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Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by ante56: 10:03am On Jan 07, 2023 |
What would you do if you are married, but your husband isn’t nice to you Doesn’t show you attention, care or love but he has time for the ladies around him, gives them enough attention and care even though he claims he is not cheating As a married woman who is lacking all these from her husband, is it okay for me to cheat on my husband? |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by Mindlog: 10:04am On Jan 07, 2023 |
ante56: Why are you still married to him? 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by rickpat(m): 10:07am On Jan 07, 2023 |
no need CHEATING..if the marriage is destroying you emotionally..just quit and have peace... cheating would complicate your life more...for the records any man not caring or loving his wife is caring and loving another woman.. 14 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by Onucs(m): 10:07am On Jan 07, 2023 |
My dear, it doesn't matter the opinion of nairalanders. U have already made up ur mind to cheat on your husband that is if u have not cheated already. I fear who no fear women 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by yrhuhfy113: 10:09am On Jan 07, 2023 |
ante56: Errrmmm it is NOT OKAY to become MAD just because a MAD PERSON lives in your neighbourhood.... IT IS ALSO NOT OKAY TO BECOME SICK because someone else living under your roof is SICK. You are MARRIED right? You chose the man, no one forced him on you, so you have to find a solution, even if it means reporting him to his parents.... alfas or pastors. You need to take his matter up to someone he respects and listens to, so that the person can call him to order. You both need couples counseling, probably there is something about you he doesn't like hence he goes OUT. if you CHEAT and get HOOOKED... you will never be the same again and you will be forever blamed... especially if you get PREGNANT... no one will blame the man. NEXT... learn how to hacck his phone, confirm he is truly cheating before you made bold moves. NEXT .... protect yourself from STDs If all these are done and yet no change, you may need to confront his side chicks and warn them.. SEE, THIS IS MARRIAGE, YOU HAVE TO FIGHT TO KEEP IT. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by wordbank(m): 10:14am On Jan 07, 2023 |
The amount of divorced women in Nigeria don pass the population of ghana. Soon milfs go be the street girls hustling Una well done oo 1 Like
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Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by ante56: 10:17am On Jan 07, 2023 |
yrhuhfy113: Thank you |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by ante56: 10:17am On Jan 07, 2023 |
rickpat: Thank you |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by brain54(m): 10:20am On Jan 07, 2023 |
What does your conscience tell you…? |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by Nehe007(m): 10:23am On Jan 07, 2023 |
I have a question for u...
1.was this his behaviour when you guys got married ealier?
2.did u offend him and didn't appologise?
am a guy,guys can do anything just to make their partner jealous...etc |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by ante56: 10:24am On Jan 07, 2023 |
brain54: My conscience wants me to…I’m losing my mind It hurts seeing other ladies happy because your husband treats them right, but he abandons me 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by ante56: 10:26am On Jan 07, 2023 |
Nehe007: This was his behavior before we got married, but he is now worse He is a nice man to everybody not to me |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by brain54(m): 10:26am On Jan 07, 2023 |
ante56:What exactly does your husband do…? Can you give details? How does he abandon you etc… 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by Mindlog: 10:29am On Jan 07, 2023 |
yrhuhfy113: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by Mindlog: 10:33am On Jan 07, 2023 |
ante56: He didn't change, that who he has always been......why did you ignore the waving red flag? You accepted him and his promiscuity before marriage,why expect him to change because he is married to you? 6 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by frozen70(f): 10:47am On Jan 07, 2023 |
ante56: Cheat or no cheating, it doesn't solve any problem Focus on your children and build your self A time will come he will need your attention and audience, by then it will be too late as your would have been more occupied with other meaningful things that needs your attention Just take charge of your emotions and things around you While he is busy chasing shadows 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by Nehe007(m): 10:50am On Jan 07, 2023 |
ante56:talk to him,tell him how you feel about his behaviour.cheating is not a good option. |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by Rechargeam247(f): 11:15am On Jan 07, 2023 |
ante56:Why did you marry him?? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by ante56: 11:52am On Jan 07, 2023 |
frozen70: Thank you No kids yet 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by frozen70(f): 12:04pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
ante56: Ok then relax and pray for the the blessings of God 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by BigYash: 12:09pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
ante56:You don’t have conscience in the first place madam,for thinking about it at all.. Because your husband is misbehaving you want to cheat? Is that the best thing to do to make him change? Ask yourself that question and answer it also.. I don’t even know what to tell you.. Go cheat nau,until your husband catches you ,then dumps your sorry ass and who you went cheating with use and dumps you too. Maybe by then you go understand life better 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by Bethanybethel(f): 1:02pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
No |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by Aurelius1(m): 1:08pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
ante56:You deserve to be happy in your marriage. Try counseling, if it doesn't work leave. No need to cheat. ante56:There's nothing I hate more than a married woman who cheats. If you are unhappy in the marriage just quit with your head held high instead of cheating and getting caught thereby ending in disgrace. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by Jozilinn: 1:56pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
How many children do you have for him?do you have a job or do you have a place to stay instead of cheating get money and leave him for the bannies he isn't worth it... I wish I could hear his own side of my story too... good luck 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by Kobojunkie: 3:21pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
ante56:It is never OK to cheat on anyone. If you don't like the marriage, you can always get out of it. Choosing to cheat on him shows you are no better an arsehole than he is. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by ante56: 3:30pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Bethanybethel: Thank you |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by LilMissFavvy(f): 3:30pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
That is why I keep saying that all Nigerian wives learnt cheating from their husbands.... it's the true fact, yet the crazyy fellows keep quoting me. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by ante56: 3:31pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Thank you |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by nicerod(m): 3:31pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
U will lose at the end dear Is better u walk away 1 Like
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Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by Richy4(m): 4:03pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Please don't cheat on him.. << Just pray for him dear, there is nothing prayers cannot do... Try and watch war room, u will understand the power of prayer.. << Dress nicely for him too...men likes neat ladies...Invest on underwears like Thongs and Bikini Panties.. Calvin Klein got good quality materials of Bikini Underwears.. << Call him sexy names.. do not say things like Papa Ephraim, food is ready... << When he is going to work, escort him to the gate.. if u have no gate just escort him to the park.. that will secure him..and shuwww away unwanted distractions << Finally, do not deny him sex... Even if he wasn't doing it right, or hitting the right button, just keep screaming that he was killing you... U will see how the attentions will come over night.... Please on a serious note, if he wasn't given you attention check which is better for you a Divorcee or an adulterer...I believe u are smart enough to make a wise decision.. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by ante56: 4:08pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Richy4: Thank you so much 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay For Me To Cheat? by Nobody: 4:23pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
ante56: What do you mean by the bolded? Do you leave in a clubhouse? |
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