If you agree, you are correct.

If you disagree, you are also correct.

very correct

Divayettymama:
Just imagine the nonsense he's saying with confidence

Can't you counter with constructive conversation, how is what his saying nonsense. Evening newspaper

When he said Nigerian Man … I just came quickly to read comments .

By Allah's grace I'm sending money to a father of a new baby today. Just greeting to the mother, I know what it takes to be ather of new baby.

Thief

Which kind of a man are you/ just thinking aloud!

The man is going on the way of alfas(muslim clerics) that normally collect many offering during a naming ceremony and will be fighting later on sharing formula instead of them to hand over the money to the baby's parent.

Goodlady:
Ok. He's right to an extent. But after giving the money to the woman, larger part should be given to the mother for immediate child care. Cos it's the mother that know what to buy for the child, not the father. Also, it's the mother that spends most time with the child especially btw 1-3 months.

That money is for d mother, no b today.

No b dat money go make any man rich..

Hmmmmmmm

I no care about who colet d money

The only thing that is funny to me about all this conversation is that people saying man no suppose focus on this kin money...


Everytime man speak up about things that borden him, we still find a way to talk it down and we come back tomorrow and say man should speak up

Divayettymama:
Just imagine the nonsense he's saying with confidence

It's not nonsense, that's his opinion and it is right just as you have your own opinion on this issue.

Learn to remove emotions when asserting your self in discourse.

Na the baby dem dey give the money to and since na the mother dey breast feed and nurse the child, she go be the cashier. So Oga Dele be calming down small

merits:


It's well.

Do you know that Army officer you have been posting everywhere here on Nairaland?

Money the husband would use to drink and carry ashewo.

LikeAking:


Nonsense!

Real men no suppose focus on that kind money..

Anything thing gift shud go to my wife n kids.

That’s why real men die early. I’m strong I am a strong man. I’m a real man. Na so man dey go small small.

A case study: if your child is sent home from school for fees. The mother will tell the father-responsible fathers) the mother will forget anything about that fees until the next morning.

But father will be troubled with the issue till he finds the money. To him, he’s not troubled. But he is. He just doesn’t know. Na so man dey go small small.

tiswell:
female eggs are use.less without a man's se.men!



Men should be well appreciated and women should be grateful to the male gender

Male semen is also useless without female eggs,every thing is not competition

Hh

Na the mother bro. They spent more money buying urgent baby needs and drugs and their own cravings more than you think.

They also know when to change the baby oil or soaps if the initial is not good for the baby. All the expenses are hidden from the man.

I don’t support this one.

juman:
Money the husband would use to drink and carry ashewo.

But the same husband na him dey provides for d family since...

benjackugo:
Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother - Nigerian Man

A Nigerian man, Seye Dele, has said that people visiting couples who welcomed babies should give money to the fathers instead of the mothers, IGBERETV reports.



https://twitter.com/seyedele/status/1615655626994065408?s=19

I think this guy needs to spend time in the labour room to have a rethink.

This is really disheartening coming from my fellow man, why will you even be concerned with token given to your wife upon delivery? Isn’t it too petty? Try being a real man pls

I just dey observe....

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Sonnobax15:

I strongly support the man with the last strength of my gbola wey I dey reserve for my banny wey wan visit me tonight...

Jokes apart,this is Nigeria,where people tend to celebrate the pregnancy (woman) thereby neglecting the (gbola) that did all the hard work..

Moral lesson::: People only appreciate results and say to hell with hardworks . Which is very bad,very very bad..

Is it the man who goes through all the hard work of carrying a little life for nine months and the main responsibility of bringing that kid up for at least 18 years? What’s a man to even do except direct a little bit of sperm the woman’s way and give the baby half its DNA?

You’re an idiot.

[quote author=meum post=120183443]
Sounds true but the two had become one.

If monetary gifts are given to the mother she should let the father know about it. That money is actually for the baby. Just that the baby can’t collect it. So the baby’s parents should use the money for his/her upkeep, as it was meant for. Period/quote]
Exactly. The money is actually for the baby.

irunoko:


Ode.you follow am experienced the morning sickness, nausea,back pains,body and hormonal changes,loss in beauty and body scars,loss of blood and sleep that comes with pregnancy, child delivery and nursing and infant or another human being relying on your body for food and sleep, the nipple pain, nipple biting, stretch Marks and tear in the vagina or cs?

Respect yourself o

so wat of the emotional support nko

I am sorry to bring dis here, pls any one dat knows Romanoff should tell him to leave me alone, he should stop insulting me... To the mods, Romanoff is a cyber bully please tell him to get off my back... Thank you


I brought it here because I don't know how to go through the necessary channels to report an abusive person.....

LikeAking:


Nonsense!

Real men no suppose focus on that kind money..

Anything thing gift shud go to my wife n kids.

He's right. I'm not a real man tho, I won't still focus on such.

Britishpea:


That’s why real men die early. I’m strong I am a strong man. I’m a real man. Na so man dey go small small.

A case study: if your child is sent home from school for fees. The mother will tell the father-responsible fathers) the mother will forget anything about that fees until the next morning.

But father will be troubled with the issue till he finds the money. To him, he’s not troubled. But he is. He just doesn’t know. Na so man dey go small small.

It is an insult/ very insensitive to women for men to say or imply that they don't want to die of stress for a home that bears YOUR NAME.

The woman carries pregnancy for 9 months and pushes out baby ALONE..... Does house chores, some will even fetch water ( pregnant/ not) in homes where they have wells while their able bodied men are alive, do home work/ breast feed/ cook almost at same time, chase money.....

And the only thing men can do to show they are REAL MEN which is looking for money, they still beg for support from women...

So, una want make women die of stress and not the man?

Anyway, I thank God that despite being tagged the weaker gender and ladened with more work especially in Africa, women still live longer.