'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' - Family (6)

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Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by Fantazy(m): 6:16pm On Dec 25, 2022

If his wife start acting contrary to what he says now, he will still come here to rant!

Him don smoke Igbo! E be like say him dey take Indian hemp!

Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by LoveJesus87(m): 6:31pm On Dec 25, 2022

brain54:
Na these kind of statements Dey make divorce rate go higher…

Our old African fathers had more successful marriages. Because a man is the head of the house and makes major decisions for the family.
Now we must copy everything from oyinbo! All these are oyibo ideas.

African men must remember their roots!

very stupid post. Don't mind them

Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by spiritmasquerad(m): 8:17pm On Dec 25, 2022

brain54:
Na these kind of statements Dey make divorce rate go higher…

Our old African fathers had more successful marriages. Because a man is the head of the house and makes major decisions for the family.
Now we must copy everything from oyinbo! All these are oyibo ideas.

African men must remember their roots!

Our old african parent didn't have successful marriages they had slavery

Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by HRprof: 9:23pm On Dec 25, 2022

100% correction
Husband and wife is a partner who contributes ideas to make a better home no one is an island of knowledge. Being a head of the house doesn’t mean you know everything. In fact if your wife don’t contribute ideas and do everything you said that means she don’t have anything upsets. bro you marry to Zombie not a wife.

Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by Kobojunkie: 9:38pm On Dec 25, 2022

franconian:
If they are largely undocumented, how then did you arrive at that figure?

That is like asking me how we, as Nigerians, are well aware that the real unemployment rate is well over 50% even when the official rate continues to suggest it only about 17% or less. undecided

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Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by Kobojunkie: 9:40pm On Dec 25, 2022

Jeon:
I see that.
Even the Belgian black marble stone was stolen from Africa and transported to England the Queen's family.

ROFLMAO

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Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by Jeon(f): 9:42pm On Dec 25, 2022

Kobojunkie:
ROFLMAO

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Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by Kobojunkie: 9:45pm On Dec 25, 2022

princeakinola1:
Largest and biggest thing that make marriage last then is wife submissive to husband, a reasonable husband will not want all answers from wife to be yes but at least 75% most be as head,what make divorce numbers high this days is inability to submissive of wife to husband, remember if truly you are good husband you must take 80% of your house responsibility, isn't easy to be hustling around and come home and see disobedience wife, I think this man isn't married or not responsible at home, married man understand better.

The marriage might last but history has shown time and again that quality wise such marriage suffer and children born to such settings struggle mentally. undecided

Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by Kobojunkie: 9:47pm On Dec 25, 2022

CorperKola:
The guy is a clown
There are factors that contribute to divorces
Maybe he grew up in the ghetto
For instance i have the exact opposite experience to his.
Growing up, i had no single incidence of any divorce in my estate of about 1000 houses.
Not one that i knew of then
So....

You are an eejit to insist that the statement in bold matters as far as this entire discussion is concerned. lipsrsealed

Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by Kobojunkie: 9:48pm On Dec 25, 2022

spiritmasquerad:
Our old african parent didn't have successful marriages they had slavery

Exactly!

Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by Kobojunkie: 9:49pm On Dec 25, 2022

Jeon:

Merry Christmas! grin

Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by Jeon(f): 10:41pm On Dec 25, 2022

Kobojunkie:
Merry Christmas!

Same to you.
cheesy

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Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by Robenna(m): 6:32am On Dec 26, 2022

brain54:
Out of point…

And you still Dey person to shut up join. I no even know wetin to reply you.

Just merry Xmas. I love you…!

I don't do Xmas �

Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by Munzy14(m): 6:51am On Dec 26, 2022

brain54:
Na these kind of statements Dey make divorce rate go higher…

Our old African fathers had more successful marriages. Because a man is the head of the house and makes major decisions for the family.
Now we must copy everything from oyinbo! All these are oyibo ideas.

African men must remember their roots!

The last line is important.

A wife is her hubby's first daughter..In the real sense

We all know the strong daddy-daughter bond.

Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by Umadam: 8:43am On Dec 26, 2022

Rubbish! Even if he is right, there is no point saying it in the air, because this can be a toxic to many homes of this days. There are alot of truth that rather be kept silent on, because of its interpretations, many homes are broken because women are dragging the place of men (equality)
We are Africans! U cant take that from us, even the gospel said men are the head! Yeye marriage counselor..

Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by justmondris: 4:49pm On Dec 27, 2022

brain54:
I said “major family decisions “ not everything.

Calm down woman!

I am not sure any man wants a robotic wife…

If you marry a good wife that knows how to think, it’s during making major family decisions you need her input the most. A lot of men makes decision with their dick and not their head.

Note: I am a married man and not a woman.

Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by brain54(m): 4:53pm On Dec 27, 2022

justmondris:
If you marry a good wife that knows how to think, it’s during making major family decisions you need her input the most. A lot of men makes decision with their dick and not their head.

Note: I am a married man and not a woman.

Nothing wrong in seeking a wife’s opinion even though at the end the men should have the final say.

Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by justmondris: 5:36pm On Dec 27, 2022

brain54:
Nothing wrong in seeking a wife’s opinion even though at the end the men should have the final say.

Having the final say is a right only lazy men brag about. A man that knows his worth to his family does not care about having the final say but ensuring the best decision is made for the family even it contradicts his thought or decision.

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Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by brain54(m): 5:46pm On Dec 27, 2022

justmondris:
Having the final say is a right only lazy men brag about. A man that knows his worth to his family does not care about having the final say but ensuring the best decision is made for the family even it contradicts his thought or decision.

Arriving at that best decision also might involve getting a broader others. Especially those it affects. Or don’t you think?

Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by Sweetvie: 5:55pm On Dec 27, 2022

Hmm
I concur

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