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What would you do if you are married, but your husband isn’t nice to you
Doesn’t show you attention, care or love but he has time for the ladies around him, gives them enough attention and care even though he claims he is not cheating
As a married woman who is lacking all these from her husband, is it okay for me to cheat on my husband?

ante56:
What would you do if you are married, but your husband isn’t nice to you
Doesn’t show you attention, care or love but he has time for the ladies around him, gives them enough attention and care even though he claims he is not cheating
As a married woman who is lacking all these from her husband, is it okay for me to cheat on my husband?

Why are you still married to him?

no need CHEATING..if the marriage is destroying you emotionally..just quit and have peace... cheating would complicate your life more...for the records any man not caring or loving his wife is caring and loving another woman..

My dear, it doesn't matter the opinion of nairalanders. U have already made up ur mind to cheat on your husband that is if u have not cheated already.

I fear who no fear women

ante56:
What would you do if you are married, but your husband isn’t nice to you
Doesn’t show you attention, care or love but he has time for the ladies around him, gives them enough attention and care even though he claims he is not cheating
As a married woman who is lacking all these from her husband, is it okay for me to cheat on my husband?

Errrmmm it is NOT OKAY to become MAD just because a MAD PERSON lives in your neighbourhood.... IT IS ALSO NOT OKAY TO BECOME SICK because someone else living under your roof is SICK.

You are MARRIED right? You chose the man, no one forced him on you, so you have to find a solution, even if it means reporting him to his parents.... alfas or pastors.

You need to take his matter up to someone he respects and listens to, so that the person can call him to order.

You both need couples counseling, probably there is something about you he doesn't like hence he goes OUT.

if you CHEAT and get HOOOKED... you will never be the same again and you will be forever blamed... especially if you get PREGNANT... no one will blame the man.

NEXT... learn how to hacck his phone, confirm he is truly cheating before you made bold moves.

NEXT .... protect yourself from STDs

If all these are done and yet no change, you may need to confront his side chicks and warn them.. SEE, THIS IS MARRIAGE, YOU HAVE TO FIGHT TO KEEP IT.

The amount of divorced women in Nigeria don pass the population of ghana. Soon milfs go be the street girls hustling

Una well done oo

yrhuhfy113:
Errrmmm it is NOT OKAY to become MAD just because a MAD PERSON lives in your neighbourhood.... IT IS ALSO NOT OKAY TO BECOME SICK because someone else living under your roof is SICK.

You are MARRIED right? You chose the man, no one forced him on you, so you have to find a solution, even if it means reporting him to his parents.... alfas or pastors.

You need to take his matter up to someone he respects and listens to, so that the person can call him to order.

You both need couples counseling, probably there is something about you he doesn't like hence he goes OUT.


if you CHEAT and get HOOOKED... you will never be the same again and you will be forever blamed... especially if you get PREGNANT... no one will blame the man.

NEXT... learn how to hacck his phone, confirm he is truly cheating before you made bold moves.

NEXT .... protect yourself from STDs

If all these are done and yet no change, you may need to confront his side chicks and warn them.. SEE, THIS IS MARRIAGE, YOU HAVE TO FIGHT TO KEEP IT.

Thank you

rickpat:
no need CHEATING..if the marriage is destroying you emotionally..just quit and have peace... cheating would complicate your life more...for the records any man not caring or loving is wife is caring and loving another woman..

Thank you

What does your conscience tell you…?

I have a question for u... 1.was this his behaviour when you guys got married ealier? 2.did u offend him and didn't appologise? am a guy,guys can do anything just to make their partner jealous...etc

brain54:
What does your conscience tell you…?

My conscience wants me to…I’m losing my mind
It hurts seeing other ladies happy because your husband treats them right, but he abandons me

Nehe007:
I have a question for u...
1.was this his behaviour when you guys got married ealier?
2.did u offend him and didn't appologise?
am a guy,guys can do anything just to make their partner jealous...etc

This was his behavior before we got married, but he is now worse
He is a nice man to everybody not to me

ante56:
My conscience wants me to…I’m losing my mind
It hurts seeing other ladies happy because your husband treats them right, but he abandons me

What exactly does your husband do…?


Can you give details? How does he abandon you etc…

yrhuhfy113:
Errrmmm it is NOT OKAY to become MAD just because a MAD PERSON lives in your neighbourhood.... IT IS ALSO NOT OKAY TO BECOME SICK because someone else living under your roof is SICK.

You are MARRIED right? You chose the man, no one forced him on you, so you have to find a solution, even if it means reporting him to his parents.... alfas or pastors.

You need to take his matter up to someone he respects and listens to, so that the person can call him to order.

You both need couples counseling, probably there is something about you he doesn't like hence he goes OUT.

if you CHEAT and get HOOOKED... you will never be the same again and you will be forever blamed... especially if you get PREGNANT... no one will blame the man.

NEXT... learn how to hacck his phone, confirm he is truly cheating before you made bold moves.

NEXT .... protect yourself from STDs

If all these are done and yet no change, you may need to confront his side chicks and warn them.. SEE, THIS IS MARRIAGE, YOU HAVE TO FIGHT TO KEEP IT.

ante56:
This was his behavior before we got married, but he is now worse
He is a nice man to everybody not to me

He didn't change, that who he has always been......why did you ignore the waving red flag?

You accepted him and his promiscuity before marriage,why expect him to change because he is married to you?

ante56:
What would you do if you are married, but your husband isn’t nice to you
Doesn’t show you attention, care or love but he has time for the ladies around him, gives them enough attention and care even though he claims he is not cheating
As a married woman who is lacking all these from her husband, is it okay for me to cheat on my husband?

Cheat or no cheating, it doesn't solve any problem

Focus on your children and build your self

A time will come he will need your attention and audience, by then it will be too late as your would have been more occupied with other meaningful things that needs your attention

Just take charge of your emotions and things around you
While he is busy chasing shadows

ante56:
This was his behavior before we got married, but he is now worse
He is a nice man to everybody not to me

talk to him,tell him how you feel about his behaviour.cheating is not a good option.

ante56:
This was his behavior before we got married, but he is now worse
He is a nice man to everybody not to me

Why did you marry him??

frozen70:
Cheat or no cheating, it doesn't solve any problem

Focus on your children and build your self

A time will come he will need your attention and audience, by then it will be too late as your would have been more occupied with other meaningful things that needs your attention


Just take charge of your emotions and things around you
While he is busy chasing shadows

Thank you
No kids yet

ante56:
Thank you
No kids yet

Ok then relax and pray for the the blessings of God

ante56:
My conscience wants me to…I’m losing my mind
It hurts seeing other ladies happy because your husband treats them right, but he abandons me

You don’t have conscience in the first place madam,for thinking about it at all.. Because your husband is misbehaving you want to cheat? Is that the best thing to do to make him change? Ask yourself that question and answer it also.. I don’t even know what to tell you.. Go cheat nau,until your husband catches you ,then dumps your sorry ass and who you went cheating with use and dumps you too. Maybe by then you go understand life better

No

ante56:
This was his behavior before we got married, but he is now worse
He is a nice man to everybody not to me

You deserve to be happy in your marriage. Try counseling, if it doesn't work leave. No need to cheat.

ante56:
My conscience wants me to…I’m losing my mind
It hurts seeing other ladies happy because your husband treats them right, but he abandons me

There's nothing I hate more than a married woman who cheats. If you are unhappy in the marriage just quit with your head held high instead of cheating and getting caught thereby ending in disgrace.

How many children do you have for him?do you have a job or do you have a place to stay instead of cheating get money and leave him for the bannies he isn't worth it... I wish I could hear his own side of my story too... good luck

ante56:
What would you do if you are married, but your husband isn’t nice to you Doesn’t show you attention, care or love but he has time for the ladies around him, gives them enough attention and care even though he claims he is not cheating . As a married woman who is lacking all these from her husband, is it okay for me to cheat on my husband?

It is never OK to cheat on anyone. If you don't like the marriage, you can always get out of it. Choosing to cheat on him shows you are no better an arsehole than he is.

Bethanybethel:
No

Thank you

That is why I keep saying that all Nigerian wives learnt cheating from their husbands.... it's the true fact, yet the crazyy fellows keep quoting me.

Kobojunkie:
It is never OK to cheat on anyone. If you don't like the marriage, you can always get out of it. Choosing to cheat on him shows you are no better an arsehole than he is.

Thank you

U will lose at the end dear



Is better u walk away

Richy4:

Please don't cheat on him..
<< Just pray for him dear, there is nothing prayers cannot do... Try and watch war room, u will understand the power of prayer..

<< Dress nicely for him too...men likes neat ladies...Invest on underwears like Thongs and Bikini Panties.. Calvin Klein got good quality materials of Bikini Underwears..

<< Call him sexy names.. do not say things like Papa Ephraim, food is ready...

<< When he is going to work, escort him to the gate.. if u have no gate just escort him to the park.. that will secure him..and shuwww away unwanted distractions

<< Finally, do not deny him sex... Even if he wasn't doing it right, or hitting the right button, just keep screaming that he was killing you...
U will see how the attentions will come over night....

Please on a serious note, if he wasn't given you attention check which is better for you a Divorcee or an adulterer...I believe u are smart enough to make a wise decision..

Thank you so much

ante56:
What would you do if you are married, but your husband isn’t nice to you
Doesn’t show you attention, care or love but he has time for the ladies around him, gives them enough attention and care even though he claims he is not cheating
As a married woman who is lacking all these from her husband, is it okay for me to cheat on my husband?

What do you mean by the bolded?

Do you leave in a clubhouse?