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frozen70:
Trust and love is like a sticker, once removed from where it was initially pasted, it will not stick well again

I think she is no longer free with you base on the paste experience and she will keep using that to fight you because she doesn't know when next you will deal with her

So, my advice is stop all naughty behavior and treat her nicely, at first she will doubt your genuineness

But if you keep doing good, she will accept that you are now responding to change and if you continue with a good behavior and it will erase partially and a new life will begin

You alone knows what you do that she doesn't like and such behavior brings out the madness in her

The moment you change your attitude she too will change

But if you continue with that same thing that caused the problem

She too have made up her mind long ago that it's either its working out or not

She doesn't care

Thanks

Handsomejok:
We had a lot issues in the past we separated and later reconciled but every slightl mistake she will remind me about what I have done to her and our daughter she has said that when our daughter grows up she will tells her everything. I am not happy with her anymore because I have apologised to her from the bottom of my heart and I expected us to start afresh again but she is still dwelling in the past and I don't know how to make her forget about the past so we can enjoy our marriage. What should I do to change her mind so she will be in love me again and stop seeing me as a monster that caused her so much pain in the past?

Kick her out. Nonsense without ingredients

jahsharon:
Kick her out. Nonsense without ingredients

Do you know what he did to his wife and 1-year-old daughter

Go back here and read: https://www.nairaland.com/5705389/think-wife-witch and the sequel here: https://www.nairaland.com/6787206/1-years-old-witch and then come back and analyse this your advise.

@OP:I remember this story well. Chai! You're even lucky the woman even agreed to come back to you oga. I wish you well o.

Handsomejok:
Thanks

Welcome

Handsomejok:
I am a victim of fake pastors

soo wetin we dey watch for film na true

Handsomejok:
We had a lot issues in the past we separated and later reconciled but every slightl mistake she will remind me about what I have done to her and our daughter she has said that when our daughter grows up she will tells her everything. I am not happy with her anymore because I have apologised to her from the bottom of my heart and I expected us to start afresh again but she is still dwelling in the past and I don't know how to make her forget about the past so we can enjoy our marriage. What should I do to change her mind so she will be in love me again and stop seeing me as a monster that caused her so much pain in the past?

All these stories self, I saw exactly this story some years back here.

Oluchia:
Do you know what he did to his wife and 1-year-old daughter

Go back here and read: https://www.nairaland.com/5705389/think-wife-witch and the sequel here: https://www.nairaland.com/6787206/1-years-old-witch and then come back and analyse this your advise.

@OP:I remember this story well. Chai! You're even lucky the woman even agreed to come back to you oga. I wish you well o.

I remember the story very well. Some women dey try.

Handsomejok:
We had a lot issues in the past we separated and later reconciled but every slightl mistake she will remind me about what I have done to her and our daughter she has said that when our daughter grows up she will tells her everything. I am not happy with her anymore because I have apologised to her from the bottom of my heart and I expected us to start afresh again but she is still dwelling in the past and I don't know how to make her forget about the past so we can enjoy our marriage. What should I do to change her mind so she will be in love me again and stop seeing me as a monster that caused her so much pain in the past?

But you are a monster who caused her pain in the past

Handsomejok:
I am a victim of fake pastors

You are nothing but a narcissist. Victim nkor,victim ni.



So are you saying you can't think for yourself?
Mtcheew!!

Forgiveness is not automatic, neither is it your entitlement.

This your post show that you are not sorry

Davidave:
It's not easy for a man to own up to his mistakes,and I commend u for that.At least,u kn where the problem is coming from.
Oga,set Ur alarm for 4:am.Make sure u wake up by that time.Just boil some water,Make some tea and bread(I bet u never did that for her).Carry it in a clean tray,with quality bread,to her into the bedroom.Tell her that u have come with a peace offering,that u just want Ur wife back.Tell her how sorry u are again,and that u need her to forgive u.
I didn't say u should cry,but be soft spoken and honest with every word coming out of Ur mouth.
Women love those little bribes.So,try it.

he didn't own up to anything.

Op is the type of man I advice nigerian girls to aviod marrying. A failure and coward of a man who failed to take responsibility for his own actions and mistakes, then proceeds to look for who to blame instead of himself.