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Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by davillian(m): 7:44pm On Mar 21, 2023
Samantha124:
Lol... Oohhhw! I'm scared..🤣🤣🤣
Lmao no need to be scared
I don't know you...
But people like you that like play too much ehn no de hard grin
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by Nobody: 7:45pm On Mar 21, 2023
We all know that between men and women, you guys are the weak ones.. women are your weakness, not the other way around..😂😂😂
davillian:
He knows what he is saying.
I can break into any woman's heart even if you are with a man that gives you money and everything your heart wants.
If you don't want this to happen don't let me get close.
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by Nobody: 7:46pm On Mar 21, 2023
No de hardhuh Meaning?
davillian:
Lmao no need to be scared
I don't know you...
But people like you that like play too much ehn no de hard grin
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by kelspinall(m): 9:32pm On Mar 21, 2023
hit "like" if this one no concern you
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by davillian(m): 12:06am On Mar 22, 2023
Samantha124:
We all know that between men and women, you guys are the weak ones.. women are your weakness, not the other way around..😂😂😂
We have weak men
And we have weak women that thier defences can easily be broken.....
For me women are not my weakness I've had lots of women I mean lots of women...
And there is nothing new about women to me.....
I can boldly say I've seen it all when it comes to women...
I've had more than a thousand women....
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by davillian(m): 12:07am On Mar 22, 2023
Samantha124:
No de hardhuh Meaning?
Your defence are made of glass and a light one.
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by Dizzyyish: 12:19am On Mar 22, 2023
burp18:
This is why some women should not be allowed to work. I bet you're closer to and having better conversation with Mr A than your own husband. Women are emotional beings and they easily overreact. Only a matter of time before you have a small issue with yourman and you run to Mr A because he's the one who understands you.
"[...] If after your first meeting you establish physical contact with her, and both of you are not distant from each other, you can easily create that sexual vibe. It is, for this reason, women especially married women should not be allowed to work in men's spaces because any man in that space that creates that sexual vibe in her, will fvck her. Women are emotional, once you create positive emotion via physical contact she will soon succumb except otherwise.
- Caveadullam, @baba_cave
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by Georgekyrian(m): 1:53am On Mar 22, 2023
Samantha124:
What's wrong with that?😄😄

Care to tell me more?😅😅
What is wrong with that?
Nwoke na nwanyi ana eme enyihuh
Madan you are funny saying you’re a married woman
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by Georgekyrian(m): 1:55am On Mar 22, 2023
Samantha124:
Come on, that's not always the case.

I have two male friends from high school, they too would discuss their relationship troubles with me just so I could give them that female perspective and we've never for once crossed the line, or tried to cross the line... I'd also ask them for advice where I need one.

Sometimes some male strangers will also open up to me about their relationship problems and I'd advice them where I can and we'd eventually go our separate ways without even introducing each other to one another.

If you're a woman and you have a man that loves and cares about you and gives you the attention and affection that you need, you wouldn't think of double crossing him even during your lowest moments in your relationship, not even male friends can break your bond.
Nothing like this oo, if you marry please marry leave single men for the single and searching
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by CaveAdullam: 5:51am On Mar 22, 2023
1. Very soon, your conscience will start troubling you after you must have succumbed to the temptation of adult*ry. It may sound stúpid now but the signs are written in your post. It is just a matter of time.

2. Mr. B is jealous. He finds you attractive and lusts after you.

That sex education discussion you had with him was a conversation of personal feelings: your thoughts on abstinence mean you are rejecting his sexual advances.
While his thoughts on the use of contraceptives is him persuading you to have sex with him. He told you "he finds you attractive" before.

3. Men and women can't be friends. There will always be feelings for each other when they have proximity.

Mr. B is playing a psychological game on you, and you'll soon fall for it. Same with Mr. A. Both want to fvck the hell out of you. They are waiting for the right time and right place. This is the reason for my first (annoying) paragraph.
Mr. B is open about it. Mr. A isn't. Even you have had that sexual thought before. Ok, you can deny it, fine.

4. Dear woman, you think you're strong-willed and principled. Those principles and ethics will start crumbling as you remain in close contact with these men and interact with them.

Anyway, it is a test for you to prove who you are. To check if you honor your husband and love your family. If you don't scare them away from this seething cauldron of sexual lust and put up many barricades, all of you will soon be found wanting.

Be warned.

Thanks.
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by Nobody: 9:52am On Mar 22, 2023
Okay, if you don't want to take my advice as a woman, you guys can go ahead and do as you please, but don't be surprised if one day your relationship starts going down south.

She may even end up cheating with just a random guy who's not her friend because he'll be showing her love, care, affection, and attention, something that you'd have failed to do.

No one knows women better than us women, but if you guys don't want to listen when we try to advise you about us, then you can go ahead and do you... But don't come back here crying saying a woman broke your heart.
Georgekyrian:
Nothing like this oo, if you marry please marry leave single men for the single and searching
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by Nobody: 9:54am On Mar 22, 2023
Bolela sekgowa, o tlegele go bolela ka leleme leo le sa kwagaleng.
Georgekyrian:
What is wrong with that?
Nwoke na nwanyi ana eme enyihuh
Madan you are funny saying you’re a married woman
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by Nobody: 10:00am On Mar 22, 2023
The main fact that you've had more than a thousand women proves that they're your weakness.

You can't do without them... How come you didn't just stick to one woman if really women are not your weaknesshuh

I mean you could've just decided to become a Roman Catholic priest if really women are not your weakness.

Weak men can't do without women.
davillian:
We have weak men
And we have weak women that thier defences can easily be broken.....
For me women are not my weakness I've had lots of women I mean lots of women...
And there is nothing new about women to me.....
I can boldly say I've seen it all when it comes to women...
I've had more than a thousand women....
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by Nobody: 10:02am On Mar 22, 2023
And where did I say that I'm married because I really don't remember planning for a wedding.
Georgekyrian:
What is wrong with that?
Nwoke na nwanyi ana eme enyihuh
Madan you are funny saying you’re a married woman
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by jiggar(m): 10:21am On Mar 22, 2023
MsJackson:
Hello uncles and aunties. Please I need your opinion on this issue.
First of all, I'm a married woman. Where I work presently, I have two colleagues i relate the most with. Mr A and Mr B. Both single. These two men are quite close, they go to bars at night to drink. I'm actually closer to Mr A than Mr B because he's facing some serious life challenges and has stepped in to help settle some issues I had with my hubby. Hubby even knows Mr A. Mr B is always complaining about my close rapport with Mr A, always asking Mr A if he wants to marry me. Mr B at one of our discussions told me that I'm attractive and someone would like to profess their love for me but would hesitate because not only was I married, I'm a strict, principled character. I can't help being that way. He likes dancing in front of me so much that I find it funny lol.
We were having a discussion one-day at work about the best sex education to give youngsters. I was on the side of abstinence but Mr B was insisting on teaching youngsters to use contraceptives. Mr A remained neutral. I never condemned anyone's opinion and I'm entitled to mine also. Mr B got so angry and walked out on us. Since that day he has been keeping serious malice with me. It would have been ok if he did it with only me. But he also extended it to Mr A. Innocent Mr A oooo.
Mr A and I kept wondering what exactly we did to offend him but no response. I kept asking him, but he said nothing. After like a month, he resumed talking to Mr A, but he dey bone me till date. Almost 6 months now.
My question is: what reason can make a guy just bone a lady like that, because I still try to replay the events but it doesn't still make any sense to me.
Aunty, you don't need to find a reason for it to make sense.

The Bible said.... Resist the devil, and he would flee.....

The Bible didn't say go and check or try to understand, it said FLEE.

So, resist that urge to know why he isn't talking with you any longer. Focus on what brought you to work and do it diligently.

Your gossip, chat mate and sex education partner should be with your man alone.
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by emmaodet: 10:29am On Mar 22, 2023
Warl0ck:
i would like to be the Mr D
Na WA oooo
Men will always be men.
The Op has not even finished her story, una don they line up to collect.

Then why won't we assume a nija dick is far cheaper and easy to see than a woman's own like the thread opened few day ago.
Before we finish the first page of this thread, won't be surprised if we have gotten to Mr Q.
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by Aklee4994(m): 1:00pm On Mar 22, 2023
emmaodet:
Na WA oooo
Men will always be men.
The Op has not even finished her story, una don they line up to collect.

Then why won't we assume a nija dick is far cheaper and easy to see than a woman's own like the thread opened few day ago.
Before we finish the first page of this thread, won't be surprised if we have gotten to Mr Q.
I will be glad if I can be your Mr.E...senselessness being
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by davillian(m): 10:48pm On Mar 22, 2023
Samantha124:
The main fact that you've had more than a thousand women proves that they're your weakness.

You can't do without them... How come you didn't just stick to one woman if really women are not your weaknesshuh

I mean you could've just decided to become a Roman Catholic priest if really women are not your weakness.

Weak men can't do without women.
Exploring
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by Cazzim(m): 5:26am On Mar 23, 2023
MsJackson:
Hello uncles and aunties. Please I need your opinion on this issue.
First of all, I'm a married woman. Where I work presently, I have two colleagues i relate the most with. Mr A and Mr B. Both single. These two men are quite close, they go to bars at night to drink. I'm actually closer to Mr A than Mr B because he's facing some serious life challenges and has stepped in to help settle some issues I had with my hubby. Hubby even knows Mr A. Mr B is always complaining about my close rapport with Mr A, always asking Mr A if he wants to marry me. Mr B at one of our discussions told me that I'm attractive and someone would like to profess their love for me but would hesitate because not only was I married, I'm a strict, principled character. I can't help being that way. He likes dancing in front of me so much that I find it funny lol.
We were having a discussion one-day at work about the best sex education to give youngsters. I was on the side of abstinence but Mr B was insisting on teaching youngsters to use contraceptives. Mr A remained neutral. I never condemned anyone's opinion and I'm entitled to mine also. Mr B got so angry and walked out on us. Since that day he has been keeping serious malice with me. It would have been ok if he did it with only me. But he also extended it to Mr A. Innocent Mr A oooo.
Mr A and I kept wondering what exactly we did to offend him but no response. I kept asking him, but he said nothing. After like a month, he resumed talking to Mr A, but he dey bone me till date. Almost 6 months now.
My question is: what reason can make a guy just bone a lady like that, because I still try to replay the events but it doesn't still make any sense to me.
am sure you don't have such deep conversation with your hubby the way u have with those men, am worried that u should not.........one day
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by zed7: 5:59am On Mar 23, 2023
Men and women don't need friendship, it's a waste of time. A married woman especially should not be close to any man, it's a recipe for disaster.

The average man just wants to shift a woman's pants. It's how men are wired. Our wandering minds start to imagine what's underneath that dress and the day an opportunity comes, he strikes and then the deed has been done. The only way to avoid that is to not give room for familiarity to avoid developing any emotional attachment to him.
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by Nobody: 12:09pm On Mar 23, 2023
Lol.. All weak men would say the exact same thing.

Just face it, you can't do without women.

Strong men stick to one woman.
davillian:
Exploring
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by davillian(m): 2:32am On Mar 24, 2023
Samantha124:
Lol.. All weak men would say the exact same thing.

Just face it, you can't do without women.

Strong men stick to one woman.
Lmao
When I start attaching value to them would stick to one...
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by Dshocker(m): 4:15am On Mar 24, 2023
MsJackson:
Hello uncles and aunties. Please I need your opinion on this issue.
First of all, I'm a married woman. Where I work presently, I have two colleagues i relate the most with. Mr A and Mr B. Both single. These two men are quite close, they go to bars at night to drink. I'm actually closer to Mr A than Mr B because he's facing some serious life challenges and has stepped in to help settle some issues I had with my hubby. Hubby even knows Mr A. Mr B is always complaining about my close rapport with Mr A, always asking Mr A if he wants to marry me. Mr B at one of our discussions told me that I'm attractive and someone would like to profess their love for me but would hesitate because not only was I married, I'm a strict, principled character. I can't help being that way. He likes dancing in front of me so much that I find it funny lol.
We were having a discussion one-day at work about the best sex education to give youngsters. I was on the side of abstinence but Mr B was insisting on teaching youngsters to use contraceptives. Mr A remained neutral. I never condemned anyone's opinion and I'm entitled to mine also. Mr B got so angry and walked out on us. Since that day he has been keeping serious malice with me. It would have been ok if he did it with only me. But he also extended it to Mr A. Innocent Mr A oooo.
Mr A and I kept wondering what exactly we did to offend him but no response. I kept asking him, but he said nothing. After like a month, he resumed talking to Mr A, but he dey bone me till date. Almost 6 months now.
My question is: what reason can make a guy just bone a lady like that, because I still try to replay the events but it doesn't still make any sense to me.
As a married woman, you should know that you have to limit so things with the opposite sex.

You shouldn't be concerned or bothered if he talks to you or not.

And we don't what to hear a situation where you use the title "It is the handwork of the devil"
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by Dshocker(m): 4:18am On Mar 24, 2023
Samantha124:
I'm in a committed relationship and engaged.

What's the difference?
Samantha Samantha, there is a big difference.

You can be lord of the rings for 10yrs, which i don't pray for you, but for now, you don't have the title "married"
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by Dshocker(m): 4:22am On Mar 24, 2023
SPAMBOX7:
Thank your stars we don't live in the same hood. I for scatter that thing you call committed relationship then dump you so you'd come become a full time evening newspaper on NL like dem sofra and Co. Go down on your knees and thank whatever you serve
Oga calm down, na so you go dey brag up and down.

If you see her now, can you have the courage to approach her.

No dey come online dey form crocodile, meanwhile na lizard you be for real life.
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by Nobody: 6:49am On Mar 24, 2023
The only difference between marriage and engagement is a piece of paper that the married couple sign when they get married and a wedding celebration.

Other than that, we're all the same... Some marriages even end up breaking up within two or three years.
Dshocker:
Samantha Samantha, there is a big difference.

You can be lord of the rings for 10yrs, which i don't pray for you, but for now, you don't have the title "married"
Re: What Could Be The Reason He Acts This Way? by SPAMBOX7: 2:13pm On Mar 24, 2023
Dshocker:
Oga calm down, na so you go dey brag up and down.

If you see her now, can you have the courage to approach her.

No dey come online dey form crocodile, meanwhile na lizard you be for real life.
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