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Re: Could I Be Dating A Prospective Cheat? by texannaija: 7:35pm On Feb 21, 2023
interim4:
damn, as the day goes by, the hurt eats deeper, I should be strong, yes I should be, havent told her yet am moving on, but I think i have to do that now. Really hard to let go, she try sha, one of the best loyal girls i had, sad she couldnt make it to the finish line.
Wow!. Just wow!. One of the best loyal girls you hadhuh grin grin
Re: Could I Be Dating A Prospective Cheat? by interim4(op): 9:23pm On Feb 21, 2023
texannaija:
You dey Canada and you still dey trust “Girlfriend” wey dey Naija….Is this playing?. Shey you dey whine ni?….
u wan tell me sey na all girls wey dey nija dey cheat if their man dey abroad? remove my case outta this, but some girls wont, this generalization na him dun spoil our society finish.
Re: Could I Be Dating A Prospective Cheat? by texannaija: 9:44pm On Feb 21, 2023
interim4:
u wan tell me sey na all girls wey dey nija dey cheat if their man dey abroad? remove my case outta this, but some girls wont, this generalization na him dun spoil our society finish.
Bros!. Na Naija babe we dey talk of. Only very very very very very few won’t cheat.. Na Naija babes dem cause the generalization and most
Of dem no dey argue again when the topic comes up. I no dey too like talk ontop their matter.. e dey always tire and piss me off..I wish you the best in whatever your decision is bro!.
Re: Could I Be Dating A Prospective Cheat? by ItisWell22(f): 9:59am On Feb 22, 2023
peanutbutterr:
buying that Love Machine was a mistake. the best way to handle cases like this especially when you both are sexually active and distance is a barrier, is to slowly involve her in activities that will keep her very busy and take her mind off se.x. eg. catering school or tailoring. even though you know she won’t practice it.

buying her a Love Machine made her fantasize more about the real thing.
Wish I could “like” your comment more than once.
Re: Could I Be Dating A Prospective Cheat? by interim4(op): 10:33am On Feb 22, 2023
ItisWell22:
Wish I could “like” your comment more than once.
I had this thought also, but when you think about something, you will also need to talk about the risk. Person wey suggest Love Machine, will automatically tell u that she doesn't want to cheat why she asked for it. So if didnt meet up hr demand and the otherwise happens, u know woman na, she go lay the classless blame on me that she suggested a Love Machine and i didnt approve of it.
Re: Could I Be Dating A Prospective Cheat? by Leilami: 3:26pm On Feb 22, 2023
interim4:
This is not speculation, out of 10 cheaters, you can only catch one red handed, thats if luck is with you. This incident gives me 85% assurance that something aint right. I made a big mistake by letting my demand slide, i would have stood my ground that she heads towards d living room i probably would have had much to know, she normally wont argue with me and go ahead to check, but her hell bent on not making a move and making flimsy excuses threw my faith in her off. What more love do i want to show than what i have showed, i am losing it, i just probably not get married again.
Take it easy. Don't say you won't gwtarried because of one bad experience. There are good ladies everywhere. Get close to God and live a holy life. Flee fornication and then ask God to give you a good woman. Trust me he will answer you.They exists.
Re: Could I Be Dating A Prospective Cheat? by Dshocker(m): 4:49pm On Feb 22, 2023
interim4:
I had this thought also, but when you think about something, you will also need to talk about the risk. Person wey suggest Love Machine, will automatically tell u that she doesn't want to cheat why she asked for it. So if didnt meet up hr demand and the otherwise happens, u know woman na, she go lay the classless blame on me that she suggested a Love Machine and i didnt approve of it.
Oga declare that relationship null and void.

Wetin be this wey i dey read, abi my eyes dey pain me!

She even dey suggest you buy her artificial prick, my brother nothing wey anybody for this life want tell me, say our girlfriend no like to nack.

As i am talking you now, on saturday 25th, one nigga will use his hand to remove her pant.
Re: Could I Be Dating A Prospective Cheat? by Dshocker(m): 5:00pm On Feb 22, 2023
Leilami:
Take it easy. Don't say you won't gwtarried because of one bad experience. There are good ladies everywhere. Get close to God and live a holy life. Flee fornication and then ask God to give you a good woman. Trust me he will answer you.They exists.
Truth is that, those good girls are not necessarily men's taste or want, because in most cases, they are not flashy.

I could remember a friend of mine ××××× got married in 2017, he owns an oil servicing firm in Rivers state.

Dude was so fuckingly rich, he had about 4 pretty Instagram slay queens he was dating as at then, in space of 6 months, he has spent over N30m on 4 of them, but when he wanted to marry, omo we couldn't believe our eyes, he got married to an average educated local girl that has zero class that came from a humble background.

I noticed that in most cases, if you get married to these over pretty goddess, when challenges of finance comes in, asin the man goes broke or have a terrible accident that will cause the man to be bedridden for life, they the very pretty goddess of a wife will leave that marriage without batting an eye.
Re: Could I Be Dating A Prospective Cheat? by Ballzproblem2: 5:03pm On Feb 22, 2023
interim4:
u wan tell me sey na all girls wey dey nija dey cheat if their man dey abroad? remove my case outta this, but some girls wont, this generalization na him dun spoil our society finish.
that generalisation has been guarding men heart on no occasion should you do long distance relationship, not to talk of one that is outside country,love machine ain't enough, no matter what man/woman will still long for flesh , accept your loss ,next time date your class.
Re: Could I Be Dating A Prospective Cheat? by interim4(op): 5:17pm On Feb 22, 2023
Ballzproblem2:
that generalization has been guarding men heart on no occasion should you do long distance relationship, not to talk of one that is outside country,love machine ain't enough, no matter what man/woman will still long for flesh , accept your loss ,next time date your class.
How do you mean date your class? So generalization to you seem right ! right? Common, do you know how many people dun lose good girl due to generalization sey all nija girls are cheat? You can do better than that bro
Re: Could I Be Dating A Prospective Cheat? by nicerod(m): 5:37pm On Feb 22, 2023
grin grin


Na me dey chop ur gal wotowoto


I go still raise her legs on Saturday.




Long distance relationship sweet o

Re: Could I Be Dating A Prospective Cheat? by interim4(op): 6:03pm On Feb 22, 2023
nicerod:
grin grin


Na me dey chop ur gal wotowoto


I go still raise her legs on Saturday.




Long distance relationship sweet o
saturday is too late, shes leaving the property for togo tmr,plus u cant move on saturday ozuo
Re: Could I Be Dating A Prospective Cheat? by Leilami: 8:18pm On Feb 22, 2023
Dshocker:
"Truth is that, those good girls are not necessarily men's taste or want, because in most cases, they are not flashy"

I could remember a friend of mine ××××× got married in 2017, he owns an oil servicing firm in Rivers state.

Dude was so fuckingly rich, he had about 4 pretty Instagram slay queens he was dating as at then, in space of 6 months, he has spent over N30m on 4 of them, but when he wanted to marry, omo we couldn't believe our eyes, he got married to an average educated local girl that has zero class that came from a humble background.

I noticed that in most cases, if you get married to these over pretty goddess, when challenges of finance comes in, asin the man goes broke or have a terrible accident that will cause the man to be bedridden for life, they the very pretty goddess of a wife will leave that marriage without batting an eye.
I get your point and this was why I advised him to live a holy life and flee fornication. You can't value what you lack.
You see people want to eat their cake and still have it but life is not like that.
You have to be what you desire or want else you will just keep complaining.

That your friend that married an average lady will still go out to have his fill with the slay queens. In life, you have to adjust and be content because you can't have it all. Even your friend as a person can't be all and everything for that average lady he married he will still fall short in some aspects.

Men and women complain that they can't find what they want meanwhile that which they want may not be what suits them or what they deserve.

I knew a guy that wanted to marry my friend.
Let me give you her background details
She was a virgin 33years
First class product
Natural beauty. She is so beautiful that you have to stare hard to even know she doesn't wear make-up, that is how fine she is
Her walking step? Fire
She was not flashy, she was classy that you would have thought she owned a luxurious line.
She doesn't wear make-up or use human hair or fix nails extension and she was a prayer warrior. She can fast for three days without eating and if she tells you something good it will come to pass. She was not a slay queen nor was she a mary Amake type. She was just how a unique woman should be. There was a guy that wanted to marry her, he was just like the friend you described. She turned him down. Other friends asked her why and she said he was not her type and she was right. He smokes, goes to clubs and drinks and lives a vain life.

Most of the time what those men who like flashy girls only bring to the table are money. They don't have virtue, self-control, moral standard or godliness. These are lovely traits that money can't buy.

People should always go for their type because as unbelievable as it may sound those good girls also have the types of men that truly deserve their kind and these are men who have virtue. Case in point my good friend eventually married a good man like her.
Re: Could I Be Dating A Prospective Cheat? by fuckwell2080: 7:48am On Feb 23, 2023
@OP dont be fooolish boy.Your ASHAWO GIRLFRIENDis been POUNDED by another BOY right inside the house you paid for.it a simple tin all this OLOSHOS been paraded around as GIRLFRIENDS nothing good comes out of them they are BAGGAGES.It very clear ur USELESS GIRLFRIEND isbeen FUCKING around if not it doesnt take second to do what you ask the OLOSHOS to do she supose prove you wrong if she is sincere nobody supose tell you that is signal.her WIDE PUSSY has been DAMAGE by MEN of DESTRUCTION with massive COCK why you are abroad working ur ASS to provide for the USELESS BITCH.use ur HEAD before you commit suicide.
Re: Could I Be Dating A Prospective Cheat? by Nobody: 11:13am On Feb 23, 2023
You're not just dating a cheat but the she is also treating you as if you're a simp and for you to create this thread, I think she is right. The thing about that gender is that they know when they are dealing with weak men and when they are dealing with strong men. The weak men they don't work too hard to outsmart and the strong men, they are loyal to and even they want to lie to them, they work very hard to come up with strong lies. Work on yourself, stop being a simp and the snake gender people will stop giving you petty lies like that. Brother, work on yourself so that a vaginarian will need to attend good psychology class before trying to outsmart you ever in this life again.
Re: Could I Be Dating A Prospective Cheat? by iInjureHerYansh: 1:36pm On Feb 23, 2023
Are you going to marry her. If not then why the fvck you worrying yourself. Just smash the pussy and move to the next jor.
When a woman wants to be useless no matter what you do she will be useless. So it's best to take advantage of the moment and make her more useless then move to the next better girl when you are tired.
Win win
Re: Could I Be Dating A Prospective Cheat? by interim4(op): 3:33pm On Feb 23, 2023
iInjureHerYansh:
Are you going to marry her. If not then why the fvck you worrying yourself. Just smash the pussy and move to the next jor.
When a woman wants to be useless no matter what you do she will be useless. So it's best to take advantage of the moment and make her more useless then move to the next better girl when you are tired.
Win win
This is a 3 years relationship, my plan is as soon as am done with masters,coming down to nija to get our engagement sealed.
Re: Could I Be Dating A Prospective Cheat? by iInjureHerYansh: 7:13pm On Feb 23, 2023
interim4:
This is a 3 years relationship, my plan is as soon as am done with masters,coming down to nija to get our engagement sealed.
Well seems like you the only one dating yourself given at what you described
Re: Could I Be Dating A Prospective Cheat? by interim4(op): 1:39am On Feb 24, 2023
abeg make thread close. DUSTED
Re: Could I Be Dating A Prospective Cheat? by AmancalledGod: 3:22am On Feb 24, 2023
Nah una go Dey stress una sef that's you Dey Canada Dey trust Nigeria girlfriend, continue!!!!!!!!!!!😀😀😀
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