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| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by frozen70(f): 1:22pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
jimmychang:Were you told she tasted another Gbola or you want to keep condemning women If any man doesn't want his wife to look out he should do his job properly The move will not end in complete failure because you are not a woman and you don't know what makes a woman have a second thoughts when issues like this comes up Why do you think some men gives women their Mumu button, is because they value peace of mind When you have your own wife, use her play gamble, that's when she will show you that women are drama queens |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by Moneyboyz: 1:22pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
What if someone else is shinning her Congo. |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by fuelsaver: 1:23pm On Feb 12, 2023*. Modified: 6:07pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Ok |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by chudez0147(m): 1:23pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
Another fiction... anyways,just let her do whatever she wants to do... I heard some ladies discussing about some cult rules. One of the rules is that they get to chose the number of years they'd stay in marriage. I hope this is not true sha! GeorgWashinton: |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by jesmond3945: 1:24pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
GeorgWashinton:check her phone, if it is confirmed she is cheating be the first to leave her. Dont let her get the upper hand. Trust me, you would be fine without her. |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by Niceguy06: 1:25pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
frozen70:Women will always find a way to mislead men about what they truly want. See how you've successfully confused OP about female nature and what they want. It's simple. A woman doing what the OP wife is doing is ready to leave the relationship, and what I'll do in that case isn't to seek peace, I'll leave, before she does. More reasons I tell men to work on their look. If you're good looking, you'll easily find another woman to replace her. I don't seek for peace in issues like this, I simply find an alternative. Men, have options in all you do. Never you place your eggs in one basket |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by Wfaluse: 1:26pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
OlawaleBammie:Correct naija guy. You get sense die |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by koyeni(m): 1:27pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
frozen70:I'm sorry sir ..these doesn't work again |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by Niceguy06: 1:28pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
frozen70:Stop misleading men. Women ain't drama queen. They know what they're doing. Women convinced themselves into believing they truly love a man, when in the real sense, they don't even love. When a woman show you drama, show her the door once she's done displaying. Advise like yours don't work. Because that's what a woman believe Will keep them in a relationship, but it's not true. As a Man, do not care about what she does. And once she shows you she's ready to leave, let her leave. |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by canDy4eva(f): 1:31pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
GeorgWashinton:He (DEVIL) comes to STEAL KILL DESTROY... Face him head long and hard with your prayers! What the devil wants is for you to panic, do not succumb to that! WE LIVE IN A GENERATION WHERE MARRIAGE IS NO LONGER HONOURABLE and most people will not see anything wrong in what you are saying. Just like your wife they will call you an insecure man! don't be discouraged, you are in my prayers. Love her like never before. Keep praying for her. This too shall pass. |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by BRATISLAVA: 1:33pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
Lonestar124:Perhaps his cat in his tale birthed them for him, thus they are his kids. |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by frozen70(f): 1:33pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
Niceguy06:You made me laugh that I sort of manipulated the Op with my mention The Op said he is confused amd doesn't want her to leave, do you want me to tell the Op to forget about her, will I feel her vacuum for him A man doesn't need to look good to get a woman, there are more women in the world than men, so you can always get another woman But will you keep changing women when they start their drama or you will learn how to humble one that you have when her drama starts A woman can still be under your roof and play out, still returns back to your roof and you will never know what if you are lucky she speaks out that she wants to leave, what you will do is to find away to bring her back before she finally leaves, especially when children are involve Unless you are already tired with the marriage, the you pray for her to leave quicker Lastly you said men have options Look women have more options because the option a man have is still another woman If you sell your dog and buy a cat, you are still staying with a domestic animal as a pet |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by bfeather1: 1:34pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
Sorry about your situation but perhaps you may need to check yourself thoroughly and criticise yourself yo see what you have been doing wrong to your wife and your home. Then if you are blameless, have a serious discussion with her has regards the implications of her actions on you, the children and the home . More so, do this quick so that you can assure your children all will be alright. Stop the bad things you do to woman as well, you need to know marriage should be enjoyable and should look like a trap or cage. Women need freedom as well but advice them ìf you feel they are going astray. Pray to God to help you fix it. |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by Donkmore: 1:35pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
GeorgWashinton:Depend not anyone emotionally physically spiritual ore any Cally. If she want to go let here go. What makes you think that God can't give you something better? Remember the prodigal son. Some have to go to realize where they should be. Just be nice, and learn the habit of depending only on God and not human. If human wan move funny Shift for them make them move pass |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by jimmychang: 1:36pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
frozen70:Taking advice from a woman on how to get a cheating woman back is a scam ![]() Women are drama queens and bla bla bla.That is why women will never take responsibility even if they are at fault.I won't marry a partner who is emotionally immature.If you can't state the reason why you are angry or mad at me or why you start doing certain thing and you expect me to figure it out and win you over when I don't know what the Bleep I did wrong then you are not ready to be married to me.I am big on communication. Somebody like you will cheat on your loving husband and still blame him for it ![]() Someone makes you angry you sulk,I make you angry unintentionally,you sulk.You start blamainh everyone and throw a fit.Women are adults too.If I don't get a woman that can communicate cuz communication brings peace.Omo I go rest. I want peace,I wanna leave longer than my father and grand father man.If she isn't giving me peace well I move. |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by BRATISLAVA: 1:36pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
canDy4eva:The Lord hates divorce, but you need to see what men of the day are turning the holy institution of marriage into. This is a man who should hold his house together as the head and priest. But instead he's online selling fantasy to his viewers. He needs to watch the War Room and figure out that he is under siege from the devil and pray his way out of marital deterioration. He needs to upgrade his physical approach to loving his wife and become more caring. All these online tales aren't helping them stay together. |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by Niceguy06: 1:37pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
frozen70:I'm not saying Men have more options. What I was saying is men should try to have options. Be good looking, have nice body, tall and watch how your options rise. That's the only way to keep women. Thinking you need to be a responsible, caring, compassionate, and God fearing man to keep a woman interest doesn't work. Take care of your look and watch your option rise |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by FireUpNow(m): 1:38pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
GeorgWashinton:Ask for separation and collect the kids from her. By the time the man she is seeing messed her up she will realize her mistakes. Be resolute |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by frozen70(f): 1:39pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
jimmychang:Peace is very important to everyone, at times, circumstances will make you to be the one to bring peace to the table Remember the best and worst side of any human beings are after marriage is done not before marriage, so pray you get the one you can handle |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by BRATISLAVA: 1:40pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
Donkmore:God will not give him another woman because this woman is his wife. Unless you and your god suddenly became lovers of divorce. He should reconcile with his wife, pray hard, brush his teeth and hit the gym. You tell him to depend on God, get he should not pray and become the spiritual head of his home? It's good it's just a tale, otherwise some of you will destroy the marriage of another man while reasoning carnally. |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by frozen70(f): 1:42pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
Niceguy06:Am glad you said women knows what they are doing But since they know what they are doing and still do things that will confuse a man, is that not drama Men too have their own but highly coded and they code it because they don't want to see her drama when she finds out |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by frozen70(f): 1:44pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
koyeni:Ok naw, use the format that works best |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by FRANCISTOWN: 1:44pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
fuelsaver:Hundred! Their two fit gather kill the man. And again. For this story up here. Your woman no change. That her character dey inside her since, the way e take dey inside every lady. Wetin no make her show the character before na because say she never get wetin go fuel her pride, shey you dey feel me . Na why I dey tell men them make them dey use their kafa. That lovely, sweet, innocent looking Bani, na whining ah. Na Demon dey inside am. And na only the language of fear them understand. Na fear them dey take rule women, no be love. Them no dey show woman love. |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by ymarts: 1:45pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
Ishilove: ![]() |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by frozen70(f): 1:47pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
Niceguy06:Ok If that is the case, what and who is he taking care of his look for Of course women naw |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by Amumaigwe: 1:47pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
GeorgWashinton:She has left you already. Can't you smell the coffee or is your sense of smell impaired? Let the bitch go and formalize her new found love affair. Before letting her go, bug all her chat apps to assist in building a case against her in case of child custody suit. Hear the words of an elder. |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by casualobserver: 1:48pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
GeorgWashinton:First of all increase your income so that your wife doesnt have to work and take care of the home at the same time. No woman whose husband provides all her financial requirements threatens to leave the home. The job of a man is to provide, if you are providing she has no reason to work. If she is working because you are not able to provide fully then you cant also complain that she doesnt perform her homely functions. If you are providing and she decides to work then you can blame her for not performing her primary role. How can your wife be coming home from work at 9pm and you are complaining that she cant cook, why is she working? is she a slave that she will be doing 2 jobs (bring home money and taking care of the home as well? Why can't you hire a cook....the answers to these questions are likely because you are not bringing home enough money!!! when a man does not bring home enough money insults are his portion...thats just the nature of the beast called marraige and women! The job of a man is to provide and that of a woman to nurture the home. You cannot change the roles of man and woman and then complain things are falling apart in the home. On a side note you talk like a weak man. A real man is not afraid of his wife leaving because 1) he is performing his role as a man and she would never leave and 2) he would easily get another woman if she leaves. That you are afraid of losing your wife says more about you that your wife. |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by sweetkev(m): 1:50pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
frozen70:See advise ![]() |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by Anonymous0001: 1:50pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
You only need MONEY, IGBO call it EGO while Hausa call it KUDI. Pls pray to God and add to your hustle GeorgWashinton: |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by Sucre6: 1:51pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
Meandmycrew:Words on marble, this is Coming from, a lady, God bless you for this ✌😎 |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by Munamoqel: 1:52pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
GeorgWashinton:give her correct banding on Val day . Eat plenty bitter cola . |
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