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UselessBuharist:
Lol thanks for the advice bro

Infact this is a lady with a well paid job oooo,still fucking around even when I made everything available to her and her entire family.

Abeg safe yourself some headache ooo bro.
Loyalty is hard to find amongst those ladies nowadays �

Stay safe

TheBTCinvestor:
Merry Xmas from my Baby pls Like his photo

Beautiful baby

ViceGovernor:
Beautiful baby

Thanks bro

-Perhaps, the state of the local economy and social media lifestyle also play a role in that. In addition to so many middle class men leaving the country/Africa in droves, as some settle down with foreign women in their new residence.

-Hence, why I support capable men to marry more women if they have adequate accommodation and finance.

-Though, am only on two women now but who knows tomorrow as things could change.

UselessBuharist:
I won’t be single next year, I’m coming to Nigeria to get married. I never see the girl sha

If you are single and responsible apply and you must be gainfully employed, not a club girl and must be family oriented.

Avoid going to the village if your mother or father is not alive and strong headed village men... witchcraft is real oo!!!

Good luck

Zonefree:
Tell these daughters of Eve!

A broke and wretched Nigerian girl with just 2 pants and 3 bras looking for already made man for marriage. Didirin!

Wotoporiously speaking

kansoboy:
Avoid going to the village if your mother or father is not alive and strong headed village men... witchcraft is real oo!!!

Good luck

My parents are both outside naija

UselessBuharist:
My parents are both outside naija

Please avoid village settings....and smoke weed and eat dog meat if you must go to villa, that will help save you from evil ppl around u

UselessBuharist:
I won’t be single next year, I’m coming to Nigeria to get married. I never see the girl sha

If you are single and responsible apply and you must be gainfully employed, not a club girl and must be family oriented.

na olosho full here o...not even club girls....olosho coded.... even working class dey do am

UselessBuharist:
I won’t be single next year, I’m coming to Nigeria to get married. I never see the girl sha

If you are single and responsible apply and you must be gainfully employed, not a club girl and must be family oriented.

marry for there nahh why come back to Niger to marry? I thought they said their is heaven on earth?

I like his wisdom and sence of humor.

MALIGNANTGuest:
Mine is to TRUNCATE any situation that will make a HARDWORKING PRUDENT YOUNG MAN end up with a harlot or Leech all in the name of marriage.

I will continue to make sure young men see reasons why they must marry a GOAL GETTER and not a receptacle or poverty conduit.

Since we have agreed to adopt the American style even in Nigeria, a lady must be informed of her monetary contributions to her marriage as well as the upkeep of the home in the marriage.
These must be spelt out, crystal clear.

That is the way to go Bro.

U see…. U can’t identify that ve been married for 40 years. Respect your elders in this institution if you want to pass

UselessBuharist:
You be goat, you go forever remain single. Idiot

Kenelekan:
U see…. U can’t identify that ve been married for 40 years. Respect your elders in this institution if you want to pass

40 years?


That's a very serious matter!!!!!!!!!!!!


Let me add you to the 'followed'


This is not funny at all

This guy trus so hard to sound smart. I am not again your Stallings claim for yourself but it should flow naturally.
Tinubu is gaffer master by default, he doesn't think too much about it for instance.

Single I came, single I will remain, and single I will go... Marriage is not by force. I'm looking for who will come and marry me not the other way round.

Just in love with India culture

Most of us single are dealing in one setback or another. Importantly financial setback, emotional setback and right partner issue .

UselessBuharist:
I won’t be single next year, I’m coming to Nigeria to get married. I never see the girl sha

If you are single and responsible apply and you must be gainfully employed, not a club girl and must be family oriented.

...As what, you as prince Charming ? oga kukuma face front

Nazgul:
Lies...major causes of high rate of singles in Nigeria include the following.

1. Unemployment : Unemployment and the fear of not getting a well-paying job tops the list of reasons men run away from marital commitment.

They prefer waiting until they are financially stable to take up the roles of a husband which comes with added responsibilities.

Closely tied to this is the fact that no woman would want to get married to a jobless man who cannot take care of them and they would never touch such men with a metre long pole.

Being financially stable in Nigeria comes with a lot of responsibilities as parents, siblings and other relations would also expect you to dole out something to them at the end of the month.

2. Expensive wedding : In most Nigerian cities, getting married is so expensive that by the time one is done, he would have spent millions of Naira.

Starting from the introduction to the traditional marriage and the white wedding, some places put off their men who are ready to get married and as such, the men end up either getting married to people from other places or not getting married at all.

3. High rate of divorce : Men are often intimidated at the rate of divorce that they witness in the society where most marriages do not last beyond five years.

When they see this and get to hear testimonies from other married men who are having a torrid time in their marriages, they tend to think they could face the same if they get married.

4. No wife material The common notion among most men is the reservation that there is scarcity of ‘wife-materials’ in Nigeria. In this case, they are not referring to ladies not being in quantifiable distribution among men, what they are complaining about is that most ladies of this generation lack the necessary attributes that will qualify them for the lifetime commitment called marriage.

This is because fornication in Nigeria today is like food. You can sit at the comfort of your home and order for a girl online, for all kinds of sexual fantasy. This act scares most guys including ones who patronize these girls.

Cos they'll keep asking that question...who go marry this one?

Your points are valid, the sad reality.

Kenelekan:
U see…. U can’t identify that ve been married for 40 years. Respect your elders in this institution if you want to pass

If na your insults go make me pass I beg I nor do

fcbelle72:
...As what, you as prince Charming ? oga kukuma face front

No, not about looks here, I have suffered too much to marry just anybody

NwekeUG:
Nigerian actor and filmaker, Ugezu J. Ugezu has taken to Instagram to explain why those lamenting that they didn't find love are still single, IGBERETV reports.

He wrote; "They are single because they weren't prepared to give those who found them any chance." "They are looking for something, something they cannot explain. "Next year will come and go and they are still single males and females."

A relationship is an agreement between two individuals. If a person is unwilling to give another q chance it means there is no agreement/love between the two. So, until that agreement exists, there is no love meaning love hasn't been found.

GeeMeshin1:
There are exceptions though

High? So will you submit yourself to the next nutjob that shakes her behind at you? If not, you also have a high standard as is your right to much the same as everyone else out there.

Sweetplum:
Ok. This uncle talked deeply. Well. We all v our preference but I also believe in giving love a chance.

He said nothing sensible. A relationship is meant to be an agreement between two individuals, that agreement defining the love that exists between them. So if a person is single it means the person is yet to find love and hence ought not to settle for less than an agreement with another. What this dingleberry is suggesting is that the fact that a one is single is a sort of blemish against such a person, the same foolish nonsense that our ancestors used in driving our mothers deep in to loveless, and even abusive marriages all so as to escape being single.

toyinjimoh:
When women see marriage and divorce as a cash out mechanism. Men see it as a child making ministry with the license to sleep around with every hole they come across...many does not marry because of love and affection any more they marry because of Money and wealth

When the culture pulls down single-hood as a form of handicap same as this man here is attempting to by suggesting that love in relationship is no longer the agreement between the parties involved, what do you expect?

SIMONEKPA7:
Word of the spirit.... Make sense

He is bullsheeting you all with the same trash your ancestors used to cause you all to settle for less in marriage.

Blessedmercy8:
1. Veeeery true!! God bless you. So many have set-standards for the type of person they want to marry. Meanwhile such kind of people will not smell their dreams talk more of crossing their path and they'll only end up miserable. Others are going for a particular look and shape meanwhile, they don't look presentable by any standard. Them still dey there dey die in loneliness.

2. Some, like me, are waiting for Angel Gabriel ( perfect man) na here we still dey dey shine eyes like crayfish. Anyways, better to wait for that angel than end up with a demon that most men have become.
In all, I still believe a person should go for what they want "IF" they can get it. Cos I don't subscribe to marrying anyone just because they came for me .

3. If wetin you want, want you, fine. If wetin you want no want you, just dey your dey. The worst thing that can happen to anyone is staying with someone you don't LIKE! Better to be single than be with someone you can't stand his guts. You'll still end up being lonely.

1. That makes no sense at all! If relationship is defined as an agreement between two persons and that agreement is pretty much the love between them, then isn't it the right of the individuals to decide love as it best suits him or her? Who are you to decide for anyone other than your own self the kind of love that works best for the individual?

2. So you don't even agree with the man yet you claim what he said is true?

3. So how did you arrive at his claim being true?

Miles300:
This generation so obsessed with relationship yet there is still high rate of divorce goin on...

They are obsessed because their parents before them, including the man in the OP is equally obsessed with it.

Onyiiobi7735:
Ayaka Enugwu Ukwu,ride on.You are right on point,but many will find this statement of fact,too bitter to accept.

What fact is that?

Benitoh:
He's saying the truth....

Some girls don't like a struggling guy. Once you're not rich to their taste sorry is your name.

is there a particular reason why they should like what they don't like?

Atarakpa:
Who go come settle this matter for the singles now. @bm pls come and tell us what exactly went wrong

Stop demonizing singlehood!

[quote author=Tsolutionjoseph post=119356327]Being single as a man,is far better than enduring in marriage, I won't advise men to settle for less, because marriage is more beneficial to women, even happy home[/quote] No human being should settle for less than what they desire in relationships. So folks like this man should shut up and stop making it seem something is wrong with those who are still single.