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sweetkev:
See advise

What more do u expect from a simping man? 😂😂😂

dettolgel:
The day you start convincing someone to love you and be in a relationship with you is the day you lost it. Because for the rest of that relationship you will have to convince them to stay.

Oga borrow sense and respect yourself.

Hmmm, I hold this your statement in high esteem

frozen70:
Peace is very important to everyone, at times, circumstances will make you to be the one to bring peace to the table

Remember the best and worst side of any human beings are after marriage is done not before marriage, so pray you get the one you can handle

Yeah,that is why I am prepared for anything my dear.I will love my wife and will never make her see any reason to move mad.If later she chooses to due to her own indiscretions and choice I will never beg her.I will let her go and do whatever she wants.Once a woman is gone she is gone.If she later comes back I will never accept her.

Peace is priority mam.Shalom.

Work on yourself, hustle harder to increase your revenue the always buy buratashi or vega. Lick everything lickàble too. If you do these she will always turnaround

She is going to run away with your children. If she is not the one feeding the family, make the move first. That is what they do now. 🤠

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

Oti lo

Niceguy06:
Stop misleading men. Women ain't drama queen. They know what they're doing. Women convinced themselves into believing they truly love a man, when in the real sense, they don't even love. When a woman show you drama, show her the door once she's done displaying. Advise like yours don't work. Because that's what a woman believe Will keep them in a relationship, but it's not true. As a Man, do not care about what she does. And once she shows you she's ready to leave, let her leave.

God will bless you in multiple folds

Eriokanmi:
Guy, please don't listen to advice of all those small boys using their mum's phone to type trash here. If you believe God, pray and fast over this. It could be a sign of imminent crisis. The enemy is at work, going by your story, if true. God is lacking in many homes today which is why they divorce anyhow. No marriage without crisis bro. I was once there and I overcame it. I almost lost my beautiful home I built for over a decade.

Fast and pray for 2 days, at least and see changes. Don't over react. She'd come back to her senses. Good luck

The woman never loved him and has now seen a knight on a shinning armour that blew her minds. Love does not respond to prayer.
Also know that a woman gets rid of any obstacle blocking her from the source of her happiness (real or imaginary). It is either the man lets her go or she may be forced to eliminate him if the new lover dares to mention the husband as an impediment to furthering their affair.

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

u cannot hold a woman that does not want to stay.Just brace up as your marriage is gone.At this point start thinking of ur kids alone.Don’t chase her out of the house.Stop eating her food,stop sex with her,retrieve all documents and properties in her name.Ur marriage is gone but your life is not gone.D man decieving her outside will Bleep her and leave her.u will laugh last bro.We have seen it all with women.It’s fully a mans world.E no get where my wife wan pass bobo me.

untop wife wey i pay her bride price , i will first scatter that phone, secondly i will look for the address of that man, i will arrest him and lock him up. thirdly , that work that she's coming late at night , i will go and scatter the office , they most tell me why she comes home late at night, if she didn't cook for me , she most not eat in my presence .

I'm angry already self, no be me the thing happen to and i'm already angry, me i no dey do mumu love o , I don't love blindly and i will never trade my right as the head of the family because one woman found one small boy messing with her heart.

GeorgWashinton:
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GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

If you truly love her, let her go.

If you don't she will kill you and leave to be with a newfound lover.

My 2 cent

silvoclaira:
Female here....

Anyway enjoy these along with your breakfast okay

Exactly what I'm having!

She got a sugar boy out there

She is having a better sugar cane out there 😂😂

frozen70:
You made me laugh that I sort of manipulated the Op with my mention

The Op said he is confused amd doesn't want her to leave, do you want me to tell the Op to forget about her, will I feel her vacuum for him

A man doesn't need to look good to get a woman, there are more women in the world than men, so you can always get another woman

But will you keep changing women when they start their drama or you will learn how to humble one that you have when her drama starts

A woman can still be under your roof and play out, still returns back to your roof and you will never know
what if you are lucky she speaks out that she wants to leave, what you will do is to find away to bring her back before she finally leaves, especially when children are involve
Unless you are already tired with the marriage, the you pray for her to leave quicker

Lastly you said men have options
Look women have more options because the option a man have is still another woman

If you sell your dog and buy a cat, you are still staying with a domestic animal as a pet

Women don't have options that will keep them,they only have options that want to Bleep them.

Husbands can be stolen by other women
But no man will steal your wife.They will Bleep her and send her back to her husband .Who wants a cheating wife.

Eriokanmi:
Guy, please don't listen to advice of all those small boys using their mum's phone to type trash here. If you believe God, pray and fast over this. It could be a sign of imminent crisis. The enemy is at work, going by your story, if true. God is lacking in many homes today which is why they divorce anyhow. No marriage without crisis bro. I was once there and I overcame it. I almost lost my beautiful home I built for over a decade.

Fast and pray for 2 days, at least and see changes. Don't over react. She'd come back to her senses. Good luck

I hate ppl who r too religious.pastor Chris himself couldn’t hold his marriage.You don’t know what it is for a woman to be decided.All the prayers in the world cannot stop her.A man need to do what he need to do.

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

Bro.... What you are seeing is the true picture of things..... Just the way it is!

I hope one day I will have the courage to share my personal story with hard to believe concrete and damning evidences....

All I know is I will never go to prison for the sake of love or marriage.

EnglishUsa:
I don't see any reason a man should love his wife that much in marriage, how can you show your wife that you love her so much even in marriage. now you will be crying in her presence that you need her and she will start forming john Cena. my advice goes this way, if you need her just pray and also call other men of God to help in prayers and fast and believe only in your prayers do not mind whatever she is doing and do as if she is not existing in your life anymore..... and cook what your children will eat and take in charge of her duties and responsibilities at home, do not even mind if she comes in or goes out then if she doesn't return to her senses then you know it runs on their lineage or blood

that’s it bro.Wetin concern me and woman.Any marriage that has produced kids have served it purpose.what r u looking for again.if ur wife want to go let her go na.Ur kids are ur gain.Woman no fit give me head ache o.

waice6571:
Bro.... What you are seeing is the true picture of things..... Just the way it is!

I hope one day I will have the courage to share my personal story with hard to believe concrete and damning evidences....

All I know is I will never go to prison for the sake of love or marriage.

Baba abeg share make we youngins learn.Tag abeg.

Let her go if she want to go, don't fight it because the more you fight it, the she want to go

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

You still begging a person to be with you ? Unless she feeds you.

FRANCISTOWN:

^{Onye isi! What makes you think any lady is good? It is in the nature of every lady to mis-do. Na why our fathers them dey tame our Mirley those days. Every lady is wild. See them as lions, if you no tame a lion, him fit devour you}

and what makes u think any man is good?

Being good or bad depends on what u have decided to adopt as values. ww are a born innocent b4 we become corrupted or influenced in whichever direction.

and in a relationship setting it is more than being good or bad because none of u will be perfect bt u can be close or very far off.

Wahala for who carry (him) problem come nairaland... Them go compound am for you. Nobody knows what's fiction, real or stranger than fiction.

Oga, if this matter na true, pray and involve a reliable third party. Something has to be done.

jimmychang:
Baba abeg share make we youngins learn.Tag abeg.

I will definitely.... But this is not the right time to do so.

I'll definitely reference you when the time is right and I won't hide identities of people involved.

When a woman is fed up,
Oga u just have to be a man, man ur house, if it doesn't work, divorce her and give her d life she want, why begging for love, that is why she wont stop doing the rubbish she is doing.....
This should be a lesson to men, get ur kids and move on, she may end up poisoning u, she dont love u again, she is a cheat and definitely have been doing it for long

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

You be mumu

waice6571:
I will definitely.... But this is not the right time to do so.

I'll definitely reference you when the time is right and I won't hide identities of people involved.

Thanks a lot and you will be better and stronger in Jesus name.

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

Don't die before ur time. Allow her go. The wound will sooner heal.

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

Your wife has been cajoled by someone else and she is dancing to that person's tune. I always warn. Never marry a lady that is not a virgin. Ladies that have extensive sexual experience are more likely to be disloyal, swayed by circumstances and become a thorn in the flesh. I can guess that you did not meet your wife a virgin and her marriage to you was conditional on circumstances. If she decides to leave, you have to let her go, heal, focus on your goals and never make the mistake of getting sexually involved with the leftover of other men.

jimmychang:
Women don't have options that will keep them,they only have options that want to Bleep them.

Husbands can be stolen by other women
But no man will steal your wife.They will Bleep her and send her back to her husband .Who wants a cheating wife.

That's not the meaning of them having opinions

Women value their children than bleeping

jimmychang:
Thanks a lot and you will be better and stronger in Jesus name.

Amen bro
Thank you so much

jimmychang:
Yeah,that is why I am prepared for anything my dear.I will love my wife and will never make her see any reason to move mad.If later she chooses to due to her own indiscretions and choice I will never beg her.I will let her go and do whatever she wants.Once a woman is gone she is gone.If she later comes back I will never accept her.

Peace is priority mam.Shalom.

Exactly, I love your first paragraph and the last paragraph