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I for example can not date or marry an average man because i won’t be able to cope, so I ask does that makes me a bad woman? What if I have other very good qualities? Why do men see women who wants to be with only rich men as bad or leeches while ignoring her other very good qualities?

You are simply a "GOLD-DIGGER".

incandescentena:

Why the aggressions towards women who wants the best and want to be in only places they can cope ?

No, because the way our society is set up, the man is the provider,....so if a woman wants her children well fed, and looked after...she needs to marry rich.

But then again

1.Rich men are hardly in high supply....

2.No one knows tomorrow. One of Nigeria's big captains of industry now was living in a face me I face you when he married. His wife came from upper middle class stock, she had to be going home to bathe because no bathroom...(lol). Well, now they rich. (I can't recall the name of the guy now).

3.Riches can be transient. Today's rich man can be tomorrow;s poor guy.


Anyway, just also get something doing so that in case of in case...you too have means to make money.

incandescentena:
You are simply a "GOLD-DIGGER"

Why do you think such women are gold diggers? What if they can’t survive in an average setting ?

Esoresor:
Why the aggressions towards women who wants the best and want to be in only places they can cope ?

Cope like, what does she have to bring to the table? If she already knows the man is WEALTHY?

Kobonaire4:
No, because the way our society is set up, the man is the provider,....so if a woman wants her children well fed, and looked after...she needs to marry rich.

But then again

1.Rich men are hardly in high supply....

2.No one knows tomorrow. One of Nigeria's big captains of industry now was living in a face me I face you when he married. His wife came from upper middle class stock, she had to be going home to bathe because no bathroom...(lol). Well, now they rich. (I can't recall the name of the guy now).

3.Riches can be transient. Today's rich man can be tomorrow;s poor guy.


Anyway, just also get something doing so that in case of in case...you too have means to make money.

Thanks for not being harsh, what if your strength can’t carry you in an average setting and for this reason you can only be with a rich man, I feel this shouldn’t be a yardstick for judging women who find themselves in this situation? But the society frowns at such women and makes them feel bad, not fair.

incandescentena:
Cope like, what does she have to bring to the table? If she already knows the man is WEALTHY?

She’ll support the man and help him manage his wealth but this does not mean they are gold diggers

incandescentena:
You are simply a "GOLD-DIGGER".

Maybe.

But in this our society where men are expected to be THE PROVIDER, and where women being the provider is still looked down upon as evil....a woman has to marry rich to at the very least ensure her children do not starve.

Kobonaire4:
Maybe.

But in this our society where men are expected to be THE PROVIDER, and where women being the provider is still looked down upon as evil....a woman has to marry rich to at the very least ensure her children do not starve.

I like your submission and you are really civil

Esoresor:
Thanks for not being harsh, what if your strength can’t carry you in an average setting and for this reason you can only be with a rich man, I feel this shouldn’t be a yardstick for judging women who find themselves in this situation? But the society frowns at such women and makes them feel bad, not fair.

Well, in a way, I ain't judging...after all in my line of work, I have seen too many health disasters which start with the comment 'my husband is unemployed' (not funny, and not meant to be a laughing matter...).

But at the end, times can change. Some families start poor and end rich, some start rich and end poor.

Either way, have an earning skill. You can marry a rich man today, and five years later...God forbid...he dies...and then his relations come and inherit his properties...and where does that leave you?

Esoresor:
She’ll support the man and help him manage his wealth but this does not mean they are gold diggers

well Then an average man can fit in. Both build wealth together and you manage it for the family. Why not you be the rich woman and marry a poor man, not average man o

Esoresor:
I like your submission and you are really civil

Thank you. I try. After all, this is just a website anyways.

Kobonaire4:
Well, in a way, I ain't judging...after all in my line of work, I have seen too many health disasters which start with the comment 'my husband is unemployed' (not funny, and not meant to be a laughing matter...).

But at the end, times can change. Some families start poor and end rich, some start rich and end poor.

Either way, have an earning skill. You can marry a rich man today, and five years later...God forbid...he dies...and then his relations come and inherit his properties...and where does that leave you?

Good submission

incandescentena:
well Then an average man can fit in. Both build wealth together and you manage it for the family. Why not you be the rich woman and marry a poor man, not average man o

Women are naturally not providers and as such a rich woman shouldn’t marry a poor man except for personal reasons for the woman

Esoresor:
Women are naturally not providers and as such a rich woman shouldn’t marry a power man except for personal reasons for the woman

Why should you attract a wealthy man? What do you have to gain his attention? Thats the point.

incandescentena:
Why should attract a wealthy man? What do you have to offer? Thats the point.

Attraction is mainly a man’s thing. Anything about a woman can attract him

What if his status changes after marriage?

CodeTemplar:
What of his status changes after marriage?

A rich man is expected to plan for the future as well but if unfortunately that happens then the woman should stand strong by him. I just feel it’s wrong to condemn women who only wants rich men while ignoring her other very good qualities.

How about, you work hard and become rich yourself

Must you depend/rely on a man

Billionaire2:
How about, you work hard and become rich yourself

That’s not the subject of discussion here

Esoresor:
That’s not the subject of discussion here

But that’s a life time solution for moochers who think that growing a breast and having a feminine genital is a ticket to depend your life on the hard work of the opposite gender

Esoresor:
Women are naturally not providers and as such a rich woman shouldn’t marry a power man except for personal reasons for the woman

How did we get to this point where its okay for someone to date or marry a person just for money.??.. we now have pple that tell men that have no right to have feelings until their accounts have lots of zero....that they must make money before they can deserve women that have nothing.....and we also have pple like u that justifies these dirty superficial women...

Its absurd

advanceDNA:
How did we get to this point where its okay for someone to date or marry a person just for money.??.. we now have pple that tell men that have no right to have feelings until their accounts have lots of zero....that they must make money before they can deserve women that have nothing.....and we also have pple like u that justifies these dirty superficial women...

Its absurd

You have diverted. I said condemning women who wants to be with only rich men is bad. I’m not talking about entitlement mentality here

Esoresor:
A rich man is expected to plan for the future as well but if unfortunately that happens then the woman should stand strong by him. I just feel it’s wrong to condemn women who only wants rich men while ignoring her other very good qualities.

Is it bad to want to marry only a virgin as a man?

Billionaire2:
But that’s a life time solution for moochers who think that growing a breast and having a feminine genital is a ticket to depend your life on the hard work of the opposite gender

Don’t be rude, I’m no here for fights but to somehow erase that mentality of condemning women for having a choice

Susily:
Is it bad to want to marry only a virgin as a man?

It is not bad , he’s free to make his choices

Esoresor:
Women are naturally not providers and as such a rich woman shouldn’t marry a power man except for personal reasons for the woman

Says who? Shake your self off the cobwebs of mooch mentality and go acquire skill and get a job.
If you see your body as an asset then venture into porn acting, club stripping, legitimate prostitution, etc

Esoresor:
Don’t be rude, I’m no here for fights but to somehow erase that mentality of condemning women for having a choice

No one is rude and no one condemns women, don’t hide under the umbrella of feminism..
you want a rich lifestyle work hard and become rich . Relationship and or marriage is not a social security grant .

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Esoresor:
Don’t be rude, I’m no here for fights but to somehow erase that mentality of condemning women for having a choice

Talk about choice! choosing to be a liability to your potential partner is not one of those best choices…

Esoresor:
You have diverted. I said condemning women who wants to be with only rich men is bad. I’m not talking about entitlement mentality here

Oh please!!!.....its okay for women to broke shame men earning small decent living for themselves , telling them they have no right love or start a small family ..... but its not okay for for men to in turn call out these women .... shior!!!

ur asslicking behavior reek so bad i can almost smell it through the phone...

. its funny ...u even said these broke women will help the rich men manage their money.....is that how rich men grow and manage their money?? did they teach u that in finance management class ?? Jeez!!!

Esoresor:
Why do you think such women are gold diggers? What if they can’t survive in an average setting ?

Oh yeah!! average setting 😂😂😂

so if the supposed rich man has financial setback you jump to the next available rich man because to u can’t survive on average setting?
You see why we use the word ‘leeches’