babyfaceafrica:



Never hit a woman, however show you are in control, if not
. Na sorry be your case. Respect is very important

How? Illustrations will do.

Reelmii:
..eat wetin....first off ,, wen am angry she knows she is not souppsed to cook for me,,, i will cook myself....

E dey good make man sabi cook basic food...even if na noodles...run am


Not because say i dey fear poison oo...just that wen i dey vex,, i like my privacy 🤣🤣🤣

Oga you sure sey no be because you dey fear? The point is refusing food cooked does not solve the matter...

Albertone:


How? Illustrations will do.

Two wrong does not make a right ooo... And this is the woman you love oh

Well, people are different..because I really don't know how you can hurt me, if you refuse a meal I prepare. Far as I know, it's one cooking session less...for another meal time.

Zanxx:
It doesn’t always work that way and that person might have his reason for rejecting the food. Real life story, there is this man I know personally. He had issues with his wife but had that mentality of staying together for the sake of the kids. He got back from work one evening to meet his dinner served. He said immediately he saw the food, his instincts told him not to eat it. So he went out and gave the food to the dogs. In the morning all 3 dogs were dead. He confronted the wife and she confessed poisoning the food, while begging him not to tell anyone and that she wouldn’t do it again . He refused and told her family what she had done. Her family pleaded with him not to involve the police. Guess what, they are still together but he doesn’t eat or even drink water in that house. The money he gives is for the children.

Wow! This one is serious. Thank God for that instinct. In this case, the woman must have had series of things or offenses not resolved piled up in her to want to kill her husband. But am talking about just being human and your woman offends or angered you. You should not abandon her food because of that ... But this was worth the read.

Rocktation:
Well, people are different..because I really don't know how you can hurt me, if you refuse a meal I prepare. Far as I know, it's one cooking session less...for another meal time.

Lol! So how many times before he finally finishes his cooking card?

Albertone:


How? Illustrations will do.

Have your own mind. Don't let her decide for you. Yes, she can make suggestions, however stick to your decisions. Don't be too easy to please. Avoid looking indecisive in her front. Never condone bad behavior from her. If she offends you, let her know immediately. Never go physical!

Exceed15:
The food is my sweat in the first place.

I tell you. He now didn't eat. What will you do? You just got back to the dining table and there all your meal still covered and untouched.

Bahamas95:
What is food? Nonsense!


I don't think about anything else when am really angry, not even sex can make me act stupid. I eat everyday so not eating her food for sometime won't take anything from me.

Hmm. But at least tell her not to cook for you so that she does not waste her time. But the point is that, when you truly love, offense truly comes, but to now withdraw from eating instead of talking it out is not the way. To now deny her sex is even more somehow...

babyfaceafrica:


The guy is playing with fire

I tell you. He keeps saying he is staying because of the children. My mom and aunts have advised him but he still insists on staying. I can’t live that way , I swear.

Robenna:


Keep playing

Lol!!! Help me tell him oh! But I know he also just playing. Refusing to eat because you were angered instead of talking and resolving is not maturity. It's not just right. If you don't want to eat, tell her. Then talk. Don't then begin to give attitude and make life hell.

shantti:


Please Which food are you really referring to?
Is it normal food like chin chin, fufu, beans etc
Or is it the other food, I call it the figurative food

Lol! Its the normal normal food.

pho:


That is if actually she begged, most ladies this days lack manners, even if you give most of them all the care they will still abuse you and find fault at you. For me if i actually see a woman who beg I will forgive but the thing is alot of ladis now are days will not beg o especially if God come bless am with little chenge for hands.

Hmm. But a sincere lady who truly loves you will apologize. She will beg. That I know.

mu2sa2:
Most men don't know that the worst insult to your wife is to refuse to eat her food. Even if you have a genuine reason not to eat much, take a little but never, never refuse to take your wife's food. Also, eat whatever she has prepared without complaining about the type of food or even the salt content. Reserve your comment for a later time.Women in every culture an d clime across the world are the same on this issue.

I stand with you.

JohnieWalker12:
Wow I know this your topic has met the reality in many marriages. Once our wife makes us provoke the next thing na to abandon her food and that thing can pain them ehn... But on the other hand, there is no food I have eaten outside that tastes as sweet as my wife's homemade food. One time for all the good cooking women out there

Thanks for this input. A mature man knows that to ignore your wife's hard sweet cooked food is not to do well just because she offended you. It's better you talk and resolve than ignore food.

Buddha3:
When I'm upset, I completely lose appetite for food.

So all this yan no be am!

For how long?

Zanxx:




I tell you. He keeps saying he is staying because of the children. My mom and aunts have advised him but he still insists on staying. I can’t live that way , I swear.

That's sad... He is very naive

highchief1:
u be off? why will u eat the food of someone u r not happy with? U Dey alright so?

You don't get it. The someone you are not happy with is your wife. The girl you claim you love. So she offended you. And you refuse her food. Why not talk it out and eat? Because you know she will still cook for you despite anything.

highchief1:
let’s see ur response when u get married.this message is not for university students bro

Lol! I tell you.

highchief1:
let’s see ur response when u get married.this message is not for university students bro

"Why throw a tantrum when I can communicate"

You're very correct bro...
My message is indeed not for university students ...

highchief1:
do u know what they call disciplinary measures?

Who are you disciplining? Your wife? Ahhh you don't get the gist. She is not your younger sister or class student. She is your wife, she is your other half. You don't discipline someone who is supposed to be you. You communicate and resolve things.

MrDoGood:



You took it personal

Vawulence LoL!!!

Paulajeigbe:


But she be your wife na? So because she offend you now she has also now become poison? No now!!! The matter is you are angry with something she did, does not eating her food solve the anger? That's my point though.

Stop this nonsense son. Do you want her to kill thea with poison? Most of these so called wives already have another dude banging them even while they're married and they won't hesitate to plan with the guy to poison and get rid of you. Ur Brain before Dem use am for you. Bros, restaurants are everywhere for you to eat.

As an alpha male ...don't take any bitch out.

Focus on your hustle .


Celebrate it by taking enough pills from the redpill.

If the appetite to eat the food dey , e mean say she no offend me

Paulajeigbe:


For how long?

For as long as I'm in that state.

Paulajeigbe:


Who are you disciplining? Your wife? Ahhh you don't get the gist. She is not your younger sister or class student. She is your wife, she is your other half. You don't discipline someone who is supposed to be you. You communicate and resolve things.

lol when u grow up u wil understand that u can even discipline yourself.

Paulajeigbe:


You don't get it. The someone you are not happy with is your wife. The girl you claim you love. So she offended you. And you refuse her food. Why not talk it out and eat? Because you know she will still cook for you despite anything.

lol many ways to kill a rat bro.one road does not lead to any market.

Why is it extremely difficult to have a reasonable adult conversation with some males on this platform? Why do they type like tribal people or kids at best? These are the men the ladies will end up with as husbands? Wow.

Me I dey chow oh...after all na my money.

My wife no go gree till I chow sef. She go say man wey eat naim dey reason well well

Paulajeigbe:


Two wrong does not make a right ooo... And this is the woman you love oh

I don't understand.