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The society frowns at girls living wayward lives. Pastors nd imams preach about being chaste till marriage, as a matter of fact, girls with so many body counts like they normally call it here are seen as the worst set of pple nd are not respected in the society. They're seen as the never do well sets of girls, but those who are always seen indoor nd who don't sleep around are always believed to have a bright future ahead of them. But in reality it is the waka waka girls that mostly get married to the best men. They, in the process of waka...in will always come in contact with the good men that are meant for the good girls nd the good girls after spending greater part of their lives being good nd keeping their bodies for their supposed good man will after seeing that age is no more on their side settle for any guy that comes around for marriage and every saturday we keep seeing bad girls getting married to good men while the good girls are still in their father's house maybe with regret.

life is such

SyrusdeHansome:
The society frowns at girls living wayward lives. Pastors nd imams preach about being chaste till marriage, as a matter of fact, girls with so many body counts like they normally call it here are seen as the worst set of pple nd are not respected in the society. They're seen as the never do well sets of girls, but those who are always seen indoor nd who don't sleep around are always believed to have a bright future ahead of them. But in reality it is the waka waka girls that mostly get married to the best men. They, in the process of waka...in will always come in contact with the good men that are meant for the good girls nd the good girls after spending greater part of their lives being good nd keeping their bodies for their supposed good man will after seeing that age is no more on their side settle for any guy that comes around for marriage and every saturday we keep seeing bad girls getting married to good men while the good girls are still in their father's house maybe with regret.

Defination of good girl can be tricky becoz eg being indoor doesnt make u good a girl can be indoors during holiday and when she goes back to Uni which is far away she can be wild there

Then those who are wild locally can simple move to Uni and chill and hook up
with someone who see her decent

Then finally being a good girl by observation doesnt mean she will be a good wife, marriage its self has challenges that can bring out a side u never saw, the bias from close relatives can shadow your views

The nice people finish last. I realized that last night. I vowed to be bad from now on, but I won't sleep around.

ZIMDRILL:
Defination of good girl can be tricky becoz eg being indoor doesnt make u good a girl can be indoors during holiday and when she goes back to Uni which is far away she can be wild there

Then those who are wild locally can simple move to Uni and chill and hook up
with someone who see her decent

Then finally being a good girl by observation doesnt mean she will be a good wife, marriage its self has challenges that can bring out a side u never saw, the bias from close relatives can shadow your views

U made sense

Jeon:
The nice people finish last. I realized that last night.
I vowed to be bad from now on, but I won't sleep around.

If being bad like u say is not in u 4get it, u won't be able cos in reality we always express our inner character.

SyrusdeHansome:
The society frowns at girls living wayward lives. Pastors nd imams preach about being chaste till marriage, as a matter of fact, girls with so many body counts like they normally call it here are seen as the worst set of pple nd are not respected in the society. They're seen as the never do well sets of girls, but those who are always seen indoor nd who don't sleep around are always believed to have a bright future ahead of them. But in reality it is the waka waka girls that mostly get married to the best men. They, in the process of waka...in will always come in contact with the good men that are meant for the good girls nd the good girls after spending greater part of their lives being good nd keeping their bodies for their supposed good man will after seeing that age is no more on their side settle for any guy that comes around for marriage and every saturday we keep seeing bad girls getting married to good men while the good girls are still in their father's house maybe with regret.

A bad girl may wed a good man but a bad girl cannot sustain a marriage to a good man. Wedding can easily be a fluke but a happy married life is not by chance it is by design. A bad girl lacks the character to serve and submit to a good man no matter how good he is. The good man will soon enough become wise because attempting to marry a bad wife turns a man into a philosopher and the wiser the man is the closer the marriage is to ending. What you sow is what you reap. So sisters there is virtue in being good. Keep yourself. Choose character and purpose not money and good looks. Acknowledge God always and you will be better poised to sustain a marriage.

It's because the bad girls know how to spot and keep the good guys (remember they are bad)

This is a non disputing fact- the truth is the bad gal which you call BAD might have a good character and knows how to treat a guy right while the church gal which you call GOOD might not have any of these qualities which men look out for when it comes to settling down with a lady.

I don't think there's any shoulds but I'll tell you this. Regardless of what guys want I'd rather be the good girl. Bad ones might have more fun but good girls have a lot more options.

Once your reputation is tarnished you will never lose it. And I mean never. I was good for a very long time until I hit a fork in the road and did something very bad that didn't just nearly destroy my life but that of my family. Being bad never pays off. It might feel great in the moment but you will pay for the rest of your life for it.

Be good. Desire to be good. Don't buy into nihilism or misanthropy. A cynical attitude may look smart but will do you in. Resist temptation and follow the road less travelled. You will thank yourself later. No amount of fun or popularity is worth the heartache.

Bad girls are like fast food, tasty but will ultimately be bad for you.

Nice girls are like home cooked food. Tasty and good for you and your body.

Life is a choice you choose what and who you want to be, every choice has it's corresponding consequences, the grass always looks greener from the other side, except they change, those supposed bad girls have taken time to ask how their marriage is going?

You can be bad and good at the same time.

Jeon:
The nice people finish last. I realized that last night.
I vowed to be bad from now on, but I won't sleep around.

Humans naturally are mostly attracted by positive energies in which most bad girls processed. They simply know how to navigate their ways into men hearts compare to self acclaims good girls.

Bad girls have seen it and done it all so, they got nothing to hide or pretend about.

Good girls are proud and quick to anger. The only good thing about them is their chaste body.

Exmilitant:
Good girls are proud and quick to anger. The only good thing about them is their chaste body.

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