I just finished working, and as I wanted to shut down my laptop, it crossed my mind to have a friendly discussion with my friends on NL.
We've begun refuting many lies that the society has taught to many of us.
NOTE: A very great teacher once said "A wise man looks at the correction, but a foolish man attacks the person correcting"
so lemme help you out a bit.

I'm not jobless
I'm not heartbroken
I'm not from a dysfunctional home
I don't follow women around (They are not that really rele....)

We started this discussion with series one, please find the link here. https://www.nairaland.com/7601489/disadvantages-marrying-wife-guys

We've understood that many people are still holding on to the marriage ideology due to religious belief, especially the Abrahamic faith so, then, we shall firstly uproot that wrong belief. The 21st century intellectuals will not be people who can learn new things, but people who can unlearn many rubbish which have been taught to them, and one which is "Marriage". In the first part, we were able to establish that marriage was neither a commandment, nor an institution from God. So, we shall continue with that.

1. In Gen 1:27-30 when God made them male and female, he blessed them. but when they made themselves husband and wife in Gen 2, he never blessed them because that was not his will.

2. Women came to be when Adam was sleeping, sleep here can also mean a state of numbness, ignorance and disorientation. That means, having a woman in your space is like saying bye bye to common sense and reasoning, heading into a state of disorientation, and that's why a man's wife would slap him and he would still be dumb enough to say it out.

3. God made Eve and brought her to Adam to be named in Gen 2:22 the same way he brought the beasts and birds to Adam in Gen 2: 19, God didn't bring Eve to Adam to be wifed but to be named. In the original language that the bible was first written before transliteration, it was said that when Adam saw Eve, he shouted "Eesha" , "Eesha" an exclamation, may be likened to "What", "WTF" or "Damn", "Oh Boy!" ,"man" . The way guys give remarks now when they see a hot chick, y'all got that from Adam(for the Abrahamic faith followers)

4. God approved everything that Adam did before the fall, but Adam was not approved of marriage by God. in Gen.2.19 - And out of the ground the LORD God formed every beast of the field, and every fowl of the air; and brought them unto Adam to see what he would call them: and whatsoever Adam called every living creature, that was the name thereof. @the boldened means God's approval, but when Adam wifed Eve in Gen 2:22-25 we didn't see God's approval. God could have been like "Nice one my boy Adam, lit ain't shit, so be it thereof"

5. The serpent had been in the garden before Adam was made, yet, he never approached Adam, why? Because Adam was acting according to God's plan, but immediately Adam acted on his own plan by wifing Eve, the serpent showed up. He already knew the man was done for.

6. The marriage didn't bear any good thing because it was not God's plan, the first thing that came out of the marriage was rebellion, then shame, and hardship and death and crime and so on... Gen4..

7. Gen3:5&6 Women can never be satisfied, Eve was already like God, she was the only woman on earth, she was the queen of the earth yet she was never satisfied, she wanted to be God. Therefore it is almost impossible for your woman not to cheat on you when she sees somebody pleasing to the eyes. The tree had always been in the garden all those days and Adam never saw that it was pleasing to the eyes, but the same day Eve saw that it was pleasing to the eyes, the same day she ate of it. Women are unrepairably insatiable.

8. Women are highly deceptive,Gen 3:7 The woman ate the fruit first, her eyes must had been opened and she must had seen she was naked and ashamed, nonetheless, she went ahead to give her husband who was with her so the damage could be mutual. It is not unlikely for your wife not to give you STI if she prolly got one so the damage can be mutual.

9. The generation of ladies that we have these days are unwifely. In Gen 3:16, God says, the man shall rule over the wife(That's a king subject kind of relationship), but what do we have in the society today. We have some very deluded beings shouting gender equality upandan.

10. When God wanted to punish a prophet, he told him to marry. In Hosea 1:1-2, Marriage is a punishment unto man. The meaning of a woman is Woe To Man

Q&A

Q. But God created Eve especially for Adam?

A. Gen.2.18 - And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him. _NKJV
Eve was created a helper not a wife And anybody who is available can be a help meet, your immediate neighbour may be your help meet when you have clothes on the line and it's about to rain, does that mean we have to marry our neighbour? Several people have helped us thru life, do we have to marry them all?

Wtf

Q&A.

Q. But Matthew 19:4-6
“Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’And said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” and also in Mal 2:16

A. Exodus 21:1- (as long as you can read).When you purchase a Hebrew slave, he is to serve you for six years, but in the seventh year he shall leave as a free person without any payment. “the slave is the owner’s property” (Exod 22:21) Col 3:22-4:1; 1 Tim 6:1-2; Tit 2:9-10; 1 Pet 2:18-20 and in , Eph 6:5-8 “Slaves, be obedient to your human masters with fear and trembling, in sincerity of heart, as to Christ” which is Paul instructing slaves to obey their master". God supports slavery even when he didn't create any slave in the begining. He gave Isrealites a King in 1 Sam 8:4-22  even when he wasn't pleased with it. These are called the permissible ways, just as marriage is.

Q&A


Q. Okay, If God's will wasn't marriage, why did he say to them to multiply.

A. If God was powerful enough to make man from the dust and to make a woman from a dust's rib which is a dust as well, don't you think he might have a better plan rathering sexual reproduction?

Ezemann:
Wtf

you might accuse him of twisting but there are facts/truths in the write-up

FRANCISTOWN:
Q&A


Q. Okay, If God's will wasn't marriage, why did he say to them to multiply.

A. If God was powerful enough to make man from the dust and to make a woman from a dust's rib which is a dust as well, don't you think he might have a better plan rathering sexual reproduction?

Interesting thread.
Could you please explain the bolded words for me?
Thanks.

What were the words of Jesus about marriage?

too many missing facts, lies & inconsistencies in these books from the INHERITED religions.

FRANCISTOWN:
■ We've understood that many people are still holding on to the marriage ideology due to religious belief, especially the Abrahamic faith so, then, we shall firstly uproot that wrong belief. The 21st century intellectuals will not be people who can learn new things, but people who can unlearn many rubbish which have been taught to them, and one which is "Marriage". In the first part, we were able to establish that marriage was neither a commandment, nor an institution from God. So, we shall continue with that.

1. God has no hand in your marriages nor did He command anyone of you to condone any of what you do in marriage for His sake. He made this abundantly clear when Jesus Christ ensured first that
■ Your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36. God washed his hands off marriages from Genesis 3 vs 16 after Adam literally accused God of giving Him a wife who caused Him to sin against God.
■ Jesus Christ said those who belong to Him will abandon father, mother, husband, wife, even children in order to become worthy of Him - Matthew 10 vs 34 - 39 - so, again, God has no interest in your staying married no matter what. Your ideas of marital sustenance amount to bullsheet where God is concerned.
■ Jesus Christ, to those who are married, made it known that divorce isn't a sin for those who wish to follow Him. This all means that those of you who choose to sit tight in marriage has absolutely nothing to do with Him in your decisions - Matthew 5 vs 31 - 32 & Matthew 19 vs 7 - 9 & Mark 10 vs 10- 12 & Luke 16 vs 18

The Gospel teachings and commandments of Jesus Christ make up what is known as God's Law and Will in the Kingdom of God. And clearly, almost 2000 years ago, Jesus Christ made it essentially known that marriage is not a part of God's plan as far as His Kingdom is concerned.

U just dey cap nonsense. If God was not in support of marriage, why then did the angel advise Joseph not to divorce Mary after the conception was made known to Joseph ?

squash47:
U just dey cap nonsense. If God was not in support of marriage, why then did the angel advise Joseph not to divorce Mary after the conception was made known to Joseph ?

You are not Joseph, and neither are you, Mary. And nowhere in scripture is it written that God revoked the curse He placed on Marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16 when He cursed the woman in marriage, before or after that advice He gave to Joseph.

Another silly thread from so-called "woke" Nigerians. Linage of people who can't conduct ordinary free and fair elections, thinking they can change people's perspective on marriage. In a world where Ai has taken over, some morons are there questioning marriage and not technology innovations.

FRANCISTOWN:
In Gen 1:27-30 when God made them male and female, he blessed them. but when they made themselves husband and wife in Gen 2, he never blessed them because that was not his will.Women came to be when Adam was sleeping, sleep here can also mean a state of numbness, ignorance and disorientation. That means, having a woman in your space is like saying bye bye to common sense and reasoning, heading into a state of disorientation, and that's why a man's wife would slap him and he would still be dumb enough to say it out. God made Eve and brought her to Adam to be named in Gen 2:22 the same way he brought the beasts and birds to Adam in Gen 2: 19, God didn't bring Eve to Adam to be wifed but to be named. In the original language that the bible was first written before transliteration, it was said that when Adam saw Eve, he shouted "Eesha" , "Eesha" an exclamation, may be likened to "What", "WTF" or "Damn", "Oh Boy!" ,"man" . The way guys give remarks now when they see a hot chick, y'all got that from Adam(for the Abrahamic faith followers)God approved everything that Adam did before the fall, but Adam was not approved of marriage by God. in Gen.2.19 - And out of the ground the LORD God formed every beast of the field, and every fowl of the air; and brought them unto Adam to see what he would call them: and whatsoever Adam called every living creature, that was the name thereof. @the boldened means God's approval, but when Adam wifed Eve in Gen 2:22-25 we didn't see God's approval. God could have been like "Nice one my boy Adam, lit ain't shit, so be it thereof"

For someone who claims not to believe at all, you sure as hell spend a bulk of your time imagining ways to twist religion to suit your narrative. Why? Joblessness? Boredom?

Kobojunkie:
You are not Joseph, and neither are you, Mary. And nowhere in scripture is it written that God revoked the curse He placed on Marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16 when He cursed the woman in marriage, before or after that advice He gave to Joseph.

abeg go siddan with ur blind man theory.
U dey turn bible upside down to justify your own selfish thoughts. If God was not in support of marriage, He would have killed anybody who got married in the bible.

My point is, you're trying to prove a senseless point.

Kobojunkie:
For someone who claims not to believe at all, you sure as hell spend a good bulk of your time imagining ways to twist religion to suit your narrative. Why? Joblessness? Boredom?

na joblessness na plus confusion. All of una just dey confuse una self claiming woke.

squash47:
■ abeg go siddan with ur blind man theory. U dey turn bible upside down to justify your own selfish thoughts.
■ If God was not in support of marriage, He would have killed anybody who got married on the bible. My point is, you're trying to prove a senseless point.

1. What exactly did I turn upside down?

2. Ignorance isn't bliss abeg! I didn't say God was not in support of marriage. I instead made it clear that God washed His hand off marriages of men when He cursed marriage in Genesis making it of the world of men and not of the Kingdom of God, something that Jesus Christ Himself reiterated in His Gospel. You are free to marry as you chose God has no hand in it same way He has no hand in your childbirth and your jobs and careers and your houses, etc. .

squash47:
na joblessness na plus confusion. All of una just dey confuse una self claiming woke.

I may not be for what OP is doing but I am equally against your continued ignorance of the teachings and commandments of Jesus Christ.

Kobojunkie:
1. What exactly did I turn upside down?

2. Ignorance isn't bliss abeg! I didn't say God was not in support of marriage. I instead made it clear that God washed His hand off marriages of men when He cursed marriage in Genesis making it of the world of men and not of the Kingdom of God, something that Jesus Christ Himself reiterated in His Gospel. You are free to marry as you chose God has no hand in it same way He has no hand in your childbirth and your jobs and careers and your houses, etc. .

Na u know. Better spend more time writing on things that will help make the world a better place. Not religion.

squash47:
■ Na u know. Better spend more time writing on things that will help make the world a better place. Not religion.

Isn't ridding people like you of lies fed to you by religion part of making the world a better place?

squash47:
U just dey cap nonsense. If God was not in support of marriage, why then did the angel advise Joseph not to divorce Mary after the conception was made known to Joseph ?

If God was not in support of slavery, why didn't he tell slaves to run away from their masters. If God was not in support of Lies, why then did he not rebuke Abraham when he lied that Sarah was his sister, why did he not rebuke Jacob when he beguiled Isreal and cheated his brother Esau.

It's always better to think before asking questions

onumadu:


Interesting thread.
Could you please explain the bolded words for me?Thanks.

Some organisms reproduce thru non mixture of genetic information thereby producing a genetically identical offspring (like a clone), they neither find a mate, nor a partner. This is called asexual reproduction. Examples include, Sharks, Komodo Dragons, starfish, whiptail lizards, pythons and even the common ants..e.t.c

Joey4321:
What were the words of Jesus about marriage?

Marriage is not recognized in heaven (luke 20: 34-36)
Divorce is not a sin(Mat 5:31-32)

Kobojunkie already did a good work in explaining that, please refer to his block within this thread. Let's avoid redundancy.

Kobojunkie:
For someone who claims not to believe at all, you sure as hell spend a bulk of your time imagining ways to twist religion to suit your narrative. Why? Joblessness? Boredom?

My first block within this thread and the opening statement already answered these two questions.

FRANCISTOWN:

Him. by FRANCISTOWN: 6:04am
I just finished working, and as I wanted to shut down my laptop, it crossed my mind to have a friendly discussion with my friends on NL.

Since I just got off working, I wasn't bored,

FRANCISTOWN:
NOTE: A very great teacher once said "A wise man looks at the correction, but a foolish man attacks the person correcting"
so lemme help you out a bit.

I'm not jobless
I'm not heartbroken
I'm not from a dysfunctional home
I don't follow women around (They are not that really rele....)

squash47:
abeg go siddan with ur blind man theory.
U dey turn bible upside down to justify your own selfish thoughts. If God was not in support of marriage, He would have killed anybody who got married in the bible.

My point is, you're trying to prove a senseless point.

If God was not in support of lies, he should have killed Abraham for lying that Sarah was his sister. If God was not in support of cheating, he should have killed Jacob for cheating his brother. If God was not in support of idolatry, he should have killed the whole children of Israel , Aron inclusive when Moses was away on the mount. If God was not in support of slavery, he should have killed the children of Jacob who sold their own brother into slavery , Abrahm , Isaac and Jacob all had slaves, God should have killed them all if he was not in support

squash47:
na joblessness na plus confusion. All of una just dey confuse una self claiming woke.

The time I spent creating this thread and the contents wasn't up to 15mins, network issues not withstanding.
Every healthy human being has at least a total of 6hrs to themselves almost daily. You can be in your office and quickly check your WhatsApp for 10mins.

You also spent time in reading and submitting comments on this thread. Does that imply that you are jobless too?