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Please house do one manage expenses at home, the man working , while wife have shop
what area would the man or woman cover
Three children presently in private school
Kindly share your mind

First of all, private sch doesn’t guarantee successful kids (pikin wer wn useless go useless).
But for the bills, make 50/50 (anybody is supposed to contribute in any little way they can, make family for they move forward ) except na opor or mhiz kind of woman you go marry.
If as a man I no get money pay light bill and my wife get the mula to pay but she no pay, alright all of us go dy darkness.

Wife suppose be husband backbone when em dy down (emotional, physically,spiritually or financially).

Do the one wer u fit and lev the rest for God.


Btw…happy marriage life, I love marry but no difference btw modern gals now and olosho and me don set standards for myself just like them too set standards for their self.

ONYEKAfra:
Please house do one manage expenses at home, the man working , while wife have shop
what area would the man or woman cover
Three children presently in private school
Kindly share your mind

These are things you discuss with your wife during courtship and not in the marriage.

Unfortunately, many young men ignore discussing home expenses during their relationships, they prefer spoiling their girlfriends with money and feel that well, when we get married we'll sort things out. Unfortunately, trying to make a woman adjust to a system you didn't introduce her into beforehand isn't an easy feat.

To my fellow single guys out there, kindly discuss home expenses with your girlfriends, agree and sort out any objections she might have until you both come to a common ground. This would help you eliminate unnecessary issues like this, cos she'll be used to contributing her own quota to the home no matter how small.