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Elsueno:
Now not only are u single & unmarried But malnourished too for starving urself.


And crazy due to sleep deprivation & shouting to break imaginary curses & covenants when u supposed enjoying a good nights rest

You have said it all

casualobserver:
The reason why there is a delay on marriage and many singles is simple:

Christianity promotes monogamy, the are many men but few eligible men. The eligible men get married and Christian women turn to side chicks to the eligible men. The men who are left do not want to marry another man’s side chick.

Secondly, the church does not counsel “modern” women properly about submissiveness, dangers of feminism etc and the role of women in the family and d society. So we end up with a lot of “modern” Christian women who are not appealing to the few eligible men as wives and life partners.

It really is that simple.

Thirdly , too Men are to egotistic to handle modern Women who are more exposed than their idea of a traditional Woman.

Make una allow person see front biko. If person nor get money, u expert him to marry and breed future touts, problem children abi?

TheGift:
Thirdly , too Men are to egotistic to handle modern Women who are more exposed than their idea of a traditional Woman.

Your post is exactly the problem of modern women. A successful man will ALWAYS find a wife. A successful woman with your attitude will likely never find a man to wife you and amid she does she will likely end up divorced.

The error in your thought process is this: when a man is successful ( and modern women want successful men). He doesn’t have to settle, so as a woman you fit in or you don’t marry….simple!!!

The problem with modern women is they think they are a prize…you are not. A woman is a only a prize when men are young and want to have sex. By the time a woman enters 30, the man is the prize. Do you ever hear men say they are looking for wife? It is always women looking for husband. The thing many women do not understand is this: women control sex but men control the relationship. A women determines if you have sex, the man determines if you become a wife. If you don’t satisfy the criteria for a woman, you don’t get sex, if you don’t satisfy the criteria for a man you do t become a wife.

By the time reality dawns on women with your attitude, they are not even an appealing option for even the B and C grade men.

The problem with a lot of mature single women is they carry the attitude of being pursued and pampered when they were young into adulthood not realizing the dynamics of the game has changed. By the time a woman is 30 she is the hunter not the hunted. Men know but a lot of women don’t quickly grasp this. By the time they realize (often post 40yrs) they are no men to hunt except losers…..all the men worth hunting are taken and to make matters worse they have less value even in the eyes of these sorts of men. By 40, a woman has lost 90% of her eggs, so why would a man who has delayed marriage and looking to start a family even consider a 40+ when there are loads of women below 35? If you are even going to take BS from a woman at least she needs to be able to give you children. Or else what is her value?

You're talking arrant nonsense. Don't go and tackle real time factors mitigating early marriages

1. SPIRITUAL IGNORANCE AND ILLITERACY

Their religious doctrines have no basis in REALITY, so based on their early or LATE realizations of the grave differences between fantasy and reality. , . . They are forced to hit the pause button after looking at the testimonials from the so-called FAKE, CULTIC, DIABOLICAL, CHRISTIAN MARRIAGES!

Moreover, most of them are BROKE azzzzes who have no business getting married since their pastors and churches cannot FEED and SUSTAIN them! Awon “God will provide” UNLIMITED LIABILITY PLC!

The most difficult part is the unrealistic and phantasmagorical Christian doctrines can only thrive in those kinds of “osinachi-doomed” marriages that often end in multi-dimensional PSYCHOSES AND DEATH!

Most Christian’s get married to give in to cultural/societal pressures and the over-indulgence in “spiritual fantasies”. They reason they end up suffering and smiling in their marriages and forcefully stay in DYSFUNCTIONAL marriages instead of getting the heck out for your emotional and physical wellbeing!

MOST Christians LACK BASIC EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE AND SELF-AWARENESS!

The word “spiritual” has suffered.
Anything theists can’t understand, they stop thinking and call it “spiritual”.

ebubeson:
Do you have a beautiful character, good manners, beauty or handsomeness, yet you are still single and unmarried? Or even if your character is not too good, yet those whom your character is better than are married with kids, yet you are still unmarried..

I will show reasons why you spiritual Reasons why you are single, and solutions.. (Make sure your repent and follow Jesus first)

Reasons
(1) Being Caged By the power of self-marriage. Some people may be married to themselves spiritually, and this may cause them to loose interest or might make them careless with pursuing marriage.

Solution: Fast between 12pm in the afternoon to 4am midnight, then pray and destroy the covenants, curses and foundation of the power of self marriage(pray for at least 4hours). Complete solution.

(2) Marriage to spirit spouses (spirit wife or spirit husband). This is a common issue known by many. It sometimes come with regular or periodic sex in the dream with a demon appearing with strange or familiar faces. This hinders marriage alot.

Solution: Fast from 12pm in the afternoon till 6am in the morning the next day....Prayer point: Break covenants, curses and spells linking you to spirit spouse, and destroy every dedication and foundation created for you with the spirit wife or husband.

(3) Power of Marital Delay: This may be caused by spiritual padlocks, witchcraft powers etc.. It may lead to undue wait or failure of marriage fulfilment, or may cause lingering wedding process..

Solution: Fast from 12:00 pm in the afternoon till 4:00 am the next day morning. Prayer point: I destroy every mystery of darkness of the power of marital Delay. I destroy the foundation of marital delay (4hours prayer)...

This insight is gotten from experience and from spiritual person or persons.

CAPITAL rubbish.

Is marriage by force?

Everybody will not marry.
Everybody will not have biological children.
That's the reality of life.
All these your spiritual jargons don't mean anything

TheGift:
Thirdly , too Men are to egotistic to handle modern Women who are more exposed than their idea of a traditional Woman.

Men are not looking to marry “modern women”, they want a wife.

ebubeson:
The carnal man cannot understand the things of the spirit.

he's right! The whole epistle you wrote is only fit the ignorant consumption! Nothing to do carnal nonsense! Use your brain! The spirit didn't invent that device you used to typed that balderdash with! Human brain did! Marriage isn't for everyone one sterling known biblical example is apostle Paul! Never married! No kids! Yet lived a life filled with Grace and love for the work of Christ having said that, 99?% of Nigerithinladies ,girls don't have mamanners and
have terrible orientation and idea of marriage life ,thinking it all about everlasting bliss, merry and no challenges at all Haha yeye lot,go marry dem

ebubeson:
Do you have a beautiful character, good manners, beauty or handsomeness, yet you are still single and unmarried? Or even if your character is not too good, yet those whom your character is better than are married with kids, yet you are still unmarried..

I will show reasons why you spiritual Reasons why you are single, and solutions.. (Make sure your repent and follow Jesus first)

Reasons
(1) Being Caged By the power of self-marriage. Some people may be married to themselves spiritually, and this may cause them to loose interest or might make them careless with pursuing marriage.

Solution: Fast between 12pm in the afternoon to 4am midnight, then pray and destroy the covenants, curses and foundation of the power of self marriage(pray for at least 4hours). Complete solution.

(2) Marriage to spirit spouses (spirit wife or spirit husband). This is a common issue known by many. It sometimes come with regular or periodic sex in the dream with a demon appearing with strange or familiar faces. This hinders marriage alot.

Solution: Fast from 12pm in the afternoon till 6am in the morning the next day....Prayer point: Break covenants, curses and spells linking you to spirit spouse, and destroy every dedication and foundation created for you with the spirit wife or husband.

(3) Power of Marital Delay: This may be caused by spiritual padlocks, witchcraft powers etc.. It may lead to undue wait or failure of marriage fulfilment, or may cause lingering wedding process..

Solution: Fast from 12:00 pm in the afternoon till 4:00 am the next day morning. Prayer point: I destroy every mystery of darkness of the power of marital Delay. I destroy the foundation of marital delay (4hours prayer)...

This insight is gotten from experience and from spiritual person or persons.

Your no 1 and 2 is totally wrong. There's nothing like spiritual spouse. It is not biblical. Jesus himself said it in Matt 22 that there's no marriage in the spirit realm. And there's no communion between spirits and humans except that which humans unwittingly invite by themselves through sorcery. Self-marriage also does not exist.
Your no 3 is more apt and acceptable.

felixzo1:
we Africans are unnecessarily superstitious, everything is attributed to something spiritual. the fact is young girls are not getting married because of social factors and economic factors. social factors in the sense that some ladies have lock them self up, and don't interact much to meet their future husbands. some are limited by location
the other reason is economic reason. most youths are under employed or unemployed there fore lack the financial capacity to marry and raise a family, some ladies are looking for rich men until the pass their prime, some their prime years were spent studying or in school. a lot of them are not ready to start small with any man, some are unlucky, some are unattractive and I'll mannered

U did justice to the topic

spiceadole:
CAPITAL rubbish.

Is marriage by force?

Everybody will not marry.
Everybody will not have biological children.
That's the reality of life.
All these your spiritual jargons don't mean anything

ebubeson:
Do you have a beautiful character, good manners, beauty or handsomeness, yet you are still single and unmarried? Or even if your character is not too good, yet those whom your character is better than are married with kids, yet you are still unmarried..

I will show reasons why you spiritual Reasons why you are single, and solutions.. (Make sure your repent and follow Jesus first)

Reasons
(1) Being Caged By the power of self-marriage. Some people may be married to themselves spiritually, and this may cause them to loose interest or might make them careless with pursuing marriage.

Solution: Fast between 12pm in the afternoon to 4am midnight, then pray and destroy the covenants, curses and foundation of the power of self marriage(pray for at least 4hours). Complete solution.

(2) Marriage to spirit spouses (spirit wife or spirit husband). This is a common issue known by many. It sometimes come with regular or periodic sex in the dream with a demon appearing with strange or familiar faces. This hinders marriage alot.

Solution: Fast from 12pm in the afternoon till 6am in the morning the next day....Prayer point: Break covenants, curses and spells linking you to spirit spouse, and destroy every dedication and foundation created for you with the spirit wife or husband.

(3) Power of Marital Delay: This may be caused by spiritual padlocks, witchcraft powers etc.. It may lead to undue wait or failure of marriage fulfilment, or may cause lingering wedding process..

Solution: Fast from 12:00 pm in the afternoon till 4:00 am the next day morning. Prayer point: I destroy every mystery of darkness of the power of marital Delay. I destroy the foundation of marital delay (4hours prayer)...

This insight is gotten from experience and from spiritual person or persons.

Without apologies. . . . You are a danger to yourself and anyone who chooses to accept what your are writing without questioning the level of your emotional, intellectual or spiritual maturity.

Your answer for the reasons of DELAYED or FAILED CHRISTIAN MARRIAGES amongst Christian singles or married couples are summed up in your suggested solutions. Who fasts and prays without works?

casualobserver:
Your post is exactly the problem of modern women. A successful man will ALWAYS find a wife. A successful woman with your attitude will likely never find a man to wife you and amid she does she will likely end up divorced.

The error in your thought process is this: when a man is successful ( and modern women want successful men). He doesn’t have to settle, so as a woman you fit in or you don’t marry….simple!!!

The problem with modern women is they think they are a prize…you are not. A woman is a only a prize when men are young and want to have sex. By the time a woman enters 30, the man is the prize. Do you ever hear men say they are looking for wife? It is always women looking for husband. The thing many women do not understand is this: women control sex but men control the relationship. A women determines if you have sex, the man determines if you become a wife. If you don’t satisfy the criteria for a woman, you don’t get sex, if you don’t satisfy the criteria for a man you do t become a wife.

By the time reality dawns on women with your attitude, they are not even an appealing option for even the B and C grade men.

The problem with a lot of mature single women is they carry the attitude of being pursued and pampered when they were young into adulthood not realizing the dynamics of the game has changed. By the time a woman is 30 she is the hunter not the hunted. Men know but a lot of women don’t quickly grasp this. By the time they realize (often post 40yrs) they are no men to hunt except losers…..all the men worth hunting are taken and to make matters worse they have less value even in the eyes of these sorts of men. By 40, a woman has lost 90% of her eggs, so why would a man who has delayed marriage and looking to start a family even consider a 40+ when there are loads of women below 35?

Your thinking and writings are very brilliant and beautiful... You must be a very very intelligent man.

Fiscus105:
For people like you, who are spiritual blind.


Keep on shouting marriage is scam, blaming everything on husband or wife and forget that spiritual forces can also be a problem..

Can you prove what you're claiming?

ebubeson:
Do you have a beautiful character, good manners, beauty or handsomeness, yet you are still single and unmarried? Or even if your character is not too good, yet those whom your character is better than are married with kids, yet you are still unmarried..

I will show reasons why you spiritual Reasons why you are single, and solutions.. (Make sure your repent and follow Jesus first)

Reasons
(1) Being Caged By the power of self-marriage. Some people may be married to themselves spiritually, and this may cause them to loose interest or might make them careless with pursuing marriage.

Solution: Fast between 12pm in the afternoon to 4am midnight, then pray and destroy the covenants, curses and foundation of the power of self marriage(pray for at least 4hours). Complete solution.

(2) Marriage to spirit spouses (spirit wife or spirit husband). This is a common issue known by many. It sometimes come with regular or periodic sex in the dream with a demon appearing with strange or familiar faces. This hinders marriage alot.

Solution: Fast from 12pm in the afternoon till 6am in the morning the next day....Prayer point: Break covenants, curses and spells linking you to spirit spouse, and destroy every dedication and foundation created for you with the spirit wife or husband.

(3) Power of Marital Delay: This may be caused by spiritual padlocks, witchcraft powers etc.. It may lead to undue wait or failure of marriage fulfilment, or may cause lingering wedding process..

Solution: Fast from 12:00 pm in the afternoon till 4:00 am the next day morning. Prayer point: I destroy every mystery of darkness of the power of marital Delay. I destroy the foundation of marital delay (4hours prayer)...

This insight is gotten from experience and from spiritual person or persons.

Normal African beliefs

No bible quotes to back it up

Hmmm. This is one big reason the Oyibo people are making progress and the black people in this part of the world are still stucked with such nonsense beliefs. Smh

casualobserver:
Your post is exactly the problem of modern women. A successful man will ALWAYS find a wife. A successful woman with your attitude will likely never find a man to wife you and amid she does she will likely end up divorced.

The error in your thought process is this: when a man is successful ( and modern women want successful men). He doesn’t have to settle, so as a woman you fit in or you don’t marry….simple!!!

The problem with modern women is they think they are a prize…you are not. A woman is a only a prize when men are young and want to have sex. By the time a woman enters 30, the man is the prize. Do you ever hear men say they are looking for wife? It is always women looking for husband. The thing many women do not understand is this: women control sex but men control the relationship. A women determines if you have sex, the man determines if you become a wife. If you don’t satisfy the criteria for a woman, you don’t get sex, if you don’t satisfy the criteria for a man you do t become a wife.

By the time reality dawns on women with your attitude, they are not even an appealing option for even the B and C grade men.

The problem with a lot of mature single women is they carry the attitude of being pursued and pampered when they were young into adulthood not realizing the dynamics of the game has changed. By the time a woman is 30 she is the hunter not the hunted. Men know but a lot of women don’t quickly grasp this. By the time they realize (often post 40yrs) they are no men to hunt except losers…..all the men worth hunting are taken and to make matters worse they have less value even in the eyes of these sorts of men. By 40, a woman has lost 90% of her eggs, so why would a man who has delayed marriage and looking to start a family even consider a 40+ when there are loads of women below 35? If you are even going to take BS from a woman at least she needs to be able to give you children. Or else what is her value?

One thing you forget is that no condition is permanent.

Your write up is so sexist it is offensive.
Let me remind you that a woman can remain single and live very long, unlike MEN who become abandoned in their OLD AGES. . . .especially if the men are broke. How many single old men can live by themselves. Oh yeah! A man’s best time is in his prime when he can change wives like his underwears DAILY. When they get old, they are abandoned by the “user-wives” only to end up worse than the women they scorned and abandoned.

Bottom line? In old age, the WOMEN HAVE THE LAST LAUGH. . . When the men are MOST VULNERABLE!✅

I don't get it. You mean someone like me who is yet to marry at 30+ is being affected spiritually? I don't understand we Africans. Even when you can see the changes in economical and social factors in the country, you still want to blame spirits for marriage delay.
Well I can marry now because I now have the means not because of those rubbish you put up there.

Solution: Fast from 12:00 pm in the afternoon till 4:00 am the next day morning. Prayer point: I destroy every mystery of darkness of the power of marital Delay. I destroy the foundation of marital delay (4hours prayer)...


Total Rubbish.

ebubeson:
The carnal man cannot understand the things of the spirit.

Bigger Rubbish

ebubeson:
Do you have a beautiful character, good manners, beauty or handsomeness, yet you are still single and unmarried? Or even if your character is not too good, yet those whom your character is better than are married with kids, yet you are still unmarried..

I will show reasons why you spiritual Reasons why you are single, and solutions.. (Make sure your repent and follow Jesus first)

Reasons
(1) Being Caged By the power of self-marriage. Some people may be married to themselves spiritually, and this may cause them to loose interest or might make them careless with pursuing marriage.

Solution: Fast between 12pm in the afternoon to 4am midnight, then pray and destroy the covenants, curses and foundation of the power of self marriage(pray for at least 4hours). Complete solution.

(2) Marriage to spirit spouses (spirit wife or spirit husband). This is a common issue known by many. It sometimes come with regular or periodic sex in the dream with a demon appearing with strange or familiar faces. This hinders marriage alot.

Solution: Fast from 12pm in the afternoon till 6am in the morning the next day....Prayer point: Break covenants, curses and spells linking you to spirit spouse, and destroy every dedication and foundation created for you with the spirit wife or husband.

(3) Power of Marital Delay: This may be caused by spiritual padlocks, witchcraft powers etc.. It may lead to undue wait or failure of marriage fulfilment, or may cause lingering wedding process..

Solution: Fast from 12:00 pm in the afternoon till 4:00 am the next day morning. Prayer point: I destroy every mystery of darkness of the power of marital Delay. I destroy the foundation of marital delay (4hours prayer)...

This insight is gotten from experience and from spiritual person or persons.

Total nonsense!! My dear, the major reason why many are unmarried till now is because of Nigeria economic factor.

ebubeson:
Do you have a beautiful character, good manners, beauty or handsomeness, yet you are still single and unmarried? Or even if your character is not too good, yet those whom your character is better than are married with kids, yet you are still unmarried..

I will show reasons why you spiritual Reasons why you are single, and solutions.. (Make sure your repent and follow Jesus first)

Reasons
(1) Being Caged By the power of self-marriage. Some people may be married to themselves spiritually, and this may cause them to loose interest or might make them careless with pursuing marriage.

Solution: Fast between 12pm in the afternoon to 4am midnight, then pray and destroy the covenants, curses and foundation of the power of self marriage(pray for at least 4hours). Complete solution.

(2) Marriage to spirit spouses (spirit wife or spirit husband). This is a common issue known by many. It sometimes come with regular or periodic sex in the dream with a demon appearing with strange or familiar faces. This hinders marriage alot.

Solution: Fast from 12pm in the afternoon till 6am in the morning the next day....Prayer point: Break covenants, curses and spells linking you to spirit spouse, and destroy every dedication and foundation created for you with the spirit wife or husband.

(3) Power of Marital Delay: This may be caused by spiritual padlocks, witchcraft powers etc.. It may lead to undue wait or failure of marriage fulfilment, or may cause lingering wedding process..

Solution: Fast from 12:00 pm in the afternoon till 4:00 am the next day morning. Prayer point: I destroy every mystery of darkness of the power of marital Delay. I destroy the foundation of marital delay (4hours prayer)...

This insight is gotten from experience and from spiritual person or persons.

Dey play
Just dey play

KanwuliaExtra:
One thing you forget is that no condition is permanent.

Your write up is so sexist it is offensive.
Let me remind you that a woman can remain single and live very long, unlike MEN who become abandoned in their OLD AGES. . . .especially if the men are broke. How many single old men can live by themselves. Oh yeah! A man’s best time is in his prime when he can change wives like his underwears DAILY. When they get old, they are abandoned by the “user-wives” only to end up worse than the women they scorned and abandoned.

Bottom line? In old age, the WOMEN HAVE THE LAST LAUGH. . . When the men are MOST VULNERABLE!✅

You just had to make it a gender war

You just had to abi

Total trash

Somehow I want to criticize the OP and call him a spiritual novi ce, but then I remember something that happened sometimes ago where my female friend started losing interest in her upcoming marriage and telling me she feel like quitting same marriage she was happy to announce to me before then.

I told her "I can see your village people are about go get you" and she laughed. I told her not to ever think of it. That she should just keep planning and working towards that day and I tried my best in making sure she never took the step, which I succeeded in.

So, spiritual forces may have effect on it sha.

Inhuman69:
You just had to make it a gender war

You just had to abi

Did I start it?
Women dis, women dat.

🚮 thrash this.

KanwuliaExtra:
Did I start it?
Women dis, women dat.

I’m not on the OP side or anything oh
But he never mentioned women only
He didn’t even specify on gender

It is religion that takes away the reasoning faculty of most Nigerian and that's why we are where we are today.

One of my friend called me this morning telling me how one babe came to sleep over at his place and the lady bed wetted. the lady apologize, told him it has been happening for days now and a prophet she went to told her to bring 30k for spiritual cleansing. I was like WTF 😒, she should treat herself for unitary tract infection or related stuffs before saying shit.

I believe in spirituality but not the type we're being fed with here on daily basis. Majority of the issues we're being faced are natural but Nigerians read spiritual meaning to then and that is why you see spiritualist cashing out big time lately