₦airaland Forum

Jashub:
I see you're eager to be stupid as usual. Anyway, I just sent you a new message. So kindly tell us here what women bring to the table? Especially now that society has given women the right to work and earn as their male counterparts

Jashub:
You're still talking like someone whose suffering from selective Amnesia, but
I'll still throw the question:

What do women bring to the table ?

Because it is obvious that men are :

1. The providers in the marriage

2. They pay the bills, rent and children's school fees

3. Proctect the kids and the women(even the ungrateful ones) from harm .


With all these , what do women actually bring to the table other than pussy (which is sold in a brothel for 2500)?

If you can't answer , then you'll perish in your father's house unmarried and bitter

Kobojunkiee:
1. Do you think I engage in those nonsensical debates amongst your kind?

2. Please visit commonsense abeg! There are women out there who are able to share all the responsibilities you listed and more. Osinachi, who is worm food today, did all you listed in her own marriage. So, again, the question is, why do you choose women who are not able to contribute only so you can come and beat your chest as if some gorilla that you carry it all for head? Who send you?

3. Women have been doing it all for centuries... even before the time of your ancestors. So the major question remains, why do you date down, against commonsense, all so you can come to beat your chest like a gorilla that you do it all? Who send you?

Kobojunkiee:
Again, who send you to bring all to the table when you can instead get a woman who can carry some of that load with you instead? Who send you hypogamy if not your ego and desire to claim power and control over the woman by proclaiming you bring all to the table?

Mindlog:
Have you ever pondered why we have motherless babies homes and not fatherless babies homes?

Mindlog:
I agree.

Kobojunkiee:
Again, who send you to bring all to the table when you can instead get a woman who can carry some of that load with you instead? Who send you hypogamy if not your ego and desire to claim power and control over the woman by proclaiming you bring all to the table?

Jashub:
■You are a bitter woman who will forever remain unmarried. Please how many "Osinachi'" women are out there... ?
■Can you compare than figure to the number of men who actually pay for everything? Please do , you'll be shocked at the number !
■Secondly , it is a fact that from the dawn of time, women have never been doing anything other than servicng men and engaging in baby production. But thank God for modern day society , which has given women a chance to prove themselves ...but unfortunately, they can't bring anything to the table. Isn't it a shame ?
■ And by the way, most men are not into hypogamy ...infact, the case is the reverse because women will always want to marry someone who is by far richer than their ancestry .

Jashub:
The statistics don't show that men are hypogamous . Hypogamy is mostly done by women . Because women will(forever ) need a provider(men)

Kobojunkiee:
1. https://innovativeresearchmethods.org/22252-2/

According to research, there are lots of married women out there who are breadwinners in their own homes.

2. I wouldn't want to do that since most of those men chose hypogamy for selfish reasons. So, there is no point in comparing the number of Osinachis out there to the number of men who chose hypogamy for the sake of their egos.

3. That is no fact but a private delusion of yours.

4. So, the many other men out there who marry women of their class and higher are not men, abi? And the women they are married to, are not women, right?

Kobojunkiee:
So, basically, the statistics that also show that some men do in fact marry women of the same class and higher are to be ignored because it is the women to blame for why other men choose to marry down?

Jashub:
Lol...you're daft . ;D1. You are referring me to Nigerian bullshit that doesn't have a concrete database and you want me to take that as verifiable data ? You must be out of your Goddamn mind
2. How many Osinachis are out there ? For everyone 1 you call , I'll send you 50 men .
3. It's not a delusion . Kindly read on the history of mankind and see for yourself.
4. What's the statistics of men who marry higher than their class ? What's their number ...can you tell us? For every 1 you mention I'll give a 100 who are married to women that have no value whatsoever

Kobojunkiee:
What are you still going on about here? Since your conclusion is that men choose hypogamy because it is what women want meaning men's choices in marriage are ruled by women in your psyche, what is there to debate again?

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. I have noticed that Nigerians are used to SAS(Suffering And Smiling). So, i would like to hear ur views. Is marriage still a blessing? Considering the high cost of living, the cost of getting married, the cost of raising children of ur own etc. Let me hear ur views.

Kobojunkiee:
1. https://innovativeresearchmethods.org/22252-2/

According to research, there are lots of married women out there who are breadwinners in their own homes.

2. I wouldn't want to do that since most of those men chose hypogamy for selfish reasons. So, there is no point in comparing the number of Osinachis out there to the number of men who chose hypogamy for the sake of their egos.

3. That is no fact but a private delusion of yours.

4. So, the many other men out there who marry women of their class and higher are not men, abi? And the women they are married to, are not women, right?

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. I have noticed that Nigerians are used to SAS(Suffering And Smiling). So, i would like to hear ur views. Is marriage still a blessing? Considering the high cost of living, the cost of getting married, the cost of raising children of ur own etc. Let me hear ur views.