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Orevahhh:
She is amazing...XOXO

Zonefree:
A woman married for almost a decade transferred some money to her husband and paid for THEIR children's lesson teacher, then she decides to write an epistle and informed the world about that

Something the man has being doing for years without complaining or telling anyone


Women!

IyaTola:
My salary came yesterday and immediately I received alert, I rushed to my husband and asked him how much he needs me to contribute after informing him that my salary has been paid.

Oga thought I was joking and mentioned a figure thinking I was going to contest because it was almost all my salary, I just carried my phone and transferred it to him.

It was doing him like film, I then went ahead to pay the salary of our children's lesson teacher so that he would stop thinking about it.

That's when I realized that he was doing so much without complaining He sees it like his duty and even when the financial burden is too much, he struggles to pay without asking me.

He was so surprised and happy, I know that my money is just a fraction of what he brings but he felt like I gave him millions.

I then told him that I am putting in the effort to make more money so that I can still reduce his stress. He didn't marry a responsibility, he married an helper and he should be feeling more relaxed than when he was single.

I have never felt entitled to anybody's pocket and I won't do that with my husband.

Omo, oga went to the market without even telling me, stocked up the home.

Cooked and served me o, this small support has gone a long way to settle silent quarrels that I didn't even know about.

I will keep working harder and doing my best, men also need support, they are not supermarket. Men needs our support too

Written by a virtuous woman

LadyRosa:
You tried , but there's room for improvement .
If your husband is shocked over you sacrificing a month of salary ,that means your financial contribution to the house is absolutely nothing for so long.

pragmatistm:
You just explained the true meaning of a virtuos woman that all wife should be. I commend you greatly because not many women out there can do this. But true be told, my wife dey try well too in this regard.

Kobojunkie:
Rubbish!

Definitely written instead by a woman who thinks too big of herself. If this one is a virtuous woman, what then do we say of other women who have a 50-50 arrangement where they handle half the cost of keeping their own family, without complaints or needing praise from anyone? Abeg, through that nonsense copy-paste thing away as it seeks to insult sensible women out there.

IyaTola:

ahnie:
My nieces name sake...I know you're isoko and I know you

Truvelisback:
U try sha. But na 2% of una fit do am. And even dis 2% self hard to find. Sadly, women we meet these days are Orphans.