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Widows do not count, No one is perfect and many women did not choose to be baby mama. Their child father could be abusive or be a serial cheater or plain lazy or an absentee father unfortunately. So the lady leave for her sanity or protection. [b]This trend is not to attack any woman who is a baby mama. T[/b]here are reasons why some men(not all men) do not want date or marry baby mama.
The woman can still be in love with her child's father she might cheat or go back to her ex.
The concept of the child telling the guy that you are not his or her father after playing daddy for years is the highest form of disrespect. Some men cannot take this- prevention is better of cure.
The guy's parents and his egbons- no fit gree. They will yab the dude for dating a woman with kids when there are many women with no kids to date from or marry from.
Society views of baby mama as wayward or promiscuous even though it is not 100 percent true.
Balance equation- Baby daddy should date baby mamas

Ok

Apart from the fact that u are just being used as ATM since most of them afford to pay their bills....... the more annoying part is u are expected to love their child like ur own, provide for their needs, but when u scold the child the mother will quickly give u a rude reminder that ur sperm is not involved in the transaction that made her child....

it is then most guys realize they are just a means to an end

Nigerian men are Us*less.... All of them

Most men dont wanna marry a baby mama coz deep down she still supply the cookie to the dead beat baby daddy while she's with you with some dumbass reason like he hits it well, he handles me well.
Las las, a baby mama that likes you actually wanna use you with d disguised likeness

Better to marry a widow than a baby mama or divorcee.

They r crooks. 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁

Abeg make person wey get positive stuff about marrying baby mama talk abeg.

Enuff of negatives.

Sheistoopretty:
Nigerian men are Us*less.... All of them

Likewise women

Marry a single mother at your peril

As a woman, the more you have body count, the lesser you are valued. If you become a baby mama many family will not accept especially when the man doesn't have a child yet.

advanceDNA:
Apart from the fact that u are just being used as ATM since most of them afford to pay their bills....... the more annoying part is u are expected to love their child like ur own, provide for their needs, but when u scold the child the mother will quickly give u a rude reminder that ur sperm is not involved in the transaction that made her child[s][/s]....

it is then most guys realize they are just a means to an end

you said it all bro

Not worth it abeg.
Extra stress
Lions dont raise another lion cubs

That include your father and brothers.

Sheistoopretty:
Nigerian men are Us*less.... All of them

Sheistoopretty:
Nigerian men are Us*less.... All of them

Na still Nigerian man go still marry you and his character might be worst than being useless, just like you've said...

Dshocker:
Na still Nigerian man go still marry you and his character might be worst than being useless, just like you've said...

I will NEVER marry a Nigerian man God forbid

Sheistoopretty:
Nigerian men are Us*less.... All of them

It's YOU, that is useless.
You are a disgrace to other women.
Unlike you, I don't generalize.

Sheistoopretty:
Nigerian men are Us*less.... All of them

☹️Are you a single mother?

You will forever come second after her child(ren), no matter how far you go to show her love. 💯

Nahh, single woman with kids is a no for me

pryme:
It's YOU, that is useless.
You are a disgrace to other women.
Unlike you, I don't generalize.

Look at dis boy quoting me, so wen dey call men now u will come out?

Allow de men to reply me, wen I call "boys" u can now comment

Sheistoopretty:
I will NEVER marry a Nigerian man God forbid

no foreign guys would ever think of leaving fresh clean chicks, and date or marry a pot-belly bag of shithole brainless nigeria ladies..
what can you offer them?

Sheistoopretty:
I will NEVER marry a Nigerian man God forbid

Ok.... And if you eventually marry a Nigerian man, may the marriage be filled troubles, lack of finance and barrenness...

Who wants to train a bastard

One reason most of us overlook is the economic aspect of marrying a single mother. This is because a newly wedded couple may decide not to have a child even after 2 years of their wedding, all in a bid to plan properly (This number is increasing daily)

But with a single mother, that plan is not feasible because a child is already in the equation.
You get married today, work starts immediately.

Sheistoopretty:
Look at dis boy quoting me, so wen dey call men now u will come out?

Allow de men to reply me, wen I call "boys" u can now comment

With a brain like yours, it's not hard to figure out that you are wearing diapers.

Sheistoopretty:
Nigerian men are Us*less.... All of them

Slow down ma'am...there are good men out there

Hello am new here... congratulations to me.......I have actually been with a single Mama, who was 5years older than me, but she was the best thing that happened to me (relationship wise, till date)...