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I'm dieing deep within me every time money comes my way. Just know it's time for me to suffer throughout that week. I lodge a hotel, carry women buy drugs and start gambling on sporty bet until I'm drained financially, physically few days before I come back to my senses with not a single one naira in my account. I feel like I'm cursed to be rich with no peace of mind. But when all the money is gone, I can manage 1k and cook food, eat well, drink water...

But give me 1million. That's when my suffering start...I forget to eat or think just back to my suffering ways. I can't help it.

I have prayed to God to make me poor for life because it's yet again another suffering when money comes my way

You are addicted to that lifestyle,you just need to step down a little or maybe change friends

Are you still bn fed by your girlfriend?

Hmm this is deep. Go to MFM

Orfankwagh:
You are addicted to that lifestyle,you just need to step down a little or maybe change friends

He should take residence in bet section on nairaland his likes are there.

ahnie:
He should take residence in bet section on nairaland his likes are there.

No need for that

What you need is discipline not deliverance. If you were in Europe or America you'd be advised to see a therapist not a pastor.

My advice...change your cycle of friends, change they way you think, identify your goals and use that money to work towards achieving them, dream big, life doesn't end beneath the skirt of a woman, look for a responsible mentor that would be ever ready to motivate you back on track whenever you feel you're going astray.

Lack of self-discipline. You need no prayer Brr!

Someone please help me out with any amount to buy foodstuffs please . I'm starving seriously

80 61 34 74 81 Opay. Emeka. God bless

Never expected this from you, this is a guy seeking advice from his predicament.
Please don't make it worse.
Thank You

ahnie:
He should take residence in bet section on nairaland his likes are there.

In Africa mostly Nigeria, our Pastors are our therapists and they spiritualize everything.

Nazgul:
What you need is discipline not deliverance. If you were in Europe or America you'd be advised to see a therapist not a pastor.

My advice...change your cycle of friends, change they way you think, identify your goals and use that money to work towards achieving them, dream big, life doesn't end beneath the skirt of a woman, look for a responsible mentor that would be ever ready to motivate you back on track whenever you feel you're going astray.

KiNg0G:
■ I'm dieing deep within me every time money comes my way. Just know it's time for me to suffer throughout that week. I lodge a hotel, carry women buy drugs and start gambling on sporty bet until I'm drained financially, physically few days before I come back to my senses with not a single one naira in my account. I feel like I'm cursed to be rich with no peace of mind. But when all the money is gone, I can manage 1k and cook food, eat well, drink water... but give me 1million. That's when my suffering start...I forget to eat or think just back to my suffering ways. I can't help

1. First of all, leave God out of this foolishness abeg!

Second, what you lack is commonsense and self-control and no one can give it to you. You have to not only desire but also seek it out for yourself. You can start by acquiring critical/logical reasoning/thinking skills this year by reading texts on the subject and putting to practice what you learn in order that you may begin to mentally critically analyze your situation, surroundings, and life as a whole. I suggest you begin with the book Being Logical. Read and put to practice all that you learn. Continue through with other texts on the subject until you are able to understand and control your behavior as you logically should as an adult.

Also, consider signing up for mental health counseling by a professional to help you figure out other behavioral problems that may be feeding into the chaos in your life.

PrinceJoeWan:
In Africa mostly Nigeria, our Pastors are our therapists and they spiritualize everything.

This is where the problem is. Professional therapist are trained like specialist to handle a particular area of your life.

This means that if you're having relationship issues, the therapist who would be assigned to help you out would politely refer you to someone else if after your sessions on relationship, you tell him/her that you're battling with alcohol, drugs, betting..etc. They know their speciality and they stick to it.

But in Nigeria, one pastor would want to tell you how to run your business, manage your family, manage stress at the office, manage your studies as a student, tell you who and who not to get married to, see vision and prophesies for you, keep asking you to sow seeds and make donations for problems he has no solution to...etc. You would end up becoming slaves to them, cos at that point, they'll literally be controlling every area of your life and you would have very little success to boast of.

You're very right when you said they spiritualized everything cos that's exactly what they do. They know that once they tell you that God showed them this or that you would believe them more. The average African is a mental slave to religion.

KiNg0G:
I'm dieing deep within me every time money comes my way. Just know it's time for me to suffer throughout that week. I lodge a hotel, carry women buy drugs and start gambling on sporty bet until I'm drained financially, physically few days before I come back to my senses with not a single one naira in my account. I feel like I'm cursed to be rich with no peace of mind. But when all the money is gone, I can manage 1k and cook food, eat well, drink water... but give me 1million. That's when my suffering start...I forget to eat or think just back to my suffering ways. I can't help it

I have prayed to God to make me poor for life because it's yet again another suffering when money comes my way

Nlfpmod

Don't pray to God to make you poor... There's always a solution to every problem.

However, I saw your signature saying you love poetry! I am a poet, so instead of wasting those money on things you don't like, why not start paying me to write you poems. You will be happier and in no time get over what disturbs you!

Your lack of grit is the cause of your problem, not richness/money, even though money itself, in whatever quantity, doesn't automatically give sustainable ecstatic happiness and confidence. So, you don't need religious deliverance; instead, you need self-conquest to overcome the challenges.

If you need my advice, I'll say discipline yourself and if you can't, learn the habit of putting 90 percent of the money in a bank as fixed deposit as soon as you get it until you are able to discipline yourself.

But if you think deliverance is what you need, go to mountain of fire. It's that simple.

Everyone is born with common sense, you lose yours by the choices you make every day.

Stop smoking and drinking in excess, it doesn't make you woke.

Also, having multiple sex partners doesn't make one a big boy. Do things in moderate and see your life turn around quickly.

Shalom.

You need self control. You cant be delivered against your active will.

Send me the money

KiNg0G:
I'm dieing deep within me every time money comes my way. Just know it's time for me to suffer throughout that week. I lodge a hotel, carry women buy drugs and start gambling on sporty bet until I'm drained financially, physically few days before I come back to my senses with not a single one naira in my account. I feel like I'm cursed to be rich with no peace of mind. But when all the money is gone, I can manage 1k and cook food, eat well, drink water... but give me 1million. That's when my suffering start...I forget to eat or think just back to my suffering ways. I can't help it

I have prayed to God to make me poor for life because it's yet again another suffering when money comes my way

Nlfpmod

What you need is to open a piggyvest account.

Poster pls next time your money comes send it to me

Aren't the aforementioned habits he listed similar to that of fraudsters?
Yahoo Boyz?

If he really worked hard for the money...that he drops his sweat,he won't be spending it like a mole.

Check his lifestyle,then you would see m not far from the truth.
Because it's an I'll gotten money,easy come,easy go.

He knows m telling the truth.

malaria:
Poster pls next time your money comes send it to me

he should send the money to u

U that is mala.ria, so he should intentionally use his money to buy sickness

[quote author=Reggaemich post=122430231]he should send the money to u

U that is mala.ria, so he should intentionally use his money to buy sickness[/quote
Ehe na as he no dey use the money well make I utilize am properly. He never know wetin dey do am . When sapa promax catch am, em eye go clear

Borntowinxx

Get a life mahn and stop trolling.

KiNg0G:
I'm dieing deep within me every time money comes my way. Just know it's time for me to suffer throughout that week. I lodge a hotel, carry women buy drugs and start gambling on sporty bet until I'm drained financially, physically few days before I come back to my senses with not a single one naira in my account. I feel like I'm cursed to be rich with no peace of mind. But when all the money is gone, I can manage 1k and cook food, eat well, drink water... but give me 1million. That's when my suffering start...I forget to eat or think just back to my suffering ways. I can't help it

I have prayed to God to make me poor for life because it's yet again another suffering when money comes my way

Nlfpmod

Go and get married, women have ways of resetting men like you

Make sure you marry a prudent and conservative person

KiNg0G:
I'm dieing deep within me every time money comes my way. Just know it's time for me to suffer throughout that week. I lodge a hotel, carry women buy drugs and start gambling on sporty bet until I'm drained financially, physically few days before I come back to my senses with not a single one naira in my account. I feel like I'm cursed to be rich with no peace of mind. But when all the money is gone, I can manage 1k and cook food, eat well, drink water... but give me 1million. That's when my suffering start...I forget to eat or think just back to my suffering ways. I can't help it

I have prayed to God to make me poor for life because it's yet again another suffering when money comes my way

Nlfpmod

You're not rich. You have no peace because your source of income is probably evil. Learn a real skill and start legit work. Invite Jesus into your life. Things will change

KiNg0G:
I'm dieing deep within me every time money comes my way. Just know it's time for me to suffer throughout that week. I lodge a hotel, carry women buy drugs and start gambling on sporty bet until I'm drained financially, physically few days before I come back to my senses with not a single one naira in my account. I feel like I'm cursed to be rich with no peace of mind. But when all the money is gone, I can manage 1k and cook food, eat well, drink water... but give me 1million. That's when my suffering start...I forget to eat or think just back to my suffering ways. I can't help it

I have prayed to God to make me poor for life because it's yet again another suffering when money comes my way

Nlfpmod

Don't stress yourself too much, some life events are still coming that will finally change your orientation. I just pray you don't past 50 years before this happen.