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MrBrownJay1:
- what makes you happy?
- where do you see yourself in 5 yrs?
- what kind of man are you looking for?

MrBrownJay1:
- what makes you happy?
- where do you see yourself in 5 yrs?
- what kind of man are you looking for?

Sixfeetbelle:
- what makes you happy? :Money
- where do you see yourself in 5 yrs? :Married to a rich man with money.
- what kind of man are you looking for? : A rich man with money.

Any more questions?

Samantha124:
What if I say I see myself as your house wife after 5 years?

Sixfeetbelle:
- what makes you happy? :Money
- where do you see yourself in 5 yrs? :Married to a rich man with money.
- what kind of man are you looking for? : A rich man with money.

Any more questions?

Sixfeetbelle:
- what makes you happy? :Money
- where do you see yourself in 5 yrs? :Married to a rich man with money.
- what kind of man are you looking for? : A rich man with money.

Any more questions?

demanuel:
Take away sex and child bearing, what tangible thing can you give your man? What other value will you add to his life?

MrBrownJay1:
- what makes you happy?
- where do you see yourself in 5 yrs?
- what kind of man are you looking for?

DyshApp:
If you really want to get to know your partner these are not the questions to ask it would seem more like an interrogation rather that a date. A Date should should have a conversation that naturally flows well

DyshApp:
First dates can be overwhelming. You are focused on the person's looks and beauty and the butterflies in your stomach. Are you getting to know them?

Don't just come up with a list of questions you would like to ask yourself. They will be put in a defensive mood loop. It is not an interview. Ask the questions strategically during the dates, and they should come naturally and flow into the other. You don't want them to think critically before answering those questions. It is not an examination. You are getting to know this person.

They should look like this:

1) Tell me about your family growing up?

This embodies what kind of orientation, childhood experiences, environment, or background the person you are on a date comes from or is a partaker of.

2) What three things would you like to have in common

with your partner? This gives you a feel for his personality, whether it matches yours is dependent on the answer, and what you are looking out for, so no answer is wrong here. Please skip the tell me about yourself questions.

It irks, and when you are accessing someone you want a relationship with, you don't go about telling them everything you like or dislike. It gives room for pretence, so this question above is enough to know what a person wants and doesn't want. You don't want to have your emotions invested in someone who is trying to live like what you want, whereas that person isn't all that.

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demanuel:
Take away sex and child bearing, what tangible thing can you give your man? What other value will you add to his life?

MrBrownJay1:
as much as you are entitled to your own opinion, this (below) is what most men asking you these questions will do right after you gave them the above answers.... (which makes it obvious your only desire is towards MONEY)

SPAMBOX7:
No more questions holosho

Sixfeetbelle:
What other value will you add to his life? :The things you took away

Do you have more questions?

MrBrownJay1:
bro, what man in his right mind would want to have children with such a woman? when a woman gives you such answer, what else but RUUUUN can a man do, really?! her desires in life are MONEY MONEY MONEY. you marry a woman like that and the day a man with more money than you comes along, she will be gone (even if you'd shower that one with 100 dollar bills). such woman can NEVER be satisfied, ever!

to each their own misery.

demanuel:
What are the things taken away. Can you outline it?

Sixfeetbelle:
Well, you outlined it earlier, didn't you?

Honestly, I believe you're posing this question to the wrong party. Since the man is marrying me, he should be the one to decide what value I'm to add to his life.

Sixfeetbelle:
Well, you outlined it earlier, didn't you?

Honestly, I believe you're posing this question to the wrong party. Since the man is marrying me, he should be the one to decide what value I'm to add to his life.

MechanicMike:

DyshApp:
Why the sad face

Sixfeetbelle:
I like that you used the word "most men"
I'm not hopeless then.

Sixfeetbelle:
You just reminded me why I never respond to monikers like yours.

It just oozes ill-mannered youngling.

MrBrownJay1:
yes there is indeed hope.... because you will find some men willing and ready to give you exactly what you desire (just so that they can sample your honeypot), and then they will simply let you understand that they either A) have no money but pretended they did, just to sample you or B) they dont care about you AND can never marry you as you got nothing to offer but sweet toto AND that (especially in Africa) there will always be a fresher/newer/sexier/finer babe out there to marry so they will instead pass you on to their other friends with money, until you have been sampled by them all and thrown back to the gutter like a squeezed orange with no juice left..... by then you will be so desperate for money that you will be ready to do anything, aka go to Dubai to eat shiit and fukc dogs for money, but as time goes by, you will be well in your 30s/40s now, unmarried and showing your age, desperately trying to marry anyone (even the gateman), but it will be too late.

Demigod22:
You cannot totally know someone by asking then, people tell you things pertaining to the question you ask them, and people will always tell you what you want to hear. Sometimes, we know people by observing them, but we can't have opportunity to observe everyone.

Sixfeetbelle:
Gosh, your imagination is so wild. It is listening to a child gobble up words they crammed at the playground.
Curios question, do you have a one-track mind?

MrBrownJay1:
funny that a woman who has a ONE TRACK MIND (solely focussed on money), will now blame me for thinking like she does....lol! PRICELESS!