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Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by brain54(m): 12:58pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
justmondris:I said “major family decisions “ not everything. Calm down woman! I am not sure any man wants a robotic wife… |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by ekerintee: 1:00pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
I agree � with U,this kind thing fit destroy home.your wife may not always agree with U,but someone must have last say.Most women now want men to do what they want or say.so it has to be balanced,when a woman say if U don't buy me this or do this,U can't have this.A woman can advise her husband,a good husband must consider his wife in decision making.If U marry the wrong woman,when a man will appreciate a humble woman.Even a child has right but must submit to the authority of the parent.a woman also has right but must be humble enough,so both party must be humble brain54: |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by brain54(m): 1:02pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
ekerintee:You understand my point! |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by Nobody: 1:15pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Make every GENDER just dey their own. Any Gender you need just bargain price with am and invite am, when done open door for that GENDER to leave. Is it too difficult? ASHAWO for example dey only quarrel you when you no pay or settle am. Same applies to contractors, mercenaries and expatriates Women have evolved, they can never go back to the old ways of doing things. A time will come when Ladies will attach price tag to submissiveness just like wives and Girlfriends bill their men. Expecting them to become submissive is stupidity. They have been empowered, exposed, and armed. |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by ekerintee: 1:23pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
If a man decides to follow this principle n he marries the wrong woman.Then he will understand that this principle does not work when you marry a wrong person.She will tell you that you don't have right over me and can't tell me what to do because am not your child.if U tell her let's do this thing ,she will say I don't gree,then U have apc and PDP in your home.i sometimes feel sorry for pple who follow counsellor ,there is no perfect principle ,every case and home is different brain54: |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by Nobody: 1:26pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
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Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by brain54(m): 1:32pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
ekerintee:No perfect principle. True. Nothing is perfect. But to an extent the older generation of marriages did better and lasted longer than the present generation of marriages. Which means they were doing something at least better. In the end consider that most of those marriages were either forced or arranged marriages and you would understand that the older generation really handled marriage better than this generation. Compare to situations presently were people date/court for 10years and break up after 1 year of marriage. Even when they met voluntarily. It tells me something is wrong! The oldies handled better. We as Africans should learn to modernize our ways and make them better rather than throw them out the window and embrace alien cultures. Especially when they do us no good. 1 Like |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by Nobody: 1:33pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by brain54(m): 1:39pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
RenerdLiam:No man truely in the real sense of the word told his wife what to do… Usually he consulted the wife on issues while taking the final decision on family matters. On other minor issues like cooking and other arrangements he left the woman completely at ease to use her discretion. 2 Likes |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by brain54(m): 1:46pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
HaneefahRN:If you want to hear the ironic truth… It is that it is this generation of marriages that are more toxic and (as you have admitted) short lived! |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by Onyiiobi7735(m): 1:47pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
brain54:God bless you for your golden statement.Western ideology has done more damage than good. |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by ekerintee: 1:54pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Generally,I think on future.there may not be marriages again,women are getting exposed and those things our mothers endured in marriage can't be endured by modern days women.More power is given to women now and some women abuse the process.some men also abuse power and authority.In general, humans change ,a man may be good and humble when he married ,something's happen along the line , challenges come and storm ,his behaviour changes.so also women do change.Marriage is so complex, wen you marry wrong person ,half of your life is gone brain54: |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by princeakinola1(m): 1:58pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Largest and biggest thing that make marriage last then is wife submissive to husband, a reasonable husband will not want all answers from wife to be yes but at least 75% most be as head,what make divorce numbers high this days is inability to submissive of wife to husband, remember if truly you are good husband you must take 80% of your house responsibility, isn't easy to be hustling around and come home and see disobedience wife, I think this man isn't married or not responsible at home, married man understand better. |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by brain54(m): 1:58pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
ekerintee:So in essence and conclusion you agree that although marriage is complex and a lot of things involved… a major cause divorce is the embrace of foreign influences and cultures. There is another thread we’re I stated that in generations to come. Marriage as we know it today will not exist. Maybe people would hookup just to have kids. Satisfy sexual urges. No more commitment or companionship. It might even get to a stage we’re people buying fertilized egg cells and spermatozoa just to have kids while avoiding marriage in itself. The future is crazy and chaotic. I thank God I won’t be in existence by the time it gets there. Or maybe it may be sooner than I think. Who knows…? 1 Like |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by ekerintee: 2:03pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
I think it's luck when you have a submissive wife in this generation.when you apply the principle with a wrong woman,marriage 2ill never last .She will challenge U in every thing ,she will even tell you that she knows more than u AZControversial: |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by AZControversial(m): 2:10pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
ekerintee: Seriously..... its frightening!!! |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by ekerintee: 2:10pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Yes, education,etc .I live abroad and I see what marriage is like in this world.People are redefining marriage to suite them.i don't believe women shud be slave to men but a good woman must be submissive ° brain54: |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by PlanktonX: 2:11pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Promoter of Divorce in Marriage has spoken again. Your wife is not your slave and not just your partner but your divine chosen partner to achieve your divine purpose ( both your and hers). She is the foundation of your success without which you might be rich but difficult to achieve divine purpose. Men and women are not equal but none is superior or better than the other. But as chos n the man as the head and the wife as his best companion. It is not a debate but a simple understanding of the role of each in a family. God bless all our wives, mothers and sisters. |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by benqo01(m): 2:16pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
And what if your wife refuses at some point what will he do? Remember the wife might even get a different idea on something the question is will he also listen to her own idea? |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by Tzar(m): 2:19pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Who still listens to these idiots? |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by Ten06(m): 2:35pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Who is she to you if she does things you do not want her to do? |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by kunle75(m): 2:44pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Omicronvaccine: Idiot will come here to rant when his wife begins misbehaving soon. Anofia |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by Nobody: 3:06pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
ibkayee: Dang! Shots fired Oh you did that boy greasy 1 Like |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by Nobody: 3:15pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
ekerintee:We like to put the blame on women without looking inwards. How many of you married friends went on " she has big bum bum, she is so fine, she is yellow in complexion, everywhere we go people look at her" to marry their wives, the real ones they had before the made money were all abandoned and 3 years into the marriage, they now want a submissive wife. Life is a balance, you want the hot ones, you get what comes with them, you want the sex all day dummies, your kids will write jamb 6 times, you are ready to achieve and delegate, then you consult your intelligent wife ( if you married one) and she will give you a different perspective |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by Robenna(m): 3:20pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
brain54: Shut up Your wife is your mate No one married each other oga That's why my future wife is my agemate I prefer it they way 1 Like |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by brain54(m): 3:29pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Robenna:Out of point… And you still Dey person to shut up join. I no even know wetin to reply you. Just merry Xmas. I love you…! |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by CorperKola: 3:48pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
brain54:The guy is a clown There are factors that contribute to divorces Maybe he grew up in the ghetto For instance i have the exact opposite experience to his. Growing up, i had no single incidence of any divorce in my estate of about 1000 houses. Not one that i knew of then So.... |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by yemi1504: 4:31pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Omicronvaccine: He is right! As long as you are not too heady or stubborn and dogmatic, you have a right to your own opinions. Getting me to understand those opinions and why we should go with them as a wife without insults like our mothers did then is the way to go. |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by achimendy(m): 4:46pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
Omicronvaccine: I'm a man and I agree with him 100%. We need to understand that as a humans we're not perfect, except God only. The bible called the woman a help meet, not just in some areas, but every part of life including the family. God made man the head of the family, but we need to also understand that men do mistakes too, and the wife is there to help by giving the husband a good advice, or by stopping him from taking any bad decision that will affect the family. Is only a foolish woman that'll see his husband taking a bad decision and she will keep quiet. If a husband decided to sell his properties just to play bet, will you ( those criticising the man) as the wife allow him to do that?? The answer is no. So a woman must not agree to everything the husband says, that's if it's on the right side. And a wise woman will use wisdom to table the Matter to her husband. Not by doing it the rude way. |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by Hotty321(m): 5:05pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
The statement only make Sense partially, however as the head of the house your order should stand at most times unless you just wannna be urchin horse band |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by Hotty321(m): 5:05pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
The statement only make Sense partially, however as the head of the house your order should stand at most times unless you just wannna be urc.hin horse band |
Re: 'If My Wife Does Everything I Tell Her To Do, Then She's My Child, Not My Wife' by helicoptarr: 6:01pm On Dec 25, 2022 |
7 brain54: That's exactly what Adam thought, and ate the forbidden fruit...we're all still embracing the punishment after thousands of years. There's a great program designed to reduce a man's place in the plan of God for humanity. Real men, beware! |
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