

Ooooops, noted

Worriedwife:
This has notin to do with Lola being d bad one. People shouldn’t make it a tribal argument. The fault is from Paul. The women are not the problem here. If Paul didn’t go sleeping with the maid, everytin would be fine.

His brother and Lola are still in good terms with Anita, that shows she is a good person.

It is d new girl I feel pity for. Not like Paul would do her anything bad as he seems to love her, but she would have a hard time penetrating the strong bond Anita has formed with Peter and Lola. It doesn’t help that she is very young. She would just be there with only Paul and it gets boring. Marriage in Nigeria includes d family.

Your moniker though, worried wife commenting on another worried marriage, una go kill person with laugh for nairaland.com

chelsea1116:
My bro is divorced, his Italian ex wife remains his best friend and their child has more than enough love and care from both.

They just realised and accepted they are better as very good friends and not as a couple.

Your ex wife/partner shouldnt be ur enemy..
It takes maturity and sense to realise divorce is best when its not working out.

Divorce shouldnt create hatred.

Goodluck to Anita and Paul.

ALL NIGERIAN WOMEN LEFT THE CHAT ROOM! Na till death do us oooo lol!!!