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Some women sha, smh.

Well if her curse touches you then you deserve it and if it doesn’t it’s by grace. You are not a nice person going by this tale you crafted for us!

Op , election is on the 25th of February o if I'm not mistaken,

Righteousness said that sex is not just "papapapapa"���. Hahahaha
This guy is very funny.

mrrobz:
Ok I will confess to her after the wedding

U no get shame and u no well

No take am as insult ok
But that's my 2 cent

You'd be surprised her claims are not all correct.

Manipulation + okafor's law.

The victim in all this is the fiancee who is not aware of the kind of man she is married to.

Or maybe she knows and is also running things on the side.

She has entered one chance..

A man marrying in February,busy tearing an us of his other lover of 7 years in December

I wish her luck,she will be needing it.

Happy wedding and happy curse if you believe in it.

The issue here is that that lady might actually make a good wife to you. For someone to be loyal to you for all these years is a plus. and who told you the new wife your about to marry loves you. Don't love a woman to avoid heart attack, find that women and make peace with her. Go for loyalty in women not love, that shit is not real. Your eye go soon clear

Make i also remind you that your friend with benefits friendship lasted for 7yrs but most marriages now hardly survive one year. Be wise, use your head .

Tomorrow when your wife cheats on you, you'll come hear and start crying.

What you sow is what you reap.

And I'm sorry, you think her curses won't work but you're wrong.

mrrobz:
Iwas living outside of nigeria and I returned back in 2015. I rented a 1 bedroom apartment, in the same compound there was this beautiful girl not my type of woman but she is beautiful tought.
She came to introduced herself and from there we started talking , she uses to come to my place to watch movies. I have dstv, she sometime help me in the kitchen. I noticed that she was coming to me more than I needed her anytime I am home she would come , like I said since she was not my type I took her as a sister.
It happens that one time out of the blue, we had sex, I felt so bad and I apologised to her after. She said it was fine she didn't feel bad about the the sex , she did enjoyed it and she is ready to give me more sex anytime I am ready for it.
I asked her about her boyfriend she said she was happily single and I have told her I will think about that, honestly in the country where I was living before friend on benefits is not unusual and I was into it but I had never imagine that we have ladies in Nigeria who are also into it , her telling me she was ready to give me sex anytime without being in a relationship with her came up as a big shocked to me.
I told her no problem and I had made it clear that I am not her boyfriend and she is not my girlfriend we will be friend on benefits only and no emotional attachment , we will stop the day one of us will find true love which she had agreed.
From 2015 to 2019 we were sleeping together no relationship and I stopped sleeping with her when I met my wife to be, I told her I am in a relationship with someone I love and we have to put an end to it.
I wished her good luck and she wished me the same that was how I put a stop to it. I didn't see her much again until I moved out few months later , I still had her number she also had mine . I could see her on whatsapp changing pictures and status, but I had never chatted her and she didn't chat with me too.
In 2021 my babe traveled out of town, she is studying nursing and out of the blue she (friend on benefit )messaged me on whatsapp asking me how I was doing and we started chatting from there , she told me she was now a youtuber she was having some issue with her laptop if I could let her use mine, I didn't want her to know my new adress but I had to help her because youtube was her source of income , the next morning I sent her my adress around 9am I was off work and expected her to come soon but she came around 7pm with the excuse that she was babysitting her friend child she picked her up late , I said no problem I welcomed her inside.
I gave her my laptop she was in the parlour editing her videos while I was in my room, when I came out the parlour she told me she had seen a photo of me and my babe on my laptop wallpaper she said she was beautiful , I thanked her and went back to the room. I was waiting for her to finshed editing so she can leave because it was getting late but he was still at my house at midnight .
I asked her if she hasn't finished she said no she had few more to go. To cut the long story short we had sex that same night and she has even alow me to have anal sex with her , the sex was wonderful but I still had to remind her I love my babe so much that me and her are only friend on benefit which she agreed.
She said she doesn't mind helping me out while my babe is away and I have agreed t we continued doing it from 2021. Her birthday was last year september I bought her a nice phone for her youtube chanjel even december a laptop for christmas so my own laptop and phone can rest.
My babe and I are getting married on february 25th and I have told the girl on 29th of december that I want to stop having sex with her because my wedding is coming up , and I want to be serious and focus on my wedding and wife to be. She started crying saying that I have wasted her life for 7 years, she had rejected so many men that has come to ask for her hands in marriage because of me . she said she had vowed to do anal sex with the man she loves and she did it with me because she loved me and she expected me to marry her instead of marrying someone else .
I reminded her about the agreement we had we were not into a relationship, I had never promised her marriage she was free to accept those men who came to seek her hands in marriage rejecting them was her own faults it has nothing to do with me , she said no she loved me and were expecting me to love her too. She was so angry at me she cursed me over and over again she said I will never known peace, my marriage will fail and will not hear the cry of a baby in my house which I have rebuked her sent it back to her in 100 folds . But I am still shocked because we were never in a relationship and I had never promised her marriage and I don't know why she cursed me. I know her curses will not work because I didn't make any fake promises to her and I am not the cause of her rejecting men that came to seek for her hand in marriage but I feel bad because this is not the way I expected our friendship to end. I have tried to contact her so we can settle this issue amicably but her number is unreachable and she is not longer staying at her old place and I don't know where she is right now. I don't know what to do and what do you think I should do , advice me please and sorry for the long story

Women most times think they can be strategic. Well, you are greedy bro. There is nothing like friends with benefits with Nigerian ladies they put on emotions

Oga 7yrs
Ok ooo
You want to eat your cake and have it

So naive.
Seams to me you knew little about women. Else you would had know how the game will end.
Having sex with her for the second time was a No No if you don't want something serious with her... You are being logical but women aren't logical. They more emotional.
If you want to find her. You will see her.

Zonefree:
All these rants can't bring back your lost body counts.

Wotoporously speaking, yes it can't. Lol

mrrobz:
I am not scared of her curses I just want us to settle things amicably she should understand we weren't in any form of relationships. I wasn't her boyfriend everything we did together was for fun nothing was serious and everything has an end. I had moved on and she should also do the same, she can't continue to dwell in the past.

You did nothing wrong tho, most friends with benefit always ends this way... You get luck she nor trap you with belle


One thing you should know is we are human and jealousy will surely arise

Is her name eberechi?

jclassiq:
Is her name eberechi?

No

mrrobz:
No

did you kiss? If you did thats where the feelings came from.

jesmond3945:
did you kiss? If you did thats where the feelings came from.

Yes we did ,it was her choice though

mrrobz:
Yes we did ,it was her choice though

too bad never kiss friends with benefits.

There is nothing that anyone can advise you except to tell your partner what you did.Let this be a lesson in putting your dick in someone else that ain't your partner.

Sharonstone7719:
There is nothing that anyone can advise you except to tell your partner what you did.Let this be a lesson in putting your dick in someone else that ain't your partner.

Ok I will tell her after the wedding

rooftops:
Guy you go wicked o, 7 years friends with benefits. You no even one day ask am if she go marry

He is not a wicked man, infact he is a nice man to the core. The fact that he always reminded her about her stands in his life and not promise her anything is enough to applaud him.

The babe is fish brain and unworthy woman to take as wife. Which woman in her right sense will agree to do friend with benefit for 7 years? Op should ignore her totally, she is a big liar, she must have met different men and had sex with them, just that she didn't not see a suitable one to settle down with, and started playing emotional game on him.

mrrobz:
Iwas living outside of nigeria and I returned back in 2015. I rented a 1 bedroom apartment, in the same compound there was this beautiful girl not my type of woman but she is beautiful tought.
She came to introduced herself and from there we started talking , she uses to come to my place to watch movies. I have dstv, she sometime help me in the kitchen. I noticed that she was coming to me more than I needed her anytime I am home she would come , like I said since she was not my type I took her as a sister.
It happens that one time out of the blue, we had sex, I felt so bad and I apologised to her after. She said it was fine she didn't feel bad about the the sex , she did enjoyed it and she is ready to give me more sex anytime I am ready for it.
I asked her about her boyfriend she said she was happily single and I have told her I will think about that, honestly in the country where I was living before friend on benefits is not unusual and I was into it but I had never imagine that we have ladies in Nigeria who are also into it , her telling me she was ready to give me sex anytime without being in a relationship with her came up as a big shocked to me.
I told her no problem and I had made it clear that I am not her boyfriend and she is not my girlfriend we will be friend on benefits only and no emotional attachment , we will stop the day one of us will find true love which she had agreed.
From 2015 to 2019 we were sleeping together no relationship and I stopped sleeping with her when I met my wife to be, I told her I am in a relationship with someone I love and we have to put an end to it.
I wished her good luck and she wished me the same that was how I put a stop to it. I didn't see her much again until I moved out few months later , I still had her number she also had mine . I could see her on whatsapp changing pictures and status, but I had never chatted her and she didn't chat with me too.
In 2021 my babe traveled out of town, she is studying nursing and out of the blue she (friend on benefit )messaged me on whatsapp asking me how I was doing and we started chatting from there , she told me she was now a youtuber she was having some issue with her laptop if I could let her use mine, I didn't want her to know my new adress but I had to help her because youtube was her source of income , the next morning I sent her my adress around 9am I was off work and expected her to come soon but she came around 7pm with the excuse that she was babysitting her friend child she picked her up late , I said no problem I welcomed her inside.
I gave her my laptop she was in the parlour editing her videos while I was in my room, when I came out the parlour she told me she had seen a photo of me and my babe on my laptop wallpaper she said she was beautiful , I thanked her and went back to the room. I was waiting for her to finshed editing so she can leave because it was getting late but he was still at my house at midnight .
I asked her if she hasn't finished she said no she had few more to go. To cut the long story short we had sex that same night and she has even alow me to have anal sex with her , the sex was wonderful but I still had to remind her I love my babe so much that me and her are only friend on benefit which she agreed.
She said she doesn't mind helping me out while my babe is away and I have agreed t we continued doing it from 2021. Her birthday was last year september I bought her a nice phone for her youtube chanjel even december a laptop for christmas so my own laptop and phone can rest.
My babe and I are getting married on february 25th and I have told the girl on 29th of december that I want to stop having sex with her because my wedding is coming up , and I want to be serious and focus on my wedding and wife to be. She started crying saying that I have wasted her life for 7 years, she had rejected so many men that has come to ask for her hands in marriage because of me . she said she had vowed to do anal sex with the man she loves and she did it with me because she loved me and she expected me to marry her instead of marrying someone else .
I reminded her about the agreement we had we were not into a relationship, I had never promised her marriage she was free to accept those men who came to seek her hands in marriage rejecting them was her own faults it has nothing to do with me , she said no she loved me and were expecting me to love her too. She was so angry at me she cursed me over and over again she said I will never known peace, my marriage will fail and will not hear the cry of a baby in my house which I have rebuked her sent it back to her in 100 folds . But I am still shocked because we were never in a relationship and I had never promised her marriage and I don't know why she cursed me. I know her curses will not work because I didn't make any fake promises to her and I am not the cause of her rejecting men that came to seek for her hand in marriage but I feel bad because this is not the way I expected our friendship to end. I have tried to contact her so we can settle this issue amicably but her number is unreachable and she is not longer staying at her old place and I don't know where she is right now. I don't know what to do and what do you think I should do , advice me please and sorry for the long story

You actually know that you were using her to satisfy yourself all these while and she too have her intentions too

Well that was not a gentle man agreement because practical sex on countless times have been involved

Try to locate her in any way and make peace with her, She will be calm but you have to be patient with her

Meanwhile stop sleeping with her since you are not interested in having her as a wife

Then you can credit her account and from their you become mutual friends and every thing will be a e fine

Yes you made the conditions of the relationship made known to her, but that's for you not for her

Many people have fwb, mine is 12 years old but what you did is not in line with the unwritten rules in fwb! That’s why you are cursed. You won’t tell us what bs you whispered in her ear at night so I’m forced to listen to the void. I personally don’t hope the curse touches you but if it did… it’s called karmic justice!

Let me ask this pertinent question. If this woman you want to marry by Feb is having another man as a friend with benefit and giving him anal sex as you have been collecting from this lady will that be okay by you? I mean she is not ready to settle down with the man but you.

She is ready to give virginal sex to every guy that shows up but reserves anal for the man she wants to marry. I'm still trying to wrap my head around this statement.

Something tell me that lady loves you more than your wife to be, you could have,settled for her. Guy let me advise you and to my fellow guys out there who re still single marry a woman that loves you more he get why!

Meandmycrew:
Something tell me that lady loves you more than your wife to be, you could have,settled for her. Guy let me advise you and to my fellow guys out there who re still single marry a woman that loves you more he get why!

My wife to be love me more than anything and I love her too, she is the one I will marry and spend the rest of my life with.

mrrobz:
I am not scared of her curses I just want us to settle things amicably she should understand we weren't in any form of relationships. I wasn't her boyfriend everything we did together was for fun nothing was serious and everything has an end. I had moved on and she should also do the same, she can't continue to dwell in the past.

You are quite shameless and this is the result of that shamelessness. It is people like you that will come and call Nigerian women 'useless' if they were the ones cheating in their relationships. You wanted to eat your cake and have it. Ask yourself honestly: what would your reaction be if it was your fiancee sleeping with an old sex mate just a few weeks your wedding?

Ishilove:
You are quite shameless and this is the result of that shamelessness. It is people like you that will come and call Nigerian women 'useless' if they were the ones cheating in their relationships.

Thank you I am shameless and proud to be