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This is my nature.. if someone greets me for instance I'll smile when responding to you,I mostly do this with people I don't have any kind of grudge against in my heart. But when you get serious with me or telling me something important I don't smile sheepishly like a fool,I get sense na.

Whether it's dis my nature that's "kobalising" (affecting) me ni,I don't know,but I noticed most of the young people I met in university relate with me like their mate. I would have say it's Normal not until a 16 year old girl I met during the course of my registration who knows I'm way older than her started calling me by my name "Joshua" recently(she saw the year I finished sec school plus my age,the gap is much). Mehn I shock, I was like maybe it's cos I smile too much or I don dey relate with dis children too much.

I've had several students tell me I like smiling too much,but it's just me. Is there any way I can at least reduce this.?

Op. I'd love to knock out one of your prominent tooth. Come lemme land a solid punch on your mouth. You're definitely gonna quit smiling. I swear you're gonna quit smirking

Calm down, u want are to call u broda or uncle?

That's bush na..


Baba leave all those our local Nigerian life

E be like better hunger never fire you before.
You sef go they vex for your self if you mistakenly smile.

LikeAking:
Calm down, u want are to call u broda or uncle?
That's bush na..

Baba leave all those our local Nigerian life

He think say we deh 1972

brightmorningst:
This is my nature.. if someone greets me for instance I'll smile when responding to you,I mostly do this with people I don't have any kind of grudge against in my heart. But when you get serious with me or telling me something important I don't smile sheepishly like a fool,I get sense na.

Whether it's dis my nature that's "kobalising" (affecting) me ni,I don't know,but I noticed most of the young people I met in university relate with me like their mate. I would have say it's Normal not until a 16 year old girl I met during the course of my registration who knows I'm way older than her started calling me by my name "Joshua" recently(she saw the year I finished sec school plus my age,the gap is much). Mehn I shock, I was like maybe it's cos I smile too much or I don dey relate with dis children too much.

I've had several students tell me I like smiling too much,but it's just me. Is there any way I can at least reduce this.?

I know two guys like this in my street back in Naija..

No matter the discussion you having with them... they will always put on the smiling face....

And people really take them for granted just because in every suitation all they do is smile...

I fancy them sha

Story of my life. I had to learn fast that my default happy mood and smile dey make some people feel sad.


When I am on my own I an my normal smiling self, outside I change to what the world needs. No smiling and hard faced.

Op try compose yourself keep a very matured face especially, if you're in the streets.

What the person above me said is correct

brightmorningst:
This is my nature.. if someone greets me for instance I'll smile when responding to you,I mostly do this with people I don't have any kind of grudge against in my heart. But when you get serious with me or telling me something important I don't smile sheepishly like a fool,I get sense na.

Whether it's dis my nature that's "kobalising" (affecting) me ni,I don't know,but I noticed most of the young people I met in university relate with me like their mate. I would have say it's Normal not until a 16 year old girl I met during the course of my registration who knows I'm way older than her started calling me by my name "Joshua" recently(she saw the year I finished sec school plus my age,the gap is much). Mehn I shock, I was like maybe it's cos I smile too much or I don dey relate with dis children too much.

I've had several students tell me I like smiling too much,but it's just me. Is there any way I can at least reduce this.?

Same here.

Random people I meet say I smile and laugh alot. Like, ALOT! I was voted most happy and most friendly! Which isn't true! Haha!

Seriously, there's nothing wrong. You come off as approachable and nice... You have no idea how much good that's done me... Seriously!

Just avoid idiots. If they think you're stupid cause you're a warm person, show them the other side of you...

I've shocked some people sha.

Just do and be you. Keep it real. Be authentic but don't toletrate bullsh**.

Red02:
Op try compose yourself keep a very matured face especially, if you're in the streets.

What the person above me said is correct

He should force himself to frown because the people he interacts with are part of the 'misery loves company' crew. Right?

In Nigeria. There is 95% chance of you being taken for granted if you smile or laugh too much. Take it or leave it

Don't know about other countries

Banilla:
He should force himself to frown because the people he interacts with are part of the 'misery loves company' crew. Right?

I'm not sure where you grew up but if you grew up in gated estates, you wont get it.

You just cant smile all day long sheepishly as a man