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Stargurl20:
No dey reason am. Consider yourself has one who has no one in the world. That way, whatever he does wouldn't move you anymore.

It's the stupid advice from men who are asking you to pray for him for me. Is he an handicap that you're praying for? A full grown man who does things out of his own will is who you're been asked to pray for. Will the same be said to man if the reverse was the case?
I know cheating doesn't favor women, and I'm not asking you to cheat, but if you've called his attention it severally and it doesn't seem like he's gonna turn a new leaf, ma'am, perform your wifely duties, but stop giving hoot about his cares, attention or other things. After all, you were all fine before his arrival into your life.

Thank you so much

onumadu:
Not sure if anyone had already asked this question, but HOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN MARRIED?
If your marriage is still "young", like under 1 year, I would advise you to be patient, and simply pray for your husband/marriage.
Young marriages go through crazy stuff like this when the couple is starting to live together and build together.
There are spiritual forces that need to be dislodged first. They are usually dislodged after the first or second year (usually the first year).
Then things settle down, and everybody starts behaving well.
Even this your thought about cheating may be coming from such forces.
But if this marriage is above two years, then seek divorce because it forebodes the future entirely.
But in all instances, cheating only complicates things and make them harder to handle.
Thread cautiously.

Thank you so much (3 years)

anthonyuncle:
look inward yourself for faults he dislikes.
report him to the family.
if he doesn't change, opt for divorce

Thank you

ante56:
What would you do if you are married, but your husband isn’t nice to you
Doesn’t show you attention, care or love but he has time for the ladies around him, gives them enough attention and care even though he claims he is not cheating
As a married woman who is lacking all these from her husband, is it okay for me to cheat on my husband?

The fact that someone has done something unjust or dishonest is no justification for acting in a similar way.

ekitimanalways:
The fact that someone has done something unjust or dishonest is no justification for acting in a similar way.

Thank you!

ante56:
Thank you so much (3 years)

Chai.
My sister this issue is deep and needs serious marriage counseling, failing which divorce may be your resort.
Emotional abuse is often worse than physical abuse because the scars are spiritual/psychological.

Emotional abuse is a very serious case, if you can't cope
please leave for your sanity! he is not worth it
Love yourself!

Aurelius1:
You deserve to be happy in your marriage. Try counseling, if it doesn't work leave. No need to cheat.
There's nothing I hate more than a married woman who cheats. If you are unhappy in the marriage just quit with your head held high instead of cheating and getting caught thereby ending in disgrace.

Any small things our woke generation will just be shouting Quit as if it is ludo game

There is nothing headup about a failed marriage, a wise woman will build her home, if she is lacking idea she should consult her elders and leave social media out of it.