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Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Magnoliaa(f): 4:35pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: You say whaaaaaaaaaaaaaat? LMAO. You logged in because of my comments? Awwnn. Awwnnn. Awwwnnnnn. M blorshing. 1 Like |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Exceed15: 4:37pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Naira20: U r right bro |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Kobojunkie: 4:41pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
pleasureosondu:1. If you don't have it, what stops you from acquiring it if it is important for you to give it? Are you broken in the head that you can't learn or acquire this thing you want so much to give? Even a madman or woman can make a good parent to her child as she tries her best so why can't you? 2. You are not making any sense. People overcome even the worst situations in life so why are you here giving us nothing but excuses for why you should not be expected to do the same simply because of a past that many of us probably had worse than you did? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Kobojunkie: 4:46pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
pleasureosondu:1. That saying actually implies that experience is a great teacher as far as wisdom is concerned. That saying does not mean you are to let your experiences decide your future for you. Your experiences are instead meant to help you make wiser choices and decisions in life. 2. Debunk statements made of what seems anxiety in your life? Victims have been known to go on to overcome their pasts, and in great ways too. The world is filled with people who have done exactly that. That a man was raised by a drunk as a father does not mean he too will end up a drunk. That a woman was raised by a mother who had to prostitute herself in order to feed her kids does not mean the same kids will turn tricks for a living. That is a fact of life we live in. You on the other hand seem to think that your personal delusions chart the way for all and that is your major problem to deal with. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Exceed15: 4:48pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Romanoff: Shut up jare...Were you there when she made the children beat their mother? Is it even rational ..una too dey add salt to pepper..Osinachi autopsy says otherwise by national hospital. Only God knows what's hidden. |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Exceed15: 4:55pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
CHoccolaTE: Make una dey deceive una self there. |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Exceed15: 4:58pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Emaprince: He who ears let him hear |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Romanoff(f): 4:59pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Exceed15: Are you daft or you didn't read in the news where it was reported that her kids said so? You better be kind before such a fate befalls you or someone close to you. Insult me again and watch me give you the home training you lacked in your two parent household. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by deebrownneymar: 5:02pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
pleasureosondu: I guess you don’t understand my statement. Why didn’t it also ask whether one should marry a man from a broken home 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Exceed15: 5:02pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Romanoff: Oh na so e dey pinch . Obviously you have symptoms of bitterness. It's glaring in your outburst. I pity the man in your life. |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Romanoff(f): 5:04pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Exceed15: You are the one with attributes of a wife beater. I pity any woman who is married to you or who will marry you. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Exceed15: 5:09pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Romanoff: I m happily married with two kids. Na u go find ur bearing.... Useless frustrated derailed specie . I pity the man in your life.. na like ds u go dey insult am... Oniranu .. ko shi kuro... Tuehhh God forbid bad thing. |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by millstone(m): 5:09pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Aklee4994:
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Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Romanoff(f): 5:11pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Exceed15: I pity that woman. She never see husband o. She no just know yet. I pray for your son(s), may they be more kind than you are and may they never be wife beaters. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Exceed15: 5:21pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Romanoff: I showed my wife this and we dey laugh u together ...madam Abi old cargo go look for a man u can molest with ur toxic character.. |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Romanoff(f): 5:22pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Exceed15: Yinmu. You showed your wife. Rotfl. 4 Likes |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Exceed15: 5:24pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Romanoff: Looooooooool.... |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by pleasureosondu(m): 5:29pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Understand statements before making arguements. I said, with no pun intended, Ladies from seperated homes lack certain basic qualities that helps in building a marriage. A child from a prostitute mom may or may not engage in adulthood but that child will definitely lack basic qualities that strengthens marriage even if she/he is not a prostitute. Those kids could be billionaires but they lack basic home training. This is the basics of my argument, so debunk it. Simple. |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by oloriooko(m): 5:31pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
So for your holier than thou mind she's bad marriage material abi Even orphans de marry You're such a bitter racist walahi Exceed15: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by pleasureosondu(m): 5:33pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
deebrownneymar:it's both ways but men manage the quality deficiencies they have, women tend to ignore theirs. |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Aklee4994(m): 6:02pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
[quote author=millstone post=120158379][/quote]Weed will indulge you from so weirdness as a guy sometimes 1 Like |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Kobojunkie: 6:10pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
pleasureosondu:1. Here's the reality of life. What your parents don't give you, you can always get for yourself this since you have the ability to learn throughout your life, even if on your own. And that ability to learn remains with you until your death. So, that idea you cling to is born of ignorance on your own part. There are many people out there who didn't have parents growing up but today sit as advisors and trainers to help teach many who grew up with parents what they need to succeed as individuals in life. Stop fooling yourself by clinging to what are archaic ideas that are not founded on reality, and start seeing reality as it presents itself to you each day. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by mylove4God(f): 6:33pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
pleasureosondu:The opinion I aired is still within the thread. A man who decide to marry a lady because she is not from a seperated family, will not prevent their union from breaking if they don't put effort into it. 3 Likes |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by pleasureosondu(m): 7:12pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:And you think it's easy as you pointed out? If it was, then it will reflect in the number of divorce we see around but no, people don't want to learn and boom, they opt for divorce. Even to learn something new requires humility. Ask yourself, how many of these ladies from seperated homes are humble, ready to learn? Guys from such homes are more open to learn than the ladies. The facts are there. See, I specifically mentioned a societal cliche- ladies from seperated homes. No other category falls under them such as kids who lose a parent. It's a different case cos these kids(now adults) know that that parent isn't coming back, so it's easier to move on. Not when you Know you're parents are alive but seperated for reasons that isn't your fault. It a mental torment, my friend. We may not agree on points but make sure your replies is devoid of insults and we can a meaning convo |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Gadafii: 7:16pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Magnoliaa:I live rent free in your head right, aww You will be fine |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by millstone(m): 7:27pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Aklee4994:True man |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by pleasureosondu(m): 7:41pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
mylove4God:At the bolded is key to a successful marriage but the issue is, can you put effort in something you don't value? Since divorce is the easy way out of marriage, how do kids know that marriage is important since they saw their parents terminate theirs? Most of these kids learn to hate one of the parents and they harbor same mindset into the marriage, especially the ladies. Like I stated earlier, it's more challenging wifing a lady from a seperated home. Exceptions are few. Now, more importantly, the absence of one parent always deprives the kids to develop balanced qualities that helps them in the later stages of the lives. This deficiency truly manifest itself when they get married. Ladies are the most affected especially if they didn't live with their dad. You can do a research. Guys ain't really affected cos you tend to realize that you're a mess needing repairs earlier than the ladies, so you try to fix yourself but the ladies don't even realize how damaged they are and will rather end the marriage than fix themselves up. We see this often here on Nairaland front-page, talk more about other sites as ladies are the front-runners in the divorce industry. 1 Like |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Magnoliaa(f): 7:46pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Gadafii: Yes. With pansophist, AfroKnight, Lilvicky68 and 99 others. So I wouldn't feel too special if I were you. 5 Likes |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Kobojunkie: 7:47pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
pleasureosondu:1. It is actually attainable. I have seen people from damaged backgrounds turn out to be better people than even those from non-damaged backgrounds. Your background means nothing unless you want it to be. The number of divorces has absolutely nothing to do with the background of people. In life, you make choices based on what you have at that point. If Osinachi had chosen to divorce her husband while she was alive, it would not have changed the facts of her background but instead revealed she had finally wised up to the fact that she as a human being deserved better than to live as a punching bag to another human. Sadly, she foolishly held on and is food for worms today. 2. You are silly! You think they are meant to learn from you, isn't it? The moment you believe it is your place to teach another adult how to live, that is the moment you reveal you are nothing but a fool uou Learning has nothing to do with the kind of foolish humility you attempt to assert here. Learning is easy. Pick up a book on the subject and practice. That is all it takes these days! 3. What I state here applies as far to every human being out there regardless of background or past. Every one of us, regardless of our pasts and what we have had to endure, can change for the better. So you singling out a specific group for your baseless attacks only reveals that you are yourself disconnected from reality as it is. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by BRATISLAVA: 7:50pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Magnoliaa: Keep your blorshes in check. Some of your followers enjoy the literature. 2 Likes |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by pleasureosondu(m): 8:01pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:You see how contradictory and stupid you are. You generalized your view and another can't. Shey you be Osinachi husband to know how she behaved when she was alive ni abi or was she killed for doing nothing You just talk nonsense since. Complete nitwit you are. |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Kobojunkie: 8:11pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
pleasureosondu:1. I am afraid you are confused in this. What sets humans apart from animal life is the fact that we are able to change our minds, in order to adapt or improve ourselves. That ability to learn is part of what makes us humans. And since what I stated applies as far as all humans, it isn't a generalization but a fact of our existence. 2. Abuse is a crime, and no matter what a person does, there is never a good enough reason to abuse said person. If at this stage in your life, you have yet to realize this, then, my friend, you need to worry more about yourself than the backgrounds of others. 3. The fact that you have clearly been unable to adequately refute any of what I have posted so far means you know what I have said so far isn't nonsense. Only you rail against it since it counters that which you would rather hold on to, foolishly mind you. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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