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Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by benjackugo(op): 12:13pm On Jan 19, 2023
Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother - Nigerian Man

A Nigerian man, Seye Dele, has said that people visiting couples who welcomed babies should give money to the fathers instead of the mothers, IGBERETV reports.

"Unpopular opinion: it’s the father you should give the envelope of money when visiting a couple who just had a baby, not the mother.

If you ask any mother what she remembers most from when her baby was brand new, it’s the words of encouragement, empathy and being present. Not the 5k new notes that Baba Dayo squeezed inside her hand", he tweeted on Wednesday, January 18, 2023.
https://twitter.com/seyedele/status/1615655626994065408?s=19

Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by LikeAking:
benjackugo:
Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother - Nigerian Man


A Nigerian man, Seye Dele, has said that people visiting couples who welcomed babies should give money to the fathers instead of the mothers, IGBERETV reports.

"Unpopular opinion: it’s the father you should give the envelope of money when visiting a couple who just had a baby, not the mother." he tweeted on Wednesday, January 18, 2023.
Nonsense!

Real men no suppose focus on that kind money..

Anything thing gift shud go to my wife n kids.
Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by Wawelexy(m): 1:15pm On Jan 19, 2023
LikeAking:
GoNonsense!

Real men no suppose focus on that kind money..

Anything thing gift shud go to my wife n kids.
Seconded
Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by priscaoge(f): 1:19pm On Jan 19, 2023
Ịnụkwa akụkọ undecided undecided Everything is an issue to this WOKE GENERATION! Abeg rest undecided


A na kogheri
Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by Sonnobax15(m): 1:19pm On Jan 19, 2023
lipsrsealed
I strongly support the man with the last strength of my gbola wey I dey reserve for my banny wey wan visit me tonight...

Jokes apart,this is Nigeria,where people tend to celebrate the pregnancy (woman) thereby neglecting the (gbola) that did all the hard work..

Moral lesson::: People only appreciate results and say to hell with hardworks angry. Which is very bad,very very bad..

Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by SultanOfPuna: 1:19pm On Jan 19, 2023
He is 1000% correct

Without the Father's sperm
That Egg will flush out as period straight to the toilet.
Because the Egg is useless without sperm
That's why the body flush it out.
So sperm is very very important
The sperm giver is the Father

The Father is the Leader of The Household
All responsibility is on his neck

All monetary gift should be given to the Father.
Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by Zbha7jj8ja:
Yooooooo

Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by Executive729: 1:20pm On Jan 19, 2023
LikeAking:
Nonsense!

Real men no suppose focus on that kind money..

Anything thing gift shud go to my wife n kids.
Na Agbaya dey worry you
Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by dayleke: 1:20pm On Jan 19, 2023
Hmmmm......

O ye baba God why he said that o....

But baba God no go shame us o...
Why you wan dey drag baby monies with ur wife?
Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by atobs4real(m): 1:20pm On Jan 19, 2023
which ever and what ever. so far the gift comes to the family, don't care
Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by GeneralPula: 1:20pm On Jan 19, 2023
Like say dem dey our better money for those envelopes..
Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by OlawaleBammie: 1:20pm On Jan 19, 2023
ABI na

During my daughter naming ceremony I spent close to 400k on a low key function ooh, my woman rake in all the money, a dey spend she dey receive

But some men give me money sha..


Tho me sef I wise, na borrow borrow I borrow the money finish and a no return am, I borrowed most of the money grin grin grin
Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by Nostring: 1:21pm On Jan 19, 2023
Lol... I reject am ijn undecided
Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by meum: 1:21pm On Jan 19, 2023
grin
Sounds true but the two had become one.

If monetary gifts are given to the mother she should let the father know about it. That money is actually for the baby. Just that the baby can’t collect it. So the baby’s parents should use the money for his/her upkeep, as it was meant for. Period
Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by Tboy222: 1:21pm On Jan 19, 2023
After nine months of heavy burden then at last labour pains with daily breastfeeding, bathing and cleaning poo. Haba fear God na.
Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by fredoooooo: 1:21pm On Jan 19, 2023
Hahahah
Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by frozen70(f): 1:21pm On Jan 19, 2023
benjackugo:
Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother - Nigerian Man

A Nigerian man, Seye Dele, has said that people visiting couples who welcomed babies should give money to the fathers instead of the mothers, IGBERETV reports.



https://twitter.com/seyedele/status/1615655626994065408?s=19[/quote]Is the father the one who carried the pregnancy

The money given to the mother is to appreciate her efforts and a gift to the baby
Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by Chiiomafaith(f): 1:21pm On Jan 19, 2023
Ha... See talk
Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by Nobody: 1:22pm On Jan 19, 2023
If you are at the point of who should get the money, then the two of you don't have the mental maturity to make babies undecided
Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by merits(m): 1:22pm On Jan 19, 2023
benjackugo:
Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother - Nigerian Man

A Nigerian man, Seye Dele, has said that people visiting couples who welcomed babies should give money to the fathers instead of the mothers, IGBERETV reports.



https://twitter.com/seyedele/status/1615655626994065408?s=19[/quote]It's well.

Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by Honjoshy4u: 1:22pm On Jan 19, 2023
May God punish poverty.
Na poverty go make you say I like that small thing when be like cocoyam because e de thirst like yam.

Na the man carry the belle?
If the man should take the envelope, let the man be ready to take the hot water that accompanies omugwo.

Hustle oooooooo .....
Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by Y0urUncle: 1:23pm On Jan 19, 2023
We really jobless for dis con3
Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by VeryWickedGoat: 1:23pm On Jan 19, 2023
I need to start making babies

Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by Aplaudez(m): 1:23pm On Jan 19, 2023
Divayettymama:
Just imagine the nonsense he's saying with confidence
It's just his point of view young lady, calm down!
Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by Horbar1: 1:24pm On Jan 19, 2023
Meanwhile we supply quality day old chicks from reputable hatcheries at affordable prices. We deliver nationwide.

Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by Goodlady(f):
Ok. He's right to an extent. But after giving the money to the woman, larger part should be given to the mother for immediate child care. Cos it's the mother that know what to buy for the child, not the father. Also, it's the mother that spends most time with the child especially btw 1-3 months.

LikeAking:
Nonsense!

Real men no suppose focus on that kind money..

Anything thing gift shud go to my wife n kids
Lastly, some men suppose avoid some unnecessary arguments like this. People ll see them as being stingy or just unreasonable.
Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by OurBusinessIsPr(m): 1:24pm On Jan 19, 2023
Who cares.

Avoid balabluu

Vote OBIDATTI
Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by Nobody: 1:24pm On Jan 19, 2023
Honjoshy4u:
May God punish poverty.
Na poverty go make you say I like that small thing when be like cocoyam because e de thirst like yam.

Na the man carry the belle?
If the man should take the envelope, let the man be ready to take the hot water that accompanies omugwo.

Hustle oooooooo .....
I tell you. these are the so-called redpillers, little Bleep-boys who have no funds
Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by tiswell(m): 1:25pm On Jan 19, 2023
female eggs are use.less without a man's se.men!



Men should be well appreciated and women should be grateful to the male gender
Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by irunoko(m): 1:25pm On Jan 19, 2023
grin

Ode.you follow am experienced the morning sickness, nausea,back pains,body and hormonal changes,loss in beauty and body scars,loss of blood and sleep that comes with pregnancy, child delivery and nursing and infant or another human being relying on your body for food and sleep, the nipple pain, nipple biting, stretch Marks and tear in the vagina or cs?

Respect yourself o
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