mondi_cheeks: Only a fool would value something temporary like a mistress over his own family. Your mother is a great woman of substance and I'm glad she has taken it upon herself to be the "the man of the house".no man in his right mind would flaunt his mistress before his own children

amaboss: It all started some years back when I was still in secondary school. My dad will pick my junior brother and I from school and on our way home, he'll pick this lady. This occurence took place more than once. I and my junior brother as at then thought then thought the lady was a co-worker or the wife to a close friend or something like that. Then my mom started getting suspicious after noticing the kind of attitude my dad started putting up. My elder brothers decided to check if my mom was just over reacting or if her suspicions were true; and lo, my dad was being promiscuous. We comfronted him a lot of times and he kept denying having a mistress. We brought a lot of evidence against him from text messages sent to a number and text messages received from that number, yet he denied them all. From then, he was careful, we never found any incriminating text message on his phone. Later on, my mom found a piece of paper with love messages written on in in my dad's own handwriting. With this, we comfronted him again and as usual, he denied it, and almooost denied his own handwriting. The following day, we invited our pastor over to the house and when we were asked to present the paper, it was missing. We asked him and he denied having knowledge of where the paper was.

After the paper incident, he started to deteriorate in his responsibilities as the head of the house and as the breadwinner, not that he was fully the breadwinner before then. God really blessed my mom with a good job and she was able to do the things my dad wasn't able to do and take care of us in a way my dad wasn't and won't be able to. So it was safe to say my mom was the breadwinner. His promiscuousness wasn't hidden anymore and it was now glaring to everyone. We all put him into prayers; prayers wasn't yielding much, advice, counselling, rebukes, and all manner were like a boring joke to him. He continued to fail in his duty as a father, as well as a husband.

Just recently, my mom was transfered. We were happy for her, at least it would save her the drama. With her gone, we received the full-dose of dad's behaviour. It was like living on your own completely. I took solace in school, at least it saved me from nursing a broken heart everyday. I never for once asked dad for more money for school fees but I saw why some students took much more money from their parents for school fees.

Then the question we'll ask ourselves is if a woman as beautiful as my mom and blessed with a good job with a comfortable position and paycheck, with every reason to go out and look for a better man to take care of her, can stay faithful to God and to her husband, is it so difficult for a man, whose achievements are not much compared to hers to stick to his wife and be a good husband and father?

sayso: @OP shut your dirty mouth.You have the courage to insult your Father and praise your mother in an open forum.I do not condone unfaithfulness but this is a public forum and how do you feel talking about your Dad in that manner here.

sayso: @OP shut your dirty mouth.You have the courage to insult your Father and praise your mother in an open forum.I do not condone unfaithfulness but this is a public forum and how do you feel talking about your Dad in that manner here.

morgist: To say the least this your post is an orthodox, why on earth will you mock your Dad?
Guy u bad o
If you are to post something like that you use someone as an example.

And the answer to your question is .... why do you think he can stick to one channel when he has a DSTV complete subscription?

morgist: To say the least this your post is an orthodox, why on earth will you mock your Dad?

If you are to post something like that you use someone as an example.

And the answer to your question is .... why do you think he can stick to one channel when he: has a DSTV complete subscription?

troy20: u jst told us ur own view bt jst 2 let u know no man decides 2 cheat.ur mum doesnt recognize his importance anymore n so he doesnt feel d love.men thrive on dia ego n pride.so if ur mum doesnt nurse it anymore dats d end 4 him as he luks 4 some else who does.dats y its nt good letting ur wife b d breadwinner.alota women jst take advantage n u c d devil in dem

Redmosquito: Minion: Your Sickness! Why do married men cheat?
Hades: How many foods do you eat, Young one?
Minion: Well, my Lord! I eat rice, flesh, sorrow, darkness ....
Hades: Its enough. Now can you eat rice alone for the rest of your life?
Minion: Oh my King! That would be horrible!!Do married men suffer that much?!!

sayso: @OP shut your dirty mouth.You have the courage to insult your Father and praise your mother in an open forum.I do not condone unfaithfulness but this is a public forum and how do you feel talking about your Dad in that manner here.